beekind:
I am the 2nd born out of 2 children, my elder brother has been married for some time with no kids as a result I am super careful with issues relating to fertility.
I am in my late 30s and have been dating a 27 year old lady for 4 months now, the relationship moved so fast as she is a perfect match for me .
I have met her family and she has met mine, we are already planning marriage and have started counselling sessions in her church.

She complained of irregular periods so I told her to do a hormonal profile test and see a gynecologist, turns out she has got PCOS.

I have done my own fertility test and I am fine, I am at a cross road now, I cannot afford to struggle with child birth considering my age and also my only other sibling still also having issues with the wife also still trying to get pregnant after many years.

The only other option would have been to ask her to try for pregnancy before marriage but she is a virgin and wants to keep it that way till wedding, besides if I disvirgin her, how will I be able to walk away incase she doesn't get pregnant ?

I am at crossroads now, its not too late but walking away at this point will be very costly for me since we have already started plans towards the wedding and our families are already in touch.

My heart is heavy and I am confused, I need good advise as I cannot discuss this with anyone.

Take it God in prayer. There's nothing God can not do

zoghys:


Rufai is ten times better than Vincent, and I stand by that. We qualified for the first world cup with an away draw at algeira with Peter rufai been Rock solid at the post. Our first world cup is the best world cup we ever had and Peter was a backbone of that team. Yes, at club level Vincent made some marks, so is rufai in Spain among other countries.

Peter Rufai was doing well because of quality of players in his era, compare to that of Enyeama where many of the players were just average. In record breaking, Enyeama is very far better than Rufai. Enyeama remains the Nigeria best keeper ever. He was voted for Africa's best keeper ever.

StormpyBee:
Joseph Dosu for me.
His Olympic feat!

That basket you called Keeper? Brazil and Argentina were scoring cheap goals in that Olympics

zinaunreal:
People who support israel are very stupid
If you want to know a stupid person especially a very stupid unlearned Nigerian just ask him do you support israel or palestine.

If you want to know a very stupid person.
Watch for those who will quote me.

I am a christian and strong advocate for humanity
God bless

Keep quiet you're not a good Christian. Every good Christian support Israel because that is where our Lord Jesus Christ came from

cathodekazim:
It's so sad that majority that called themselves Christians are nothing but hypocrite, religious bigots and people filled with ignoramus mind. It's so sad how we Christians celebrate and rejoice at the death of many in Palestine. Some even quoted bible to back up their acerbic celebration. The bible is holy and will never condemn the killing of another, let alone the killing of innocent children and women. We all condemned Russia invasion of Ukraine, we back US for helping Ukraine defend themselves but we same lot are the ones rejoicing over the killing of innocent Palestine. Sad sad sad. Yes we condemned the heinous acts carried out by the Hamas militants but the question is does everyone living in Palestine members of the Hamas group. This humanitarian crisis has to stop. This genocide has to stop. For those quoting me, I'm a senior Apostle of the Christ Apostolic church

If you claim to be a Christian and you're not supporting Israel you're a big foool. What do you think that made Muslims in the world to support Palestinians? You must have to think beyond your nose. The world Muslims doesn't care about Israel civilians and you're here caring about Palestinian civilians. The fight is far beyond what you think.

3ice9ce:
The question is why are Arab countries not willing to stand up for Hamas?

The Islamic countries avoid them because they are terrorists. Who want to help terrorist?

Secondly, it because of economy ties between the Arab countries with the West.

MASTERCHIEF0847:

Even the PDP presidents failed. For example under OBJ $16 billion NIPP project failed with the money gone, under GEJ his petroleum minister was arrested in the UK with £18.5 billion, where did the money come from? These people are all the same PDP and APC and whatever platform they come under.
Among oil producing countries Nigeria has the least developed public infrastructure with the little available also dilapidated.

Where do you get all these fake figures from? All these were fake propagate by APC just to get into power. There was nothing like $16billion NIPP nonsense. All where propaganda to distrust the PDP govt

valentineuwakwe:
I pray this war does not escalate to involve Iran and other Arab states.....cos it would be deadly!

The US have warned Iran to steerclear. Iran knows the consequences of coming into that war, so they won't try.

Taylor94:
Una don start



Imagine your wife going this kind of church



She go fit wake up one morning deck you say na wetin pastor talk

You better watch the video before you continue to display your foolishness

frog12:
people have survived the banned items and no problem.
stop complaining. this is bad policy.

You're very myopic in your reasoning. Let those foreign products compete with our local products in the market. This is the best policy in Tinubu administration.

This a good development. Congratulations to all Nigerians. Buhari was a disastrous mistake that happened to Nigeria.

BarrElChapo:
Does this mean that they can now be imported into the country 🤔

Yes, importations of those products are permitted. Good development. Congratulations to Nigerians.

Revolution2022:
If Islam claim to be a religion of peace why are they slaughtering innocent people?Why do they shout "Allah arkab"before they use knife to slice someone 's throat that does not offend them or even use gun to shot at him without any provocation caused by their victim?
Why do they use their cattle to eat someone's crop and when the owner ask question they slice his throat?Why do they kidnap for ransom as a religion of peace?

Religion of piss

The most backward region in Nigeria in terms of capital development is the South-East region. They always elect thievess as their leaders. I can't imagine how underdeveloped Abia State is. It is very ridiculous to see how Abians are celebrate a mere logo. It is so pathetic and hilarious at the same times.

garriAndsugar:
One thing about poverty is that it messes the mind and sometimes it can never leave you even when you become rich.

Poverty has diminished Akpabio brain drastically to the extent that all he thinks of is adding more money to himself.

Well I really love what is happening, APC will push Nigerians to the extreme and when the people react it won't end well for them

Akpabio poor? You must be high on weeds. A Governor for 8yrs in one of the richest states in Nigeria. A senator and former Minister and you're here spewing trashes. Akpabio alone is richer than your State government.

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[b]John 17:6-7. John 20:17, John 9:4,Acts 15:14,17, did Jesus say he worships the God of Jehovah's Witnesses as proven @ Isaiah 43:10-12 (ASV) ?

As for our none interest in what you term "Christian songs", your observations are correct.

Jehovah's servants have no interest in the songs of individuals who worship 3 persons.
Your Bible tells me the only true God says HE is NOT 3 persons.
Deuteronomy 6:3 & John 17:3.

Shalom.

1 John 5:7
[7]For there are three that bear witness in heaven: the Father, the Word, and the Holy Spirit; and these three are one.

FuckTheMod:

You lack wisdom and common sense.
Just point to one achievements of Obasanjo today.
Some obvious and beneficial OBASANJỌ did.
Opo nus like you would HE GAVE US GSM
As he was the creator and owner of glo,mtn etc.

I did not know that kids are really everywhere in nairaland

FuckTheMod:
Obāsanjo the senile, arrogant, useless and senseless old fool is just shameless.

For 8 years, I can't point at anything meaning that man contributed positively to this country besides CORRUPTION AND EVIL GOVERNANCE.

I don't blame him, I blame those old atẹnu obas that stood up on his command.
If I were among them, MAY HE NOT BE oWELL WITH ME IF I EVER STOOD UP.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE OLD FOOL IS FEELING LIKE, ARE YOU A PRESIDENT?

HE DEFINITELY KNOWS WHO HE CAN TRY SUCH RUBBISH WITH.
CAN HE DARE:
ALAAFIN
ỌỌNI
AWUJALẸ
ALÁKÉ
ỌBA OF BENIN
OLU OF WARI
OR SULTAN?

You lack what to say. Obasanjo remain the best President ever rule Nigeria. He may not be perfect, but nobody has beaten his records on achievement.

madridguy:
Paul Kagame should respect himself and take his leave now. You have been the president of Rwanda since the year 2000, the country is not your property, pass the baton to another person.
23 years is enough. Let others try their best too.

He has been the Rwanda President since 1994 after the genocide.

IjawKimi:
gate man too talking

When people that do legit businesses are talking, a ritualist will come to put mouth

Ijaws are giving Akpabio headache. They don't want anyone one from Akwa Ibom to breath. We are ready for them this time around.

tobstarizhia:
Just quickly remove the Northern delta and Port Harcourt and other Igbo Igboid areas from your map boy

Biafrog are weeping already hahahaha

FuckDModz:


There's no “SS” state that Igbos are not major stakeholders.

I'm just stating facts.

You and your militant rodents are just guns for hire. Y’all a worthless piece shit.

If you make too much noise you'll get another UDI treatment.

Now, piss off.

Keep quiet you Biafrog!!

uncleiykeman:
If asari dokubo wants to draw a map, tell him to draw a map of ijaw nation. This map is a huge joke, the ethnic nationalities in the niger delta will ridicule this childish map.

If/when Nigeria disintegrats, all the ethnic nationalities in the niger delta will opt to stand independent.

Tell dokubo asari to stop fooling himself and try to unite the ijaw's cos Tompolo has a different idea.

Tell them say "Iyke Mba say so"

A chronic Biafrog wailing. Hahahaha

UnabashedIPOB:
The individual who surreptitiously came up with this map is NOT ashamed to say that the zone has 6 seaports but in name only. Of the 6 seaports, the nitwit failed to tell us how many of them are functional. We already know the answer to that...absolutely NONE! What a shame and a disgrace.

This must come from a Biafrog

God bless my beloved country Niger Delta Republic. Land full of milk and honey.
All hail Niger Delta!!!

She want to snatch the man from the wife. This is what they do. Husband snatchers are everywhere

amadil14:
Good day all,
I met my wife 4years ago, before we got married she told me that she has a boyfriend and she do call him pet name as ( MAJESTY) and I do see it wen ever he calls her not until our relationship became strong and we eventually got married.
However, before we got married my wife changed her sim card entirely and even till today I have never witness any strange number call her and we have been happily marriage.

Not until last week, my wife older sister gave birth to a baby girl and we both went to visit her and the baby with gifts. Infact my wife took along with her so many things in our house including baby baff my mum bought for her wen she put to birth.

My worry now is that, my wife sister named her daughter after my wife ex boyfriend and that has been disturbing me because the name still rings in my memory and I'm yet to know why among so many names on earth why I'll she chose (MAJESTY) as a name for her new born?

Note: this my wife sister is not yet married, she just got pregnant for a married man even as I write, the married is claimed to have traveled to London.

Please ur kind advice is highly needed.

Thank.

Very unfortunate you married into a LovePeddler family. Family that can't control their pusssies. Quite very sad. When the foundation is destroyed what should a command man do?
Your wife and her elder sister have been playing ball on your head for too long. Pls be wise.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

My guy, you are both confused and your girl is more confused than you. She doesn't know what she is looking for. I think she only like you because you're intelligent, may be the other guy is more financial than you. She really need help. How old is she? If she is below 25, guy don't rush to marry her. She is not ready and prepared.

Abia State have suffered more than any state in Nigeria with bad leadership. God will visit Abia State

Mikegem:
Religion is the number one reason for Nigeria's underdevelopment

How?

This was the beginning of Nigeria sorrow in Buhari administration. Buhari and Emefiele should be in jail for economy sabotage and for inflicting pains on Nigerians