MaxkidOFFICIAL:
Actually I had sex for the first time ... And I didn't even last for up to 3 minutes .. now I want to ask does it mean I have premature ejaculation ? Or is it normal not to last long on the first time.. and what can I do to be able to last longer in times to come ... advise oo let me start now to find solutions

First of all I want to say having sex for the first time and you poured in 3 minutes is normal. If you must know even the guys who are tagged gurus, cum in the first 3-5 minutes when they meet a girl for the first time. This occurs as a result of trying to PLEASE her and LASTING LONG. In your case, your wanting to please her, anxiety and trying to practice what you watched in an Bleep movie, made you pour instantly.

Second need I say, you shouldn't focus your attention on Bleep movies because most of the movies are either edited or the cast use drugs. And these drugs have side effects.

Thirdly, watch your carbohydrate intake, there's what the yorubas call Jedi Jedi which means carbohydrates circulating around your waist...All I know is so much carbohydrates intake is bad for men......

Fourth, understand a woman's body and your body too.
The tip of your joystick is very sensitive, once you're inside a woman and the wetness in her comes in contact with your joystick, it will tingle and tickle you, promoting your creative juices to pop out.

Fifth, there are sexual positions you would employ that might make you pour faster, like missionary or from behind with her lying down on her chest. So you should actually engage in fore play, switch positions..

Sixth, don't always wish to pound fast. Start slowly, increase your pace, reduce, increase, reduce etc....till you get to a level.. It helps control your ejaculation.

Seventh, like Biafranbushboy said, practice kegel. Remember when you wanted to pee way back in Boarding school and you heard a senior coming, your forced back your urine huh? Good, that exercise is called kegel...learn it as it will help control your cumming level.

Last but not the least, don't take drugs, you might see a little of adult movies, but not make believe movies where a guy doesn't cum after one hour. Read and understand female biology, it will help....

with time you'd be better

alexialin:
If you are dating a guy and at the point of getting Intimate in your relationship , he says he loves anal sex alot, and if you want him to stay and possibly get married, u need to accept his desire of doing anal with u as his gf or else he will cheat on you. And he doesnt like to cheat.

If u are the gf? Will u concend to anal sex? Or call it quits as he can't do without it.

Then as the bf? Will u date and marry her even when she refuse anal sex?

there are three flip sides to this story.

1. Some men love to explore when it comes to sex, just like some men don't like giving women head or taking head, other men give women head and love it as well..it is possible he could be trying to explore sexually. Not all men who do anal are gay. as well not everyone who loves hard, fast and crazy sex is a masochist.

2. It could be he was gay, and is trying to come to terms of being a normal person now, hence the request for anal sex from his woman...

3. it could be he is gay, but wants to cover up shits happening around him.

As for the phrase of saying anal sex or he'll cheat, shows you he is either my number 2 or 3 kinda person

alexialin:


What say you?

where make up failed, filters excelled.

GloriaSabipeepz:
Guys, let’s give it up for the queen of thickness, Briana is nothing short of women you find in dreams, day dreams or wet dreams.

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damn, she thick..

bbbabes:
Yes we know everyone has their taste. But is this moderate dressing or jus too extreme? It seems that's the norm.

The other time it was a lady that exposed her big camel toe in public. Who would believe a woman can have a camel toe that big.

See her pic here : http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2017/08/what-did-you-see.html

the transparent skirt MIGHT be an issue.

alexialin:





I like him cause of his sense of responsibility

Have not thought about love with him, cos am in the school of thought that one shouldn't date neighbors, cos we dont know if it will end in marriage or breakup as usual.
Thats one.. So inlove? Nope am not but I like him.. Hes a good responsible guy.

Sighs but my fear is ikorodu
With the killings going on there and the terrible traffic to and fro to my buisness, I can't risk both at all

First my biz? It took me 11years to keep it running, stable and successful. If am going to relocate my biz, not anywhere near ikorodu at all!

I can't afford to loose my company for anything in the whole world and I can't afford to move my biz to a location where it wil not prosper.
And ikorodu is too fetish for my liking
With oro festivalsa and all

Then thieves abeg.

Where I live is very secured and safe

Am very paranoid about safety.
Due to past experience. Sighs

And on the second hand, I would love to start a family but not at the detriment of my peace of mind.


I just taya.

so if a suitor from Abuja or outside Nigeria comes for you, your excuse will be your business?

secondly, are you really sure it is only badoo in ikorodu that is your problem or are you avoiding something else?

because your story is a bit...perplexing

TheManfromKenya:
I had sex with a girl that claimed to be a virgin and was quite sure was a virgin and I didn't see a single drop of blood.Please , is this possible..?? Can one actually be a virgin and not drop blood even if it's small after the sex ?? help..I don't want to lose my trust or have doubts about her ??

it does depend dude...

if you were gentle and slid in with human sympathy plus the wetness of her veejay, she wouldn't bleed.

sometimes, biology of people differ. some girls could spill blood, others might not..

as well if anything smaller than a joystick has been finding its way in there, there's the tendency she wouldn't bleed.

Loveeneh:
Ever since my boyfriend came into my life, my life has really changed, I truly love him n the feelings is reciprocal from his end. Since he came into my life I find it so hard to let another man into my heart. we are in a distant relationship.
Lately, I don't know I just fell so much in love with him n I got so intoxicated with my feelings toward him but the issue is some days ago I sent him a marriage broadcast n his response made me so upset and it made me had a change of mind towards. The truth is that I truly love him so much that I can't let him go n I don't know if his intentionson are still what he says it is. I tired talking things with him both using a calm and harsh tone in portraying how I felt when he told me the word he said and I urge him to try convince me it not what I think but he refused to say anything, he is not the saying out his mind kind of person.
Please I need your help fellow nairalander help a sister coz am at the edge of letting go of him.

1. what was the content of the marriage broadcast?
2. have you guys sheepishly talked life after relationship issues before?
3. what was his response to number one?
4. and what was your response to number 3?

Answer these and I'll tell you the truth!

who still does pickup lines today?

internetrender:
I saw this app's cost and I was like... WTF? Thanks to a friend who shared it to me. I attached the screenshot of the app page on playstore to this post.

At first i tought it would allow free internet access lol.. But why on heaven and earth will I buy an app for 80K?? When Chrome and Uc Browser is FREE..

even their maps and PDF reader

and after all the k7 hype, we are left with another recycled product...well ok!

buyers be free...I'll stick around and watch the official thread for the wailings and praising.

hibiscus76:
lol

hibiscus76:


hmmmmmm, OK ooo...sounds like you're referring to someone I know

Do you? You don't say.....

1. The voice 2. Smart style of thinking 3. The eyes.... 4. Composure 5. Etc.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

just like there are good ladies out there, but really hard to find, same goes for guys..

I am a man so I know what I am saying, how to say and when to say it.

1. Most good guys are friend zoned to women they still have feelings for even if the women don't want them..sometimes it gets do bad that a woman will say, he's not my boyfriend, just my friend but no woman can have him..


2. The Casanovas today, have been good men who might have been broken hearted by a woman or women they loved. And with the broken heart, the aura disappeared. I have a friend I met while serving, he always bleeped anything in skirts. So one day, out of annoyance of his character, I asked him why he does this. Then he opened up to me about the heartbreak a lady he loved dearly, gave him towards their settling down.. I equally trained someone to school and we had plans of settling down, even her parents knew... but where's she now?

3. Meeting the wrong person can be killing honestly.

These are three basic reasons a man can look like he's got no heart

If you have met the wrong people more times than usual, then relax stay single and he'll come for you....

Empires are not brought down by outside forces, they are destroyed by weaknesses from within.

TunnyOgunnowo:
The internet has made shopping and booking very easy. You can sit in the comfort of your room to buy or book anything. The consequence of the shopping ease is that many popular retail or eCommerce websites have been cloned. This is done in a bid to swindle unsuspecting persons of their hard earned money. If you are are not careful, you will fall for this because the fake and original websites are very similar. Notwithstanding, there are still ways you can spot the differences. Here are ways you can spot a fake eCommerce website.

The URL is suspicious
The URL of eCommerce websites is very simple and easy to remember. When the URL is complicated and different from the usual website you are familiar with, it is a red flag.

There is an obvious language barrier
Quite a number of sites have language options to cater for different markets and region. However, if there is a language barrier and you do not understand what is written, it is a cause for concern. In addition, if there are so many spelling mistakes and the translation is poor, just move on. It is probably cloned.

The brand selection makes no sense
Does a site's brand list sound more like a random mix of popular names? Counterfeit sites thrive on confusing people who want what is popular. So, be very careful.

Questionable contact information
Any serious eCommerce business will have an email in their name and not a Gmail or Hotmail account.

Unclear refund policy
For most websites, refund policies are very clear. You just call their customer care number and make a complaint that you do not want the product anymore. They will send a courier to pick up the item and your money will be refunded. If the opposite is the case, do not make purchases on that website.

The prices are too good to be true
Clearly, many people love cheap offers. However, when the offer appears too fantastic and you know the particular product can never be available at the price, it is a sign that they just want to grab your attention with the price. For example, 80% off a N50,000 product. It's too incredible to be true!

Source: http://www.absolutehearts.com/2017/08/6-ways-to-spot-fake-ecommerce-website.html

cc: lalasticlala mynd44 Fynestboi OAM4J DisGuy Slyr0x adewasco2k

jumia and konga these are sites easy to remember.
so you're saying if someone now opens an e commerce site with a simple name like richmart.com, its gonna be suspicious?

meh

there isn't a trophy for virginity or a condemnation for non virgins.

some men with the guise of getting into a lady's panties can engage you, pay for parent proxies and still what they want....

to me virginity isn't a thing of power or not.

NwaAmaikpe:


Good for you, keep your dirty job to yourself.

You are already sounding like a Messiah, only God knows how much you would have sexploited exploited the poor girl if she accepted you.

So you wanted to help her and you first sent a friend's request? Who are you fooling?

All you needed to do was to mail her or drop a message if you really wanted to pass an information to her.

I'm sure if she had accepted your friend's request, you'd have also asked for her whatsapp number...then start to IMO her
Or even ask her to send you her nudes.
Just because you want to refer her to someone.

You sound like an emotional blackmailer.

I know your type.
And your type truly deserves to be blocked.

nwaAmaikpe I have been a lover (no homo) of your posts but this one? mba.

Facebook has privacy settings that can restrict you from accepting requests if you deem fit. Plus if he had sent her a message by saying I have a 400k per month job for you, she'd have marked it as scam. Plus if you're not friends on Facebook and you send a message, the recipient would have to approve the message before reading it.

I know you're unapologetic and solely responsible for your own words but o buru nu nke a ..

Kay17:


Your first error is too assume all women have the exact same psyche and to discount the influence of culture religion and personality.

One bottle of cold orijin for you...

pocohantas:
LOL. You've been watching from the sidelines? He is not as altruistic as he thinks he is...

lol no he isn't, he is somewhat centripetally minded...

Menzy86:
"if a woman wants to friendzone you, even jupiter himself cannot change it" Exactly bro u understand the vibe. I commented a live experience earlier to this effect.

of course bro I mean every guy at some point in his life gets friend zoned, maybe not now but later.
There are three ways to handle this

1 You really do love this girl and she friend zoned you because you were being yourself, if you can't stand the rejection per se, you simply walk out and maintain silence.


2. Don't push further when it is clear she's friend zoned you, you can stay away for a while and avoid her....

3. If you can deal with it, continue being friends but don't chip it in again, look for someone else if possible her sister

pocohantas:

No wonder...say no more.

really dear no wonder

myking95:


Respect for oneself is important for a man. First work know yourself to be amazing that you cannot be scared of being alone with yourself. Then make your offer very clear, of she says no.. .acccept it with dignity.. .move on.. .but never make stupid sacrifices iwanna n the name of being friends with hopes of getting thru to her. If she wanna be friends.. .let her be d one making the offer and maintaining it.. .dont be like the first nigga. In the meantime tell her your mind, confidently and plainly.. And live your life with another lady.
There is no such thing like the "one". Work on your self, your finances, your personality and see attraction from the opposite sex.
Don't be a wuss

lol bro are you actually advising me or teaching me on how to woo a lady? because it looks like that's what you're doing besides I never asked for an advice....

and i have no inferiority complex thank you, my finances for an unemployed self sustaining person can comfortably pay a graduate, plus my sex life is something I am proud of.....why the fuss?

xxxtedyxxx:


it will work for everyone.

All girls are the same, in the sense that, they feel attraction the same way.

Biodun's delivery might not be accurate, but the basic foundational principles and techniques remains the same worldwide.

not everything that works for you works on others..

you might meet a lady who might be irritated at constant communication, but some actually crave for it. that's the truth

xxxtedyxxx:


Dating is a game of numbers. In social dynamics, the abundance mentality reigns supreme. If after doing all these, you still get friendzoned- there is nothing you can do about it.

YOU MOVE ON.

You keep working on your game, and making yourself desirable.

Convincing a woman to like you is an adventure in futility. Attraction for women is purely emotional.

These tips are not for oloshos oh

The more girls you are gaming at the same time, the better.

its simple what works for you won't work for Biodun, we have our ways, I guess you understand

dareerah:
And that's guys

have you seen or tasted all of us, to conclude?
how about my saying every lady is a LovePeddler, how would you feel in person?

xxxtedyxxx:


Nice right up...


But this is 2017 bro, not 1945. Times have changed. In the world of dating, you have to make your move. Texting a girl as much as you can, with time, will only turn make her see you as a nuisance.

Your major focus should be how to attract a girl, and how can you do that if you can't make her miss you in some way?

Predictability kills attraction. Girls don't just friendzone you without reason. They do that when they don't feel an emotional attraction towards you. For women, attraction is not a logical thing- it's purely emotional. Women will continue to friendzone you if you keep making all the mistakes in this post.

what if after all the stunt, you still get friend zoned, ?

bro if a lady decides to friend zone you, you can only pull out by stopping your conversations with her...

sorry bro I might fault what you just posted.
I think it's not mature to 'follow a trend' because you need something done. Just like I am not really someone who reads motivational books, I don't actually subscribe to your post. Look at it this way, blackberry and Tecno are mobile phones, but they have different operation manuals, why? because you can't run an Android device the same way you run a Blackberry, but they are both phones.


You want the girl right?, you want to date her and you want her to be yours? When you understand her and she's comfortable talking with you and not talking to you, call her she might be interested in you too, text as much as you can. Women sometimes feel they don't have to do the chasing. If she loves your company she loves you.

Even if you're friend zoned, you can find your way out..

if a lady wants to friend zone you, even Jupiter himself cannot change it.


I'm open to criticisms though