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Abeg make this people comot which GDP and they plan to increase fuel. We were better of with GEJ honestly that's was when Nigeria had real GDP growth been the fastest growing economy in Africa. GEJ we are sorry. Nigerians next time if something happen once elders talk to una make una listen. We are thinking how to come out of this mess not GDP growth.

Chai nawa ooooo. The heart of man is desperately wicked. But we cant conclude yet on what transpired between the duo. We wey dey naija dey pray for better wife the once wey dey Abroad dey pray make devil no enter their wives. In all may we not marry devils.
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Hmmm, tears roll down my eyes as I read through this story. I have been in your shoes, but my saving grace was God delivered me before we tied the knot, if not it would have been a a marriage of disaster. We were already in premarital counseling before everything was exposed. I am grateful to God, the girl who told me no sex before marriage was busy knacking people up and down, girl I spent money on, sent school fees to, helped her family the girl changed towards me when I lost everything, she became disrespectful and insulting towards me, her family changed towards me too. She was calling guyz in my presence, picking suspicious phone calls in my presence her mum was even aware and she never caution her daughter. Some family are just evil may you not meet such. My BP was going up at 32 chai na wa oooo, I saw hell was wrecked financially and all the girl could say was because of the money I spent on her I don't want to let her go when I was trying to fight for the relationship. But my pastor told it's not worth it I should let her go. I have to let her go, the family I was there for in rain in storm showed me their true colour that money is there god. I have heard my own share of experience of failed and bad relationship. I believe I am not married yet because God is protecting me from some set of persons that don't fit my life. In all I never had sex with her at all I am glad I did not, it was money I lost not my life this happened in 2017. I later discovered that the mum was a runs woman following men from one place to another to survive. I choose not to mention the tribe but it's well I let go n let God.
My brother shits happens in life I was brought down to ground zero from that experience before her I was with my University gf for 7yrs she woke and said mother Mary told her she should not marry outside catholic that was how that one ended wasted 7yrs of my time with her, went to this one wasted another 2+yrs with her making 9,yrs had another relationship LDR and that one was destroyed because of money and greed to the point of her collecting money from my close friend I was not aware until God exposed her. 2yrs relationship all making 11yrs I wasted. My Joy has been knowing God and been with him even though most times I didn't listen to the voice of warning I had to pay for it.
In the midst of everything I had to pick the piece of my life and even went back to teaching in a school registered a company and started from somewhere, now I work n run my business as side Hussle soon I will face it squarely. My brother allow God to help u, I saw hell in the hand of the Esian Girl chai. The heart of man is desperately wicked. I am not in any relationship for now just facing my work and business. Love is truly scarce in Nigeria except God leads a man, I never see wife. I still dey pray for my wife.
God help u bro, just plan to move for m her, pray to God and he will lead you on how to Go.
For singles please becareful who you choose as a wife or husband. Love is beyond words it's beyond money it takes God to find your own spouse it's better late in marriage than death in marriage.
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What are you talking about ... come to Abuja, even suburbs are expensive oooooooo. Abuja na house they finish person money 2bedroom good one is 650k-750k and our ladies want to marry into that kind of a house and their guyz salary is 60k. How will dey cope. I think the government should structure a good housing scheme for it citizens that is quite affordable.
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moderator, please push this topic to the front page let the world know who this man is, i believe many people have suffered in his hands, lets also take this matter to Human right radio. Men guyz have suffered in the hands of this man, carry ur laptop and go. Moderator abeg na God we take beg you, push, move this matter to front page.

My brothers working in Fesadeb was draining, I could not get myself was battling with lots of things dt period only for this man to dash my hopes. I had no money for d 2 weeks I spent I borrowed d money when I left I had to start thinking of payment. Thanks to my elder sister who came to my rescue. I kuku ma delete the man number from my phone. How will you not value people and treat them with threat... Slogan carry your laptop and go. In people will be doing erand boi for him mature people. Abeg nobody should play d role of God in your life. Me I have forgiven him but I know the law of life will catch up with him it's just a matter of time,back them in 2016 I just looked at him and shook my head. I knew I understood life more than the old man. Here today the seed he has sown over the years is germinating and the good news is na bad seed. Most of them lawyers think they are above the law and can unjustly rope you or level up allocations on people. Festus the monster you create is waking up, there is always a breaking point, the monster will consume you if you don't change your ways.

Mrs Festus Adebayo or Barr. Festus is evil, wicked i walked with this man for just 2 weeks in20016 and he never paid me and he gave me jobs to do he kept on complaining about incompetence, very rude, so insulting because he feels he is highly connected to the cream dela cream any how dem dey call am. It was my late Mum 1 year anniversary and my sisters wedding i came to work and told him sir please this is what is happening i will like to leave the office by 4pm against 6pm closing hour. This man said ok, could you believe when it was time this man did not allow me to go that Friday for my own sisters traditional marriage, when i got to our family house the marriage had already finished and my uncles looked at me with disdain in their eyes. Such a heartless man, his wife FLora is even his second wife, i believe Igbo woman married him for Money, he insults the woman even in our presence i was like what is this kind of beautiful lady doing with this kind of man, (women and MONEY sha) i was the one who developed their housing award website, so over the weekend i was a bit sick i could not work on a header section to put in the header tag adjustment, he came on Monday morning after meeting he said i should carry my laptop and go, my colleague started begging him for me to stay back. I said me not me ooo free the old man, i quickly wrote my resignation letter and gave him and his so call wife. They are in Rock of Ages Jabi. If we have this kind of souls in government they will do worse. This are elderly people who have no human feeling for another human being. Act as if he is God with so much pride. Oga Festus, the life, you have Gave it to you, the air you breath God gave it to you, the money u have now will become useless when you die, it wont pave way for you in eternity. What even annoyed me most was he asked me if i was a Christian i said yes and i am committed to my church and weekly activities i will go, he started calling me 10% thief that i am a pastor that steals peoples 10% every sunday, if i come to office he does not call me by name na 10% oga they call. i kuku man resign oooooooooo. God has taken me to a better ICT company were i am well paid for what i know. The man should change his wicked ways if not he is sowing a seed for his generation without been aware that life is a seed, dont sow what you dont want to reap either directly or indirectly. Hmmm i stop here there is more i want to say but men i keep mute, thankGod others have experienced this man, when i was telling my story to someone else they did not believe me. Actually their is another Barrs too that is mischievous like him i met that one in 2018 i no last 3 months with am i move resign. If you cant pay people dont employer them, there is no peace for the wicked. I forgive you sha fir not paying me.

Hmmm, Please dont throwaway this relationship with someone that makes you happy that tick all your boxes, its good that you both are committed to the relationship that has futuristic plans. Also please dont come too strong on hi about the issue of marriage or settling down, you can tactically use wisdom to pull out information and know the state of his mind towards your relationship as per leading to marriage. He is dealing with so many things right now and still communicating with you, you on the other hand has to be prayerful and abit understanding to allow things flow naturally. Age is just a number but beyond been a number is the fact that you have to be with someone your heart truly loves and yearns for. Dont trash a treasure because of pressure. All things will work out well if you listen to him well your guts and your spirit will tell you by premonitions were he stands in truth in your relationship so far i give him A+

Buhari should just resign nau, haba look at what is happening in the country, everyday one news or the other.

Why cant the legislative arm of government impeach this administration, this APC has brought nothing but sorrow to Nigeria and Nigerians. What kind of barbaric act is this. The international community should come to our rescue and impeach this administration, same reason why GEJ was removed from the Office and now things has escalated. We created a monster that is ravaging and destroying the entity call Nigeria. Our selfish big bag poltifcians are busy in AC and lives are maimed. Haba this is gruesome wickedness and heartlessness, that people dont have conscience again you hack another human being like you to death, someone you did not give life to. The beauty is their evil will catch up with the them there is God in heaven and watching his cup of Judgement will soon be [poured out and all this evil people.

God dey watch oooo Lord give us the man after ur own heart, you gave us GEJ we said alot now.....

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What stupidity in the highest order, i wonder how the girls of this generation reason. expensive ring or not marriage wey go cast go cast. Engaging you with a golden ring does not guarantee he values you and neither does it guarantee he does not value u if he propose with a 10k ring. Marriage is beyond the ring. the ring is just a metal. My brother married his wife from a rich family and he was earning 20k and he proposed to her with 7k ring and today marriage is 10 years still kicking well earning 6 -7 figures now. Please Guys marry a lady who has futuristic approach to both marriage and life. I have seen girls still misbehave with engagement ring and marriage ring. The ring does not guarantee anything if God is not in it. Why are ladies more interested in getting the ring more than knowing the giver of the ring. We place priority on the wrong things when it comes to marriage in this part of our world. So 10k ring is not money or is not a ring, if you allow your hubby propose to you with 450k ring to what end is the reason or justification, to show ur friends ur guy is rich or you are not cheap. the kind of competition among female folks is something else, no wonder many men have been ruined by alot of ladies' whose greed and materialistic apatite can not be quenched. In this life we shall leave everything and all this will become irrelevant. Let get our priorities right most ladies are busy praying for husband why God actually brought their husband their way.
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Guyz calm down... The monarch of zion is still on the throne, some people will sleep and not wake up again. Let's watch and see.

Smiles,.. this d 3rd experience in my life mine I was not married to any ...but spent on them n another guy was enjoying the cookie... I have forgiven them. Please just let her be never go back to her.

Please guyz be wise remove money and spending in your relationship. You can't buy a woman's love with money. Ur wife deserves to eat ur millions an average Nigerian girl scamming guyz in d name of I love u. I closed the chapter of one girl recently... Haba Nigerian girl what is it with u n spend money on me if u love. Money has never been a prove of love. Guyz let's wise up... Husband scarcity never start yet.... Once a girl tells me data, hair, cloth, straight na blocking be dt. A 30+ girl can not afford data... God forbid... Wake from my life.

Hmmm honestly the situation is getting out of hand. let us analyze it, babes 18-21, busy jumping from one ..... to another and carried away by life and material things. 22-25, still playing around and reducing runs, 26-28 they have turn to prayer point and desperate forming good character wey them no get before. 28-35 above prayer point. The truth is husband scarcity is 80% caused by the ladies themselves many factors are involved let me keep quiet at this point. India as a nation ahs been able to raise ICT generation serving other nations of the world. We are raising ICT future giants at DJLABS Abuja. Join our ongoing training by clicking https://decentjobslab.com.ng/

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Abeg it works. LDR works the true test of fidelity is distance. I know 5 friend's who had LDR and today dey are married. 6yrs, 10yrs, 8yrs, 4yrs, 2yrs n 13 yrs, me dt my ex was in the same town with me but na gamer. The stories I heard and the once I saw broke my heart. People cheat long distance or not. My best relationships were LDR. It works for some and it doesn't work for others it's all about, trust, understanding and communication and commitment.

Op, thank you. Relax Goro Teeth will never rule Nigeria. The monarch of zion is not sleeping he will laugh last. Greedy politicians parading themselves like saints. Hell no.. 2023 we shall see Nigeria can't be messed up again we have had enough haba, Nigerians, we keep quiet our leaders do as they like and na we vote them. All I know is God is greater than man.

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I'm sorry if you can't take constructive criticism. I wasn't harsh, I said it the way it is and I understood your message. The facts remains that ;
1. You feel you shouldn't be doing house chores. You want her to go to work, get stressed and still do the chores while you lazy about.

2. You don't want to hustle. If after trying to secure a job and nothing was forthcoming, you could easily have had your car sent down to abj to hustle but selfish you wanted to "test" her.

3. You didn't consider how financially and emotionally draining it is for her to take care of two adults who aren't even related while you do practically nothing.

4. You don't "test" people with their finances. It is wrong


5. This economy is telling on everyone. No one wants a liability.

Everything you said here is very very wrong. U are not in his shoes so u can't judge. I have been in this situation before, the issue is not the money but that the said lady lacks the character and qualities of been a wife marriageble for the long term. If she truly loved him she won't use subliminal languages to communicate to him, she is attacking his ego thereby killing his morale. She is not wise, oga u have not found a wife, move pick the piece of ur life and move. Ur wife they somewhere else waiting for u. There are rough times In marriage so if it happens this is what she will do lead him to his death. Any lady that her definition of love and respect is based on money is not a wife. Love transcend material things or benefits. Beside the money all na for this life we go leave am. Please money is important but find a woman who values you beyond money and what she can benefit.... Shaking my head for this generation.