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TayehJiboluwa:
In the first case, you need to be really careful so you will not misplace or lose something valuable or important. Now, the child represent your destiny which will bring a glory such that you may become mighty like Joshua or Jacob, but you need to be patient (hold on to the child) and serve. The glory will come through service and ministry. It is justlike the story of Saul, how he went in search of a donkey that was lost, met a prophet and was anointed a king. But I assure you, you will not like to lose something just so you can meet the prophet of your destiny, or maybe it's already happened. May the Lord lead and guide you.

Thanks for the reply, but I don't understand what you mean by "service", but I guess I'll see in the long run.

In my dream today 11-11-2021, I was sent to buy something and I was given 1k, I was also holding my phone. A little boy came to prank me, so my 1k fell off and was stolen. While I was looking for the boy, I entered a place looking for the kid and saw a baby on a bench, such chubby and fine baby boy, I carried him and was playing with him, I wanted to keep him back on the bench but my mum told me to hold unto him, that he has enough iron (mineral) in his body and if I hold unto him, I'll get some for myself (I saw that his skin was fresh while mine wasn't). Someone told me his name is Jacob and Joshua. It was also like he's my son.

Hi good evening,
Am a stutterer, so it has hindered me from doing or achieving a lot. One day, I had a disagreement with my bro. I was in the right, but because I couldn't speak well to make my case, judgment was given against me by my father. That night I cried to God bitterly so in my dream I heard a voice tell me that he'll remove my stuttering, and that I'll see a sign which will convince me that he'll do it. I would have regarded this dream to be as a result of thinking too much about my stuttering, but 2 things stood out to me.
1: While the voice was speaking, I felt a sensation move 3 times in my neck.
2: The sign it gave been was that the gap in our dept will be filled. (Let me explain: While my set was in year one, we lost accreditation so new students were not admitted when we entered year two, there was no year one. Then when we entered year three, year one was filled but no year 2 (the gap remained). I thought it will never be filled but when we were in the middle of year 3, year 2 was suddenly filled long after I had this dream, I had the dream first semester year two).

I pray you understand what I'm saying

thanks

Kobojunkie:
1. God never said He will punish us for complaining to Him about the heaviness of the burden we bare.


Says who, he said he doesnt like people who murmur

2. By any chance, do you suffer from clinical depression or any mental illness?

Yep

3. Any known neurological complications or illness?

Nope

4. When you say you are a high sensitivity personality, what do you mean you feel pain more than the average person?

Yep

Kobojunkie:
Here is a summary of sorts of some of the New Covenant teachings and commandments given by Jesus Christ where Prayer is concerned - please be sure to carefully read through all the passages to understand what Jesus Christ is telling you in each case and try to obey them all when next you go to pray to God..see if He does not answer you then.

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* Ask, Seek and Knock, in order to receive, find and have the door opened to you
Matthew 7 vs 7
* Pray continously. I.e. don't stop asking, seeking, knocking until you have recieved, found and had the door opened to you
Matthew 21 vs 22 & Luke 18 vs 1- 8
* Avoid vain repetitions because God knows what you want even before you ask Him
Matthew 6 vs 7 - 8
* Always pray in secret and in hiding
Matthew 6 vs 6
* Pray the Lord's prayer-
Matthew 6 vs 9- 13
* Forgive everyone who has hurt or offended you before you pray so your father in Heaven will forgive you your sins-
Matthew 11 vs 25 & Matthew 6 vs 12
* Always approach God in Humility-
Luke 18 vs 9 - 4
* Believe that you have received what you ask for and it shall be done for you
Matthew 21 vs 22 & Mark 11 vs 24
* Ask the Father in the name of Jesus Christ
John 15 vs 16
* If you abide in Him and He, Jesus, abides in you, then He, Jesus Christ , will do whatever you ask in His name
John 14 vs 13-14 & john 15 vs 7
* Pray for your enemies -
Matthew 5 vs 44 & Luke 6 vs 27- 28
* Ask God for the Holy Spirit -
Luke 11 vs 13 & Matthew 7 vs 11

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As Jesus Christ said, those who love Him are, not those who go around mouthing off that they do, but instead take who submit to and obey His teachings- John 14 vs 23 - 26.

Akuko

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God may want us to succeed but sometimes there are things that at a given moment is more important than success.
What do you call someone who knows that God exists but has lost faith in him?
I have lost faith in God, does he even answer prayers anymore, or maybe its just mine that he's not answering.
I don't want to sound ungrateful oo but it was God who asked us to ask for anything and he will gives it to us, he even said that up till now we've not asked for anything, yet when I pray, he doesn't answer.
I think some people are born cursed, me for example, the bible said that God won't let any temptation bigger than is to come to us, but maybe I'm an exception, let me explain: in my family, we have certain illnesses like arthritis, toothache, stammering, and some I can't write, my siblings have one or two out of them bit I have all of them yet someone is here telling me that God loves me, which God exactly are you talking about. Also, I have 5 sisters, we all experience menstrual pains, but when theirs start, you hardly notice bit mine basically shuts down my life for almost a week, EVERY MONTH; yet someone is here telling me about the love of God. Also, there is a condition called High Sensitive Personality, pple with it tend to feel pains more than the average person, I have this condition, one would think that God would protect me from things that will cause me pains but no, I always have to be in pains, go thru painful procedures in the hospital, yet you tell me about the love of God. I don't want to sound ungrateful oo after all he gave me life but why give me life filled with pains, it won't take away God's power or any other thing to make me pain-free but no, I just have to go thru it. Whenever I'm in pains, my mom tells me to pray as God alone can save me, I pray oo but lie lie, that pain will never stop until it runs its total course, am heartbroken right now because I'll be going to hospital on Monday for another pain filled procedure yet someone said God loves me. He never answers prayers, he never helps me so how exactly does he show love to us.
I also have other medical issues that I can treat but (1) there's money (2) the hospital for treating them are in Lagos bit am far away from Lagos so even if I borrow money, I can't still get treatment, why give me a sickness I can't manage, why make me suffer, I think God likes it when I suffer.
Moral lesson of this rant, dont tell me about God's love, he doesn't love me, I think he loves only some people.

P.S.: Out of 7 children my parents have, am the darkest and ugliest of them all, help me ask God why, it wouldn't have removed anything from him to make me more pretty, but no, he just had to make me ugly.

What do you call someone who knows that God exists but has lost faith in him?
I have lost faith in God, does he even answer prayers anymore, or maybe its just mine that he's not answering.
I don't want to sound ungrateful oo but it was God who asked us to ask for anything and he will gives it to us, he even said that up till now we've not asked for anything, yet when I pray, he doesn't answer.
I think some people are born cursed, me for example, the bible said that God won't let any temptation bigger than is to come to us, but maybe I'm an exception, let me explain: in my family, we have certain illnesses like arthritis, toothache, stammering, and some I can't write, my siblings have one or two out of them bit I have all of them yet someone is here telling me that God loves me, which God exactly are you talking about. Also, I have 5 sisters, we all experience menstrual pains, but when theirs start, you hardly notice bit mine basically shuts down my life for almost a week, EVERY MONTH; yet someone is here telling me about the love of God. Also, there is a condition called High Sensitive Personality, pple with it tend to feel pains more than the average person, I have this condition, one would think that God would protect me from things that will cause me pains but no, I always have to be in pains, go thru painful procedures in the hospital, yet you tell me about the love of God. I don't want to sound ungrateful oo after all he gave me life but why give me life filled with pains, it won't take away God's power or any other thing to make me pain-free but no, I just have to go thru it. Whenever I'm in pains, my mom tells me to pray as God alone can save me, I pray oo but lie lie, that pain will never stop until it runs its total course, am heartbroken right now because I'll be going to hospital on Monday for another pain filled procedure yet someone said God loves me. He never answers prayers, he never helps me so how exactly does he show love to us.
I also have other medical issues that I can treat but (1) there's money (2) the hospital for treating them are in Lagos bit am far away from Lagos so even if I borrow money, I can't still get treatment, why give me a sickness I can't manage, why make me suffer, I think God likes it when I suffer.
Moral lesson of this rant, dont tell me about God's love, he doesn't love me, I think he loves only some people.

P.S.: Out of 7 children my parents have, am the darkest and ugliest of them all, help me ask God why, it wouldn't have removed anything from him to make me more pretty, but no, he just had to make me ugly.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

See a therapist, you can find them in psychiatric hospitals, don't overthink it, just go there.

Facts111 I'm like that but am getting better, I think you have social anxiety disorder. It is a mental sickness that prevents a person from having any social life (I have it too). If you know any psychiatric hospital in your area or locality, go there, speak to them and speak to a therapist, you be fine, but na your money oo. (Browse more about SAD)

In my dream today, we took an exam and I did so well in the exam, then my friend in the dream was very angry and she sent me a text saying that why should I read and pass (this is because they did not pass)

Good Morning Sir,
Sometime ago, I had a dream where I was to go abroad and because my elder sis knew the pilot, I was given a first class seat. It felt sooo real and lovely, so I went home to bring my clothes; I and my sisters. I found my new clothes (they were quite few as I bought them to add to the ones I already had) but I was looking for my old ones. My sisters got ready went outside And was waiting for me, I didnt find it till I woke up.

TayehJiboluwa:
Getting first class in dreams doesn't translate to getting first class physically, it only means excellence or the spirit of excellence is upon you. Tell God what you want, and not first class. I know some things is more important or more preferred than first class to you. God understands, make him reason with you.

Thank you so much, you won't understand how much relief this answer has given me.

But pls what is spirit of excellence

Sir, good morning,
My mum once had a dream where I got first class, I've also had such dream. But sir, I really do not want to get first class, I know that it sounds like am whining and ungrateful but I really don't want it, I've been praying to God that I don't want it but I feel like no matter what I'll still have it. Pls help me, what will I do for God to answer me.

In my dream today, I was in a place like a church so we were asked one question (like if you love your neighbor stand up, but this was not what was asked) by a man so everyone stood up, later the said if you know you are tired or something, sit down, everyone sat down except 4 persons including me, the man was impressed and asked 4 of us to bring a stick of broom so that he can pray for us, we went outside but I cud only see thin sticks not broom, 2 persons took the thin stick to give the man as broom. Not finding any stick, I decided to also give the man a thin stick but as I turned to go in, I saw the last person holding a bunch of broom, so I took one with her permission and gave it to the man, so he asked us to go and sit down.

Later, I saw some written that am in the final stage of suffering for my sins and that God will soon remember me.

CreepyBlackpool:
When will you celebrate your child's birthday





or wait, you don't have any

stupid goat, they have a child now, a boy named zaiah

TayehJiboluwa:
They are praising and acknowledging your astuteness and commitment and your business skills. Keep it up. Maybe you'd trade with foreigners someday.

I once had a dream about selling a red and white stove to chinese people and the above was the explantation you gave me saying I may trade with foreigners someday, I disregarded it cos am in Nigeria not in any foreign country.
Something made me remember the above dream so I was asking God if I'll really trade with foreigners, the same night on the 28-4-2020, I dreamt where I was going to Alaba Owerri to buy 2PCs of 4corner stoves, I took a big carton with which to carry it, and seeing it was torn/open underneath it, I took cello tape with which to repair it. One my way there I confirmed that actually I was going to trade with foreigners.

Then it was as if I was going to give someone 2 cartons of #50 noodles to cook for me, the noodles has dried vegetables and carrot like tummy tummy noodles does. It was as if the vegetables and carrot in the noodles is always unfresh but the man called me and told me that the vegetables in my noodles are the freshest he's ever seen. I became happy and asked him how much is his charge for cooking it, he said #350 (it was extremely cheap). He later called back and asked me how much I want to pay so he'll reduce the price for me, so I told him to wait first lemme come, so I took #400 to go and pay him 350 and I woke up.

In reality, my sisters even the younger ones were always insulting me, they talk to me anyhow because am not very strong willed. In my dream, my younger sisters kept on insulting me and then suddenly they were to get married and they didnt have any bridesmaids at all. So my mum asked me to be their bridesmaid, they were happy that I agreed to be their bridesmaid but since am the only one, they were not happy, so their husbands brought 5 bottles of drink and gave my mum telling her to ensure that more bride maids are brought, so my mum started pleading with me to bring more people as bridesmaids, I was able to convince 4 of my coursemates to come and become bridesmaids. At the end of the dream, I was reminding my sister that so after insulting me she still needed my help, and I woke up.

in my dream, I asked God for a 3year old female child and he gave me exactly what I asked for.
in another scene, I was showing my sister where I write my dreams, especially the good ones and she was amazed at how much good dreams I have.

TayehJiboluwa:
I didn't expect you would post this kind of dream here or publicly. You know how tribalism pervades nairaland and how tribal comments and sentiments has been the order of the day. This type of dream is too sensitive to be posted here. You should have sent it in a mail. The whole dream scenario is a lie from the pit of hell. If you tell this to an Igbo pastor, do you think he will wait on the Lord before he tells you what the dream means? If I interpret it the other way round, will not be like I'm supporting/defending my own tribesmen and luring you into your own death? You may have to figure out what the dream means yourself, I cannot interpret it

First, my friend sent me this dream to post here, am not even dating any girl at the moment. Recall that I said she loved the guy so obviously he a good guy according to her.
Sec9ndly, She actually told me abt the dream because she felt like God is telling her that the guy is not his will for her.
Lastly, she didnt give herself the dream so u need to stop seeing it as though she has something against your tribe.

Long post alert


There's this guy I am seeing, he's yoruba and am Igbo. I like him so much that all am waiting for is for him to propose and I'll definitely accept.

Last 2 nights, I had a dream where I was married to this guy and we had a son, and even in that dream I truly loved him, my aunt started calling me so as I tried to pick up he wanted to take my phone away, I told him wait but I wasn't hearing what she was saying. So she texted me and the text read "Life in Danger". So I grabbed him and told him see what my aunt sent so let's run. Towards the door he stopped and started smiling in an evil and sinister way, so it dawned on me that he was the one trying to kill me. I was surprised and I shouted "So its been you all along" and he took my phone, threw it away and started trying to kill me saying how much he regrets marrying me, how much he loathes me, hates me, detests me, calling me a slave and wishing he got married to a Yoruba girl instead. Some how the police arrived and arrested him and I woke up.

Am so sad because I love this guy so much and I know that if I marry him my life will be in danger after all spouses kill spouses.
I am so heartbroken cos I know I have to break up with him.

TayehJiboluwa:
A devout Christian would have inquired from the Lord the best place or city to move or relocate to so he can lead them. The Lord knows Texas is where he will end up, Texas is calling him, Texas is where his destiny is.

Thanks, I'll tell him.

My friend in the US wants to move from California to another state due to high cost of living, he's been in 9ja since due to the lockdown but as travel ban is to be lifted he wants to go back. He was thinking of moving to New York but he told me that lately he has been seeing cars or signboards or shirts and the like on which "Texas" is written. So he feels like the universe is trying to tell him something, you know like he should move to Texas instead.

So do you think that God can tell us something through making us see it everywhere

KENVEE6:
I've had more than ten dreams in which I saw children, I told my mum and she said that it cud mean that I wud have delayed childbirth, that pple who usually see this kind of dream have delayed childbirth but that when they remember these dreams they know that they'll surely give birth no matter how long they wait, it helps them to have faith.

how true is this pls?

TayehJiboluwa:
If I may ask, what made you feel you will have delayed pregnancy when you marry?

It's only in your mind you would have delayed pregnancy, there wont be anything like that. The dream shows there wont be any at all. In fact, you wont have issues, it will come swiftly.

Change your mind and your thinking.



KENVEE6 post=83815686]I've had more than ten dreams in which I saw children, I told my mum and she said that it cud mean that I wud have delayed childbirth, that pple who usually see this kind of dream have delayed childbirth but that when they remember these dreams they know that they'll surely give birth no matter how long they wait, it helps them to have faith.

how true is this pls?

In answer to your question, check the first quote out.

I had a dream where we were watching a movie in our palour suddenly it was then as if I was pregnant and was in labour, so I started rushing into the kitchen where I will deliver my baby. My Dad was the person to deliver my baby, it was as if he has already delivered my younger sister's baby in the morn of that day now he was to deliver mine that evening; as we were preparing for the delivery, I woke up.

am not married, but I saw this dream after I felt I'll have a delayed pregnancy when I marry.

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TayehJiboluwa:
NO

Those spirits just floods your mind/heart with the thoughts/feelings/emotions/images/imagination/urge/instincts/behaviours of those animals/acts. They kind of control/manipulate your mind to feel and do what the spirit wants.

This is known as the mystery of iniquity and "...only he who now letteth will let, until he be taken out of the way." (2 Thessalonians 2:7)

If you let those feelings, urge and emotions and thoughts take you down, you're on your own and it becomes a sin...

Sometimes its difficult to withstand them sha. Thanks for the interpretation

pls when you see yourself as an animal in the dream, will you start acting like the animal in reality? eg:

pig- dirtiness
dog- fornication/adultery,etc

KENVEE6:
I had a dream where i was given a scholarship to study abroad by my church, then i started preparing to go, i entered our toilet and saw faeces on it.
pls explain, thanks.

After you explained the above dream, I had this one last night.
"In reality, I know a certain car given to someone as an award.
On 8th of August, I had a dream where the car was given to me and someone was taking me around in the car while I flash my award certificate around to people."

TayehJiboluwa:
Your dreams should not limit you except you allow it to. Some dreams are just warnings or revelations, they are not sacrosanct. Most dreams that portray failure, limitations and calamities are not from God, God only allow you to see them so that you can pray and/or act. The dream about your CGPA is not of God nor from God, you need to cancel it. It is limitation placed on you by the enemy. Sometimes when God shows you dreams of failure, it doesn't mean you will fail or you must fail, He is only showing you what the enemy is trying to do, what they have planned for you, so you can pray.

Thank you very much, you don't know what you've done for me. From now on I'll try to up my reading.