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When it comes to choice of whom to marry there are 2 specific things involve. Ur choice and Gods choice and 4 me i prefer Gods choice. Lets look at it this way in ur mothers womb u did nt choose ur face, ur parent ur siblings, ur nationality, ur skin and so manythings God did i think he knows wats best 4 u dearie. However God respect ur choice if u decide to go ur way he wil guide u to d right person but if you totally surrender and let go and let God if u c Gods choice 4 u, u will run and abandon ur own. Note 1st available does nt necesarily mean best available. I hav had experience counselling ladies on issues partaining to there choice of a life partner. A very good example i wil like to use is in the case of my choir sister i wil call Dora. At 19 she was already an ND holder working in a reputable firm in Abuja. 1day she told me she was getting married @ 19 i was kind of suprise i knew ths babe did nt knw wt she is going in2. I strongly advice that she should nt go in. My words fell on deaf ears as the guy asking her hand in marriage was rich and very well 2 do he own some outlets and a fuel station... Woh dats money she the babe knew she would be stopd went ahead got pregnant 4 d guy the guy her heart fell for and a sharp sharp marriage was arranged. While al this happened i was in school. I got home my frnd told me do you knw that Dora is now a widow @ 19, that she got married to guy who later died in a ghastly auto crash while she was carrying his son in the womb. I garnered more info that the guy was not a christian but just came 2 church to get Dora. Now God has to use death to seperate them becos her choice of husband did not line up with Gods choice 4 her life. I was there when my pastor her pastor ask her to go into that marriage. Singles marriage is such a huge decision u can not make 4 urself alone u need Baba God. Some times it looks as if when we wait on God we think he we give wt we do not like so we take the lead ourselves. Let God take the wheel then he will lead u into his will. Its ur choice to let him in or shut him out.

NLander pls help if any one has experience this. I have been trying to download 2go chat set up with my Nokia c1 but i keep geting this message anytime i try to open the file something like subscribe 2 packet data link not available. I hv sent 2go a querry but they have nt replyd me

Really i try 2 figure this out. I met this girl in my undergraduate years back in 2007, then we were in 100 level so i met her in lecture theatre that 9t as we got talking we came to realise that both of us have the same name i mean paul n paula. I was sincerely attracted 2 her and things went on smoothly 4 us as frnds i never thought of relationship in my mind back then. I knw she went 2ru a challenging period in school she has to drop out 4 a year while i continued my skool. I wz truly there 4 her with encouragement n prayers. She eventually came back 2 continue schooling an we saw often n tlk. Be 4 i left sch in 2011 i told her i liked her and that 9t she said nothing an we kept on discusing fine on fone even though she was on IT. We saw in Dec whn skool resume and tlk normal but she will not allow me to knw her house at all. In jan 2012 i pause our communication and honestly ask her wat about my proposal in october last year..,she said i should move on an dat she just came out of a rlationship 4months a go, that me i do not have the quality of the guy she will like to date and if God wants us 2 be 2geda we will be. She said she does not want 2 disappoint me, that there is a guy she likes. I was down i know she did nt brk my heart but i love hear dearly do i still have a love chance with this girl. I have been the one calling always, u know no reciprocation 4rm Jan 2, 2012 should i move or persist. I think of her, her good qualities. we seriously communicate and talk at lenght but i seem not to figure out wats on. NL Wat do i do. Ur advice pls NOT insult