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Oliviaarims:
Don't mind them.. .

zicoraads:
I don't subscribe to this piece, well, maybe some part of it.

First, you said something about being financially buoyant, and then in the next sentence you said something about 'raking in millions'. Being financially buoyant doesn't necessarily mean one has to be raking in millions . What it means is that you can provide the three basic needs of food, shelter and clothing. That is financial buoyancy . And if you honestly think those things shouldn't play a very vital role in the plans of someone who is planning to get married, then think again.

Financial buoyancy is relative to different individuals and what you consider buoyant, another considers not. That being said if you look closely at the context of the OPs post you would notice he explained what he meant by the term "buoyant". The highlighted post below is exactly the same point you raised.

naijaboiy:
But I stand contrary to that belief. You don't need to be financially buoyant before you can decide that you want to get married. By buoyant I mean you don't have to be raking in millions into your account before you can now say you want to tie the knot. It is a very sad thing that this is what majority of single guys think today. We men have put ourselves in a box that has no escape route. If you have a job and a steady income or you're in business and you earn enough that can take care of you, your wife and maybe a child or two why not get married? Especially if you're already engaged to a lady.

@zicoraads
I understand your stance but there isn't a universally acceptable definition of financial buoyancy which makes any definition merely an opinion. There is also no scale to measure financial buoyancy when it comes to getting married, our wants and needs differ. That being said you also stated that there is a vast difference between being financially buoyant and raking millions, actually there isn't. Those raking millions are also termed financially buoyant, reason why I stated earlier that the term is relative.

I understand the Ops argument which stems from the fact that, you cannot wait till you have achieved all your goals in life before thinking of getting married as that isn't really feasible. But then again marriage is also about acceptable risks and knowing when to go into it. The most important thing is one shouldn't be pressured into it, the decision of when to is an individual choice which should be respected.

Chrisrare:
I didn't read d full crap he wrote, it was too long. But what does ''u don't have to be financially buoyant to get married mean''??

Full crap?

Since you didn't read it, you have no moral or ethical justification to criticize the write up. Its like insulting a book titled "Eat that frog" just because the literal translation sounds gross. Next time read through then criticize constructively, rather than dropping pesky comments and still saying the same thing the OP had already said.

Chrisrare:
Exactly my thought. The op is obviously deluded. U have to be financially and mentally ready b4 going into marriage, otherwise there will be consequence. Imagine watching ur wife and children starve cos u aren't financially ready for marriage.

Did you even read the OPs post before dropping this comment?

Point out where he advocated for getting married without being financially and mentally ready.
To type and throw irrelevant jabs go just dey itch una for hand

uyi26:
10. It’s true, many people would die. But the remaining people alive would sit right . They would show respect for one another. Politeness would prevail and crimes would be reduced to almost zero. Isn’t there any sense in this?

You apparently have been watching too many Hollywood movies!
@Bold Really?? and you know this because you can see the future?

You acknowledge the fact that many people would die yet you still think this is what we need as a nation?
A law that has the potential of putting an innocent life at risk isn't even worth discussing!

iamord:
major shots fired.. Even as a Ghanaian. The impact hit me hard.

Hahahaha...But the Ghanian's comeback was epic tho!

See as stray bullet hit naija

mrmrmister:
So through the whole dating period, you didn't notice the nose until she became your fiancee??
Pointed nose is another criteria for marriage
Some people don mad finish

He was busy sucking boobi!

numericalguy:
lol..

Ghanians and hate.. Zuckerberg resides in the US. That means the US must be the most less privileged country on the planet if we were to go by Ghanian standard of measuring less privileged.

Ghanians are so dumb.

Uncle this your kain logic, odikwa funny ooo!

How is "visiting a country" and being a citizen and resident of another country the same?

It was a satirical shade bro!

How is this jealousy? lol...

From the screenshot, the initial shade was made by a Kenyan to Ghanians and just the same way Nigerians didn't ignore the loudmouthed Kenyan Journalist, a Ghanaian fired back. Howbeit we were cut in the crossfire..

efilefun:
some people will faint today

Bekwarra:
Naso one girl carry her laptop come my room that time make I help am do assignment o. The girl no even dey my department. I rush go online, check all the soft copies of materials wey dey her system. I use two days do assignment as per say I wan do better job. After I don type finish I carry system dey go her hostel. As I don dey near na hin I call her say I don almost reach o. Naso the werey girl. Talk say "hey sweetheart I'm very sorry I'm in Daniel's place off-campus. He's sick and I've gone to help him cook. Can you please help me bring it tomorrow morning when coming to the faculty." I just stand there they look like mumu. Daniel na guy wey she tell me say na her toaster who just dey disturb her and she don tell am say dem no fit date. My creator will never forgive that girl.

Chaiii Hahahahaha... You na ABF Head of Logistics!!

ipledge10:
why bring oracle into the matter

I couldn't help it

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Make i follow you cry



Kin.glekan, stop making this young guy shed tears! [/color]

Is your fellow ladies oooo! The things y'all put us through cos of puzzzayyy, only God wee judge.

Bekwarra:
Minister of Agriculture loooool. Ayaf die. But baba you know how many times wey u don buy shawarma na.

All they have to do is form sexy voice or show small cleavage and i don turn mumu... May God deliver us from Karishikas!


Lalasticala which one be your ministry oooo?

Jacksparr0w127:
hahahahaha. You are Fayose's heir



Some are All but #9. They do all yet never get to kpansh. Too bad.

Girls bad

Hahahahaha...fayose indeed

Chaii.. Bois dey suffer ooo.

Na person go be ABF defence and strategy aka Minister of Defence... Olorun o ni jekin shoribu laye ti mowa

JeffreyJamez:
Guy!.....I just evaluate my existence right now .....I know how many I don be No 2 for! ....na life be this?

Nor be only u bro! After i watch that "Igodye joke" i just dey think my life

Bekwarra:
5. ABF Repairs and Maintenance
Baba is always the one responsible for repairs and maintenance of household items. If you fall under this category, you know yourself. You are always remembered when her wall socket gets burnt, she wants to change the bulb, her wristwatch suddenly stops working, her laptop needs to be reformatted, her small tiger gen is refusing to start or her extension bo blew off, then you fall under this category. Well December is almost here and she wants to repaint her room, bro go and get some of your clothes you no longer wear, change into them and grab the goddamn paint container and brush abeg.

This one almost got me shedding tears! .. Gehs are pure evil

JeffreyJamez come see your ministry ooo! Mr FixIT

Michellla:
some place filled with everyday toils and all that

Ghost!!!!!!!

Jarizod:
Oga Pee..no vex oo e go pass 5

Happy birthday new month to this wonderful e-fam of mine..


kingl.ekan


And many other sweethearts..if I continue space for NL go finish

Love y'all scara ♥

Padi Happy Birthday new month to you too

Wetin my moniker dey find for ABF Stomach Infrastructure?

Do I look like the Minister of Agriculture?

Fantastic Write Up Op....Thumbs up

prettyAdaolisa:
Merry new month...


King.lekan and kin.grex...I barely chat with u guys but always add una to my list...strange


And lots more...I love u all

Thanks dear...happy new month to you too!

TrapQueen77:




Finally the "Ber month" is HERE



here In Asia, we believed tat when the ber month comes, the money flowing is very smooth and easy Make dem rain....


So, lemme wish those ppol who are so close to my heart a Happy September and may the Money won't stop pouring on each one of you

Smellin.gAnus my best friend for life...
SlyIs.aac my whatsapp buddy...
FirstK.ing01- Mr. Sexy guy...
LastKi.ng147 - newfound friend
Lexxyb.urg - the Mr.Hustle Boy
Kinglek.an- the Busiest man ive ever known
Thesuav.e10 - my personal doctor & friend

And ofcurz to the " LOVE OF MY LIFE " :
R.oyalblak007

And ofcurz to my followers... Guys Happy New Month... muuuaaah

Happy New Month Dear!

Handsomecole:
Nice try, but your LOGO has some errors.
1: It's too clumsy
2: How can you have two elephants on the logo, is Abia all about elephants, even the elephants are leaning on the state, you want to use the weight to bring down the state??

3: still on the elephants, why are they wearing head caps and boxers are they human beings?? It makes no sense bro.

4: The elephants where standing in position as if they wanted to urinate on the state which is a disrespect .

The other logo is simple and the items were better defined even without explanations.
And the elephant in the other Logo looks happier.

Millerz:
The bolded makes no sense.

Read what he typed again. This time very slowly, I am sure it would make a whole lot of sense then.

SnakeXenzia:
5. I’m not like other guys
Oshey Mr different.

Differential equation.

We hail thee!

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Lol only 10%?....you no greedy sha....was expecting a 50/50 thing
Lemme suggest mount Everest for you .......
.yes o...amebo dey pay scarra ....make we start to hammer....."economy harsh"

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I nor greedy atal ooo! i wan make u make am quick sef.

ROTFL @Everest.. Before I climb reach the top, your granddaughter for don dey do her wedding.
You for kukuma talk say make I go International Space Station nah, as per the higher I go up, the closer to heaven bah?

charijee:
[color=#CD1076]My brother ...If only they're willing to pay in six zeros

No mind me sha....I like complete gist (amebo) [/color]

Hehehehehe @Six zeros! Just remember sey I be MOG ooo. Na only 10% I need from the returns. I dey go mountain now go begin fast ontop your matter..lol

Amebo sef dey pay! Aunty Linda Ikeji is a testimony. Just make up your mind quick make I know the direction of my prayer point for you.

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charijee:
[color=#CD1076]Where's the op
Come gimme complete gist jare....only interested in the end result. ...
How much the guy finally pay
How many rounds she give am
Was sucking and romancing included





Handiwork of my keypad [/color]

Sis Charijee why is this gist of interest to you?

Are you planning on venturing into the business?