₦airaland Forum

softwerk:
First Class Uniben Graduate to work for Ekiti State Government?!

I regret all those sleepless nights I had 'jacking' for a Nigerian University Bachelors Degree!!!

What does this even mean? Like you are too big to work in Ekiti state Or what? You don't even sound that smart. All those night spent on jacking didn't really up your intellectual capacity, I reckon.

And then all those morrooons that liked your post, LMAO.

lovelygurl:
I wouldn't say most of them are single. I mean it just depends on the kind of people you are surrounded by.

There's nothing sexier than intelligence

Sure physical appearances matter but it's never enough to keep me going.

It also depends on interests as always. A genius in the art field will still get bored when (s)he is conversing with a quantum physicsist... Different interests

Curvinus:
You leaked no secret. To the contrary, men need to realize that not everyone of them is genetically predisposed to be successful in the dating scene. You could try all the manipulative tricks in the books as 5ft 4 manlet, but the moment a 6tt 2 top tier man shows interest in your woman, you know its a lost battle until maybe he's had his fill and decides to walk. This is not fair but its the way life works. Women love men inspite of them being bad boys, not because they withhold approval.

Intelligent comment and I did like it, but there's more. 5ft 2inch Wizkid and Davido will get girls a 6ft plus average Joe on the street will only dream of.
the choice of a mate isn't only enhanced by impressive physiques, but also by the promise of security for the lady and her offsprings.
These ladies for the most parts are only acting in accordance to the inate instinct common to females regardless of species;
Getting the best deal for her and her potential offsprings

Nice...

But I reckon Vincent Enyeama was a decent captain, and should be in there in place of Nwankwo Kanu. Kanu was a great footballer no doubt but he wasn't really what you'll call a leader.

UEFA is so pathetic, they are not even pretending a semblance of fair play

Yonce:
I'm sorry but Bundesliga?!

Is that a league?

That's how much of a rubbish I see the champions league. I placed the one horse bundesliga ahead of it. At least the refs over there actually give the other teams a fair chance.

Dee60:
Football in Europe is a FRAUD. Massive FRAUD.

Forget all the hype. The winner of the cup is known. They are working well towards it.

Europeans are actually bigger cheats. How we place them in high pedestal is a mystery to me.

Champions league has lost its value. It's now a league that's rigged in favor of Spanish teams. No point taking it serious.
Barca against PSG
Athletico against Leicester
Now Real against Bayern

It's a rubbish league these days

Will just enjoy my EPL and bundesliga from now on.

schendy:
Interesting thread.

How do I start.... going on 29 (look 24 though), in my opinion, marriage sometimes seems overrated, be that as it may, I would definitely love to be married and stay married, but the guys of these days ehn..... I reserve my comments ... Anyway I still believe there are Amazing, Honest, Hardworking, intelligent, matured, goal and family oriented guys out there I just feel they are few and far in between.

I would love to make friends, male and female not withstanding.

The guys are complaining about the ladies; the ladies are complaining about the guys. Who is truly at fault?

Perhaps we've been meeting the wrong people. Probably looking for love from the wrong people and in the wrong places.

About time we started telling ourselves the truth.

2dugged:
the truth is only one in 10 of long term relationships end in marriage, and the worse part is that at the end the guy ends up meeting a lady after that and proposing almost immediately

Two adults of age who both know what they want are not likely to waste any time dating for long. They tend to go right to the point without dilly dallying.

Your posts have been spot on.

Well said. Kemen deserves some form lynching.
Apologies are never enough
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Sarcasm y'all... Jeez

alexialin:
Yes I did.
But note, as soon as I realised any guy coming over to woo me is responsible and real.
If I sense any trace of fucvkboi or player, or time wasters, my guard in a guy asking chatting me up for a date, it then increases to 101percent.. Within 2days of chitchats, and also take a look at a guy's pic, I can decipher if a guy is fake or real.

You sound so intelligent and wise the entire time on this thread. Almost too wise if I may say (just kidding )

I reckon all these bags of knowledge and wisdom have been acquired over years, most likely with lots of ups and downs along the way.

Keep it up, ma'am.

This thread has been quite useful so far

2dugged:
is it too late to say "present "?

No, ma. Dive right in

forever24:
You better locate her else you will wait in forever

Is it a crime if y'all locate us

LMAO

iPOD list.

majekdom2:
Whilst the youths of other nations in this age bracket are advancing and making impact in their countries. We are here bothered about relationship status in 2017. Naija has a long way to go. Have we bothered to discuss a lasting solution to poverty??

Actually the youths of other countries are very much interested in relationships and usually do have sites that cater for such needs. I can post hundreds of dating sites from European, Asian countries to you. humans everywhere are interested in relationships and marriage.


There are lots of section here on nairaland where poverty eradication are discussed (business, investment, career etc). You are free to go over there.

Here folks are looking for or at least discussing relationships. Let them be.

GloriaNinja:
SHEBI I TALK AM BEFORE, NIGERIANS APPRECIATE BAD THINGS MORE. DISGUSTING!

But Nigerians didn't appreciate TBoss. That surely invalidate your post ma'am

Juliearth:
Beautiful write-up. However, your findings are baseless. Anyone can find love at any age... please pressure not those above 30/25...

Sweetie, I believe this thread is for those who want to face realities, not for regurgitating politically correct cliches.

MrEverest:
Chai, you've said it all bro. 99% of the beautiful ones I keep meeting have this mentality that the world revolves around them. They see people like Tonto Dike as role models while Yemi Alade's songs are their favorite. Honestly I'm in a fix, personally I can't marry a lady who is not physically appealing regardless of how good her character is. I'm in my 30's already, not rich but very okay with a couple of businesses. My greatest headache right now is finding Mrs right. I don't know what is wrong with me, my ex was beautiful and met all the physical attributes I needed in a woman but her character was nothing to write home about and my family resisted the Union. Right now, I'm even missing her, simply because I've not been able to find a replacement. I need to marry ASAP yet I don't even have a girlfriend talkless of fiancee! God help me.

Totally get you, bro. a lot of guys within that age range (early thirties) are in similar dire situations. Who are at fault here?

A. Could it be men are having unrealistic expectations from the female folks? OR

B.The present generation of female slay queens are truly are an unpleasant bunch and for the most part have unrealistic expectations from the men.

Totally confusing.

The reality is ladies don't really appreciate honest and genuine guys.
The lies and fakeness are adaptive features guys have evolved to get what they want from y'all.

No hard feelings ladies. Guys must pass down their genetic materials by hook or crook.

Bridget95:
keep dreaming. do you know how many nuclear warhead the US has outer space that it can descend on Russia and China and have them wiped off the earth in a case of total war?

This is the funniest shhiit I've heard all day

Nuclear warheads in outer space ready to descend

Safiaa:
Ok love. You're free to have your opinion. I also pray that my son grows up to be a man, and not wallow in his self deceit to please his ego like yourself. He must stay in tune with the reality of the world. We must raise our children well.

Happy easter x

Trust me, 20-30 years from now, and, hopefully, with the maturity that comes with age, you won't wish for your son to end up with someone with your type of reasoning.

Happy Easter to you too.

Safiaa:
Well im sorry to burst your bubble, but more women are realising the truth. Because it doesn't stroke your ego,
It's a problem. Level up and stop complaining. Its that simple.

Sweetie, I'm not complaining. I trust that I definitely won't end up with your likes. There are reasonable and intelligent ladies out there; so it isn't all doom and gloom. The next very important mission is to ensure my daughter doesn't turn out like you.

mrphysics:
Easy ooo Bros, she is still young.

She stated she's in her early twenties. That's not so young. I've seen ladies in their early twenties that reason much better and more intelligently than she does. I think it's largely down to upbringing and environmental influence.

Let's all hope to do a better job on our offsprings. The world would be a much better place with less of her likes.

If my daughter ends up reasoning like the op I would consider myself a huge failure. A monumental failure.

Ultimately, Jos produces people with fantastic personalities. Humble, yet very confident and not easily intimidated by anyone. There's always that fine balance.

Jossite

Ngokafor:
....I will always call a clownish ,hypicritical cry-baby you are out anywhere i see your pathetic post..You had the audacity to harass me here when i was minding my business with an accusation you are twice guilty of..

..Oh yes i would call you hycritical clown out any time i choose to..Your type is sickening indeed...pathetic cry baby,hope you have cried your way from the South to North like you 'threatned' to do..yeye dey smell

So in a nutshell, I sicken you and you hate me.

I, personally, take that as a complement. Anything to get under the skin of iPOD youths is definitely cool with me

Ngokafor:
....As in,the same people talking crap here about Igbos are still the same gremlins ranting against Biafran Sesessionists via IPOB or MASSOB...They will write endless articles and open countless threads denouncing Biafra and all,only to come here to say something else..We know their game and many of us are not deceived
...The good thing is that little by little the average Nigerian is getting the message about this country's inevitable dis-integration..We are getting there.

...as for 'Kevindein',leave that cry baby to me.

Geez bitshh, even while conversing with some one else, you cannot just help but mention me.

You're definitely obsessed with me, LMAO.

Beverly Naya for me

Ridiculously attractive lady

Ngokafor:
....Northern clown,what are you doing here??..hypicritical and clownish cry baby..mumu.

This bitssh is obsessed with me, LMAO