EmekaBlue:
The fulani man dey para o

Nigeria wahala too much...that was not necessary attacking the young girls they are also victims.

But If na igbo man do this thing now u will see afonjaz twisting and insulting saying ipob this and that

Infact e good everybody dey see d nonsense administration in za kwantri

Shame!

Insomnear:
Why are they targeting the wrong president

appishani1:
You guys will just sit in your south and be talking trash.
Is it not this guy that many girls say he rape them.
Am a Christian and am in the north.
Come to zamfara and Katsina or borno and yobe and see.
Every day soldiers and police are battling this bandits, I swear every blessing day.
Is either they kill security personnel or bandits everyday.
Do you know that in bama alone, a mere local government in borno state has more than 1000 soldiers?
When ever you want to talk get the facts first.

Acidosis:


Bro, you deserve to be worried, pained and confused. Don't allow any hypocrite make you feel like you're imhumane.

Whether it happened 1000 years ago, it doesn't matter. If these folks found out that their ex slept with a dog some 50 years ago, they would still find a way to show their dissatisfaction to the said ex.

If I were in your shoes, I would be devastated as well.. It doesn't matter whether she confessed or I discovered myself.. the knowledge of what happened is all it takes to get one pained, so don't feel stu p!d or heartless.

Now to the real issue, I think you're worried that the said relationship with her cousin might continue even after a proper wedding with you. Whether you like it or not, you would henceforth feel insecure to have that cousin close and alone with your woman. Nobody welcomes such, except of course, the online "e-doesn't matter" e-pocrites.

The big question is: do you love your woman? Yes, right? Love is one aspect, do you trust your woman? Note, anybody can love, but trust is expensive. You have to be sure you trust her 100%.

Having said that, it's time to get your mind off the relationship with her cousin. It would be difficult but you have to try.

If you discover however at any point that moving on would be difficult, gently back out! This is marriage, not a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. You will continue to meet her cousin, he will attend your wedding and probably offer you a handshake... Can you bear it?

Other days, he will stop by at your house when you're not around to say hi. Yes, it is true you now trust your wife, but do you trust the guy enough to share the same remorse with your wife? Has he repented and moved on?

My respect goes to your woman though. That's one hell of a secret 99.9% of her fellow will take to the grave. She has done her part... Now can you do yours? If your answer is yes, go ahead and marry her.

Truelies2017:
I don't think some men understands that no matter how angry you are there is power in the tongue and their are some you should never alter or declare on your patner. Correct me if am wrong.

Now this was what happened and I felt i didn't warrant being called that name.

I found out about a cheap land out for sale in lekki. Called hubby to inform him that we should go check it out and might just become land owners. So I think he also discussed it with his mum cause she also planned to buy land for her kids as gift..

So mother in law called me this morning and said she would like to go with us whenever we intend checking the land. I wanted to pour my heart out to my hubby immediately after the conversation but I thought it wasn't the right time.

So later that evening he raised an issue about us going to the land. Then I said i I won't be going since mother in law would be going. I think that got him angry. I tried explaining to him why I won't be going.

To cut the long story short. He started calling me all sort of names. The next word i heard was VAGABOND!!!! In my heart I thought too much. I cried bitterly. It would have hurt if it was just anyone but not the man you are married to who should be the one blessing you. I feel sometimes some men take their power for granted and don't even know the words to refrain from. He repeated this word almost 3times, then it dawned on me he didn't even see anything wrong. So many times he has used other hurtful words and while am trying to make him take back the words or even return the words back to sender am termed as a disrespectful wife. So I thought I seek others opinion.

Are our husbands allowed to use any word on us just because they can and if not this is the medium to let those who doesn't know.

donsteady:
This news is fake as Buhari, if there's no any empirical evidence to back it up.

salam1:
r u saying d beroms don't kill d Fulani's? plssss stop being bias u only report wen Fulani's retaliat but refuse to say anything wen d berom attack d fulanis

salam1:
r u saying d beroms don't kill d Fulani's? plssss stop being bias u only report wen Fulani's retaliat but refuse to say anything wen d berom attack d fulanis

vincent09: Boko-Haram member have just been arrested @ the ministerial platform going on Live on NTA with 3 grenades and 14 live ammunition.

The PRO of SSS said its nt grenades & ammunition bt tear gas. Pls we should be sure of what we repot before we instigate something else. Heard her live phone conversation on AIT.
http://www.channelstv.com/home/2012/05/21/man-caught-with-suspected-explosive-device-at-ministerial-briefing-in-abuja/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter