Politics › Re: Emefiele Bribes, Silences Lawmakers With Bureau De Change Licences - Sahara R. by kenchop: 4:56pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
WE ALL KNOW THE COUNTRY IS GONE, WE JUST FOLD HANDS WATCHING PEOPLE DIE. |
Health › Re: I Am A Human Chimera by kenchop: 11:07am On Jun 16, 2021 |
PLEASE ENLIGHTEN US. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Election: Azuka Okwuosa Beats Opposition In Online Poll by kenchop: 8:19am On Jun 16, 2021 |
FAKE POLLS FAKE NEWS , ALL LIES. |
Crime › Re: Ahoada Traditional Ruler Rapes 16-Year-Old Girl; Family Threatened by kenchop: 3:49pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
WHY WASN'T THE ROYAL HIGHNESS NAMED ? TERRIBLE REPORTING. |
Romance › Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by kenchop: 3:21pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
EXPOSE THE IDIOT HERE LETS DRAG HIM AND ALSO SO OTHERS WOULD BE AWARE AND BE CAREFUL. SATANIC PEOPLE EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD. |
Politics › Re: Respect Your Citizens Rights - Reverse Twitter Ban US Gov Warns Buhari Again by kenchop: 8:45pm On Jun 10, 2021 |
ITS NOT LIKE THEY REALLY CARE (USA) , WHY AREN'T THEY TALKING ABOUT THE EXTRAJUDICIAL KILLINGS ONGOING IN THE COUNTRY NOW ,BUT ONLY INTERESTED IN TWITTER COS ITS AN AMERICAN BUSINESS. ONLY NIGERIANS CAN FIX NIGERIA, NO ONE ELSE CARES. |
Politics › Re: Police Checkpoints Disappear From South-East Highways (Pictures, Video) by kenchop: 9:48pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
THE PEOPLE OF ANAMBRA SHOULD BEWARE OF A POTENTIAL HERDSMEN ATTACK. THE POLICE AND MILITARY DISAPPEARS TO GIVE EAY FOR HERDSMEN ATTACKS THEN REAPPEAR AFTER THE ATTACKS TO STOP ANY KIND OF REPRISAL ATTACKS. THE GOVERNMENT IS A SCAM. |
Politics › Re: Abdurrahman Sumaila: Don't Support Igbo Presidential Candidate In 2023 by kenchop: 12:05pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
A right thinking person would support Buhari bah? Bastards |
Politics › Re: Abdurrahman Sumaila: Don't Support Igbo Presidential Candidate In 2023 by kenchop: 12:05pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
Who expects anything different from the jihadist? |
Politics › Re: Adamu Bulkachuwa: If You Want Another War, Nigerian Will Have No Choice by kenchop: 12:04pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
Who expects anything different from the jihadist. |
Crime › Re: 2 Female Job Seekers Kidnapped In Port Harcourt By Human Parts Dealers (Graphic) by kenchop: 2:19pm On May 29, 2021 |
THESE CRIMINALS ARE NOT GHOSTS, THEY ARE HUMANS WITH PARENTS ,SIBLINGS, WIVES AND GIRLFRIENDS. THEY ALSO HAVE FRIENDS. PARENTS WHAT DO YOUR CHILDREN DO FOR A LIVING? GUYS WHAT DO YOUR SIBLINGS DO FOR A LIVING? WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS DO FOR A LIVING? ASK QUESTIONS, LOOK IN VERY WELL YOU WILL DISCOVER THESE CRIMINALS , ONCE YOU DO RAISE ALARM AND REPORT THEM. MOST FAMILIES KNOW WHAT THEIR PEOPLE DO BUT KEEP SILENT SO THEY WONT CALL THEM TRAITORS. IF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS ARE COMMITTING EVIL,REPORT THEM.YOU ARE BEEN BLESSED BY GOD FOR REPORTING EVIL AND BLOOD WILL NOT BE ON YOUR HEAD. |
Family › Re: I Want To Send My Wife Packing by kenchop: 4:05pm On May 28, 2021 |
YOU ARE IN HOT SOUP COS NOTHING GETS BETTER IN MARRIAGE. ITS ONLY GOING TO GET WORSE. THAT'S WHY I ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE KNOW A PERSON BEFORE YOU RUSH INTO MARRIAGE WITH THEM. JUST LOOK AT YOUR CASE, AFTER JUST A FEW MONTHS YOU ALREADY WANT OUT. TAKE ALL THE TIME YOU NEED TO KNOW THE OTHER PERSON B4 GOING IN. CALL IT A DAY NOW BEFORE SOMEONE GETS HURT. |
Politics › Re: 30 Persons Kidnapped In Gauraka, Niger As Protesters Block Abuja-Kaduna Road by kenchop: 1:08pm On May 24, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Beaten By Her Lesbian Girlfriend (disturbing Photos) by kenchop: 2:32pm On May 05, 2021 |
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Business › Re: Emefiele: Oba Otudeko Rebuffed My Pleas On First Bank Crisis by kenchop: 5:41pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Benin Electricity Distribution Company Is Frustrating My Life by kenchop: 8:55pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
YOUR BEST BET IS TO CALL THEM OUT ON TWITTER , ALSO TAG NERC IN YOUR POST. lordkay10: Good day folks. It has been a turbulent period for me since BEDC installed their prepaid meter at my residence. The meter came with 100 units of electricity which the staff told me would be free of charge  However, when I made an attempt to top-up the units when it was running low from a vendor, I was told I have to pay for the "free" 100 units before I would be able to top up. I had no choice than to part with 11,000 naira to pay off the 'debt' and buy 5000 naira worth of units for the top-up.
I was told to proceed to the BEDC area office close to where I bought the units to obtain activation tokens being my first transaction on the meter. At the BEDC area office, the customer care agent gave me a series of code to enter on my meter when I get home for activation, and wait for another set of code from the BEDC headoffice via SMS, without which I wouldn't be able to load the top-up tokens I purchased.
After following these instructions, I waited in vain for the final code from BEDC which wasn't forthcoming. I placed several calls to their hotline with some below-par agents attending to me at different points, each with a different method of how to solve my problem. Well, I finally got a competent agent who promised to escalate my case, and wait for 24hrs to receive the code
I finally got the code the next two days but not after making series of threats to their hotline, and I was able to load my top-up tokens. But this is just the beginning 
Almost a month passed and I would need to top-up again. This time, I opted to do it online via quickteller since my meter has been 'activated'. I made payment but didn't get my tokens until after 24 hours. I proceeded to load the meter but I got an error message.
I proceeded to call their hotline as usual but no luck this time, my calls keep on getting rejected. I paused for a while and tried again after few hours and I was finally able to speak with agent who told me I need to fill a certain complaint form on their website, after which I would be sent another kind of token from their headoffice 
I proceeded to fill the form on their website but the form wasn't submitted because "my meter number does not exist"  I tried to get across to the customer care agent again to notify them of the development but their hotline has been unreachable since my last call. I proceeded to make a google search of their alternate complaint lines(if any) and I was shocked to see that the two other lines quoted on their website, each had 10 digits instead of 11, thereby making those numbers invalid. I've been in total darkness since then, not because I didn't pay my bills, but for the inefficiency of Benin Electricity Distribution Company  Mods, kindly help me take this to frontpage for more views |
Politics › Re: Remi Tinubu Can Never Be First Lady Of Nigeria - Nigerians Tackle Tinubu's Wife by kenchop: 10:35am On Apr 28, 2021 |
That's because you are a bigot and have nothing in ur head but tribalism. pricklewane: Exactly, she did no doubt but me I already resolved never to be against my tribesmen so far Igbos are the ones leading the onslaught.
The should go n be wailing over Ikpeazu Abaribe Ekweremadu Umahi Ugwuayi etc if they can't they should leave my people alone jejely. It matter not if the Yoruba is devil himself. Ko kan aye ! |
Christianity Etc › Re: Oyedepo’s 100,000-Seater Auditorium ‘The Ark’ To Gulp ₦160 Billion by kenchop: 10:34am On Apr 15, 2021 |
UNFORTUNATELY GOD DOESNT LIVE IN THOSE STRUCTURE BUT LIVES IN OUR HEARTS, SO ITS JUST A WASTE OF RESOURCES THAT COULD BE USED FOR BETTER THINGS LIKE HUMAN CAPACITY DEVELOPMENT AND BUILD INDUSTRIES TO CREATE EMPLOYMENT FOR HIS MANY UN EMPLOYED MEMBERS. BUT ITS THOSE SAME POOR AND UNEMPLOYED MEMBERS THAT WOULD BE THE FIRST TO ABUSE ME. |
Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests Man For N800 Million Fraud In Lagos (Picture) by kenchop: 4:17pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Adeleke Adeyemi |
Health › Re: "50 Guests Died After Attending A Yahoo Boy's Party In Alagbole Akute, Lagos" by kenchop: 10:22am On Mar 29, 2021 |
True. There's a true story of a politician that year in porthacourt who threw big party and a lot of people came, an eye witness said he was pressed and needed to pee, so he wandered away to a quiet part of the big compound only for him to stumble on two people butchering a human being, like cutting the person up to be cooked , he was lucky he wasn't seen. He quietly walked away and left the party.The times are really evil now. Lalami3232: I would rather sweep my entire estate 7 times in a day, than attend the party of a politician or an internet fraudster(yahoo boys). |
Family › Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by kenchop: 7:16am On Mar 26, 2021 |
For a person to be able to hide his or her blessings from ones nuclear family members, speaks volumes of how deceptively dangerous a person can be. I commend your high level of maturity. izito: *
In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”
I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.
One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?
I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.
All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”
She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.
The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”
We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”
My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”
Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”
I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”
I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.
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Travel › Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by kenchop: 1:43pm On Mar 08, 2021 |
Bless you bro. He must man up and move on. Lekmanz87: Coming to nigeria is not a good idea for me when a man falls 7times he must get up 8times...man up and get your shits together coz when there’s life there’s still hope...#Shiloh |
Politics › Re: EFCC Goes After Bola Tinubu, Writes CCB For Assets Documents - Peoples Gazette by kenchop: 11:11am On Mar 02, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: IPOB, Bandits, Kidnappers, Boko Haram Kill 62 Policemen In 15 States In 2 Months by kenchop: 10:10am On Mar 02, 2021 |
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Music/Radio › Re: Spotify Set To Launch In Nigeria Very Soon by kenchop: 10:35pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Baby Dies 2 Weeks After An Encounter With My Fianceé by kenchop: 11:28am On Feb 18, 2021 |
So beyond their physical bodies, what exactly do you see, can I also acquire or learn these gifts of urs?
Oh please be quite!
I won't call myself a christian because I don't attend churches but you see that spiritual thing? It is Damn real!
I see beyond the physical realm... Will I call it a Gift? I don't know.
Sometimes when I look at people, I see beyond their physical body and believe me I when I tell you THINGS DEY THIS WORLD![/quote] |
Crime › Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by kenchop: 8:39am On Feb 18, 2021 |
Call the police on him, he should be arrested and death with. By doing so you are saving other younger hard working girls from a possible rape from him. RayJr: Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop. She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all |
Crime › Re: 2 Nigerians Impersonate Bruno Mars, Scam A 63-Year-Old Texas Woman (Pix) by kenchop: 8:53am On Feb 11, 2021 |
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Properties › Re: Man Shares Photos Of An Apartment Of N700K He Checked Out In Ibadan by kenchop: 3:02pm On Jan 20, 2021 |
Seun Nairaland is a sham, copying news from other blogs like Linda ikeji blog. The annoying thing is that they are always late with their new. Posting 48hrs old news here like it's new. Cheap blog.. |
Politics › Re: Gov Akeredolu Tells Herdsmen To Vacate Forest Reserves In Ondo State In 7 Days by kenchop: 12:44pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Ebonyi state did the same, the children of perdition start carrying fake news that Igbos were attacking the hausas and fulanis. Cursed people. fergie001: Rotimi Akeredolu |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kill Businesswoman Serifat Adisa, 2 Children In Oyo (Photo) by kenchop: 10:59am On Jan 04, 2021 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Schools Chris Oyakhilome On Criticizing Pastors (Video) by kenchop: 8:55am On Jan 03, 2021 |
The truth is that Nigerians generally hate accountability, they crave impunity.they want to set up a system that suits them and then lord over everyone with no form of opposition what so ever. jesusjnr2020: What i'm grateful about is that not everyone is blind and ignorant of the Truth as the blind followers of the blind leaders, otherwise today we wouldn't have known about the falsehood and hypocrisy of the Pharisees who were the religious leaders of the Jews at the time of Jesus and John the baptist. But they still would be portrayed as men of God today because they made it seem as though it was a sin to criticize them as their versions today were doing, that even the disciples out of fear had told Jesus that they were offended by His criticisms.
But Jesus who knew that their fear was borne out of ignorance made his disciples know the Truth!
Matthew 15:12-14 (KJV)
Then came his disciples, and said unto him, Knowest thou that the Pharisees were offended, after they heard this saying? But he answered and said, Every plant, which my heavenly Father hath not planted, shall be rooted up. Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.
So His disciples had no reason to fear because it was the right thing Jesus was doing to call the Jewish religious leaders out for their hypocrisy and misleading actions. So also those who do same to today's version of the Pharisees in the church.
God bless. |