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Properties / Relocation Assistance by kennykendo(m): 12:06am On Nov 26, 2023
Hello house good evening.


I currently live on Lagos island and I am looking at relocating to another apartment on the same island.

Please where can you suggest that there’s good power supply of at least 12 hours with good water ?

Thank you so much.
Webmasters / URL, Web Link Or Domain Extractor.. by kennykendo(m): 3:07am On Jun 09, 2018
hello webmasters in the house,


I need an urgent help from you guys.....


is there any software you know that can extract domain names from keywords?


for instance... automobile companies in Nigeria...

you know if you punch in this key phrase into Google, you'll get a list of domains especially under Google maps...

but if you put in that keyword in an email.extractor, it begins to give you nonsense emails....


so I just need a software that can gather URLs from keywords and then I can comfortably input in the extracted URLs into an email.extractor and be sure of my emails...
Celebrities / Re: Samklef: ‘BBNaija Cee-C Should See A Psychiatrist, She Acts Like A Psychopath' by kennykendo(m): 1:57pm On Apr 22, 2018
Having followed BB Naija (though not as toxic as every other fella here), I’ll like to point out one of the last standing contestants by name Cee-Cee.


You see before now, most Nigerian ladies were praising her adamant nature and calling her a queen, not knowing that thy were actually uplifting the wrong doings of someone with a broken psychological background.


Cee-Cee is rude, unbearably a pain in the butt, a perfect fault finder and a never contented person who only calms down when there is someone like her and who someone who sees things like she does, from her own angle. Her recent flare up with Tobi and her family utterances, have made smart people understand that her psychology is faulty. You can’t openly insult your parents on a worldwide viewing platform and call it normal, you can’t find fault with everyone and call it normal, you can’t insult your sponsors and call it normal, people who had plans for you can’t withdraw their plans due to your cantankerous nature and call it normal.


I didn’t watch the dance video of Tobi and Alex and Miracle with Nina. But pictures circulating the net, the video clips and other clips I saw (especially when she was talking to herself in the mirror), I realized she’s a lonely soul, who is always on self-defense as a means to prevent people from getting to know her weak points. Seeing herself as supreme and not giving a hoot about what people think. Being happy this minute and angry the next…..my people, this are the characteristics of someone suffering from Bipolar Disorder.
If she’s been like this all her life, then she needs help. We Nigerians joke with those tiny things that are seriously aggravating and become serious with trivial matters. Tobi understood this was who she was, but she never understood Tobi’s good intentions for her. This is why he would always want her to pour out her anger and in the end hug her or show any other level of affection.
Bipolar disorder patients have dual personalities, like the devil and God talking to them at the same time.
Whether or not she wins the money, she needs help, mentally and emotionally. This is beyond spiritual; although there is nothing God cannot do but, let’s not be so spiritual about this…


A good psychologist should be made available for her as well, I pray that God sends another Tobi or another man who will be extremely understanding to her……If you see the way she feels broken when Tobi hugs her, you’ll know she really needs a man like Tobi in her life.
P.S I am not Big Brother Naija freak or fan…So you don’t come attacking and spending your bullets profusely.

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Romance / Re: Victor Ibeh: How My Older Lady Lover Dumped Me After 2 Weeks by kennykendo(m): 7:34pm On Dec 09, 2017
Dimples129:
I could relate, but you live and you learn cry cry cry


this moniker and style of response sounds familiar
Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by kennykendo(m): 5:23pm On Oct 19, 2017
QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

I don't want to say this but, I kind of know how you feel and what you feel because I found myself in such confusing state...

I for one love to talk to anyone I'm dating everyday via calls or if I'm out of airtime sms or chats..

try and talk to him and tell him how you feel...okay if he continues acting like its nothing not once not twice, seat down and dig up how you guys met...if he used to call, then check the period he started the new character and see what happened then, if you did something or something about you was off, then when you check and he tells you nothing is wrong and you actually searched yourself and find out nothing is wrong.....

my dear give him space, there are men out there who will love to talk to you 24/7...

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Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Have Time For Me by kennykendo(m): 5:16pm On Oct 19, 2017
Ginaz:
Most boys don't like clingy, try to work on that your character and watch them cling to you. You are trying to suffocate the relationship with your unnecessary demands.

The most important thing is that he loves and cares for you. He must not call 24/7 to show it.

Who text messages help?

not all of us guys act like that...I for one love to be in touch 24/7 because I value communication even if you leave two doors away from me...

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Romance / Re: What Could Be Wrong With Male Nairalanders? by kennykendo(m): 10:15am On Oct 10, 2017
Jared77:
I was prompted to open this thread after witnessing on many accounts, the most recent one being DeadRat's thread, how guys in this section of NL have religiously taken to assickling the ladies so much so that there's almost nothing left of manhood.

You see guys sucking up to ladies in all kinds of perverse and indecent manner, ranging from labelling below average girls beautiful, to rushing to support them with lightspeed whenever an argument occurs, sparing no thought for manhood.

What could be wrong? Are the guys so sex-starved they can barely spare a second to think the instant they see a female moniker? Are they so lacking in self-esteem? I am not understanding.

Little wonder the ladies are so rude and dish out insults on slightest provocation.

This is because they have lost respect for the men here as they themselves have shown that they are at par with street dogs in civilisation.

It's a pity that dignity has been dumped inside the bin in exchange for a paltry few minutes of online sexual gratification.

Which way nairaland?

statistically speaking 80% of persons who suffer from low self esteem... are guys (young folks)..why?

if they lack sex or anything intimacy
if they are broke at a point of no return.

When you see an 'asslicker' supporting a lady on nairaland, that seems to be their only means of quashing what they feel..and in most cases, they do so to attract a lady's attention. especially if she's got a pretty dp...

more so, some ladies do that too


bro this is nairaland, full of pervs, cock suckers, tit suckers and dick riders....

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Romance / Re: Sex On First Visit. Does It Mean She Is Cheap? by kennykendo(m): 1:30am On Oct 10, 2017
solomix10:
Guys in the house
when a lady comes visiting for the first time and you both have sex.

does it mean she is cheap?

please be sincere.



for me its a big no.

it doesn't matter if sex occurs or not on the first date, if the relationship was meant to be, it will if it wasn't, sex wouldn't hold it in place.....
Forum Games / Re: As A Detective, How Do You Solve These? by kennykendo(m): 1:02am On Sep 26, 2017
Explorers:
A famous chemist was found dead in his laboratory.

There was nothing around him except a paper with the names of chemical substances:

Carbon
Oxygen
Nickel
Lanthanum
Sulfur


On the day he was murdered, the chemist only had 3 visitors: his wife Mary, his nephew Nicolas, and his friend Jonathan.

The police arrested the murderer right away.



How did they know who killed him?

NiCOLaS
Forum Games / Re: As A Detective, How Do You Solve These? by kennykendo(m): 12:54am On Sep 26, 2017
Explorers:
A dead body is found at the bottom of a multistory building.

It looks quite clear that the person has committed suicide by jumping off from one of the floors.

A detective comes, goes to the first floor and walks in the room facing the direction in which the body was found.

He opens the closed window of that room and flips a coin towards the floor.

He goes to the second floor and does the exact same thing till the last floor.

Then, when he climbs down, he tells the team that it is a murder, not suicide.



How did he know?

it is only noted on the first floor that the windows were flung open..
Politics / Re: The Nigerian Operating IPOB’s Paris Account Unmasked By Security Agencies by kennykendo(m): 5:36pm On Sep 25, 2017
sarrki:


We must not wait for the your so called assembly

Check the military act

So please teacher don't teach us nonsense

we mustn't wait for 'your so called assembly'..really ?

check the military act?

what happened to the supremacy of the constitution?

Supremacy can be defined as “The position of having the superior or greatest power or authority”. The constitution can also be defined as “The fundamental and organic law of a nation or state that establishes the institutions and apparatus of government, defines the scope of governmental sovereign powers, and guarantees individual civil rights and civil liberties”. From the foregoing, it can be seen that constitutional supremacy is the position of the constitution having the superior or greatest power or authority.

Due to the fact that pursuant to S.2 of the Nigerian Constitution 1999 (as amended), Nigeria is a federal republic, it therefore has a written constitution. The general convention is that a written constitution is supreme, the Nigerian constitution provides for its supremacy in some of its provisions. These provisions shall be subsequently highlighted.

The first section of the 1999 constitution that deals with the supremacy of the constitution is S.1(1). It provides thus: “This constitution is supreme and its provisions shall have binding force on all authorities and persons throughout the Federal republic of Nigeria”
This section means that the provisions of the constitution are binding on all persons no matter how high or low. Even the number one citizen of the country, the President, is bound by the constitution. There are numerous case law in which the actions of the president were declared unconstitutional and of no effect whatsoever.

Though it is quite unfortunate that there have been arguments about the truth of the provision of S.14(2)(a) of the Constitution . It is contended in many quarters that this present constitution was foisted on us by the military government. It is said that inasmuch as the people did not choose their representatives to fashion out the constitution for them, therefore, it is not the people’s constitution.

This is democracy not military regime... this is in no way to insult you, as I have seen the tone at which you handle your replies...thank you.

liberal democracy till the end...

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Politics / Re: The Nigerian Operating IPOB’s Paris Account Unmasked By Security Agencies by kennykendo(m): 5:28pm On Sep 25, 2017
I 'commend' the efforts of the federal government in 'digging out' the hidden 'activities' of the 'terrorist' group.

Now listen, with sense and wisdom for anyone who wishes to quote me.

I'm a full blooded Igbo, but not an IPOB spearheader, if it is the will of God for secession to exist fine..if it isn't it won't come to light..

Now another thing to note is this, what has happened to the brutal, diabolical, heartless and nasty activities of the 'herdsmen' that were not tagged 'terrorists'? ...and the Boko Haram insurgents?


IPOB supporters have an aim in mind, secession (supposedly), now what can you say is the goal of herdsmen who derive joy in penetration of hinterlands for the sole aim of killing, raping women and other lawless activities? I served in Anambra State and the day these herdsmen came, they arrived in a lorry with ammunitions, we the corpers in that area, had to alert the army barracks closest to us, plus the policemen and the village security team. but it was late, they had moved into Alor going into farms and destroying things....same happened in Aba, Obingwa if not that the youths took it upon themselves to chase those miscreants out of the village only imaginations know what would have happened. isn't that an act of terrorism?

What about Boko Haram, who go about bombing churches, mosques and even attaching bombs to humans in form of suicide bombers? isn't that an act of terrorism?

Oh Fulani herdsmen and Boko Haram aren't terrorists right?

Merriam Webster's dictionary defines terror as 'violent or destructive acts (as bombing)committed by groups in order to intimidate a population or government into granting their demands'.

Now what are the demands of the aforementioned bodies that are not checkmated...?

oh you'd say they were attacked in their camps (Boko Haram)..but what collateral damage did it incur? the loss of IDPs in Borno state.

I do not support Nnamdi Kanu's slander and aggression, but if you look at it systematically, you'd see that he draws his inference from the unchecked lawlessness of Boko Haram and Fulani herdsmen.

Tell me where you have heard IPOB killed anyone.. where? I can't say either...but the military sent to curb the situation used real bullets instead of rubber or other means to curb the case. The military was used to do a police job, undermining the services and functions of the police, which is to maintain law and order within a state, unlike the military whose sole aim is to protect a sovereign state from external manipulation...

Nigerians should tell themselves the truth, that Boko Haram and Fulani herdsmen are tools in the hands of Northern politicians to gain economic, social and political control of this country....and until that is known in the hearts of Nigerians, python dances, crocodile smiles will be the least of the Hitler induced torment none Northerners will face.....


This government is worse than failure, the last government might have been bad...but this is the worst of it all....

N.B if your input is religion, tribe or negatively driven, quoting me will only worsen the case........


I am not sorry to this, although I have northern friends, naturally, they are violent because I have lived in the north for a good number of years...

I am not an ipob supporter before NCAN will attack me or themselves... have a good evening ahead.

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Romance / Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Relationships And Act Strangely by kennykendo(m): 8:26am On Sep 19, 2017
Factfinder1:


Yes I did

no pun intended or stereotyping involved, its just that lately, ladies pour all the blames on men while the go about being pitied...
Romance / Re: 5 Reasons Why Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Relationships And Act Strangely by kennykendo(m): 1:08am On Sep 19, 2017
Factfinder1:
Relationships these days just get all dried up because the 'spark' is no longer there. You like a guy, a guy likes you, you two get off on a sweeet note, u share your happy moments together, you are always happy wen u see their texts, or calls.. The relationship gets all rosy and at a point, it all begins to die down slowly. You all begin to wonder why he or she develops this cold attitude towards you. You start feeling insecure, a lot of things begin to run through ur mind.. "Is he in love with me anymore, or does he still have those feelings for me? Whichever the case maybe, there has to be a problem somewhere. Let us look at those "little" things we all do that scares or makes him slowly lose interest in the relationship.

1. you stalk his every move Most of us ladies, if not all, are guilty of this. Especially in social media, we tend to check out their online activities like whose picture the complimented, their comments relating to posts, their conversations with the opposite sex. And when we do all these, we confront them about what they said or ddnt say and use it as a tool against them. He feels freaked out and begins to wonder if he fell in love with a detective. Slowly, he loses interests in u, because he feels choked up.
Remedy to this: stop stalking him, stop it. Learn rather to trust him and mind ur own business, it will save ur relationship a lot of stress.

2: telling him "I love you" just to knw his reaction now, it takes different times for people to fall in love with someone. For some, it might take a moment, some a day, while some are months or even years. Yes, you love the guy.. Ok.. But the question is, does he love you yet? You tell him you love him just to knw what he feels abt you is so so wrong. He may not fall in love with you easily but with time, he gets to see how amazing you are and falls in love with you. So when next you wana tell someone u really love dem, pls be sure that they do love you bak, if not, hold it.. Until you are sure. Never ever make the grave mistake of telling him you love him just to find out if he loves u back, or else, it may backfire and ur feelings get hurt.
Remedy: give him time, be patient.. Don't force him to love u.

3: being too serious now this is another killer of relationships. The reason why ur relationship is gradually loosing its spark is because we ladies tend to act too seriously. Now what do I mean by too seriously,

We aren't playful, we don't have good sense of humor, we tend to read silly meanings to his words, we always think if he is silent, dat means he doesn't love us anymore.

Nooooooooooo! When ur chatting with ur guy, try to be at ease, cmon, be funny.. Say silly things, be free with him, yab him, tell him his nose looks like that of an elephant when he uploads a new pic or if he yabs u, laff it off.. You two shouldn't all be too serious abt evrythn.. This makes both of you to be selective of words and before you knw it, he becomes tired of you and tends to stick wit that hilarious babe. The next time you have a chat with him, pls try to have an open mind.... Be free.

4: who texts or calls first ok, so he didn't say hi to u early in d morning, or he didn't send u any texts or call, u begin to nag.. U are like "baby u ddnt text me today, or u ddnt call me.." And things like that. Wtf! If he ddnt call u, den call him... If he ddnt text u, den text him. Don't wait for him to do that first and u begin to create problems where there shouldn't. Dats not nice, you are being too needy... If he is at work, ask him when will he be free, so both of u can chat or call. Dnt just text or call him every minute or hour to knw watsup.. Its not funny.. Have smth doing tooo.. He will call you if he misses u and wants to hear your voice. U just dnt have to force everythn.

5: understanding him some ladies still don't understand their guy.. Now there are some guys who prefer chatting to calling, some prefer calling to chatting, while some do well in both. But whichever the case maybe, try to knw what makes him confortable. If he loves to chat, den dnt get worried abt him not calling u, you are only creatin unnecesarry issues.. Somepeople are so lively wen calling, while some aren't lively, they just ask u normal questions and befor u knw it, d call ends.. Pls be patient, if u notice he isn't good at talkin on d fone den make him talk, ask him questions tooo, make him laff, yab him too, befor u knw it, the call may hav lasted for up to 5minutes. Don't be like, oh he is d one dat called me so he should only do the talkn while I answer... He justs seems like the whole thing is crashing down and he quits calling you.. Please try to loosen him up.. Some of them are shy too u know. Lol

Factfinder1 for http://ogashub.com.ng


did a lady actually write this?
Romance / Re: He Broke Up With Me.... When He Noticed Am Over Him,he Did This by kennykendo(m): 1:16am On Sep 04, 2017
rittyray:
I was dating this guy whom I loved so much but he double date behind my back...I recall I that I came here seeking for advice, so I decided to forget about him .
my greatest surprise is that he has been logging into my Facebook account, my gmail and the rest
reading all my chats,an afterwards he will call me to asked who I was chatting with....
please guys what should I do because am confused

what should I do

1. if you have another email make the new email.your Facebook primary email. how? go to settings on your app and click on general...the rest is history

2. he broke up with you right? look him in the face or if you can't not because you're scared probably to avoid stories that touch the kidney, warn him politely to stay clear..

3. if he continues he's trying go manipulate you and looking for a means to crawl back into your life... this where the warning has to enter gear 3..


simple...if you are over someone be over them and stop trying to snoop around their business... the world is too big for one person to act all god on another human being.
Crime / Re: Police Shoot Lorry Driver At Rhema University, Living Word Junction In Aba (Pics by kennykendo(m): 5:20pm On Aug 29, 2017
mindviewj:
Before you post anything, make sure you source the right information...the police men guarding LIVINH WORD CHURCH /RHEMA UNIVERSITY , shot at the truck driver because the truck driver didnt give him the #100...and the police men ran into the chuch. the police men were not employed to stand and collect money on the way,why did they leave their duty post. #GetRightInformation.

point of correction sir, my school isn't guarded by police men, only security personnel under LIVING WATCH SECURITY guard that place.

The Chancellor moves about with only two mobile policemen and these men are always inside the compound if he's around.


The policemen who shot at the lorry ran into the church for fear that they had killed teg driver hoping that my chancellor will protect them...

This sir is the real version of your piece.


#Thank You.
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Demand 100% Increase In Call, Data Tariffs by kennykendo(m): 5:11pm On Aug 29, 2017
frenzyduchess:
Can someone tell me what we as Nigerians benefit in this country?,no light ,no water ,no road, even data that is cheap ,they want to increase it, smh

the comic activities of the cattle head rearing government induced policies... lol
Phones / Re: Telecom Operators Demand 100% Increase In Call, Data Tariffs by kennykendo(m): 5:10pm On Aug 29, 2017
realjoker:


https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/news/business/telecom-operators-demand-100-increase-in-call-data-tariffs/211949.html


cheats activated
Togo networks boosted for maximum efficiency
VOiP apps on standby
VPN servers upgraded....


dafuq is wrong with these peeps undecided ?
Politics / Re: Eid-El-Kabir: FG Declares Friday & Monday As Public Holidays by kennykendo(m): 9:50pm On Aug 28, 2017
omenkaLives:
And what exactly is wrong with it making fp already?

How exactly does it affect your life whether or not it makes fp?

Y'all need to get over yourselves and the hate in you.

What a pity.


your point?
because I got nothing from what you said....

if you're thinking I'm criticizing the religion then sorry for you bro, what if I'm a Muslim? huh?

I'm simply referring to the spokesman, I have a vendetta with him alright?

so please.... I.beg you in.God's name don't start an e-war with me...silence is golden so my keypad will make no sound.
Family / Re: My In-laws Are Making Me Get Tired OF MY Marriage by kennykendo(m): 7:17pm On Aug 28, 2017
MrsBimbo123:
My father in law is late (RIP), he was a good man and he never stressed me. When things were really rough for my husband, I didn't see any family member, in fact no one came to visit us except my father in law, my mother in law too is late.

My problem is my husband's two Aunties, for 2 years now they have been making my life miserable, always saying bad things about me to people. Someone in my husband's family told me that they are behaving like that because they think I am the one collecting my husband's money but God knows. They are always demanding large sum of money from my husband & I don't mind (it's none of business, even though my husband complain to me most times).

There was a day one of my husband's aunt told my husband to always tell them about anything he is doing. One thing I will never accept from any human being is someone disrespecting my mom, one of his aunt was talking anyhow to my mom few months ago (my mom is very old & she doesn't make trouble). They also talk anyhow to me in public and in the presence of my staff that I will even start crying due to the embarrassment.

I have complained to my husband several times & he told me to do whatever I wish to do to them but It's not in my nature to disrespect elderly people, they are really pushing me, if they continue behaving like this I might disrespect them.

I can remember how my husband's family members tell me that women don't stay long in their family before they go but which woman will stay long with the way they treat them.

I didn't know from the beginning, I have been with my husband for 5years now, he is a very good person, in fact he told me himself that he wish he has no family member, he also told me that he can't talk to them about the way they are behaving.

I will appreciate any good opinion, God bless you all.

there's no such thing as, do anything you want to do with them...

listen you and your husband have to seat your asses down and reach an agreement and consensus because when he begins to speak they'll listen.. let him yell at them.

they aren't his immediate family, so they have no right to demand without conscience. His parents are late, yes his money is meant for you, his children and maybe just maybe his dependent siblings, (if they're not earning or are students).

You need to start now to protect your future. Don't say the way he gives cash ain't your business. When he'll run out of cash, that's when you'll know that it is your business

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Politics / Re: Eid-El-Kabir: FG Declares Friday & Monday As Public Holidays by kennykendo(m): 7:09pm On Aug 28, 2017
and this has made front page already.... hmmmft
Romance / Re: How Innocent Can A Girl Look? 18+ Pics Inside by kennykendo(m): 7:23pm On Aug 27, 2017
xxxcity:
Now, this topic is about how innocent a girl can look but in reality they are far from innocent. The girl in my first post above is a webcam model and stripper. If you go to porn sites, you will see her riding dildos. She even has a few sex videos with guys.

where them girls at? undecided undecided
Romance / Re: How Innocent Can A Girl Look? 18+ Pics Inside by kennykendo(m): 7:23pm On Aug 27, 2017
xxxcity:
Now, this topic is about how innocent a girl can look but in reality they are far from innocent. The girl in my first post above is a webcam model and stripper. If you go to porn sites, you will see her riding dildos. She even has a few sex videos with guys.

where them girls at? undecided
Romance / Re: Reasons You Shouldn’t Trust Men So Easily by kennykendo(m): 3:39pm On Aug 25, 2017
Nairalandsss:
True love is something that all people search for, especially when they are young. It should be mentioned that men and women have different attitude to love. It is a well-known fact that boys love with their eyes and girls love with their ears. That means all the words we hear from our guys are very important to us and we take everything serious. Being trustful, women can easily fall in love and give their heart away to those men who don’t deserve their great affection. Don’t let your feelings and emotions prevail over your mind or finally you will get disappointed and frustrated. Consider the following reasons why you shouldn’t give your heart away so easily and you will manage to avoid big mistakes in your life.

Men Are Lustful


It’s not a secret that men are lustful and we can’t do anything with this. Due to this fact you shouldn’t trust them so quickly. Surely, I don’t want to say that all men are the same, but it is quite natural that most of them at first pay much attention to our face and body and only after that they fall in love with our personality. If you want to build a strong and long lasting relationship physical attraction will not be enough for you. So, you need to wait a bit before you give him your heart and open your soul.

Maybe You Just Try to Fill a Void


Perhaps you’ve just broken up with your ex or you suffer from some troubles in your life, in such case your new love will be nothing more but the way to get rid of your sadness and fill the emptiness in your heart. If you don’t get enough attention from a man and don’t feel his kindness that is a clear sign he is not the one you need. All your feelings to him are deceptive. You don’t love this boy. The only reason why you are with him is your desire to get some warmth and care from him.

Foundation is one of those things that will help you make your relationship happy and successful. Even to build a good house you need a foundation, so when it comes to love the one is extremely important. All lovers have to go through certain steps before they will become closer to each other. Everything starts from small talks, after you begin to trust your partner and discover numerous common things that both of you have. If you have passed these stages of your relationship successfully now you are ready to give him your heart and become a part of him

Decide What You Really Want


The first thing you should do when looking for a guy is to draw an image of your ideal and perfect man in your mind. It is necessary to know what qualities you expect to see in your boyfriend in order to realize your plans and make your dreams come true. So many girls often change their decision about the kind of man they want to find and such uncertainty generally results in choosing the wrong person. This is one of the greatest reasons you shouldn’t fall in love so easily and lose your mind. Make sure you set your goal and figure out which characteristics in a partner are the most valuable for you. If you are lucky to meet the one date for some time and then you can move to something more serious.

You Will Get Hurt

Unfortunately very often we can get attached to handsome guys just because of their appearance and as a result our heart may be broken and we stay alone. When you see that a boy doesn’t love you sincerely you’d better not rush into this relationship as it will never finish happily for you. Lots of women hope that real feelings will come with the time and they will be able to change the situation. But I think there is no need to begin love affair only because you want that and you are tired of being alone. If you meet a nice man and you like him, first of all you should find out if he has all the qualities that attract you in a partner.

At the beginning of a new relationship we are overwhelmed with excitement and positive emotions. When you meet a handsome guy who seems to be a good person you can fall in love quickly without revealing his flaws and negative qualities. Such carelessness may lead to undesirable consequences and your heart will be broken. To prevent this you should always control the situation and keep patience.



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As much as there are beasts, wizards, draculas and vampire in men, there are women who are created or carved out for doom towards men.

Psychologically speaking, the character of humans are as a result of 3 issues:

1. Experience: you see people could be angels at certain points in their lives, but change when their weak spots or psychology have been tampered with. For instance, a lady could be an angel today, she loves to the core, gives her all, breaks her policies and all that all for love to prevail. In the end she’s either cheated on or disregarded like an animal. After a number of relationships or sometimes after one relationship, depending on her psychology, she could become the total opposite of herself. Now the next relationships, she could handle them like hell even if the guy(s) are angels. The same goes for men too, no one is left out. There are men who face abuse from women, but cannot come out to speak for fear of societal rejection or caricature.


2. Psychology: some persons have a horrible background, like a guy who grew up in a home where his father beats his mother, will grow up with such mentality to beat ladies up and down e.g Chris Brown, likewise a lady who grew up in a home where her mum is always being beaten up, will hate men. Check out a lady who was sexually abused at an early age, she’d hate men too with passion. Psychological growth and background can play a lot of role in someone’s lifestyle.


3. Hear say: this is common among youths; ladies and guys. For the guys, your peers will tell you ‘guy, no dey give am money, no dey call am steady,na you be the man no be she or guy you never fvck am, guy you dey dull oo, another manchi go dey nyash am steady’, for the ladies ‘babe don’t give him sex until he buys you a new car, babe don’t cook or wash for him, you’re his girlfriend not his wife or mother, babe he must get you your own apartment if he loves you,’ and all that. When you listen to your peers and they give you the wrong information about something, you’re doomed to fail. Couples seeking marital or relationship advises from singles, only end up ruining things the more.


What you find as a fault in a man, you find in a woman too.

Sex: yes men love sex, but you haven’t heard of nymphos have you?

Abuse: yes men batter women psychologically and physically, you need to see what some women do to their partners these days, the abuse level of men by women is skyrocketing everyday. Organizations are handling women abuse with the tag of ‘weaker vessel’, but men hardly speak and rather die in silence.

Request: Men can request sex or sometimes money or other stuff, can be unseeingly jealous, but do not even talk about women because there are some who make it a specialty.

I am in no way condemning or supporting any gender (as you can see my careful choice of words), I simply believe everyone has a role to play in all these. If you’re in a relationship and your partner abuses you in any form (both psychologically, emotionally and physically for guys and ladies) and you have tried making them see how you feel plus the level of hurt you deal with and they don’t change, walk the hell out. If it is in marriage, deal with it because you should have seen your partner’s flaws before wedding. If your partner didn’t buckle up while dating, they would not change when they are married, rather the hidden things in them suffice.



Like i earlier said, i'm in no way championing a gender over the other.

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