₦airaland Forum

TheCork:
Sweery the good news for gays & gays men is that they should keep hiding behind computer on internet. The bad news is that if / when we catch/spot them, we beating the living daylights, strip them for been a disgrace to manhood & a waste of speeeeerm. They need to travel 6 feet under(no oofense)

Hey, where have you been, long time no see.

FuckHomophobes:
Darling, I thought you're straight? How come you're still on this thread.

I know you're so curious. I sent you a mail since last week, I'm still waiting for your reply. Lemme satisfy your curiosity.

You'd wish for it to happen again after the encounter

This shit right here is my answer to the question in the title, "What do I dislike about the LGBTQ community" Stay your ass away from sexually straight people, this is what I loathe about some alphabet people, then you want to whine and scream homophobic when someone knocks your ass out. Just like all the other threads on this site he can post anywhere he wants. You are the one out of line. Huntson get your boy.

HuntSon:
Anyone that's not hetero

Ok, it makes sense.

HuntSon:
A lovely afternoon to the queers and the LGBTQ community.

I saw a post sometime about grievances from gay people about the things they dislike in the community, so I decided to bring it up.

Is there anything you've noticed that you disliked about the community?

What's your definition of Queer?

Palehair:
I am not in one bit attracted to women. I tend to see myself as homoflexible. Sexuality is fluid

Just more descriptions to cause more complications and confusion. So it's LGBTQ and H now! I will stick with Alphabet people that way you're free to add more as we go along.

HuntSon:
People will start suspecting in no time and your family may force you to get married soon. It's not easy like it is over there. That's why grassroot enlightment is needed.

So what are you going to do when your family start pushing you for marriage, wait, how can your family Force you into marriage?

HuntSon:
Well, if the society allowed gay men to marry whom the love and not forcing women on them as the norm, they wouldn't have been no deception.

Why don't you be roommates, you don't have to marry your gay lover?

HuntSon:
Well I don't truly support gay men marrying hetero women, no one deserves to be played to that extent. But then again, you know it's not the gay men's fault either. If society allowed to be with the one they loved

Society is responsible for the homophobia but society is not responsible for gay men deception towards the women in your community.

HuntSon:
As long as you continue to marry innocent women resulting in lies and a broken wife and marriage I can never feel compassion for you, you deserve the 14 years for your lack of remorse, compassion, and your selfishness for the woman you are destroying.

Jesus Christ!!! the pain and anger is seeping....did a gay guy break ur tiny lil heart??

How is it our fault that we're marrying women when you don't want us to be with the gender we're attracted to??

Why do you equate stating facts with pain, anger, and my heart being broken by a GAY man, how is that possible?

If you aren't brave enough to be with the one you desire, live your life alone instead of reeking havoc and misery on to innocent women. Those women deserve to be loved by straight men who can give them the passion and joy they crave, gay men can't give that. Wallow in your own sorrow and leave the people who aren't responsible for it alone.

Alezy:
if u can't say all here then send me a DM then. I was fine but today isn't a good day for me. Some scammers took ever penny I have in my account this evening.

I'm sorry to hear that, people can be such monsters.

crackhouse:
She looks beautiful.....

Your name may have something to do with your opinion.

RichieMichie:
So this is the legendary rule 9? Laugh my gay ass off.

Homophobes are just stupid

Now, how's this a gay meeting seeing that you and a host of straight people are here? Tell me?
You should have steered clear so the gays can successfully have their meetings and just anonymous report. But no, homosexuality dey sweet all of us. Nonsense

See, the problem is, the title was misleading (What do you dislike about the LGBTQ community) that's why there are straight people clicking on the topic, we came to answer the question.

It has nothing to do with wanting to be around the alphabet community. If the op would have worded it ( As an LGBTQ member what do you dislike about the community) there would have been fewer views.

RichieMichie:
Seeing as you said you know a thing or two about sexuality, I don't expect you to be saying this.

SEX IS DIFFERENT FROM SEXUALITY

While sex play a huge role in our sexuality , it isn't the defining factor .

Your sexuality is who you are attracted to, not who you are having and not having sex with.
Gay men can have sex with women
Staight men too can have sex with men

At the end of the day it all boys down to the attractions involved.

With this your analogy you're defining bisexuals and bisexuality as those having sex with both genders. That ain't bisexuality. It's inclusive of the romantic attractions involved

I know you don't know this, there are those we call SIDES in the gay community. Basically they don't like anal sex but are still gay because they're still attracted to guys.

You haven't said anything I don't know and yes bisexual means being sexually attracted to two sexes, having sex with both genders. Yes there are gay men who do not participate in anal sex only oral just like there are bisexual men who don't participate in anal sex for himself but love penetrating other men and giving and receiving oral.

It's simple logic, GAY men desire/need other MEN, BISEXUAL men desire/need both MEN and WOMEN. STRAIGHT men do not sex other men willingly, if he does he's not straight but BISEXUAL.

# STRAIGHT men want women only.

# GAY men want men only.

# BISEXUAL men, you can just flip a coin and they'll take either.

chingle5:
And I am can of reserve and introverted in nature .... I will nt engage in discussion unless it was started by another person, I will nt speak with another person unless there is something that warrant the discussion in the first place, I hardly show or display my emotions.. In other to give myself a purpose I put money b4 self ..... I was just trying to come will a logical understanding abt all this gap in regarding my relationship and sexual orientation status..... And I think u might hv help me shred some light on it

Ok sweetie, I'm glad I could help.

chingle5:
I was think abt what u said abt replusive... And I no I am being distancing myself from relationship bt when u explain that the replusiveness is as a result of the opposite sex u no what I mean..... I immediately no that that is not the reason I was looking for

Ok!

RichieMichie:
This cracked me up
My dear, there are those of us who wouldn't sleep with a woman, not that we find it repulsive like someone ignorantly said, it's just because we are attracted to guys. But there are many gay men that sleeps with women. Some because of denial of their sexuality, others just for the release.

If they are sleeping with women they aren't gay, they are bisexual. Bisexual..... sexually attracted to both men and women. Stop making up excuses to call bisexual men gay.

chingle5:
Hmmmm hmmm I think we r nw relating... Hw can I care for d special women nd my unborn child if I don't hv that strong foundation ... This just reminded me of scarface movie..

You were saying you were confused about your sexual orientation so how do you come to the conclusion that you want to be with a special woman for the rest of your life?

chingle5:
Let just say MONEY so that u can comprehend compadra

Ok. You are all about CREAM, Cash Rules Everything Around Me. Money before self.

chingle5:
I think it is success... I don't think I hv attain a level that is worthy of being committed... I don't no but if I am being true to myself I think I am being rational

I'm not understanding, what does success have to do with your orientation confusion?

Durentt:
good reasoning comparing attraction to another human being as being attracted to a shoe.
Chingle5 forget all these labels and live your life

Incase you didn't understand the analogy, he was saying there is no sexual attraction for a female coming from a gay man, it doesn't mean he doesn't find her physically beautiful/attractive.

RichieMichie:
Oops, my bad. I thought you were one of the homophobes


First of, I won't get married to an heterosexual woman. It is too much of a chore for me.

Second, you don't see homophobes deserving of that same 14yrs imprisonment for all the Wickedness they've put queer people through, but a gay man who've succumb to the pressures of these homophobes and settle down with a woman is deserving of 14yrs imprisonment? Be clowning there.

About homophobia, people are entitled to their feeling but the moment they inflict any physical harm on to another because of their feelings they should be punished as well. Look at me, I have a lot of animosity towards whites and rightfully so but the moment I start inflicting physical unprovoked harm on someone I will be punished for it.

PS... It's better for the homophobes to express their feelings verbally on this forum than to express them physically in the streets. You should welcome the discourse instead of shutting them out like the op suggested.

chingle5:
Okk I figure it out..... Its another reason

What's the reason?

RichieMichie:
I ain't scared of Nairaland rules.


Aww, you ain't a Nigerian, that's sweet. Hope you ain't in another conservative African country with oppressive laws towards queers?

I know you aren't afraid of NL rules, that's my point. NL is just a faceless forum that can't do anything to change the status quo. Standing up to your government is what makes the changes.

I'm American and believe me, the US was once just as oppressive to alphabet people until they fought for their rights. As a matter of fact the US was/is oppressive to all minorities, that's why the shit has hit the fan and people are fighting back.

RichieMichie:
Gay men will continue to marry unsuspecting hetero women as long as homophobia strives.
I mean, you lot keep telling them their sexuality is just a phase and should try pussy, so why this?




BTW, every homophobic person deserves a closeted partner. Nonsense

Stop saying u lot, address your comment to me. I don't believe homosexuality is a phase I believe you/they are born that way and I will never suggest experiencing a sexual encounter with the opposite sex, that's unfair to the unknowing person.

As long as you continue to marry innocent women resulting in lies and a broken wife and marriage I can never feel compassion for you, you deserve the 14 years for your lack of remorse, compassion, and your selfishness for the woman you are destroying. When will you stand up to your government, look what we Americans are doing right now? Our government suck as well, that's why we have to fight it to make changes.

PS. Everything I said applies to the females in your community as well.

RichieMichie:
You, my dear, like your straight counterparts know little to nothing about homosexuality. It's obvious in this comment.

I know more than you think, try reading my following post to get some understanding if you care.

RichieMichie:
Lol, this is funny. Ain't we all in the same country that her citizens are scared of the government? Forget homosexuality, how many people come out to protest the evils of the present government publicly?

The same way y'all scared of the government that's how we're scared of them. If the government were sane we'd all fight publicly. The last time a protest was carried out we all saw how they were all flogged and dehumanized. You and I don't want that. So stop bullshiting me. Homosexuals are not the only ones under a faceless forum fighting for their rights.

My point exactly. You were coming across all bad and bold on NL like a warrior who isn't afraid of NL rules so I challenged you to take your bravery to the streets and fight for your rights Mr. Warrior. I'm glad you see my point, by the way, I'm not Nigerian.

chingle5:
Sorry I really need u to answer my question coz I am trying to understand my sexual orientation.....
What do u mean by they find it repulsive can u pls share some light on this......

They find the vag.ina repulsive (sexually), bisexual men do not.

chingle5:
Sorry I wan to understand something, I no dat gay mean a man that is attracted to another man bt I really wan to know? does it mean that they will not have sex with another woman ever Till they die

Gay men want, love, desire, and crave, MEN, they have the same desires as a straight woman. They want to be loved, held, respected, treasured and be made love to by a MAN. They want to live their lives with a MAN not screwing women on the side.

I'm not saying gay men has never experienced sex with a woman(usually in his youth) but it was only an experience that only happens one time. The hardest part(coming from a gay man)is getting hard and staying hard, getting sexually aroused by a woman is like getting aroused by a shoe.

Durentt, here's my reply to your comment.

Palehair:
Wow, i'm kinda disappointed in you of all people. Thought you understood the spectrum regarding sex and sexuality. I don't label myself but if labels were strictly important, I would say I'm gay but i've had more sexual contact with women than men still I don't want a relationship with them. They are both complex but at the end... Sex is just an action while sexuality is much more, it's an all-out attraction

Exactly, it's all about attraction. I couldn't have said it better, you are attracted to women as well as men, you may prefer one over the other but the attraction is still there.

Durentt:
are you just naive or deliberately doing it for the attention?

Are you denying that many of your people live a phony life and marry women making their lives miserable with your lie while you have a man on the side (your real love) to please your society?

HuntSon:
So you really want us to hate ourselves because we're not like you?? I'm GAY and PROUD!!!

Baba fucking pussy doesn't change one's sexuality, Gays goes beyond wanting to have sex with the same gender man. I Bleep pussy at times. I AM GAY!!!! It will not make me hetero.

Pls stop stressing me out, find a book and read...it's 2020!

You're bisexual, gay men don't have sex with women, they find it repulsive and can't even get the little man to salute. Now that I know your sexuality I will no longer address YOU as an alphabet person but bisexual.

PS.. No one wants you to hate yourself, it's better for you and women in your Nigerian community (not bisexual community) to know the truth, too many of y'all pretending and marrying women and making their lives miserable with your lie.

RichieMichie:
I know right? We've been breaking the Nigerian law since 2014, what is Nairaland rule 9 compared to that?

You live your life in secret so that you aren't breaking any laws. Why don't you come out of the closet, make a public stance for you and your people's rights, Mr. Bad ass? Stop being a warrior on NL and fight the powers that are '"oppressing" alphabet people." I'll support you.