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You'll never find a caring bfwnd if you urself s not carin. ASAP

OrangeDream:
Can i tell you a honest brief story?. Twice in my life i have being too nice, supportive and caring to a fault to the only two women i truly loved. But twice have i being terribly disappointed by them.
Now, i hardly think of a relationship anymore. I just want to remain casual to the whole stuff. How do you explain a situation where a girl you had absolute trust on wakes up one morning to tell you that, she's pregnant when you know you never touched her nor suspected/got the tiniest clue from her eyes that she's into someone else?.
Anyway, no long story.

baba I feel ur pain to be honest with u Na their way be that

THEconqueror:

It's like you had an encounter with the fella

no i saw it in his former post

U can't give what you don't have.

It's very simple, lemme break it down for you, if every guy is faithful to one chic or wife den most gals ll be miserable cos u gas dey wait for vacancies. Omo no be small community service we dey render of. Make unable hail us small.

Cod it's as well hard to a caring, supportive and loving lady

The good guys have all been slain. Thanks to them slay queens

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

OP,do u wanna kill d guy,e shud carry all d 3 burden alone??!! he will be d only one to care,only one to love and only one to support. he is nt a computer nor God na.y r u then in a relationship wen u can't share the burden.
in my own case,I will take the loving part you will take the supportive part. then we share the last one which is caring equally.everyone goes home happy,

marisdgreat:

hmmm i dont hav anything wit him it was from his post that was y i asked him that question. next time read n comprehend before u take your phone n start typing, because china product has made it easy to hav access to an android phone

Thats how you shout at guys and later you go round with metal gong shouting to find loving caring, supporting extravagant husband boyfriend. Kwontinu, you will find it soon.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

I swear to God,I know my kind is rare.God purposely created me with special and additional ingredients.sometimes I just wonder Gods grace on me. m 95% perfect

marisdgreat:

i presented myself well besides i dont dress half naked n post it online.

Hmmmm.. ...guys are different sha.

marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

# Mmaku

adetayo234:

Hmmmm.. ...guys are different sha.

yes but just few

Rooneyboy:


# Mmaku

i am from mgbidi. we have a 3 day events coming u on dec. well if u r more interested i can add u up in awgu group chat. we want to make this event a successful one n it will be d first time it will take place in awgu

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

hi young lady.......i am very caring..just hit me up

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

How many good guys have you met in your life and you find that between your legs becomes very dry and your body is recoiling?

Answer.

So why your question na?

You find them but you are just not interested because the repulse you or you fill you can do better.

marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

....and here I am thinking girls are dumb and selfish.
Girls are self serving, uncaring and out of touch with reality.

My girlfriend won't call me a throughout a week unless she needs something. When I even try to send whatever she needs, she never bothers to inquire how I came about such miracle. She doesn't get it to her head that I am young, just out of school, and that I need to hustle for a better future for myself, my family members who saw me through school.
No she doesn't understand these things. Same as MOST girls in Nigeria.
On the issue of sex: not all guys are fuckboys, some of us don't mind keeping one partner and staying loyal.
But why must you make sex an issue of money or material things.
Nigerian girls are only concerned about slaying, taking selfies and generally having things easy esp from the malefolk.
I can go on and on listing all the faults with our millennial girls, but that's not to say guys are saints.

marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

Let's give it a try, a trial will convince you

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

Ermmmmmmm,
Buharism I guess

My dear there are caring guys out there....but they are rare

i am here

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

you are not looking.

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

just like there are good ladies out there, but really hard to find, same goes for guys..

I am a man so I know what I am saying, how to say and when to say it.

1. Most good guys are friend zoned to women they still have feelings for even if the women don't want them..sometimes it gets do bad that a woman will say, he's not my boyfriend, just my friend but no woman can have him..


2. The Casanovas today, have been good men who might have been broken hearted by a woman or women they loved. And with the broken heart, the aura disappeared. I have a friend I met while serving, he always bleeped anything in skirts. So one day, out of annoyance of his character, I asked him why he does this. Then he opened up to me about the heartbreak a lady he loved dearly, gave him towards their settling down.. I equally trained someone to school and we had plans of settling down, even her parents knew... but where's she now?

3. Meeting the wrong person can be killing honestly.

These are three basic reasons a man can look like he's got no heart

If you have met the wrong people more times than usual, then relax stay single and he'll come for you....

chibaby1990:
Guys are just too weird nowadays they are not always there for ladies.

That should be because, the caring ones are all in the place where they call "Friend zone", go check there

I think this should explain better

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marisdgreat:

is it the ones u will reply n they wil start sending u their nude pix n videos initiating sex chats all the time, cant keep a good conversation. take time to reply your msgs on whatsap, while they r online. i just need someone that will understand me, money is important but it shouldnt be a top most priority in a relationship. well i hav met diff types of guys from nairaland wit their weird attitudes n most of them r dating but lookin for a side chick

enjoy

marisdgreat:

i am not a slay queen, will it help me to achieve great things in life? will it attract those that will add positive things in my life? will it make me to a great woman like mrs ngozi iweala or late dora akunyili

I didn't say u are.

wat I meant was those guys are looking at u as someone else.

but it's all good

we have very stupid men in our mist.

they say silly things just to get laid.

u are just unlucky

marisdgreat:

well i am not d type that goes into a relationship cos of money heaven will bear me witness for that. i dont like puttin all my responsibilities on a guy, i try to solve most of my problems by myself n some help from my family. i prefer to be an assest to a man than to be a liability. i want to be a helpmate but not a downmate. that s d little abt me, we still have few girls that love a man for whom they r n not what they have

Really! If its true, then I'm sure you'll meet the right one pretty soon. Just hang in there and be positive!

Rozaytee:
My dear there are caring guys out there....but they are rare

They are not rare