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2loadedguy:
It's obvious you don't know football and would be a Ronaldo fan that thinks football begins and ends with who scored the goals. Any footballer or tactician would notice Neymar is the one breaking up play and dictating the game upfront to frustrate Bayern's attacking threats.

And its certain that u are a messi fan...thats y u wanna classify an assist provider above a goal scorer... goal scorers will forever rule over assist providers...

Mbappe shock...neymar wey de find glory

U see the way a real goal scorer takes his chances ...

All these chances neymar is wasting , if mbappe gets one, it will send them thru to the semis

shogsman:
He hit the post twice and you're saying he is a pussey,you people can't be objective without being stupid

Hitting the post dont win u games...scoring goals win u games

2loadedguy:
Mbappe may be getting the goals but Neymar is the main thing in this PSG team. Such a skillful player and a delight to watch!

Crap....mbappes goals is the reason y they are playing bayern and on the verge of a semi final... and he is most likely to score....dribbles and passing dont guarantee victory...goals do

deni2002:
That's the sad part. The women always bear the brunt of it all... I tire o. The world is twisted sha...

The men are allowed to *taste* several women and no one bothers but lerrit be the woman now, everybody shall arise and condemn her...

Baba God, personally you know I told you I dinno want to be a gal...

The same way the world dont really care if a woman is financially independent.... if Linda ikeji were a man, she wud hv been married a long time ago... but if a man is broke, he should just forget about marriage cos no woman will take him seriously, best is one woman will manage him and still treat him like trash.... men know this already and thats y we hustle hard...but women have failed to understand that they are validated by number of past sexual partners ... a very rich man will rather marry a broke virgin than to marry a rich hoe...ask Ned Nwoko

JeffSiberstein:
How e take affect you, if you love person their past does not concern you, it only does when it's affecting your current relationship. If due to the abortions you guys are finding it difficult to conceive or you notice she has other sexual relationship with others or still keep in touch with her exes apart from those bros e nor concern you. The pussy is always new to the newcomer.

All of una wey dey complain about girls and money are really babies. You want your girl to look like craze they follow you about town, make her know how you feel about your role in the financial obligations of the relationship, make plans together and stick to it, encourage her to hustle(not with her body or you die Young) if she can't reason with you run for your life, "LOVE WORKS TO BRING MONEY....MONEY DOESN'T BUY LOVE...SO KNOW WHAT YOU SOW WHILE SEEKING FOR LOVE.

Love u say....u are a novice ....or new in the game... when reality sets in, love will japa

...so because of sex , u went thru all these... ur friend is a simp and I cant hv friends like him... smh

Wiw...

Women and bitterness sha

Lovethaa:
It surprises me how Men are the ones trying to make me feel guilty o'er my post.. So you mean this generation no longer have principles..


She's slept around and aborted babies ... her body count is uncountable and y'all want me to settle down with her because she is honest... you are all silly ...


Fnvk maturity... maturity kill all of you there ... I'll train my daughter well and lead her into the right path... to all those supporting her actions... I pray you breed that kind of daughter and your son's marry that kind of wife....

U are a real man...and with ur mentality...u will find a correct woman with dignity ... hoes and simps are the ones attacking u... kidwaya dumped Erica cos he knows she's a hoe... but her fellow hoes and simps were busy attacking him... leave hoes for simps

darealbabe:
I just read rubbish. No be your fault, na boy you be. Only a child thinks like you do, and it's obvious you are a little child.
What is dirty about her past? What's the meaning of shit behind pretty face? Or are you just plain foolish and have lost use of your senses(that's if you have any)? Oh, I forgot, you are just a child.
You successfully advertised your stunted intelligence. Congratulations.
See, make sure you leave her alone! Change your mind completely! And keep your judgemental, deluded self to you and the people that deserve you.

He is not a child...he is being himself and that is real... its his choice, he has standards ... he doesn't want to marry someone with a dirty past cis he knows it cud affect his sanity .... they are alot of girls with a clean past and he will find one ... because u feel u should not b judged doesn't mean u should hoe around at a young age only to form sober when u have distributed more that Nigerian bottling company

deni2002:
If the op does that, it's because the lady has no value in his eyes. Newsflash: he isn't the one to determine her worth. If this lady has changed, another man will come for her and in cases like this, the other man will be far better than the man op is... Go check history

Story...give me history... stop deceiving urself ....all men are the same when it comes to that department of a woman's past... some live in denial and some pretend so that they wudnt b viewed as judgemental.... y do u think men protects their daughters towards their fellow men compared to women.... it hurts a man more when he hears that his daughter is hoeing around compared to when his wife hears about it... thats y u hear stuff like when a daughter starts to grow his father buys a gun... men love to taste different women but don't wanna marry a woman that has tasted different men , no matter how pretty or intelligent u are...if he eventually even marries u, he will b treating u like trash

deni2002:
Like your past is perfect...

So because I was an armed robbers, I should allow my daughter to marry a former armed robbers... women as well will runaway from a broke guy that opened up to them about his finances especially if he wasted him money on past girlfriends , even the girls that finished another man's money will reject him cos they will also say he has no prudence with money and he should hv tot about his future b4 being wasteful

deni2002:
You don't get it, do you? Agreed it is not nice when someone has been messed up. The way I see it, this girl has changed and she is trying to write her life properly so she is worth it. She is redeemable.

If I come across a man who has water his inheritance on women and sex in the past but has genuinely changed, yes I can marry him.

The truth is alot of marriages crash these days due to let me just marry cos I am getting too old and also marrying out of pity....marriage is no childs play.... those butterflies u feel in the beginning will fade away with time, thats just human nature .... if years later she can't bare him kids or the broke man still wanders around with nothing to show for it, frustration will kick in... if she eventually has a daughter and she starts to hoe around, he will secretly start to regret marrying her ... if u marry the broke guy and he makes money and somehow it disappears again, u will regret marrying him...most terrible partners are terrible because of something about their partners that they wudnt wanna disclose to anyone...some live in self-denial... if this op eventually marries her and he finds a girl with a clean past, he will dump her as a wife and u guys that encouraged him to marry her will still co e to call men scum

deni2002:
In this day and age, we have your type? Wow! Afi bloodysperm! I pray I never come across your type.

What do u mean by this day and age?? So u wanna go on a 4kin spree and expect a man to value u after sucking different d1cks.... will u marry a man that wasted his inheritance on women and sex??

deni2002:
Later when we ladies refuse to open up and dirty secrets pop out after marriage, your type will still talk.

I salute that lady for her courage. She trusted you and told you and this is what you can come out with? Puhleasssse...

You that you're expecting her to be a virgin, are you one? Even if you are, it still doesn't mean you should downgrade her like that. O wrong nau...

If she manages to get into another relationship, because of this (if she knows your decision), she might not now open up to the poor brother.

I may be wrong o broda but I don't really think you love the aunty...

Besides, think about it, she was introduced to such a life at 8 by one uncle and she said her mom would've beaten her up if she opened up. It's not as if she was deliberately into prostitution. Shouldn't that make you reconsider?

This lady for all you know might be a very good one but because of her past, you don throway d gal for dustbin abi? Tuale. By the time you jam a virgin that will make your life hell after marriage, maybe you'll understand better.

Why wud u have a 4kd up past in the first place...u loose morals, 4k around with different d1cks while thinking when its time to marry i will change...that is the most foolish way to reason... dint u know u were gonna get married someday ...the body that u give out anyhow is the sane body that some man will pay bride price for... the truth is even if u get married , with time ur husband will start to misbehave cos he knows u hv no dignity or value, tho he might not mention it...thats y alot of marriage is going downhill these days

JeffSiberstein:
What concerns you with abortions she did when you didn't know her. What you are supposed to be scared of is marrying a rich mans daughter because of her father's money. 90% of the time the money nor go show for your body I done see many around that end in years for the guys, so go and find money and leave the girl alone. Since you be saint.

Abortions and number of sexual partners must concern a man just like money concerns a woman

ibkonekt:
It would have been better if she did not sleep around in her past like a worthless wh0re in the name of freedom feminism and my body my choice. That way you wont have to lie or be economical with the truth. But ladies want to have their cake and eat it too. Men are disgusted by high body count. It signifies impulsiveness stupidity and lack of ability to discern the lies of society and feminism. No matter the amount of commercial and indoctrination that media tries to push about accepting wh0res as wives, men of value will not do so. They belong to the street

U have said it all...money validates a man and number of sexual partners validates a woman... just like women reject and judge broke guys , thats how men naturally reject and judge women with body counts

BinamRex:
Guy, shut up, will you? People are trying to make you see reason, but you are hellbent on being judgemental and perfect.

Na by force...he has set his standards...u cant force him to accept what he doesn't want

sapphiere:
Are you any better than her? Bloody hypocrite.

Will u marry a broke man if he opens up to u ...bloody hypocrite

2elliot:
But we just called a hoe a hoe, and you are offended na.

Don't mind those mofos... do not judge they say , but will judge and abandon u the moment u open up to them about ur finance.... is a a broke guy u open ur mouth and tell ur gf that u are struggling and that u used to have alot of money in the past but ur ex gfs finished ur money, how many of them will remain with u... only simps are attacking the op

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Is this really necessary, though? He's just one man, babe. See almost all the men on this thread (surprisingly) have spoken against the OP. There are tens of thousands of men that'll vibe with that babe. People will find their tribe. You said she's her authentic self. Nobody knows, but that's the point. To be authentic. Women are sexual creatures. Women like sex. How you choose to express that solely rests with you. That people will criticize you shouldn't stop you from doing what you want - if you have the mind.

I agree that we should all be sensible, though, in the latter part of your comment. Don't do things because a man 'induced' you and 'cajoled' you and whatever. That is not wokeness. Wokeness is another entirely valid thing that people misunderstand.

If women divest from marriages and men, a lot of these issues wouldn't be at all...[/color]

All those men u think are supporting her will still treat her like trash after the sex... u women are not smart enough to understand men... the way a woman gets frustrated with a broke bf or husband with time is the way a guys frustration will grow because of her past...keep getting deceived....

heartbraker:
wat are u ladies even saying? Can u advice ur blood brother to marry a lady dat av done abortion more dat 4times at 24yeaq of age? Gosh! Dis is africa mehn! As a Lady u need some dignities, i mean as plubic figure or career person and a riff raff will be somewhere boosting d countless sexecades he had with my wife plus abortion? If u have more dan 2body count as a lady u are a turn off for me and u immediatly equal a shit no matter whom u are, to hell with maturity on dis type of case.

The funny thing is that all these ladies will abandon a man that decides to open up about the true nature of his finances....

Lovethaa:
Who are you again.?

Guy I support u...pls stick to ur standards...all these women saying u are judgemental dont remember they are judgemental when u are broke.... she only is trying to act good cos she knows she has a slim chance due to her past...if she had a clean past, she will even b tough or arrogant towards u.... women don't tell the truth fully... they hide some and say some... dont b surprised that she also got pregnant thru gang bangs or foursomes ... she could also b one of those I dont like condoms girls...

PrimadonnaO:
Chai. Lessons to all the ladies out there o. Ndi wokeism! Ndi sex-on-the-first-date, Ndi sexually-liberated. They will use it against you!

Oga is not criticising himself for making out with the lady... instead he's criticising the lady. What a life!

As for the things she told you, I hope it doesn't make her feel worthless. I understand her kind of person. When she likes a person, she doesn't want secrets. She wants to bare it all and be seen for who she really is.

I applaud her and I hope she doesn't change because that's what it means to be authentic. If this gist had come out in marriage, the man would have felt defrauded.

OP, you have to handle this with tact and utmost sensibility. Since you said you don't want to marry her, no wahala... your intentions weren't even pure. You were considering her because she's from a wealthy background.

What I'll advise you do is that you sustain the tempo of your interactions for a while so that when you begin to disconnect, she won't trace it to the revelations she made.

And biko, don't sleep with her whether or not she initiates it.


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That being said, please my dears, try not to make too many mistakes in life so you don't have secrets that you'll be advised to take to the grave. Isn't that too burdensome?

Try not to do things that you can't boldly come out to admit you did.

One abortion may be a mistake, but two, three four. Haba nau! Why? These men you're having sex with and aborting babies for are walking away unscathed. Can't you see it? Don't cover it up with wokeness or whatever. You're doing yourself such an injustice.

A man who may have made other girls in the past to abort his babies will still come out tomorrow and dump another girl who tells him she's had an abortion.

U are a wise woman...u have said it all...most men telling him that he acts like a kid and bla bla will do the same... men wanna sleep with different women but don't want to marry a woman that has a high body count... just like women like men that are generous but don't like it when the man that they truly love and wanna marry and wanna marry them is generous with cash to anyone...they get scared and see him as being careless with money.... women need to understand that men don't take women with some type of past serious....

Casalindal:
Let me address this once and for all, in as much there are loads of persons here, using female gender on their profile for what ever reasons, which I honestly don’t care and I also understand totally why some of you feel the need to always think I’m a guy. I don’t owe anyone explanation in regards to that. So please in Jesus name all of you should rest with the guy calling...... if you feel I’m a guy please stop sending me dm stop following my thread stop please and rest haba it’s over a year you guys keep feeding this narrative.

Proof it...since u already have ur face posted ...why don't u post another with a peace sign and todays date

If u are not a hardened criminal with criminal activities as back up in ur CV...u will not b allowed in public office in this zoo

Avoid Nigerian actresses for ur own good....they depict the true nature of an average Nigerian woman when they acquire little money or fame ... rude, uncultured, arrogant , disrespectful, selfish, entitlement mentality and insulting

Although i don't believe ur delusions, i hope u know there is an infrared camera in all cinemas that records live movements in the halls...just don't b surprised when ur sexapade goes viral on the net

SmartPolician:
Women are really suffering in the name of marriage

That's why you seem them pushing for feminism today.

So men are not suffering?? Abeg de reason atimes