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Hmmm conincident I doubt... My ex same thing with her she just came into my life and things began to work financial, when I vroke up with her I suffered ooo... Dated other girls but no money was coming.. untill I prayerful met this girl.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Ain't no niggar of big yansh...but I love boobs

If you have peace of mind with her then you can proceed ...you can play, gist and vibe together...then proceed....if her character and the type of person way she be nor be threat to you...then marry her


But the part you said she is like a blessing when ever you give her money...you get double of it...

Ogbeni it is just a coincidence.....

Good day guyz.
I am a very sensitive person. So after my heart breaks from different ladies I decided not to try relationship again until God sends me my own woman. My childhood friend introduced me to this lady, she is a spec, big ass, big front and all that. But for me I was not move I Just wanted to know more about her and see if we vibe or connect. We connected on Whatsapp and we started calling and talking and chatting, though she was in another state more like a neighboring state. I went to see her and the attraction was there.
NOW to the main thing I discovered since she came into my life money has been flowing constantly into my life. Anytime I give her money is like I have open the windows of heaven. I sent her 1k airtime last 5 days and someone sent me 15k. Yesterday I sent her money and today 90k has dropped. She is not the demanding type at all, we don't have issues we flow I have told her my plans to wife her, but she still skeptical about it because of her last guy.
My spec is slim Chubby girls but my worst heart break has come from them.
But this girl ass too big I am just concerned about men disturbing her.
I dated one of my ex like dt money kept on flowing too... She too was big ass girl but she got decieved and left we another guy, got pregnant for the guy.

I am just asking could this my current girlfriend be my wife, a blessing to me the one God has ordained for me. I have peace of mind with her, she is not perfect but she ticks my boxes 85%.
Should I go ahead to wife her even though I know she still wanting to be sure of my commitment to her, which I have shown her over 6 months of us dating.
Mature response pls�

Hmmm, wow.. how can I meet a serious girl like you. I am in a situation were my girl is seriously misbehaving and I have done everything good to her, showed her love, text, calls, commitment yet this babe is just misbehaving. I have to move on.. Good people meet with wrong people. My pain the time I have wasted on her. I have shown her that I love her more than she does hence the misbehaviour. I wish and I pray I meet a girl like you. Relationship has not worked for me for years, yet I am faithful to all my ex.. I have seen much in this game I am not getting younger, but I know God will do it. I understand your plight we love and value those who don't do the same to us. It will end in praise someday.

Jessica57:
Well I thought We had something going on fine…. Oga relocated to Abuja…. All through those times he was away I thought he was really busy like he always tell me due to the fact that he neither call nor text me anymore. I never knew he had someone else he was seeing over there. His sister just sent me the invite of his wedding which is happening on the 28th of this month… I have been crying since . Now my heart aces so badly. NOTE..I did everything a lady could have done to make a relationship work. I guess we weren’t meant to be. I’m really really trying to move on but my heart aces so bad right now and I live alone…. I just pray I don’t hurt myself…. Maybe I loved him more than he loved me.. this breakfast is the worst I have ever gotten. My Xmas is ruined .

Move on ... She is seeing someone else. Naija distance relationship never work na abroad. It takes a girl who genuinely loves you to stay and stick to you. Absence they say makes the heart grow fonder. I am in long distance relationship but I don't trust my girl anything can happen. For me I am removing my heart from trusting her. This babes are funny ooo. Except God says she is your wife and both of you are destined for each other. Nobody gives excuses for what they love or who they love. That excuse is a subtle language of her communicating to you guy, begin port to another network oooo. Save your life and heart stress and free your mind.
I have been there many times.

Op, were are you schooling I hope is not Nasarawa, because I have a girl that behaves like this to her boyfriend and the guy is complaining seriously. If it's Nasarawa you are schooling hmmm, you could be dating someone elses girlfriend. Her parents are into farming as well. Reply my post .

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

I have my beautiful, pretty friends who are so so cute with shape and bumbum, yet they visit Shiloh every year. I remembered telling one on campus babe becareful the way you are rejecting guyz... This was 2008 now at 34 she is sleeping on the mountain. Her elder sister average looking lady married at 22, but she 34 no fiance at all. I have female friends 34-38 still single, I am like what's wrong with this girls, what kind of pickiness is this, your beauty is not ticket to proposal, they keep saying why is God not answering them, but all I see they are the major issue. He must be financially stable, they can't settle for less, he must be this and that, there must be guarantee of flow of income.. all her average looking friends have gotten married and have forgotten about given birth to children. I myself I have stopped going after pretty Ladies one told me trash recently and I left her in the hands of Shiloh. Everyone wants a ready made man and no lady want to join hands in making their man to be made. I just pity alot of pretty ladies, go to Coza Abuja you see them, go to many mega churches you see them all have unrealistic expectations and standards. As long as a man can feed himself, cloth himself has a shelter over his head and has a source of income he is good to go... Life starts from somewhere. My own brother started his marital journey with 20k and today no go there ooooo. The thing is many ladies are afraid and are uncertain about the future, but the future is in the hand of God hand it over to him, person wey get today can loose everything tomorrow and the person that does not have can make it mega tomorrow. God help the ladies of this generation. God provide for we the ones who want to sincerely marry.

I am in a long distance relationship yet I have never cheated on my girlfriend. I am even very concerned about her if she is faithful as I am. I have the right to do what I want but I have principles, I control my body and not my emotions controlling me. There are faithful guyz, I have never cheated on any girl in Ll my dating years. But I have caught my exs severally cheating I had to let go. Any man or woman that can not control their
sexuality has a long way to go. A partner that won't be faithful to you in relationship won't be faithful to you in marriage.

frozen70:
Women should always inform their guys before coming for a visit especially long distance

This son's of Adam's are not faithful, their biological clocks ticks them to misbehave, especially in your absence

So surprise visit will end with surprise sight and it will lead to watery eyes

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In my experiences with ladies in the past 4 ladies who told me no sex in relationship were having sex with another guy. I was shocked, was pained and was decieved. This are born again church sisters who fall under anointing. Once a lady is not a virgin and you are in a relationship with her watch your back, if she is not having sex with you, she is having sex with another person though I don't want to logically conclude and generalized. My current girlfriend I asked her in her last relationship did she had sex with her boyfriend she said yes. I am waiting for the day she will form SU for me, my intention is not to even have sex with her but marriage, but I have been decieved by so many ladies I thought were keeping themselves like I was not until I caught some red handed. Every girl desires to have sex with a guy she fancy and she is attracted to, if you as a guy you are not what she fancy she will lead you on and look for who she will give it Free and even beg for it. Ladies are hypocritical sexual beings. They mask that feeling not make them look loose but in the actual sense they are very sexual beings. I hate pretenders but I have seen lot in my little life. You see the ladies there guyz have sex with them find it difficult to exit the relationship no matter the flaws of the guy, but if you date her for years and no show she will dump you without remorse. You spent you did everything yet no sex. I am not advocating for sex but guyz be wise enough to uncover the deciet of a girl. Please stop condemning people here I see alot of people condemning people as fornicators and telling them they will die and go to hell. Biko nobody has the justice system of God in their hands, your blood was not shared for anyone. While we were all sinners Christ died for us ooo yet he condemned no one. Fornication is not the only sin that takes people to hell oooo infact the least of it. People have sex that I know I have seen I have caught people having sex but for once I have necer condemned them. I am not God neither was my blood shared for them, he that is without sin should be the first to cast a stone. Let's face true spirituality and stop all this condemnation. There is no revelation in the ministry of condemnation. �

How do you fornicate with your own church menber, don't you realize that you are same family, the same blood runs in the inside of you. Paul said we should treat the sister with all purity.
Please understand that sex urge can be controlled. Any pleasure that leaves a sign of guilt in your inside is not a good pleasure at all. Can you see your biological blood sister and shift her pants or remove her pants and put in your rod of Moses. One church sis almost made me to sleep with her and I told her nope I wont. She called me pastor Wey no dey Bleep. Till date she hated me.
Please � stop sex among church menbers, I know some pastors do it but pls father's don't sleep with their daughters and brothers don't sleep with their sisters and I mean responsible father's and brothers.

Well I will help honestly respond to this as a matured person.
Firstly a woman been married is not a liability. Whatsoever suits a person it's ok when it comes to proposal kneeling or not kneeling it's not an issue what matters most is the foundation of a relationship.
For someone like me I won't see my wife as a liability. She has become one with me my partner for life.
The many issues arising from many failed marriages today is due to lack of proper information and expectations of the people involved.
When you go into marriage with the mindset that a woman is a liability she will be a liability to you.
Responsibility should push you as a man to become the best for your family. God created man first before the woman, God gave man responsibility first and designed the wife as a helper.
Now if you look at the word responsibility it's 2 anglo Saxon words which is combination of "Respond and ability" meaning you were to design to respond to an ability in you. The man who does not understand responsibility should not marry. Responsibility is not slavery it's your innate drive by nature to respond to the ability in you. Men were designed differently from the woman. Don't blame any one go back to God and ask why man came first into the earth. So for a man ignorance of responsibility is the ignorance of accountability. You are accountable to your family your wife and children because they are your responsibility, you owe them responsibility. Responsibility here includes lots of things.
For the woman her natural disposition is to be a helper. Now who is a helper, this is were many ladies got it wrong and shift all marital responsibility to the man.
A helper is someone who can help, has the capacity and resources to help you, someone who is suitable and adaptable to your needs by rendering help.
So if a lady sees herself as a helper she knows her role in a man's life.
Marriage is a lifetime of partnership that's why it's called life-partner.
A true partner is a partner who is always there to help you both in your strength and weakness.
I think the reason why alot of guyz sees most ladies as liability is because most ladies have been misinformed and truly the ladies in this generation are misinformed.
In an ideal marriage were love thrieves it is a roleless mutual relationship. Were any of the partner can settle the bills in the house without talking % share of bills.
But sadly the ladies of today are selfish, greedy and only think of themselves just me me.. many ladies are not helpers in this generation. When a ladies keeps away her resources from you, she does not love you and not interested in been a helper to you.
Let talk about money, money has been the major cause of broken marriages all over the world and that's because alot of ladies go into marriage with the mindset that a man should do everything, the man risks his life out there to be responsible for the family and deny himself if comfort only for his wife and children, most ladies see this as the job of man no doubt, but your role in his life is that of an helper. Many men go through stuff they can't say all because society has labelled them to be men. I have been a man all my life and I know what responsibility is that the outside works is not as easy as it seems.
If you are a lady here pls understand stand that a family is not just the responsibility of your husband alone in all aspect but both of you, don't leave financial responsibility to him alone be part of that responsibility, don't keep your money to yourself with the saying my money is my money his money is our money that mindset is demonic and barbaric. If you love your husband, love your home your resources should go into supporting the family regardless of the %. And I am begging guyz here don't abandon your responsibility to your wife totally because she has decided to be if help but also in many meaningful was show her you absolutely value her contribution.
I believe that there are basic stuff a woman should be able to provide for herself. So don't include your husband inside to meet those needs he is carrying lots of loads already. School fees, house rent, medical bills, transportation etc. As a lady if you earn enough contribute to all the bills your husband is paying in the marriage a partner shares in responsibility. Don't leave your life off a man. Many ladies marriage is only the escape route out of penury it's must be be so please get yourself busy enough by becoming valuable so that your husband can see your value and worship you. Be a treasure instead of a trash.
I end with this 2 real life stories. It was a pastor who told this story that happened between his church menbers who were dating about to marry. The lady was dating this guy a banker and the banker was giving her money from time to time as his girl. So, one time the lady brought up a need and the guy could not meet up it became a fight between them. The guy said baby I don't have this money at the moment pls just be patient with me I will work out something for you. The fight escalated till it got to pastors ears, the lady was a student in Uni lag. When the pastor called both of them for counseling he used simple logical wisdom and asked both of them to print their account statement. They both did and brought it to their pastor. The pastor looked at it and told the lady here is the account statement of your bobo 3500 naira he has been telling you the truth all this while. And the pastor told her bobo the account statement of the girl 450k was sitting in the bank account and she was disturbing him for 30k.
The lady began to cry she didn't know that he had no money she sorry bla bla. The pastor said both of you sort yourself out. The guy ended the relationship after all the discovery that the person he was sacrificing for had money yet she was forming the victim. The guy told the pastor he has ended the relationship the pastor congratulated the young man and told him, nobi your wife be that. God save you.

My second story is a man married his wife for years and was sacrificing for for the family regardless of the challanges of life. One time his wife fell sick and she was rushed to the hospital and they needed some money for medical bills and attention before anything could commence, it was 12k they needed. He asked the wife of she had any money with her she said rara oooo. The man rallied round and was looking for money praying that his wife should not die, when he eventually got half of the money about 6k plus his wife had already passed on. He was crying profusely, as they were removing her cloths and trying to take her to the morgue about 6k500 fell of from her wrapper and they called the man's attention to it. The man that was crying profusely stopped and started beating the corpse of his late wife, calling her wicked and heartless to her ownself.
The moral lessons if this 2 stories are many ladies cling to their money in relationships and never want to part with it at all with the mindset that it's the man's job to do everything.
Kudos to exceptional ladies who are adding value to themselves and truly want to support their family I must say it worth it.

Honestly after all my experience in relationship I have realized that most Nigerian ladies are very selfish and calculative. If it does not benefit them they won't stay. Women are calculative, manipulative and tactical when it comes to relationship. It's all about conditional love not unconditional love. If benefits won't flow no business been with you, that's how bad and selfish this genders are. They call it smartness, I see alot of ladies despising alot of potential suitors guyz who are on their way to greatness, but because they are myopic they look down on them and insult him ... Hence many are victims of yahoo boiz.
I keep praying daily to find my own wife
What I have been through in relationship makes me want to give up the idea of marriage and just have my peace of mind. Man will be born grow take responsibility for himself, his wife, his children, his inlaws, his own siblings. Haba and most times the wife just looks at him suffering and she ignores him, he is the man... She won't even bulge to help. May God not allow our path to cross again with wicked ladies. It's better a man finds a woman who loves him more than the way he loves her. Then marriage can really work. Most ladies don't love their husbands just in marriage for the benefits of it.

It's ok... Just move on... I have been there for your peace of mind let them go...

Arrant nonsense... This guyz are playing with our intelligence in this country... What are we fools not to see the game been played here. Why was the appeal court not on its seat on this matter when we needed it the most. Na when everything don dabaru finish you want to stylishly handover power to the north. Other regions should wake up this nonsense must end. Who gave the north monopoly over the remaining regions in the country. We have 6 geopolitical zones in Nigeria and if true federalism is to be practice let power rotate to all the 6 zones... But here we have the north trying to lord over us like say we no get sense... This is daylight foolishness and stupid. This is a perfect game plan to be executed. Our mumu don don. Power belongs to God and ego shock them come 2023... My PVC dey my hand haba... Nigerians have suffered enough... Which future do we want to give to our children... What do we want create for them. A country were intimidation by some certain region is seen and they wake up to do what they feel like because they are in power ... Hell no we don vex our mumu don do.. so much bloodshed, hunger, starvation, frustration . Nigeria does not need a president from north or south or west or east... We need a president who can salvage this country from this colossal mistake we made back then in 2015. Abeg let this generations of old men go and seat let young leaders be raised... Haba we are tired... E don do Abeg.. God scatter their evil agenda since common man no get mouth na you baba wey dey up get mouth... Scatter ooo turn the tables of the wicked.
Goodnight Abeg... E dey pain me... I swear

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I have been there before. I know how it feels. I spent money on my ex fiance not know all this while she never had plans to marry me. I paid school fees, did alot for the family yet she was using me for catching cruise. I went to God in prayers it was revealed to me Sha never had plans to marry me and was seeing someone else. I left her counted my loss and moved on. I have a female friend who loves me die and collects money from her boyfriend to spend on me. I noticed I stopped collecting anything from her.We got into a relationship into relationship for a time because the boyfriend was seriously misbehaving and they broke up. In other to get her back he bought a phone of 180k for her. I noticed the girl started misbehaving around me I dumped her in my mind, the guy is sponsoring her in a school and the girl told me she does not have plans to marry him. She infactically told me to marry her she likes me.. BLA BLA.. I like her too.. but I told her I can't let her go and marry her boyfriend, I have been there I can't be wicked and heartless let her learn to love him. Guyz the truth is money can't buy a woman's genuine heart and love. When a woman loves you, she loves you genuinely beyond money. I am very careful now with spending money on a girl I will never sponsor any Nigerian girl to school never except you are less privilege. My ex told me something that entered me seriously... It taught me a lesson of a life time. May God not give me a son that will waste his resources spending on a girl in the name of marriage agreement.

Hmm, i have been here. His own is Bedroom pix, my own that it was 2 videos of my ex confessing and professing love to someone else. I spent money and did alot. I have come to realize that you cant use money to buy a genuine heart that wants you. Ladies know this, guyz stop inducing relationship with money. Its a 2 way street if she love and value she will be with you beyond money. I am not saying money is not important, but please lets be careful. I am my ex-girl went to her office one time and i was shocked she called me just a friend, same girl who came to my office i introduced her as mu girl friend and we were already talking marriage. From that day i ended the relationship in my mind and stopped given her money, the next thing girl wants to start milking me, i sensed it and decided to play the smart one on her and let her be. Genuine love cant be bought with money.

Hmmm, no time for love, i have gone through so much heart pain that i cant love again ooooo... I am forcing myself to love and its NO NO for me and the girl in my life now, maybe i have not totally healed from past hurt. I met a girl recently and fell in love with her we have been talking for months only to discover that she has a guy and the relationship is very serious, we sync, we vibe but she is not my. BF has more money than me so i back off, i am just going through emotional pain, the babe as a friend in my life now has the physical but the character is Zero, i cant go on with her, i want to tell her soon you are beautiful but my spirit no carry u. in other not to waste your time lets part ways. Love, Love when will mine come. I m been asked to marry someone i dont even feel anything for or love. How long will i wait i have been let down so many times by the girls i loved and who i thought loved me, but in the end is the money, i have lost so much to relationship let me build my life and my career. I am not begging not suffering but dont know why i cant find love. This same friend i met last month is already throwing bills at me. The one i love who has a BF went her way to do stuffs for me with her money and she still promise to do more fore me, but i cant have her she belongs to someone else i wish i had met her earlier. My heart bleeds i am of marriageable age but still cant find love only girls who want to eat my money. Most times i just spend time on my own been alone and going for shopping on my own but that void of love is still not there. My ex who was my very close friends said yes to me and still changed her mind, i was given her money buying her stuff. Nigerian ladies some are just plain greedy. Discovered that she was having sex with her alleged Ex BF and i was left alone in the dark. I did not do anything bad to her, in times past she has been good to me seriously i thought we will continue the way our friendship was but NOPE she was trying to milk me in relationship. It was then i truly discover her true colour, i have forgiven her i dont have anything against her but i am just so confuse about the weirdness of some girls. I ask myself will this heart ever love again. 6 relationship none worked out wasted money and time. Someone tell me how do i love again.
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My people Money is very important please dont joke about it i will speak from my own personal experience. Times have changed so things are evolving. Woman needs security and stability. She wants to know if you can handle the basics and take care of the family at the front end. Except you met and married a wicked woman that wont support you financially. All the ladies i dated loved me but at some point money issue came between us and i was so shocked what came out of their mouth. I went back to think about all they said and all the messages exchange, i looked at the love we share and the romantic sms they sent to me, then i now discovered that women dont love you because of love alone. Your ability to provide and be in charge of your finances makes them love you, value and respect you. She may not be a bad person but the instinct drive for security and stability will make them resent you and say something's that will make you wonder if this was the woman whoever told you i love you. Some ladies are plain greedy like my ex despite all i did spend on her her greed was greater than her needs. Let no one deceive you women like money not some of them but all of them. The insults i received from my ex kai were to deadly i told God thank you i did not end up with any of them maritally if not i will be depressed and eventually who knows what might happen. Guys work hard and get a stable source of income please let it be stable anything from150k above monthly and i also do not want you to depend on money to choose a wife ooooooooo. Pray and pray that God will give u your own wife, when she come she will lighten your world. My own case i am working and building my wealth and have stable source of income but i have not met my wife yet, all i see are leaches everywhere. I had to even go and park my car in our family house so as to get the one who loves me for me. its a cold world out there, everyone is truly trying to survive and most ladies are just on the game of pretense and character forming when dey get to 28 years above. God will help us

Ajibade123:
so you are male all this while??

I dont understand you. Male all this while
I am kepstone so how come its its now Nancee4love me too i shock sha. But this is my account check my age on Nairaland. If u want to answer answer or respond.

Kai... see how Nigerians are praying ooooooo. We have suffered under this administration, but let the will of God be done.

Hussle oooo Money is very good. Inside life this the money some people will never make in the whole of their life time na him person carry buy metal with foams, with electrical wire and stiring. Kai Brodas Hussle oooo before the wife wey God ordain for u friend zone you because u no get money. You are convinced God said she is your wife, weytin go convince her na Mula, ego, $$, plenty naira. she nogo hear God oooo if the Mula no dey... Work hard. My ex told me i want to marry her to suffer kai, this stuff entered me and she followed Mercedes benz.
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Who made it a rule that a man must take care of his girlfriend on relationship or spend on her for her to stay. Nigerian men are the most amazing stupid set of people when it comes to relationship. I have been there made that mistake before. You think money keeps a woman. Many entitled ladies out there who think there financial life or burden should be hauled on a man. Op she left you because she was not yours. Greediness is the major driving force of most nigerian ladies. I know money is important but if a relationship is not mutual in terms of everything you are been used. Many men will truly know who they marry when they go dead broke, that's when the true character of the person you called wife will manifest. Lucky are you if you find a lady who loves you genuinely beyond money. The signs are always there but we are always blinded by love. After my 3 painful experiences I decided I won't use money to build or buy love. Shine your eyes guy's there is a woman for you. My friend got married to his wife and dated her for 3 yrs 1 Naira he did not spend on her. He made her to believe he was squatting and she was helping him out 3 yrs. The day he proposed to her he gave her 150k to just shop and 9m to prepare for wedding. Today they are both happily married. It's going to be very difficult to find a wife when you have all set women are perfect pretenders. Above all cry to God. Pray for your own wife ask God to lead you and direct you. I have seen people who started from scratch and today they are touring the world. Marry your wife. Shine your eyes many reasons why ladies advance in age are not married. One of them is ready made guy. Rich very rich super rich. God Help us find wife.