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GTBank is becoming something else wit a lot of complaines from customers about their services. D bank has hld my money for sometime I can not withdraw but only deposit, d lady I lodge complain with jus abandoned my form I have to go back and strted raking before dey withdrew my form it has not been workred upon. Many branches of dis celebrated bank will soon close down, atleast I knw one that has closed down. Pls GTBank regain your lost glory by giving priority to your loyal customers and your customers generally.

Poster, pls pls n pls, b stable financially its importnt b4 u say I do, cos most of d marital problems comes from d financial aspect.. So put ur house in oda n trust God 2 giv u a gud wife dt will giv u peace.

Hmmmmmmm, guys people and I mean graduates earn 30k-40k in abuja. I am not tlking fresh graduate here people who hav conclude nysc n hav binin d job market. Its all abt strting from somewere.

In my own opinion, I guess d ladies of dis generation have completely lost it wen it comes to what s love and marriage. D priority placed on wealth as a criteria to choose a suitor hav made so many ladies missed out on d best God has for dem. Not all will strt their marital life with a very rich dude, not all that ar rich today will be rich tomorrow n not all guys u see as broke and poor today will be 4rever broke. I weep for dis generation seeing. How money dt all of us will leave on earth is controlling d heart and feelings of our ladies. How many of our ladies knw d ultimate reason y God instituted marriage. How many ladies knw wt it means to truly love their hubby or d gy to be, if d cash is flowing ha love is in cloud 9, but wen d cash seize to flow she seeks alternative. Wts d bed rock of our marriages today in dis world; greed, lust, infatuaton and desperation. Many have not been taught or even knw wt love is. So d priority on cash is d main factor to choose a suitor. D bed of marriage is not a bed of roses cos roses hav thorns. No lady wants a guy for d sake of his futureand wt he has in side. No lady wants to knw d price d gy is paying for greatness. There are many rich but unfulfilled life everywhere. So a gy hammers money or make money he plays wit a girls heart becos she has affinity for money. All u see is heart breaks becos many will not settle to ask genuine questions, or even aske God for help, its all abt d cash d guy has. Just as d bible says there is a way that seems right in a mans eyes but the end leads to death. Provrb 16:25. It takes God to giv u a wife n it takes God to giv u a hubby, but trust him if he gives u wt u don't appreciate dis moment is becos he loves u better than what u think you can giv yourself. Today I look at my sister her age everyday na prayer point for her to settle down. God help us all.

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Ya. This some how saddening. My elder brothers wife insults him my mum n even my late Dad when it got to my Dad I faced her n told her never in her life to insult my Dad our Father n Hero. The devil disturbing u should pack well when it comes to my father. My elder brother gave her d beating of her life into submission. I knw him to be d quiet type n none violent but dis tym he dealt wit her n senses came to her head. I am nt advocating wife beating but truly some women are nt wives but knives. Bro let God help u oh cos dis a fire dt has to be quench take ur stand but not divorce. Grace.

Dis our world has become more complex as per dating. It seems to me dt some girls dt even knw wt dey wnt, confuse, picky, moeney and much more. Real relationship is work btw 2 pple n if both are nt ready for d work dey ar just in a drama heading for trauma. So all dis signs a girl diggs u or nt is not a true sign of love n maturity. D grass is not greener on d other side, ladies should be carefull cos some seem to go through cycles yr in n out relationship no bi fantasy na work. I think i deserve better in my life, to hv a mature girl who understnds wt dating is all abt... I hv moved on wit my life cos all dis girl most ar just ther n do nt wnt to comit til dey get to 35 n dey ask baba God y me n saying true love is lost, men can not be trusted, d gy is nt made bl bla... Gy make we make money jor. My girl is out there n i will meet her, i wondered y i wasted yrs wit dis one.. Rubish excuse n childish.

Hi, everyone seriously i nid ur help here. I met this girl back in my university days n i liked we became friends since 2007 n just after my nysc i told her my mind n we strted off well, she calls i do call her most she has been there for me many times. But lately she just changed n stopped picking my calls n nothing returning my calls either. I do nt seem to understnd ist d end of the relationship or wat no notification she just switch n i can point to wt i did wrong. Guy/Girls i nid ur advice on hw to interpret dis.

In sincerity and concern i want to say this i have seen some ladies 25-35 some even 38yrs waste their time looking for the rich guy to come an
marry them as if this rich guys(genuine) are just every were and ready to actually settle down, i know there are some. I got talking with some few old girls and all they are waiting for is that made guy to come arround, i asked one of them is it that you hav not seen a suitor all this years, answer is i have seen but at that time his pay was not enough(average) so i dumped his proposal, so i inquired more the said guy were is he now and she kept silent for a while hmmmmmm when i saw him after 3yrs he proposed to me i could not recognise him he is doing well now and pretty well although not filthy rich but ok. I just kept mute for a while the truth is not all ladies will marry a ready made guy and not all ladies that marry a made guy now will have lasting wealth, please ladies in humility just allow destiny to join you to your spouse and trust God to take care of the rest from there. I am just comcern about all this single ladies that are every where wasting time and waiting for the gy with car, built house, salary 1.5 mil, trips abroad etc. I may have to say many today are looking for sponsors i relationships and not spouse. Love and relationship has been equated to all the financial gains attached to it and to eat. Money place a role in relationships and marraige but when God was defining love through apostle paul in 1corinthians 13 he did not mention love is money. Many ladies will miss their God ordained hubby because of high mindedness we should be moderate and considerate with suitors. Truth be told some guys are doing well and can take care of a girl but this ladies this day want to waste money on fantasy and not think about the future, is not that men are scarse but is just that some ladies are just there to sqander the pay. So when a guy says he has not seen a wifey material he knows what is saying, gys may God give us good wives and ladies may God send guys with destinies and potentials your way that will love you and respect you, may your eyes also be able to recognise him, when you see him. This my own observation and please lets comment on this.

Hello pls I want to quickly go for my masters degree in one of this countries cyprus or netherlands but I want something I can afford when I gathher my money. If you know some in this countries currently doing there master degree programme or you have been opportune to. Go to any of this countris pls help me out with informations on tuition, accomodation n duration even cost of living I will truly appreciate dt. I do not intend to go through this visa agent so call people in nigeria cos my frnd lost about 950k to just process visa na were the thing hang be that oh. Thanks you guys

hi fellows, please i got an interview soon, and this on is my first how do i prepare for it. what do i expect to see, here and more. your opinion will be welcomed thanks.

Hi nairanders, since i am a fresh graduate wit no experience, i want to go to a company and ask the manager to give me an opportunity to be employed at entry level with a little pay. I just to gain experience on the job. Has any tried it before , how do i approach the manager to discuss. Please any one here give me hint. Tnx.

Hi nairalanders, pls i am a fresh graduate and have concluded nysc with a professinal diploma in aircargo. I need a job with any company, but i have no experience i am willing to work for a less pay to gain experience pls how do i approach the manager of any company and how do i discuss it wit him or her. Many of my applications have not come through because i have no experience couple with the fact that i have no human connection but trusting baba God. I will appreciate your replies.

Marriage is a honour to ladies and proposal is one thing a lady expect before she says i do. What if a lady says yes to a guy within 2weeks of poping the question.. Babe will you marry me, some say if she says yes within 2week she just too cheap. Whats ur take on this.

Honestly babe u ar good girl 2 have spent so much on d dude. Like u 2 get a quiet place or take a retreat, take stock of ur life n ur present rlationship, 4get d money u hav spent, 4get d years 2 of u hav bin with each, 4get d love u have 4 him keep it asside cos dt wil influence ur decision. I lyk u 2 face d reality of d situation on ground tlk 2 urslf n allow God 2 tlk 2 u. Critically analyse things ask urslf is dis what i want 4 my life, wil my bf be a boost 2 get me 2 d height i want in life, am i fulfilld in dis relationship because it wil reflect in ur marital life. Ask urslf d way i am bin treated in dis rlship is it d way a woman is to b treated, ask urslf have peace left ur heart abt d rlship n now u have fears, worries and uncertainties... B honest to urslf 4get suitors 4 now coming ur way rich or poor, all u hav @ hand now is to have inner relationship with urslf, rediscover urslf for a while try to be in ur world alone understand urslf. I knw u love urslf healthly thats y, u were able to love ur bf. Decisions make our destiny. 4get d prophecy by any pastor. Tlk 2 God and 2 urslf n weigh d outcome of ur conclusiom on d matter, dearie if u nid 2 move pls do destiny is more important than rlationship. My female frnd was in similar situation n wit pray n support she came out of d relationship with d guy she spent whole lot of money on. It was nt easy 4 her 2 move on i gave her my shoulder to lean on and cried on, 2day she is in a better relationship n gettin married in Dec 2012. Pls pls take tym with urslf alone nd wit God. If u nid further help i am all ears to listen 2 u. U can give a call on 07039205874. I reside in Abuja as well. Dearie bless U.

Reality talk. I was in sch when my friend karl said he was going 4 shiloh (living faith church annual meeting) in December, so i said ok, dt i in particular will not make it. karl has dated Debra for 4 yrs n things went smooth 4 them, not until he went 4 shiloh in December d whole story changed. While karl was in shiloh Debra went 2 c a male guy disturbing her arround 6pm n dey discuss til around 11pm she could nt go home so she slept over in d guys room. Dt 9t they were intimate 2wice. She lost her virginity n got pregnant. Karl has never slept with Debra in 4yrs of thr relation becos he is a christian and want to kip himslf. When he came back n notice some changes in Debra, he confronted her n she confess wit tears wat transpered between her and d other guy. Debra claimd dt she loves karl dts wy she is saying d truth and do nt want 2 loose him. i know karl Loves Debra. Now she pregnant and want 2 abort d baby cos d guy wil nt accept d fact dt he impragnated her. Karl said 2 Debra do nt abort d baby but Debra went bhind him and had abortion. Karl stil love her but wat should he do wit abortion and wat of if she has lost her WOMB. Should continue in dis relationship or move on with his life.

Dis is a true life story. We left sokoto 2 abuja when things were really rough 4 our family. With prayr considering d decision to relocate God brought us to a part in abuja in 1998 we stayed with our uncle though not all d family menbers came but some of us. Later in 98 my uncle we stayed with lost his job so we were kind of force out of d official house given to him. Most times we did not have enough 2 eat. With tears and prayer to God he dropped an idea into my mothers mind abt a bizness. So we got started by faith, then came my fathers ilness that change d whole thing in year 2000. My mother could run d multimilion biz idea God gave to look after my dad. I felt bad becos then i wz in jss1. Our elderst broda 1st born came and took over d biz but ruined everything 4rm 2000-2012 nothing significant has happened as all d money coming wz diverted 4 personal use. He our elder broda got married 4rm d money of d family biz and he is living large with his family and we.... He took our family car for himself whn he wz abt 2 get married. He's life styl is far different from ours till date our family house is stil not finished. The bizness has no structure 4 itself since he took over 4rm yr 2000 til date. He borrows money 4rm bank to pay workers always claiming dat there is no money in the bizness account. He alone is the sole signatory to biz account and no one else. At 26 i know i am not a kid i graduated last year i made up my mind 4 change in our family bizness. Haba we hav 7 in d family and 5 guys and 2 female dis his attitude force my immediate elder brodd joe to leave home went bak 2 sokoto. Our 1st born is sturborn and wil not listen 2 anybody. We are tired of him yet he would not leave d bizness becos he feeds his family 4rm there. How do we restructure our biz. Pls some 1 help, everybody feel pain in d family. 2ruly as d last born i hav lost respect 4 him. How do we eliminate him he is lording over us because of 1st born. 4 abt 12ys he had borrowed money 2 pay workers til date. 45% of workers salary is always borrowed. I need advice b4 i wil jail him but he is our blood and we love him but he has ruined us.

My own coin, wats so special about sex dt 2 people can nt wait until marriage. GOD has rules marriage is he's idea likewise SEX. He God design us 2 b sexually attractd 2 people but u knw u can not marry all d people u are sexually attractd 2. In God's mind sex is not bad but d timing of sex makes it bad. Sex outside marriage is SIN. As a young preacher of 26 i have had dis experience wit this beauty while in school she kind of became touchy evry now n them i watchd it becos 4 me i hav pray 2 God, NO SEX till marriage becos of my destiny as a preacher i have let that babe go because i do not want 2 mess up. Do i have sexual urge YES i do some times so strong as if i should cosume a babe at once but i have learnt to kip mybody and not let flesh rule over me. @26 i have never kissed a girl n have never been intimate at all i am ok in all ramifications of lyf. Sex outside marriage does not add 2 ur life rather it takes away from u. Yes God centered rlationship exist. Wy would u want 2 mess up urself and call it fun. Pls if any1 is doing dat pls stop d sex thing. Relationship is not built on sex either marriage. GOD loves u

Stop that.....what u call urself is wat u end up becoming. @ 40, u make 440k in 9ja c'mon cant u c God is good 2 u. Ur unachieve goals ar making u feel this way. Stop that -ve feeling u ar wel off than many age mate of urs. Take stock of ur life n consider profitabl investment. Gud luck