₦airaland Forum

FreeStuffsNG:
Those suffering from inferiority complex that is so pathological that they think these toilet-stealing countries are "saner clime " and their citizens are better than you should read this.

Any country where anyone would steal a toilet is fantastically insanely corrupt!

you no get talk for mouth as usual

Moferere:
Una go cry tired

never expect anything sensible from an agbado miscreant, it's always support for violence and death

Sagay is a piece of shît I'll never ever take seriously

what a shît hole

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

look for elders your mother really respects then go and beg her. I understand your fears but you shouldn't have thrown your mom under like that, you'll have to be diplomatic in certain affairs especially when it concerns immediate family. You'll also have to beg your siblings one by one or if they're with your mother when visiting

nairalanduser23:
Yes, we have

I am fulfilling my financial obligations

make sure you're a stud in za oza room. Women like drama unfortunately and if everywhere is peaceful for a long time, they'll create that drama by force. I also learned by force that women will only take a man serious if other women have interest in him. I'm not an advocate of adultery but I'll advise you join a gym and get into shape (if you're not) then get some new trendy clothes for yourself, stay out late and receive some strange calls (you don't need to date o, just hire a girl for this purpose ie 1kn recharge card once in a while) Any woman worth her salt will ask you how far. By the time she cries shege two times, you'll then let her know her bad character chased you outside. DON'T CHEAT O, just pretend to cheat

Wawelexy:
Let's wait for the autopsy reports on her... A lot could have led to her death.

Her last meal..
Her last conversation on phone
Where she visited last
Etc...

This might not be ritual related like everyone will speculate, but her boyfriend should be thoroughly investigated too.

May her soul rest in peace

read to comprehend and comment out of understanding next time

MS2471:
Chinedu don vex for Canada embassy

you're sick

Ekez:
Simplymumu
Cilimumu
Vulturegriller

Come and see development

shame suppose dey catch una but agbadorians no get single shame I swear

cunny88:
The easterners that cried foul about alaba and trade fair, hope they can see that lagos is only sanitizing the state and not victimizing anyone

keep quiet

Racoon:
Meanwhile, this allocation had sparked criticisms from Nigerians, particularly in light of the prevailing economic challenges and calls for a reduction in the cost of governance. Amid the backlash from Nigerians, the presidency said the yacht was a naval vessel and not for President Bola Tinubu.

“What was named as Presidential Yacht in the budget is an Operational Naval boat with specialized security gadgets suitable for high profile operational inspection and not for the use of the President,” Bayo Onanuga, 

I have a feeling Bayo was konking his own head while telling that wonderful half lamba

OmoFiditi:
Some Ibos are too loud and it attract too much hate to the tribe..
Why can't some of you just quietly build without making noise and gathering more enemies.

Use your head sometimes, use wisdom.

When I was doing my PhD, less 1% of my acquaintances knew, when I finished the thing shocked many. I got my PhD at 28.
Loudness no be wiseness.

keep quiet you satanic, tribal bigot. Did anybody drag you to this thread ? What is wrong with you sadists that you'll always complain when others are saying good about their regions ? Bad belle

Corrupt elephants fighting, no need getting involved on either side

DMCMandy:
Thanks for the reply, where can I do such test? I’m in Benin. And about the thermostat, the valve is not opening well anymore, which is why it was removed and he said it is hard to replace.
If there anywhere I can get a replacement please I’ll be happy to hear as well.

Thanks a lot

do that test before you destroy your engine. There should be some well equiped workshops in Benin city, do your research or ask gazzuzz if he has a plug

benuejosh:
we don't have to go far. What happened in the South East during the election?

why gaslighting ? I asked a straight forward question that you're obviously scared to answer truthfully. Coward

benuejosh:
LP were the chief riggers of the last election. But thanks to the reputable courts of justice in Nigeria for doing what is right.

can you swear with the Bible or your village juju that what you're saying the truth ?

Ikaeniyan0:
This is the same way fij got the certificate saga wrong

Please point out the yacht in Buhari's 2023 budget, let me check something

ganisucks:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02H16XKeRdWtqPQbgm4X3jB1oZTL6cDQM4XAACw9TcFuKVBTUUBUXynBNQz3iZkUHol&id=100001155348708&mibextid=2JQ9oc

this is the type of fate Wike is avoiding, being reduced to the level of Reno okoro yarimo etc

Cromagnon:
they should also celebrate my mother's sheepishness

I support

emmaodet:
So Iran wants to go head on with US? Is that not going to be a herculean task?
Anyway, let's see how everything unfolds

let's just say military wise especially in terms of equipment, Iran is just like Francis Nganou. You might beat them but, they'll surely touch you well

yarimo:
FG should make sure the Free clinical test is limited to south east only.

devil

CodeTemplar:
Must be a skit or content creator work.

obviously

Watch how agbadorian imbecilès celebrate this impunity

This long epistle just because Rufai refused to eat condemned corn Na wa o

Jogs1900:
Leave Lagos matter alone...Face your state black man with low IQ.
Busy body

cry

Someone swear by Ogun or Sango or even their respective holy books that all these countries purchased presidential yatchs during the worst financial crises in their respective histories. I want to check something

okoro:
my useless mother is a fôol

okoro the satanic pastor. It is not proper to bring your dysfunctional family activities to the internet. Concentrate on eating agbado and abusing Peter Obi after all, its the only thing financing your mid age crisis right now

Whalis:
And your mumu head never told you that Fubara doesn't have respect for Wike? Someone who brought you from obscurity just 5 months you have fallen out with him and you think such person has managerial acumen to manage a state like Rivers State?
Tinubu will reason to support Wike in this. An independent Fubara is a threat to Tinubus second term ambition. This is the sell to Tinubu and why Tinubu will back Wike. There is nothing Fubara will tell Tinubu to convince him.

I have never seen one agbado person support anything sensible, it's always impunity and corruption with you people. Tufiakwa

Godwin4444:
u igbos n your useless propaganda

It’s obvious u don’t understand Yoruba but your wish is just that everything should scatter so even if u see 2 boys fighting u are ready to bring out d greatest propaganda from it

It’s association of fish sellers protesting about hike in fish price so how does that relate to the topic by d olori pelebe

I'm from Bayelsa State you worthless bigot but that's aside at least, we're going somewhere since we've agreed that

There was a protest in Ogun State

Yoruba is not a Rivers State language hence can't and won't be used in a protest

We also agree that fish is the only foodstuff that witnessed an increase in price

Thank you very much

Godwin4444:
what about d pic of the end police shirt n d end police brutality in d main picture that igbo op deleted?

U igbos can’t use propaganda to ruin the nation cos u lost

Accept defeat n let it b part n parcel of u

keep shut and focus on the important evidence oga. When did Shagamu become Port Harcourt ? Watch the damn video please

Godwin4444:
u b igbo so no surprises

watch the video you lying, tribal bigot and tell me when Yoruba became the local language of Rivers State. Also explain why the girl was complaining bitterly about those blaming Tinubu. You see that you APC people are hypocrites no matter where you stand abi ?