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NorthernAgender:
Dont believe it but its cleared for everyone to see you igbos that only involves in illegal business should look for something else.

Kingpin1000:
Keke work no be bad work na.
Maybe na wetin dey give the man Joy.
To be serious, one cannot predict tomorrow, immediately I had thought, I just try to do my best without breaking the law or hurting anyone.
2020 model of G wagon na old model now.
Thank God the man sum up the courage to hustle instead of begging people that wont help or even going into crime.

Wisesaying001:
Suppose that we could close our eyes today and see the real certainties and uncertainties of tomorrow, we would have never wished to open our eyes again for the real certainties and uncertainties of tomorrow never ends!

WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.

stunnert:
I swear bro the first three months were hell, I've got one of those big size dicks which comes with a lot of trouble. First I got rid of my smartphone for the first two months so as to totally avoid watching porn

After the first month I used to have insane string erections for no reason at all, I could just be chilling or doing something then my dick will just start getting erect, on seeing this I would take some ice blocks from the freezer and put it in a bucket of cold water for ten minutes then use the cold water to bath, that always brings the erections down instantly or I go for a long walk where I exert a lot of energy

Another thing I did was to form a new habit I do whenever I get the sexual urge, I started going to the gym regularly and doing home workouts

After three months I got a new smartphone and I wasn't getting the urge to visit porn sites or hookup sites and I did away with all my girlfriends, hook up girls, friends with benefits.

The fourth month was the hardest, my balls were literally full and sending urges which I valiantly fought, whenever I see a lady on short skirt my mind would start playing games on me that I should make a move, but I stood my ground and I was determined that nothing would stop me.

The fifth month I started feeling a sense of achievement which was motivating to continue to abstain from sex

The key is strong determination and even if you have sex after a while you mustn't let the guilt feeling consume you rather you pick yourself up and try again. I used to tail my self ' I might experience some failures, temptations, but I'll never stop trying and that has brought me to nine straight months and the strength I feel in my body is on another level

stunnert:
I'm on it, nine months and still counting but I noticed that these days I get attention from a lot of ladies both from work, home and friends of my sisters, I can't really explain it it's like there something in me that wasn't there before that's attracting them and it seems they just wanna break my celibacy but God pass them sha

okoroemeka:
I think you have a pretty high sex libido and dont you think having to juggle such number of women with their drama will be distracting,don't you think it is time to look closely at masturbation to reduce the number of women you juggle by at least 50% for a start,it helps to control runaway libido and give the man control over himself.

bobokeshington:
Try no dey ejaculate na. E no hard.

SultanOfPuna:
Hmmm

bigpriik:
If you find it hard to read what I wrote above go collect your school fees back.