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vuxelle:
Hello all,
I need to bring this to this section for better balanced contribution, I have also updated some earlier information due to better information

The husband of a lady is against his wife attending a 4-7 days school course from Germany to the Netherlands. Participants can leave on the 5th day if they want, participants will also get 800 euros as participating fee. The course starts in 2 months' time, madam already signed up without her husband’s knowledge, and just recently told her husband about the signing up (They have been discussing the issue of whether to go or not and the best options). Her husband is against this and told the woman to shift the course to next year because her husband can not travel to be with the children due to circumstances that can not be resolved now. The kids are between (7-12 years). Although the husband will be able to travel later in the year, however, madam will have none of it at all, because according to her, it means her graduation will also be shifted to the next academic session/next year, this, she will never ever accept. So no negotiation about it.

Although the discussion has been going on between both, about the best option, madam suddenly told the man she has resolved to go and nothing can stop her. The husband is in shock, it appears madam has been playing and acting along as if she was genuinely looking for other solutions. Moreover, the husband noted that madam is no longer willing to discuss the issue with the man, as the woman has become angry/rude/verbally abusive. ( the husband acknowledges that this behaviour is not new, as anytime issues like this come up, the woman always throws up this defence mechanism- gets angry, stops talking to the man or becomes abusive/ talks rudely to the man. )

Naturally, the husband is a cool guy though, madam is as stubborn as anything and always has her way on all issues. The man is genuinely afraid that the children might be exposed to abuse and other things, moreover, he feels the last child is too young to be left alone

According to the man, the woman is a good person, but very very stubborn. Everything has to be her way. To the extent that her family has near zero influence on her, so there is nothing he can do in that respect, hence he usually pays heavily for counseling

They are both doing their best for the family (both of them confirmed this in separate meetings with them).

What is your take on this, please?

A woman can not be good and very stubborn at the same time, bottom line is that she is not a good person, and always wanting things her own way makes her a terrible person.A man will not endure nonsense forever.

pleasureosondu:
With the increase in the number of divorce in Nigeria, it's clear that kids from separated homes will increase. For those born in the early 1990's, many witnessed their parents live together even when they were clearly incompatible. You learn by observing how they "managed" themselves but today, people divorce with flimsy excuses rather than to look for practical solutions to the problem.

If parents continue with this divorce trend, they are indirectly setting a new standard- that divorce is the easy way out of a marriage. So, how will their kids (when they become adults) know how to manage their families since they didn't learn the qualities that holds marriage due to the fact that their parents were separated? As a guy, will you be comfortable marrying a girl with such family background?

When the Lady is raised by her mom, then there is a big problem, because she continues to see her dad as the problem of the marriage even when she knows nothing about what lead to the separation, she sees her mom as the Saint and the mom will never admit what the real problem of her marriage is, she keeps blaming the lady's daddy, then the lady's mind has been pre-poisioned against men even long before she gets married and she starts taking it out on an innocent husband. Most of the times Ladies like that end up like their mothers, then it starts looking like a generational curse. And these types of ladies and their mothers pray alot, but really it is like a Doctor leaving Leprosy to treat Ringworm.
My advise to guys is be very cautious, pay attention to the lady's attitude and words about her parents, her mannerism, don't be swept away by spiritual gingoism.

naptu2:
Sesame Workshop @SesameWorkshop



https://twitter.com/SesameWorkshop/status/1599557469113843712

RIP Sir.
Your positive impact in my childhood cannot be overemphasized with the sesame street series. Thanks to all sesame street cast and crew.

IamDietiesGod:
House of Representatives has passed for second reading a bill to prohibit late payment of salaries, underpayment of wages, pension and other emoluments in Nigeria.

The bill sponsored by the Speaker, Femi Gbajabiamila was passed for second reading on Tuesday following the debate on the general principle of the bill..

The bill seeks to prohibit employees from owing salaries and other emoluments. The bill is prescribing punishment for such employers. For instance, owing salaries above 60days, such an employer risks 30 days imprisonment.

Section 2 of the bill provides that “Every employer of labour in Nigeria, whether private or public, and whether it is employing any worker on permanent or contract basis must ensure that all payment of wages, salaries, pension and all benefits to workers are paid promptly without delay weekly, fortnightly monthly, quarterly or yearly as may be agreed by parties in the contract of employment of the additional individuals”

In addition, the bill prohibits arbitrary and harsh deduction as punishment in the event of damages and negligence by an employee.

Section 3(1) says “an employer is prohibited from entering into any contract with any workman for any deduction from the sum contracted to be paid by the employer to the workman, or any payment to the employer by the workman for in respect of bad negligent work or injury to the material or property of the employer or in respect of any fine.”

The bill was referred to the committee of the whole as it was not debated.

https://dailypost.ng/2022/09/27/employers-risk-one-month-imprisonment-for-late-payment-of-salaries/

DOA

I am soliciting for Honest opinion on Hyundai Cars in Nigeria.
I had wanted to buy a Hyundai Elantra (2011 - 2014) model but I made some reviews that got me scared, I read a lot of complains about engine problems, engine tick/piston slap which could lead to engine knock.
Though a lot of reviews stated that the problem is common on very cold days leading to the car having a cold start.
There are other problems associated with this generation of Elantra but this is the most worrisome. However what amazes me is that I keep seeing more and more of these elantras daily in different Nigeria cities, so I wonder, is this Elantra known problems not affecting elantras used in Nigeria?
I am now considering Hyundai Accent (2011-2014) model, though I have not come across a worrisome review on Hyundai accent.
I would appreciate if people using these types of Hyundai (Elantra or Accent) could help me with honest opinion about these cars especially its use in Nigeria, how easy is it for the cars to develop problems, are there mechanics for these cars, are there readily available spare parts, maintenance cost,durability and so on.
Thanking you for your anticipated opinion.

Deltawarri:
I can only Marry a Man that can buy me Rolls Royce, Toyota men don't Toast me- Lady

“If you are driving a Toyota please don’t toast me, it’s a man that can buy me a Rolls Royce That I want to marry” - Nigerian lady reveals!

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=21R7bwZS310

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CetwP6WDaKK/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

CARRY ME DEY GO PRO MAX LOADING.................

StoriesUpdate:
Nollywood actress and Comedian, Prittican Yakubu on Sunday celebrates her birthday as she clocks 27.

The actress on Sunday June 5th celebrated her birthday amidst joy and charity as she embarked on a charity outreach in different locations in Asaba, Delta State.

Prittican believes that giving back to the less privileged in society is a way of serving God and she has decided to focus on children.

Known for her compassion for underprivileged children, the actress believes in setting time and resources aside to give back to society through her CSR and social impact activities.

On how she feels being able to celebrate her birthday, the Asaba based actress said “I am most grateful for life because it’s the biggest gift anyone can have.

The Kogi born also urged her fans to say a prayer for her.

See video here https://www.instagram.com/reel/CegU8yaAkoU/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Asaba Amaka. Ogbogologo market sighted. Welldone.

Pearl1212:
I'm confused.
I'm 23years of age, I have HND in statistics (Distinction), done with NYSC program, I want to further my studies but I'm really confused what to do,

1. I don't know whether to opt in for PGD or BSC(Through Direct Entry).

2. I don't know if I should switch course, from statistics to accounting via Direct Entry and I don't know if HND statistics will be accepted into accounting.
Please I seriously need your opinion and advise on it.

Going for a PGD or Bsc after your HND is not a bad idea, but what do you want to achieve with it?
Have you studied the opportunities of getting a job with your HND in the present labour market?
Have you assessed the opportunities of getting a job with PGD if there is any?
What is the Bsc going to offer you?
My advice to you is to do an evaluation of your HND qualification Vis a viz what it can offer you in the labour market.
Has technology taken over your Field? If so invest time in learning the new technological trends of your Field, upskill your self,be informed and I bet you,you will be able to make better decisions for your self.
Build a strong CV from practical learning not academic learning.
Consider professional exams in your field and you will in a very short time become an authority in your field.
As a statistician go and learn data science, you will be very relevant in many organisations.

Notyourtype:
I'm dropping three. If you can guess the movie name right and probably who said it, then you're a movie star!

* All my life i've been afraid [-], afraid of people knowing the truth about me, afraid of them rejecting me, even if they didn't, stil loosing them, i've been afraid of everything i can't control'

* Is either you are wonkru or you are an enemy of wonkru.

* Lannisters always pay their dept.

Drop yours, and someone will tell you the name.

Oh Jamessssssssss.

Mczigx:
Everyone wants to get their dream job, but sometimes it can be hard to get even a foot in the door. The first step to getting a great job is having a great resume.

If you're applying for jobs and no one is responding, you might have made some common mistakes on your resume. Here are four things you should never include on your resume, and also some tips for writing a great one.

1.Your personal information like date of birth, age, marital status, sex, etc. The reason why most persons include some of these on their resumes is because they see other persons doing it. They've never stopped to ask themselves 'how does including this information on my resume make me a better candidate for the job or internship' ��

2. Unrelated work experiences and skills: Know what skills are related to the job you want and what isn't important. If it's not relevant, leave it off! If I'm applying for the role of a front desk officer, my previous experience working as a video creator or graphic designer shouldn't be stated on my resume as these two don't relate.

3.Photograph: While a photograph can be helpful if you're applying for a job where your appearance is important (like modeling or acting), most employers will be more interested in your skills than how you look. For some countries especially in Europe, this is accepted but in other countries, it's a no no.

4.Reference: This section should also be taken off from your CV as it's of no importance. Instead of including the contact and address of your referees, just write 'to be provided on request'.

If you're careful about including only the right things on your resume and leaving out everything else, your chances of being called for an interview would improve greatly.

#careeradvice #job

I am a recruiter and I can tell you for free that one of the first CVs we shove aside are the CVs with no Date of Birth. Your employer is very interested in it.
Your Gender is also required, marital status may not be as much important but adding it is not a bad idea.
Photography-You are right
Unrelated skills-You are right
Reference-pls some recruiters find it offensive seeing that narration " to be provided on request"
Bottom line is understand the Nigeria Labour market Vis a Viz recruitment, remember you CV finally gets into the hands of your potential employer who will not start calling for missing details.
I have been seeing this new styles of CV and I think it is not really for the Nigerian Environment.
Nigerian Employers want to know you before meeting you.

BadNews:
Update From . COM

A TVC correspondent in Maiduguri, Jesse Tafida, has lost his wife, Mercy IIiya, twelve days after their wedding, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , The couple got married on Saturday, April 30th in Maiduguri, Borno State.

Meanwhile, Devastated Friends, Family Members and Colleagues of the journalist have taken to social media to mourn the new bride, As Sighted By Below:

"What a life... Mercy Amarya ..so you are gone after 12 days of celebrating your wedding ...I have been asking 1000 questions but I can't find any answer to it. Jesse babana God comfort you and give you the heart to bear this unbearable lost. Am still at shocked!!!! May your soul rest in peace Mercy. Our Amarya is gone," Amos Jesse wrote.

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG

May her soul rest in peace. However I must say that the kind of stress intending couple subject themselves to,just to make the wedding day a glamorous day can kill anyone. Please let us take it easy. There is life after wedding day.

Bamss1:
jeeeeezuz christ!!!
it wld av been better u kept kwayet ooo

You are truly bereft of knowledge and information.
In your mind you know simple economics. Macro economics goes beyond your reasoning anyway.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Thanks
Is there security?
How's the situation?
I will really Love to.. I'm adventurous.
Even Jigawa & Adamawa have got those naturally beautiful & edifying topography.
NIGERIA is blessed naturally!

Kano State does not have much security challenge,except for how you intend to come into Kano and from where, if you can, it is better you fly in.
The major security issue in Kano at moment is phone snatchers. So be very careful when you are in kano.Security tips_ don't use your phone on the street in the open. Screen and select the keke you might want to hop in.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Just to elevate your mood & prepare you for this week's endeavors. I know we have really had it bad this weekend evidenced by the GORY images displayed on this platform.
Starting with the ENTRY POINT!

1st pix....MAIN GATE.
2nd & 3rd......Great SeaL Aquarium.

Visit Kano Zoo the natural Land Scape and serenity with the animals in the Game reserved kind of zoo will amaze you.

Bamss1:
jeeeeezuz christ!!!
it wld av been better u kept kwayet ooo

Someone like is no doubt bereft of knowledge and information but jumps into criticising people without reasoning.
Anyway, you are as good all the failed Nigeria economic policies.

Enice:
the literacy level on nairaland is becoming too low for my liking. Illiterates everywhere. What will the zero import duty on machinery do to an economy? Boost the industries which will in turn create emploment and economy of the area. What would an increase in import duty do to an economy? Increase revenue, encourage local production and inturn employment. Okay!

Hmmm Mr literate how market, with all your ignorant economic analysis that you don't even know how to marry indices yet you call people illiterate.So how is your economy now?

Good One

Of what use is the slash of import duty when exchange rate is still very high

Gunshots again at ungwa uku chemist naibawa area of kano.GOD SAVE US

Your excellency there is alot of work to do at home than chairing d AU

Has anyone noticed d unsaid intent of d boko- it is a smaller nation trying to takeover nigeria through d northern nig

Acting IG ur policellency sir,ur boys have started collecting checkpoint fees in kano,ranging from N20 to N200.

Thank u MR PRESIDENT for ur condolence but gunshots still heard dis nite at ungwa uku naibawa close to d razed police station.