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abysirius:
APC introduced NELFUND to assist students they complained. First lady spoke about giving market women stipends to support them for petty trading they still complained. Now they are giving them food but you are still complaining. Perhaps they should tell us what APC should be distributing on the street. In Lagos Island few days ago they were sharing school bags and stationery to parents but it doesn't matter because they must complain. Meanwhile, go to their region, na Malt and sausage dem dey give voters to thumb print on election day

If you're not a 400L you will understand it's better to create effective systems that will gradually stabilize the economy, reduce poverty, ensure basic amenities and services are obtainable to the poor masses such as public housing, foods, healthcare which will help in reducing the gap between the poor and the rich, but you rather support the dolling out of stipends shameless sharing of items that will not do any real long-term good to those on the receiving end. And you will tell me you're educated or enlightened with a 🧠 like that? Really? And you think it's funny in this modern world?

That we still operate this way in 2026 is evidence of true backwardness. Selling the future for a loaf of cassava bread or some cups of rice or a few thousands in naira worth next to nothing

Reminds me of my Church days as a worker in the church for years until I discovered the truth. If not for my personal principles I would have fvckd a lot of church female leaders but it's not just my style. All these church meetings and groups are just covers for something to else. Everyone deceiving themselves and putting up appearances.

My church virgin girl knew exactly who I was cos I never pretended to be holier. I invited her to places I normally chill. Did things I know I didn't have to hide from myself and she still chose me over and over but I had to let her go because she had issues with boundaries and wasn't ready to learn or probably is just her. She no believe till today say i fit ghost her. Still on my WhatsApp and we do chat sometimes, she probably hasn't gotten the full understanding yet because I'm out of Lagos for the now so she might think we still stand a chance when I get back.

People love to live fake lives and pretend for the crowd, even pastors and mummy Go's are not spared. They're all hypocrites. Playing religion while neglecting the truth. I know members who knack each other on a normal and they run through all the groups in the church. And yeah they all put on religious appearances and speak in various tongues of fire and pray hot with fasting regularly and all the works, but in reality it's just a show of deception.

Truth is the entire religious system is rigged and has always been from the beginning because it's all built on falsehoods, deception and control using fear. Its all a circus show now and the cards are all crumbling as people are waking up everyday

Ruthy2026:
Every Sunday, millions of Christians wake up, dress up, and head to church. For many, it is one of the most important routines of the week.

But here is a question worth asking:

If Sunday disappeared from the calendar tomorrow, would our relationship with God remain the same?

That question isn't meant to attack church attendance. In fact, gathering together has deep roots in Christianity. The New Testament records believers meeting on the first day of the week, including the church at Troas gathering to break bread and receive teaching.

But perhaps we sometimes focus so much on going to church that we forget the bigger purpose of being the Church.

Was Sunday always the Christian "Sabbath"?

This is where things get interesting.

The biblical Sabbath was the seventh day, and the history of Christian Sunday worship developed gradually rather than through one simple command changing Saturday to Sunday. Historical evidence indicates that early Christians increasingly gathered on Sunday because of its connection with Christ's resurrection, while Sabbath observance continued among some Jewish Christians.

The resurrection itself is described as occurring on the first day of the week.

So when Christians gather on Sunday today, the practice has a long historical and theological story behind it.

But perhaps the more important question is not "Saturday or Sunday?"

It is:

"What are we actually doing with our faith?"

Church Attendance Is Not the Same as Spiritual Growth

Someone can attend church every Sunday and still struggle to forgive.

Someone can know dozens of Bible verses and still treat people badly.

Someone can sit in the front row every week and never help the person sitting outside the church who needs encouragement.

And someone who misses a Sunday because of circumstances isn't automatically less faithful.

Jesus repeatedly challenged the idea that outward religious activity was enough. The Christian life is supposed to influence how we treat people, make decisions, handle money, forgive others, and live when nobody is watching.

That is where Sunday becomes more than a weekly appointment.

Church should change what happens after we leave church.

What If We Started Measuring Church Differently?

You're still sleeping but when the time is ripe enough for your awakening you will understand there's no truth in blind faith but alignment. Then you begin to understand and unravel the truth you need to grow. For now keep enjoying your fairytale

DjAndroid:
Na so I jam one mature Yoruba lady in a matchmaking video on tiktok. She said she was 43 and was seriously looking for a husband. We chatted briefly on tiktok then moved to WhatsApp. When I told her I am civil servant, she stopped talking. Then I called her, she said: "I cannot date a civil servant, you will have nothing to offer me. Manage your salary with your family"

I shock ooo. So she been dey find sugar daddy at 43? But she told everyone was looking for a husband.

Na so I tell am say if had a family, I would not be looking for her. And that I was looking for a wife, not a side chick and that if I was looking for a side chick, I would not go for a 43 year old woman.

Lol why were you shocked? You no know say na liability she be? A woman at her age who is single should tell you that she's not ready but some of una go wan believe say na man cause am. Now your eyes done clear to the reasons she's single ahbi

lightwind:
Before before i been think say na handsome guy, based on music star wey him be.

You know all this celebrities, musicians na handsome guys dem always be

Oh okay I get it now. You wanted him to be ya boyfriend/ girlfriend 🤣

lightwind:
Bro you ugly o, in fact you ugly well well

You must be a rainbow guy to even be concerned about another guy's looks. A guy that's not deformed, on the street, under harsh sun and took a random selfie and all you could see was if he's ugly or not. Shebi you na beautiful man ahbi you be princess... Even females that are supposed to be doing so didn't bother about his looks but another male. Lol, you rainbow ppl are something else sha

That thing be like ordinary tomato paste for pot. Obviously you didn't boil it before making the sauce

Hahaha 🤣

Looking at those old and worn out dirty notes. It's possible say na bandits money.

dormenedynasty:
Sorry about that. You can reread it again.

No you should rewrite it again more constructively this time and leave out all the unnecessary bs that makes it seemed like a 5 year old is trying to write

dormenedynasty:
No, i don't. It is something that always happens to me. Even with my mother. It has cost me a lot of friends.

A married women where I work years ago, oh my God.

She walked up to me and asked, why can't you look at me, eye ball to eye ball.

I can't dock my friends wife na.

Okay so because you're uncomfortable with holding your her gaze then automatically you want to fvck her? You and your friend no get better things to occupy yourselves with than jumping from one beer parlor to another that's why.

Lol

I wish I understood a thing you typed because nothing is connecting here. When you're ready to say something we are here to listen and not judge.

Patnome:
What has been your contribution to the growth to the great south/west.........

Always bringing tribastic tone to everything

That shows you he's an empty fellow. And the funny part is it's not even a "Yoruba" owned business but they're already claiming it on the thread. Abi Auwalu Abdullahi Rano has suddenly turned to a Yoruba person and even minus that it's not an invention it's just simply a better way of doing the business that's already been done in other places over decades ago

Mariangeles:
Na so!

No be you again? Bini bwoy!

I hear you, me when like enjoyment pass anything... I no get time for wahala and gbewa squad biko. We get how we dey run am dey go, but who still need problems I go still pack am give them too oo

Mariangeles:
@ bolded, I dey use one 👁 dey look you.

Lol no level o. I no dey do such bad at all. I like my karma beautiful 😍

And the eejiot is claiming pastor. People actually go to his church too 😂
Openly threatening someone's life and yet he's not brought in for questioning by the relevant authorities? I hope Davido prepares a quiet trap for you too. Just make sure your sef no leave Edo State or even for the Edo sef dem 7 men fit still run you quietly and you kpai for nothing
Who dey run things no dey threaten, na action under the darkness while light exposes results. Big novice and a Stewwwpd fake Pastor

And when they carry you for ransom you go forget all these

Diamond098454:
Kidda hahaha hahaha hahaha
You can talk oooooo hmmmm
I'm a good girl

I know, you're a very good girl in deed

Diamond098454:
That thing too much

See this one, swear say you no like am. I'm sure you're already flooded

Very sexy 12 gauge pumpy

If low self esteem was a man... Damn I wish no one ever becomes like you and I hope you never raise any male children because that would be very devastating to mother nature and humankind.

This is genuinely coming from a place of love

RUDEBOYY:
For me o... instead of giving flowers and making it look like marriage is a bed of roses...try and start at that moment telling her what you're can afford in marriage and what you can't, making sure she is ok with you with or without is very important.
Marriage is a mutual obligation not just for the man alone to cater for All life's need .. ..let me stop here for now

Oh you think they have been playing ludo all these while before coming back to where they first met again? Which kind oversabi be this na?

EnogweEugene:
Na farm ba 😄😁😁

Harvester

Oh so you never sabi say na farm? Better farming ooh

And our girls down here will be misbehaving. Make them carry una go core North make una see something. When one old gworo chewing mallam of 89 years dey carry black tongue near you morning and night you go cry but no help, then una know howfar

allanphash7:
What's the meaning of the rubbish ads on NL lately Seun

Do something improving about this now


It's getting irritating day by day

Lol... See this wan oo. oh make Seun no chop? You dey pay am? Na make e irritate you Seun need, provided he's getting paid for it or you think the ads are free? Try run am make you see na

American justice system is just always somehow. 6 years? what happened to life? In reality she's getting only two years max. Hahahahahahahaaha and yet they really want to curb crime Lol. Sadly i remember the was the same guy hating om=n black women openly because he's dating a white tramp. Now he's gone for good while the gardentool will be famous and she can even start shooting free flicks from jail, who knows. In the states anything is possible

Every human being, regardless of gender, possesses a breaking point under extreme psychological, emotional, or physical duress...

First time I was broken was the separation from my little angel. Crazy cos I was also going through a tough time then. Business was dead slow, I had accommodation problems. Went through hell from jumping from one cheap hotel room to another after my supposed friend kicked me out of his house because of a woman and when I ran out of cash I was able to convince one good pastor to allow me sleep in his church floor. Till I was able to get back up on my feet. All these while I had the thoughts of the little times we shared before shyt hit the fan. but then I learned to absorb it after a while

Second time was losing my mom. She was my confidant and best friend, I could tell her anything I didn't tell no soul. Haven't seen her in 6 years and was planning to in July last year and then it all happened so fast, first week of July, a little health break down spiraled into a coma and before I knew it a few days into the second week, she was gone. The next I would see her was cold and lifeless, in the mortuary. I couldn't take it in. I couldn't eat nor sleep for days but mourn, grieve and get angry at God cos I had lot's of plans for her that we used to talk about which I was sure of and then this happened. I was destroyed, grieved for months and even now sometimes I still shed tears when I reflect back on some memories. Still heavy, but I had to cope with it all. Life goes on.

True any man broken by the absence or rejection of a lover is a boy but never in your life say Men who know themselves can't be broken. Except you don't know yourself, are superficial, without real core values, stand for nothing, mentally, psychologically and emotionally empty... In truth except you are really dead among the living then maybe you might be right to say you can never be broken by any circumstances.

Or most likely you just want to brag for cheap attention on Nairaland to claim what you are not or can never be in real life. The real world is much more than cheap likes and shares or stewwwpd validation from aimless and brainless kids

ufotunang:
.. nawaaooo..see what konji has caused for you 🙄

Na natural something