₦airaland Forum

Martinez39s:
Not just broke men, men below (especially way below) them financially and socially.

Woman: I am a strong independent woman with standards and I'm not settling for less. (i.e. I discriminate against men based on socioeconomic status)

Women: You go girl.

Man: Demands that a woman should have no/low body count and shouldn't bring some else's child to the table.

Women: Misogynist.

The female folks are proper amusing . Zero self awareness.

This is how much Simps disgust women.

A+ for the man for Simping.

A+ for the lady for honesty.

Martinez39s:
Dear single moms,
You need to understand that no body owes you a date or marriage, and people are entitled to their preferences. Smart men don't prefer women with kids just as women, single mom or not, don't prefer broke men. Don't conflate our preference with hatred. You should be happy that smart men just don't want to commit to you, we could have taken it a step further to treat you with the same disdain, contempt and rudeness that women mete out to broke men, both in public (sometimes), and especially (always) when they discuss these men in private among themselves

Deal with your child(ren) and go work it out with your babydaddy. Smart men don't want you. If your babydaddy is dead or he is incorrigible in not fulfilling his responsibility, get a job. Men want to raise their own seeds and they don't want to deal with the baggages that comes with being in a relationship with you.



When smart men discover that their gf/wife is a single mother.

Trust the ladies on here to pretend like the emboldened isn't what they do on a regular basis. Another day, and women still can't take what they dish out.

Op, you made a grave mistake seeking advice in the family section. Place is riddened with bitter women so they'll just twist your narrative to make you out the villain. You are better off seeking advice from younger men in the romance section, sounds odd but that's the truth. Never ask for relationship advice in a female dominated forum. You'll end up doubting your sanity

Find time and binge read the thread below and you'll probably find answers to lots of questions.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

dprincedej:
I need suggestion from nature minds only. I have not seen my children for over 3 years. The problem started when my former wife left me. She went to another town to start over. I used to visit my children but she would chose a public place so I can't find her house. I remarried a wonderful woman who never complains and is very supportive and maybe that is why the former one is bitter. She would insult me before letting me see my children so I arrested her once. The second time, she resisted arrest and so I went to welfare office. The problem is that welfare expect me to be paying school fees and upkeepfor the children before I can see them. It may make sense to some people but how can I pay school fees of a school that I know nothing about? The one who put them in a school should face the consequences. If she did not feel that she can stand alone then why did she leave? Women are selfish and I can never be fooled into sowing where I won't reap. I am sure another man is sleeping with her by now. I told the welfare that I want a DNA test before I can pay anything and they wanted to force me to be the one to pay for the test. I did not bother to go back because she might have bribed them. If I pay school fees and feeding then what would be left for her to be doing and I can only see the children once in a while. The problem now is that, both police and welfare have not worked and she has left her former house. She does not pick my calls. I even sent 50k to her account to see if she would pick but she did not. She told my aunt that I have to pay all outstanding money from all these years. Imagine how cunning women are. If she let me see the kids, I would start to pay but how can I go about it? I am so worried that the children would grow up to hate me due to her lies of that don't know me. People would also think I abandoned them if they don't see their pictures on my social media. She is so wicked that she doesn't even upload their pictures again because she doesn't want me to see them at all. It is my right to see my children and I need suggestion on how to achieve my aim.

Falling down

Red pill rage at its finest. Sudden realization that one has been lied to all his life. The end is a downer though, shows red pill rage can spur one to be a better man, or push a man into depression, chose the former.

pozehnani:
Huh?

[b]You are a wicked hypocrite. How could you dump her when she needed you most [/b]Let me tell you one thing, if a lady experiences heartbreak but still has a job to turn to, it makes it easier to get over the heartbreak. Or if she loses a job and still has a relationship it reduces the trauma a little bit. Now, she was going through a hard time, you still went ahead ended and the relationship?? Why won't she feel suicidal? Very heartless men everywhere.

I'm very sure if she had a high profile job, you wouldn't have ended the relationship. I'm very sure of that.

You wrecked that girls life].

Basically a normal thing for an average lady out there. Outstanding how you lot can take what you dish every other day, eh??

freeborn02:
think some bastardds on this forum take it upon themselves to defend these corrupt dogs.

You are defending someone who is obviously making your life difficult

Throwback, thebosstrevore1 and many others.

Disgusting set of people who are fine with the status quo because it benefits them despite knowing tens of millions of kids go to bed hungry daily because of the sadistic leaders they defend.

Hate those fvckers to no end.

Eyes wide shut (showed the hypergamy and promiscuity of women)

American beauty (a middle aged man breaking away from the shackles of the society and living life on his own terms)

Watched both as a young, naive, blue pilled teen. Loved them so much then, but I love them even more now as they make much more sense.

thebosstrevor1:
Most attacks were on average and rich people( capitalist)

Why attack and loot people's businesses.

The jealousy of the poor and lazy is strong.

When you have money never leave among them because even if you give each of them 100k, they will still attack you when crisis comes.

Keep wailing here on nairaland. The evil government over time have ensured that the masses remained poor while they continue looting the commonwealth. You keep shouting lazy all the place, what hardwork do the politicians do other than sit in an air-conditioned hall and scream Ays and Nays and then proceed to go home with tens of millions at the end of the month.

Throwback:
That you are hungry and angry does not make facts and records useless when making an informed opinion on a matter.

The facts of recent delivery are there, what then is your emotional outburst for?

That your anger and ignorance must be substituted for facts?

You're a waste of education.

Look at this Morronn.

So you think the government would come out and say;
"Okay, people, we've had these palliatives that are meant for you since April/May and we've actually planned on using them for our selfish gains"

Whatever education you think you have is worse than a waste. Your types actively come up with or support policies that improverish the people, just for your sadistic pleasures.

Once again, you disgust me.

Throwback:
I don't know, I only repeated the claims made by the state government as written in the news report.

Lagos State has evidence theirs was delivered on 22nd September.

Cross River has a delivery note to show it was delivered recently.

But an irrational hungry poor man cannot be convinced with facts and records, because he needs to enjoy his status as a victim.

Very soon the mob will come for the one in your house and ask you why you have kept it from them since April, as though you do not shop monthly.

Your brain is a waste.

Humanity is better off without your types. Supporter of an utterly evil government, you disgust me to no end. Fvck right off.

Throwback:
So now that those who are closest to the warehouses have looted what should be well rationed to many, who do the rest living far away from the warehouse go to meet for their own ration?

As if those staying far away were ever gonna get anything in the first place. Better for the few poor to get some than for you and your likes to keep them all for yourselves.

Stay pissed.

Throwback:
Delivered just last week, looted this week.

We need to start guarding our homes now.

When they are done looting from the government, the mob will turn on their fellow masses to loot some more.

You fvcking liar. You know deep in your evil heart those items weren't delivered last week. You also know those items are never gonna get to the people.

You and your evil likes find it easy to defend such evil government because you benefit from the evil in the land and can't relate to the people's sufferings.

Evil bastards. Spit on you.

Some teas help. Chamomile tea will knock you off within an hour.

Boldz:
Thanks you everyone for the great advice . she has insisted that my daughter must leave or she will leave with all 4 children , have told her my daughter will not go anywhere she will leave alone but she refused and keep fighting me I am tired of her madness I have made up my mind and told her to leave with all 4 children and we will meet in court. She made her choice and I am not going to stop her

Nice one. You are about to call off her bluff. She's insisting on leaving with those four kids as a way of getting her way and having you do her bidding. She's gonna come back to her senses when she realises it's not a walk in the park raising just one child as a single parent let alone four. Let her go.

YoungBlackRico:
What I get is respect, not this.

Until you don't do their bidding.

Snakes. By a country mile.

I hate them and I'm fvcking scared of them. Nightmares.

GOATandYAMtheory:
Aseju ni irun aya

#endSARS..if the government refuses to endSARS and endSWAT, we will startCARNIVAL and startORGY

You probably know this but I'll still remind you; you are a genuinely awful awful human being. Shameless to the core. You are standing on the wrong side of history and posterity will judge you unkindly.

Spit on you and your likes.

AristocraticMe:
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[b]Why is that? The divorce lawyer said men tend to mature less mentally than women. Women will think, why do I marry someone? I have to take care of the children and my husband.

Stopped taking the whole article serious after reading the emboldened, lmao.

Women are absolutely not more matured than men on average. Yes, girls start maturing at an earlier age than boys and usually at a faster rate, but they plateau very early because of the overwhelming attention they get from the opposite gender. Boys start slightly later, at a slightly slower rate but for much longer.

GOATandYAMtheory:
Clout chasing continues

You should be ashamed of yourself. Oh well, people like don't know what shame is so....as long it's all good on your side every one else can go to hell.

Lowest of the low.

Nooneonline:
Apologize not because u re right or wrong but because u respect the person and the relationship between u two. It might be a causal or personal relationship either way apologize.

Only apologise when you are wrong. Respect should be mutual. If the other person really does respect you, they won't demand apologies when they are wrong.

crackhaus:
Did you mean this as a bad thing, or as a good thing?

From the perspective of men, it's a good thing na... LOL
Just imagine walking up to a naija man and you tell him the only thing you need from him is his preek because he can't offer you anything else, is it not jackpot you have won for him like this?

Like I seriously don't understand those ladies, man. Women of other races love the black man cause he's got a massive gbola, damnit, that ain't exactly a bad thing, is it? . What won't those Asian/Indian men do to be in this "sad" situation

I probably won't lose a night's sleep if my wife divorces after even a year. Just an opportunity to wife a younger woman

Blue pilled simps don't know such women are doing them a favour

Friso:
I don't know why some people just blatantly hate peace, my child, her child, their child. Oga leave that story and continue to train the child, who knows who will be help to you 2mro.
Listen, one day we will all pass on, the story of my child, my money and my estate will be gone. Just be a reason why some one is happy today.
This life is too short, to want to kill yourself on someone's mistake.

Lmao

Whenever I want to hear/read something ridiculous I always pop in here in the family section and you guys never disappoint. . You mean the dude who's been lied to for close to a decade and deceived into raising someone else's child is the one who hates peace and not the woman who sets the whole thing in motion in the first place. . Amazing job you did at vilifying the victim here, sir/ma, and it's also unsurprising comments such as yours tend to rack up the most likes around here.

Weirdest section on nairaland, good for the laughs these days

You see why I think women don't even love their children as it's been constantly advertised. See the woman in that video, she doesn't give a fvck what her child wants; she's just so hell bent on being vindictive at the expense of everyone. As far as she's concerned, fvck her family, her feelings and wants are all that matter at the moment.

Fvcking selfish fatty.

You could just see the sadness in his eyes. The sadness in his voice. Looks a broken man. Betrayed by the woman he loves at the time he needed her the most. Takes a lot to recover from this. Most don't.

RightsToReject:
Only servile men do take women with an air of haughtiness and entitlement serious - the crass and opportunistic woman. Funnily, they do find it hard to handle rejection. Of course, show me a servile man, or woman, and I will point to you a disingenuous man.

I doff my hat for all conscientious women.

Women can't handle one hundredth of what they dish to men.

@thread's title, in other news, water is wet.

The reason why she's falling much harder in love (lust is more appropriate) with you is because you seem distant, she feels she hasn't really won you over. She's chasing your validation at the moment.

Watch her bolt away when you start being clingy, acting all needy, like your life depends on her/the relationship. . In a nutshell, the relationship will end when you start doing what she said she wants you to do. .

saucecode:
See this beautiful scripted nonsense,u think is only infants dat full nairaland bah. She says women dont marry down because they dont want to bruise guys ego, whu are you kidding wit this rubbish talk? . Women dont marry down simply because of self interest nd greed and wanting a better life than the one you were living as a single girl, simple and short!!!!!

Just look at how u re trying to paint one angelic model of women as people who are considering the ego of a man before dating him, well except you mean ego as in chuba ego billi billi

Women have an outstanding ability of lying to themselves and actually believing these lies. Unreal ability to do that, I tell you. Probably why they sound/look convincing when lying because they really really do believe those lies.

DBestDoc:
Honestly, i've been asking myself this same question. I have read a couple of books on the subject matter (The purpose driven life inclusive) but none was able to give me the precise answer i seek.

The meaninglessness and senselessness of life has led me to the startling realization that those who didn't have the chance to be born are the luckiest of all. I mean, i've thought deeply about everything and it's nothing but full blown madness.

Lots of fun around (Arsenal ruining most of my weekends still counts as fun ), lots of deserving faces to put a smile on. Doesn't sound meaningless and senseless to me. But, yeah, I'm probably just too simple and I find meaning and can make a sense out of the simple things in life.

I'll take that.

pocohantas:
And the sidechick is some other guy’s main chick, maybe wife. Good you all know the sidechick is important in the family cycle. It will save us future wailings of “fear women”.

We also just gonna act like women can’t get sex outside, be less interested in it or preoccupied with something else. So they just sit at home and BEG penis people for knacks. Delusions...

What exactly is your point though?

You probably won't see me complain about the emboldened.
Women can get sex outside? You mean they deny their husbands sex and then proceed to get it outside. To what ends exactly? Just for the thrill of destroying their families.

I genuinely don't know what you are talking about and somehow I'm the deluded one. Oh well.

Munzy14:


When u take sex, like your life depends on it as a man, the ladies will use it to shake u off ur guards.. But when u treat it otherwise, she will always want to give to prove points.

Again, women are not always ready, unlike men. you have To factor this.

Almost like our ancestors are wise to understand that polygamy isn't entirely bad.
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