Nairaland General › Re: SEE What This Girl Is Doing To Herself!! (photo) by kinglekan: 12:17pm On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: k
If I catch that kingtom ehn
Ok  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 12:16pm On May 05, 2015 |
stephenqueen: I don tell you make u bring your sister, na she go tell you the remaining. I can't shout,m not China phone. So ti ye eee  Oga u are already shouting jaweee!!  Oleee oshii, u dey find clean babe to sama. Wetin consine me consine u? If u like go sama all d bois for ur area. Kokanaye!!!  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 12:14pm On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin:
 How many times I go warn u sey I nor like dis kain mumu smiley? If I daze u from here, u go just enta coma straight.  |
Romance › Re: An Open Letter To Those Who Kiss Girls by kinglekan: 12:10pm On May 05, 2015 |
kilokeys: kiss her like wind, kiss her like rain, kiss her like spark
move slow, let her hips guide you
feel her meaningful, thrust gentle
move like you are giving something back Beamborla all that got my attention is the above.  |
Romance › Re: An Open Letter To Those Who Kiss Girls by kinglekan: 12:06pm On May 05, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: *lanicky £ Family ¢hat Thread•••••CoMe In* by kinglekan: 12:05pm On May 05, 2015 |
lanicky: Hi! Kinglekan....ao was ur night?  Supa dupa cool ooo and urs  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 12:04pm On May 05, 2015 |
alberto2k: why u dey call me i resemble your gay partner? Hahahaha!! Dis guy don kolo finish ooo. Chai Stephenqueen even ur only supporter don decamp leave u. Abeg make u nor dey mention gay again ooo.  |
Nairaland General › Re: SEE What This Girl Is Doing To Herself!! (photo) by kinglekan: 12:02pm On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: rada rada
I jus dy pity ur wife to be with this ya yeye abusive words Na u make me like dis naa!! I used to be a very cool calm collected admirer of ggrin till I got to know that SHE abi HE is a Tranny.  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 11:57am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: we all know say u be gay na 
Infact I don cover ma yansh hole with suku agbado  
Cc king lekan Kingtom Alberto2k Orijin101 jacksparrow1207 Hehehehe!! Stephenqueen nor dey raise this gay matter again. The whole world knows ur sexual preference already. Find anoda story wey go sell jareee.  Ggrin d wicked tranny. Heheheheh |
Nairaland General › Re: SEE What This Girl Is Doing To Herself!! (photo) by kinglekan: 11:53am On May 05, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Compromise: Where Do We Draw The Line by kinglekan(op): 11:50am On May 05, 2015 |
EricRichie: Sacrifice; is a constant a real relationship leading to marriage can't do without. . Both partners have to give up something precious to them for the sake of the relationship else it might fail...
I find it hard to think that it's a bad thing if both sacrifice something for the sake of the relationship. .. So far it makes them both happy, I think putting a compromise to what they can put into the relationship is useless Hmmmm!! I really don't get your last sentence though. Can you throw mor light? Cos I feel you can use sacrifice and compromise interchangeably in this context. |
Romance › Re: Compromise: Where Do We Draw The Line by kinglekan(op): 11:45am On May 05, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Compromise: Where Do We Draw The Line by kinglekan(op): 11:44am On May 05, 2015 |
jacksparrow1207: Sometimes, we just have to accept the fact that 'people don't change'. They can only pretend to. The best thing to do is 'let em do em ' else, pretence and lies would be the foundation on which the relationship would be built. Take them the way the are or move on with your life
Having said all these, I think your partner deserves some respect. Since you both agreed to call quit on some things, u should work on it Very interesting point of view. I agree with you quite frankly but based on your last para, let's take for instance you had a lady you truly loved and she had to make certain compromises because you both agreed from the onset. Or rather after you stated what you preferred. Having endured for long, she came to the realisation that she can't keep up with this and she truly loves you, which prompted her to open up about it later on when you got married. What would your reaction be? Would you be willing to compromise for the love you have for her or consider her a truce breaker for saying such? |
Romance › Re: Compromise: Where Do We Draw The Line by kinglekan(op): 11:34am On May 05, 2015 |
Chiam55: I guess it depends on what the bomb is but since you said it's not necessarily bad then I could try and live with it. But if it's something I know I couldn't handle then I'd jump ship. So if its something you can't handle, you would jump ship regardless of your love for him and all the time you have invested in the relationship? Not forgetting that you are newly weds? |
Romance › Re: Guys, Do Y'all Agree With This Opinion? by kinglekan: 9:14am On May 05, 2015 |
tosyne2much: If no be say I no want make you come back from retirement, I for follow you drag the babe  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 9:13am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: baba agba kingtom ti fun mi ni ogun odeshi fun gbogbo ogun  Shoroniyen?  KingTOM na Babalawo ni? |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 9:12am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: okobo  Wa dan mi woo naaa!!
Punnany e ma catch fire ni straight.  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 9:11am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: kilon shey eleyi bai Olobeee oshiii |
Romance › Re: Guys, Do Y'all Agree With This Opinion? by kinglekan: 9:10am On May 05, 2015 |
Beamborla: I don't gerrit.
You mean you should help me handle my own?  Helll Yeahh!!!  |
Romance › Re: Guys, Do Y'all Agree With This Opinion? by kinglekan: 9:09am On May 05, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Nairaland! Please Tell Me Why Girls Do This! by kinglekan: 9:08am On May 05, 2015 |
Mhizkel:
You mean ayam an aeroplane? U be JET!!  |
Nairaland General › Re: The Black Man. by kinglekan: 9:04am On May 05, 2015 |
Darkrebel666: ~ Whoever wrote that must be drunk ..
How does he base his theory of blacks not appreciating Frank Ocean's music because he's gay(a black faggit to be precise) just because of what his silly gambling friends said.
There are many other black people have different views and opinions and are open-minded. That Analogy employed is the worst if he actually intended on using that to preach against Racism among blacks. I wonder where he got his facts from that we'd rather prefer a white man dominating than a fellow black. That's mentality is so retardedd considering the tensions among the white and blacks currently I don't totally agree with you bro!! I don't think he has made up any theory here. All I could read in it was someone who basically stated his opinion based on his experience. Silly as his friends might be, its silly little opinions like this that spreads and cause discrimination. Are there not other blacks in south africa who are open-minded and are not in support of this xenophobic acts? How many have spoken out? How many have openly condemned it. They would rather let the silly minority voice out their archaic and depraved mentality. I don't want to totally dispute the analogy he gave and I believe he made a valid point by saying we are more tolerant to their misgivings (Whites). How many times do we openly criticise them on our media when they are in the wrong? Most African countries currently ravaged by civil war and unrest are caused by differences in language, culture, traditions and beliefs. Very minute and silly issues that keep them in a state of backwardness. |
Romance › Compromise: Where Do We Draw The Line by kinglekan(op): 8:35am On May 05, 2015*. Modified: 1:17pm On May 05, 2015 |
For anyone seeking a serious relationship, the major goal is to find that "Special Someone" who completes you. That person who brings out the best in you, one who complements you like a missing piece of a jigsaw puzzle, one who accepts you and isn't overly critical of you.
In such healthy relationships, both partners can freely express themselves and also meet each others needs. Although I have found out that most relationships are often self centered, where a partner demands that the other change in a deep and meaningful way to meet their own needs or their acceptable standards.
Yess!!! little compromises are natural and essential ingredients in any serious relationship, but how do we draw that thin line so as not to give up too much of what is really important to us for the sake of a relationship that should rather affirm who you already are?
So let's assume you found someone you truly call special and they had to make certain compromises just because you stated them as your ground rules.
These things your partner had to let go off are not necessarily bad, but they are just simple issues that have formed the major part of your decision to take the relationship to the next level.
So you get married after years of courtship and a day after your wedding, your partner opens up. He/She let's you know how hard it has been compromising and they drop the bomb "You would have to accept me for who I really am to make this union work"
What do you do? Do you jump ship or rather set sail with your partner for what might turn out to be a very stormy voyage, hoping you wouldn't encounter ice bergs just like the titanic.
Let's discuss within context 
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Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 7:21am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: kingtom na esu tapo si   |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 7:20am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: who be this cow Oniranu oshiiii!!  |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Overweight Policemen From Different Parts Of The World by kinglekan: 7:19am On May 05, 2015 |
ggrin: so u be gay  Ogun lo ma pa eee, fun nnkan to so yen.  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: *lanicky £ Family ¢hat Thread•••••CoMe In* by kinglekan: 7:17am On May 05, 2015 |
lanicky: Goodmorning everyone.....*yawns*
king lekan
Nd u!! Yes u!!  Morning Lanicky  |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide’s Son Is Just Too Cute (see Photo) by kinglekan: 7:15am On May 05, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Hilarious Facebook Updates By Ladies And Men by kinglekan: 7:12am On May 05, 2015 |
Mhizkel: Continue dreaming!
Kinglekan, cuman see another example of your fake awakening thread!  I don see am ooo!! E don tey wey she dey like dt.  |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide’s Son Is Just Too Cute (see Photo) by kinglekan: 7:11am On May 05, 2015 |
oyin17: ipledge call this your friend to order or else.... Or else kini?  |
Romance › Re: Nairaland! Please Tell Me Why Girls Do This! by kinglekan: 7:10am On May 05, 2015 |
Mhizkel:
Wahz loling u now? Nofin hun, I bin tink say u dey fly b4.  |
Romance › Re: Nairaland! Please Tell Me Why Girls Do This! by kinglekan: 12:17am On May 05, 2015 |
Mhizkel: Lol..Dis d time m alwayz free! Lol, 
Okies dearie  |