₦airaland Forum

moca:
Thieves broke into a married man's house one night. After stealing whatever to their satisfaction,they raped the wife in front of the husband. A woman that just came back from hospital after delivery. Not up to one week of giving birth.

@op, pls who should we blame?
Tell me the offense of that woman?

Based on the op's prognosis, you must first realize that the woman must have committed an offence! The 'societal ill' of probably wearing a night gown/negligee in her house and at that time of the night cannot be overlooked. Worse still, with full breeasts heavy with milk, there is no way she did not invite the 'loving' attentions of the robbers! I mean think about it na...

This op deserve cane, in short ezigbo koboko...rubbish!

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] To be honest i really do want to take the plunge but the fear her baggage could bring mi to economic ruin remains very palpable...i do not want to lose my freedom,privacy and creature comforts to her family just because of 'love' all i'm saying is, i really do deserve a good headstart in this marriage thing instead of running at a disadvantage at the very least i deserve time maybe four years or less to watch her approach....The best we can do right now is wait till after Nysc as many things may happen btw now and then...Maybe friendzone this and see what comes around the river bend for her...A new guy?..A job?. [/color]

Some have 'accused' you of being mechanical but honestly, I think it's a straightforward and forthright way of doing things. That way, everyone knows what's what and then all d romance and fun can and will happen because a good foundation has been laid and there's a goal to work towards. At 26, unless she's particularly slow, then she already knows what she wants and she has said as much. If it causes u sleepless nights and nightmares then do yourself a favour and take a bow now. If the impending baggage you see from her family will cause difficulties for you and potential wahala all around then as igbos will say, "were ire guo eze gi onu=Use your tongue to count your teeth". When you count finish, if e pass your power...do the needful. In other words look before you leap and don't 'overlook'!

You'd think having had a hard life, father dying early and all, she'd be eager to gain some financial independence but what do I know? To each his own.

Ta! Gbafuo dia! Arrant nonsense! If this is not a sponsored write-up targeted at whoever, then the 'Paulina' is the highest ape on earth and all blame should rest solely at her feet. Did she not know her husband was alive before participating in the activities of widows?

Oh! His enemies released music and danced sekem and surugede on his head...this is the result...lol

DukeNija:
Seriously? screw what the world thinks?
Madam where is your value or dont you have morals? Should we because we feel like having sex, mate with dogs or cows and say screw what the world thinks? Or a widower begging his daughter for sex and says screw what the world thinks? How can a mother born her own grandchild for christ sakes, there should be a limit or threshold for somethings in this life or else we'll be the same as animals. Heck, Animals dont birth their own "grandchildren". I am in shock at your response because i cant fathom how a woman as educated as yourself will say screw what the world thinks, let her carry her sons child. Making her the mother and grandmother of a baby and the foolish youngman the brother and father of that baby. FYI there is a natural order. Wow i dont know which is more unbelievable, the silly story or your response. Jeez

There is a difference between surrogacy and in-cest. He did not have sex with his mother neither were his mother's eggs used. She helped her son with the permission of her husband. To all intents and purposes, she was just a vessel, none of her DNA will be found in the child! Even if another woman agreed to act as surrogate, if her eggs weren't used she isn't his mother... Conversely, if his sperm and his mother's eggs were implanted in a 3rd party, then his mother would have been in the precarious position of being mother and grandmother to same person. Also, the boy is strictly the father and not the brother because again, his mother's eggs were not used. So before u fly off the handle and go all sanctimonious, do some research and try reading the post properly too.

@babyosisi...u got mail. Thanks a bunch

Finally! Many thanks to d founder n contributors of this thread. May your days be long,may ur oil never run dry and may ur enemies be scared by their very shadows!

She hasn't been asked which churches they attend now o! @op, which churches do u n ur boyfriend attend now? Let this not be a case of moving from Pentecostal to OOO for instance! it might be tough...

what is a 40yr old doing as a leader of students? it's such a shame in Nig...a middle-aged man is still regarded as youth? Females his age have started flirting with menopause o!

Read, learnt n absorbed a lot here...nice.

So since wey Hiace buses dey get accident for road na fowl n goat dey die inside. Now wey human beings don cum die, una no go check weda driver head dem correct or weda road good or weda na excess speed, na to ban! Must these lazy arses always take d easy way out? Other Nigerian lives dat hav bn lost in similar ways don't matter?

Instead of unifying cut-off marks for Unity schools, he's raising d bar to first degree! Dem see say Finland dey use Masters as minimum, are our public schools fit for human habitation, not talk of graduates spending d better part of their day there? Why even insult graduates when the highest political office holder in d land does not need to have university degree yet he is the No. 1 citizen n ruler/leader!
They can see that sum ppl who value education require a masters degree for teachers but they just get blind when they see good roads, amenities n infrastructure, health care, electricity and order! The public schools in those places are most likely better dan sum of our private schools here o! in short, na God go punish dese ppl finish!
Can dey pay befitting salaries to graduates abi na to make noise say minimum standard na uni degree but u won't even make sure they're properly remunerated...yeye people!

Our God is too much! He never sleeps nor slumbers, always watching over His own. OP, always remember to be as wise as a serpent whilst being as gentle as a dove...
I am also an academic though in the legal field, fairly new and still growing so I understand what it means to be on one's toes professionally. Wish u the best!

Pedagogue:
I hope many Nigerians realise what is going on!!! If you don't, please check the following:

1. The first person that publicly asked/advised that the election be postponed is DASUKI, GEJ's appointee.

2. INEC has always maintained that it is ready for the election.

3. The reasons that have been given by PDP for the postponement are: Poor distribution of PVC and Insecurity.

A) ON PVCs, it is public knowledge that All APC states declared public holidays to encourage the collection of PVCs.
However, this did not have the desired effect because many Nigerians work in the private sector and they only recognise FG holidays. So, let's ask ourselves this question: IF THE FG GENUINELY WANT NIGERIANS TO COLLECT PVCs, WHY IS IT DIFFICULT TO DECLARE A PUBLIC HOLIDAY?
B) ON INSECURITY: The Army says they need time to quell Boko haram so that people in the NORTH EAST will be able to vote. Tell me, can they they do in 4 months what they could not do in four years? This is the same military that declared that boko haram will be no more by October, 2013.
[/color]
NIGERIANS, THINK!!! This postponement is being pushed by the presidency because the handwriting of their defeat is on the wall. This is why they need time to:

1. Stop APC's momentum;
2. Finish off Buhari with propanganda...if you need evidence, You just need to watch AIT
3 Stop APC's financial capacity to contest effectively. Or don't you know that more money will be required if the election is postponed!!!


Check INEC's website, you will see that the states with the lowest number of PVCs are Ogun, Osun, Oyo and Lagos. If anything at all, APC ought to be pushing for postponement; not PDP. But they know, just like many of us, that even if one million people VOTE, APC will still win.

Regardless of whatever, I am a Xtian and my vote is for Buhari any day, any time.

Funny that you can take out time and type all of these but the word 'Christian' is just too long so you'd rather 'X' out the "Christ" you claim to be like ie Christian...how nice!

And the man patiently waited till she came back...was probably calling and asking how Mama was and d dear wife will say, "Mama is getting better..." Then he'll say, "Can I speak with her?" and she'll say, "No, she's sleeping now, the doctor said she should rest and he gave her an injection to induce sleep...blah, blah, blah!"
Chei! He's really a patient man o! And na devil wan just punish d woman...lol

harrysterol:
That What they Will Do, if Later they want something better and ask for their certificate, they will be stammering
My certificate is with secretary of military, No with my principal, No with my wife,No withe waec


I will recommend if they want to enter the military let them pass the minimum requirements, b4 we hear another buhari case

You took it right out of my mouth! It's not to make promises because of votes, they had better have minimum qualifications for said enlistment and where not available, be prepared to ensure they achieve those qualifications by proper education and every other thing required. Not tomorrow, we'll ask for certificate n sum1 will say that their experience in fighting boko haram is enough proof of qualification!

Clearly he has also forgotten federal character requirements...the CJTF is clearly drawn from northerners, how does he plan to balance it out with people from other parts of Nig? abi he'll suspend dat part of d constitution ni? Na so dem dey start problem wey dem no go get solution for. Has he considered d personnel needs of d military n para-military? Budgetary provisions nko? People will just open their mouths n emit whatever their thoughts have processed from archaic minds then pass it on as a wonderful idea n a few who don't know better will run with it as a reason to vote! Oh! My country people o! Hmmmm!

I can't destroy my wedding day/marriage with political undertones as obvious as this. It's too special and I ain't that sentimental.

I was expecting to see laid down plans n a mapping out of how he intends to achieve this...short, mid n long term timelines n goals...not accusation of d present administration. We know GMB/APC see no positive achievement of PDP in all its time in power so what's d way forward? Mere words alone are not enough, it should be backed up with feasible work plans dat we can evaluate

EdwinOse:
When you say you will generate 20,000MW of electricity
you state how you intend to go about that. APC is just interested in bad-mouthing GEJ's administration and to just grab power. Shame!

Exactly my point!

I guess it's best you politely but firmly ask him to leave, he's invading your privacy. Still, you could invite a family friend or even your gf if she's amenable to that, for a supposed visit. He'd have to clear out and hopefully stay out!

Na wa o! well, people n their preferences abi na jazz unto herbalist tinz? The latter scenario seems more likely!

kunle75:
Madam,look at the picture on the post very well,the environment dosnt aapare to me that the woman in question is hungry,cos she is sitting on a leather chair that an average naija peeps cant afford.

Moreso,Its very posssible that her grand children or entire house hold are well to do and comfortable,Hence,her guesture.


Thanks

That's why I said scope! of course she won't sit on d ground in a hut now...she'll be dressed n cleaned up properly, after all, she was waiting for 9hrs for her 'saviour'....lol.
Abegi! There's nothing politicians will not do, u may swallow it hook, line, sinker, reel, rod, plus d entire river but that only goes to show that you've just been had!

Scope! Na so dem dey use wash ppl head. Her offspring had better be comfortable financially else it's d height of hypocrisy, leaving ur burning house to put out fire in anoda! Cutting off her nose to spite her face!
Again I don't blame her, at 90 she's old enuf to be Mr Buhari's mother so since her children are supposed to be leaders of tomorrow, that's d prophecy come to fruition in his candidacy!
Desperate politicians will do anything to garner sympathy, sotay dem go worry old woman for village to pose...ta!

cashkid:
Did u just say ur worth? i swear u are worthless, my dog worth more than u asshole. You are here asking for someone's father's School leaving certificate and u are running ur mouth anyhow wen ur own papa cannot boast of primary six school leaving certificate

Do u guys have to resort to insults n name calling? Even as far as comparing one's worth to a dog's? The politicians don't care u know and whoever wins, only their interests will reign supreme. It shouldn't degenerate to this point.

kennydee05:
Two prominent Nigerians the presidential candidate of the All Progressives Congress (APC), Gen Muhammadu Buhari, mentioned as his classmates in secondary school – former president of the Court of Appeal (PCA), Justice Umaru Abdullahi and former inspector-general of police, Alhaji Ibrahim Cooomassie – last night spoke on the personality of Buhari.

In an exclusive interview with LEADERSHIP in Abuja, Umaru Abdullahi and Coomassie told LEADERSHIP that they and about five prominent Nigerians attended the same school.

Coomasie said Buhari was the head boy and loved to play football during their days in school.
For more: https://www.nairaland.com/2106330/buhari-classmate-1961-umar-abdullahi

I've classmates that didn't graduate with me for various reasons, I'll never deny being their classmate. However, there's a problem if a classmate I know n identify as Muhammadu is suddenly referred to some 50-odd years later as Mohamed in a document as important n fundamental as our result, I expect basic issues like this to be above reproach for him before I venture into whatever he brings to d table.

iv4fb:
First of all, I'm not a fan of GMB or GEJ, I'm indifferent.
but there's actually almost nothing wrong with the result posted, its left for PDP or whoever is asking to verify from WAEC or whichever body organized the exam at that time.

On the name, its only a version of the name, the name is an Arabic name with different versions and spellings, Apparently, i dont see anything wrong with the name and that was why they added the passport.

The statement of result looks sketchy to me though, but one question comes to mind, what did he use in his previous elections? reputation? because the affidavit was dated November last year( maybe he lied under oath) and the result was dated this month. Something is just not right, time shall unveil or even veil it!

Honestly, I can't understand it myself but I know something is wrong with this result and I pray it's discovered. It would be a shame for Nigerians to be hoodwinked in this manner. This Houdini act has to stop. I mean, he addresses the press yesterday morning n says he's applied after 'surprisingly' being told that d Army is not in possession of his certificate so when d school is ready they'll make d result available. In a matter of hours, the result from.1961 is available. I didn't realize govt institutions had become this efficient. I still maintain that d name is a fundamental error. Yes, one is a variation of the other but on sensitive documents like certificates, passports...names must be precisely spelt as used because they're identity issues. Just like Catherine and Katherine... variations, same pronunciations but totally different people! There are Mohameds, Mohammeds, Muhamadu, Muhammadu, Muhamads, etc. There must be precision n accuracy, there's no room for variations on certificates.

iv4fb:
Not necessarily!

How is that? His identity is not necessarily fundamental? wow!

iv4fb:
You might need to understand that its a statement drafted this year, not the format it ought to carry, note that the initial certificate was lost.

The only point that make sense in what you raised was the failure in Maths, ~those days (i suppose) even if you have to write it ten times, a credit pass was required in Mathematics.

What about the name? Mohamed? isn't that a fundamental issue?

Thing is, I worry about the name on this printout. His name is Muhammadu Buhari, why is d result we see issued to a Mohamed?

Ohooo! Anyi ka ji nwanyo ekwu? Okpara ekwensu bu alika ndi ugwu agaghi a chi anyi n'obodo Nigeria! Chineke a napugo ekwensu n'umu ya nile ike! Tufiakwa o! Ahum n obim nile juru ya!

Another thing people, I know Buhari's other name is Muhamadu, is there an explanation for why the name on d 'certificate' reads Mohamed? Maybe Mr Buhari needs to take out an affidavit of change of name?

Well, Mr Buhari will address d press tomorrow on the . certificate ish. Let's see how it all plays out. I hope he has a valid certificate to brandish b4 d cameras after his speech so he can put paid to dis crap and Nigerians can focus on issues.

EnigmAries:
You're taking me back to the question. If you agreed that he actually studied in those institutions of learning, you have to agree that he at one time, he had his WASSC. If so, I think he told us what happened during the overthrow. He already sworn an affidavit in a court of law, so anyone bothered should approach the court. And by the way, I don't have to present my WASSC if that's not my highest qualification. Buhari can never be disqualified on this ground, because we are not in doubt if he has higher qualification or not. The constitution says minimum of WASSC. If the PDP is confused, let them approach the court for interpretation.

He was already in d Army before his house was ransacked by IBB's crew so where's d copy of d certificate he entered with? The constitution says evidence dat u are educated to senior secondary school cert level, so every candidate is required to show that foundation den further 'impress' the constitution by providing higher qualifications if any. That basic requirement must be met n satisfied before any other can be added.