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I think some women are the most wicked people on earth. Bringing other people's children to a marriage hurts not your husband alone but also your child. This is the height of evil. The boy should just consider himself adopted and start behaving well to his former father.

Seems the boy is quite disrespectful to actually forward this kind of message to you in the first place.
I doubt he will send it to his employer or his school principal.

Blackmailer trying to save face. Akpabio go fall my hand if him go.

When we say LGBT is demonic, liberals and clowns say we are hateful, etc. Now can they tell us the insanity behind this?

zelnababa:
you never ready to mary.

Oh so he should marry anyone he is not comfortable with so he will later divorce? Come on, let him find who doesn't have issues he considers as red flags.

tobeezman:
I met this fine geh at a tech event in Lagos.
Before the event started, we had a little chit-chat and mehn, she was exactly my type. Beautiful, intelligent, confident, and we just clicked. You know that kind of connection that feels like you’ve known someone for years? Yeah, that was it.

Throughout the event, we kept vibing, laughing at the same jokes, sharing ideas, everything just aligned.

At the end, I asked for her name she said Linda.
Cool name.

Then I asked where she was from, she said Anambra.
My eyes lit up. I’m from Anambra too!

So I got curious and asked, “What village?”
She mentioned it and boom, it’s in the same local government as mine. I was like, “This is fate.”

Everything was lining up perfectly.
She was single, I’m single, we shared interests, goals, and background… until one tiny moment changed everything.

She gave me her business card and I didn’t see a single Igbo name on it.
Both her first and last names were English.

When I got home, I texted her, I asked, gently, “Don’t you have an Igbo name?”

Her reply?

“I don’t like my Igbo name, and I don’t like speaking Igbo either.”

That one message drained everything I felt for her.
Instantly.

It wasn’t about tribal pride or anything dramatic, it was just the realization that we might see identity differently.
Because for me, being Igbo isn’t just where I’m from, it’s who I am. It’s the rhythm in my thoughts, the tone in my laughter, the root of my values.

And when someone rejects that part of themselves, it feels like they’ve rejected a part of me too.

So yeah… I ghosted her.
Not because she wasn’t amazing, but because something in me went cold.

Don't blame her much man. Most women are like that. They have no pride in where they are from.
Reminds me of one lady then I was toasting but was in mid-30s. She said if her man doesn't have plans to travel abroad, she will quit the relationship. I'm like WTF, you're heading menopausal and your only aim is to travel abroad. Upon that, your papa no fit send you japa but you dey find man wey go take you japa. I deleted her number the next day. Hopefully, you'll find someone better.

It's good South Sudan left them so they don't have to be part of this senseless war which the West has abandoned and the Arabs are using to flex their muscles.

The influencer has apologized. Lets move on. Bokku is owned by an Igbo family.

writetopoker:
i can bet you that a nigerian is involved in this. the mind, calculation and work involved is pure nigerian oriented

It can be anybody. Crime has no race.

DEMOO07:
Is Only a fool that will call for military take over in Nigeria... Who brought us to this level? Who concoct the 1999 constitution. Military rule is an aberration. No matter how bad a democratic government is, it evolves and limited by time and space. In military government, only few opportunist enjoys and civilians, many still benefits - even if they are wicked, it still go more round than the military. And be expecting any bloody takeover anytime - so no trust in any way.

This guy is bitter just because his candidate lost. Simple!!! Is a shame.

Bullcrap. When the legitimate Muslim Brotherhood party in Egypt was overexerting itself under Morsi, the military took over power in 2013.
As we speak, the military head that took over Al-Sisi is still the president of Egypt and he is doing great things.
In Africa, democracy has been used to justify greed of the leaders. Look at Cameroon, Uganda, Nigeria, etc. When they see the threat of military taking over, perhaps they will sit up and do what they were elected for.

Reno has no soul. It is getting more and more obvious.

These are the influencers of our GenZ generation

This is a good initiative. Some girls don't have good mothers to teach them proper menstrual, vaginal and even anaal hygiene.

Na so una go turn jailbird for Thailand. Now the question is was it worth it?

IF I have to buy anything from there, I will check the ratings and review of the products.

This wahala in this country is enough to make someone act crazy.

Can christian leaders in the south say this?
Someone told me the pastors in the south are more of businessmen. While the ones in the North are the real defiant ones. May the Good Lord continue to protect and deliver them and use them to convert the blood thristy radicals up there.

Princeton92:
I see shell logo on the car 👁️👁️

Car is rented. He may sack his photographer for letting the logo show.

Angelfrost:
Christian religious indoctrination about marriage aside... Polygamy excelled in the past because society was not as immoral and money-focused as it has become today.


So, even if you bypass the doctrinal shackles of religion and/or modern borrowed societal values of today, how many young men of today can economically sustain a Polygamous union?!!


Even at the turn of the 18th - 20th centuries, it was becoming even more undesirable for struggling and financially disadvantaged men, of which the numbers of such are astronomical today.


So, it's okay to listen to overfed criminals like Ned and even agree with his stand on the "benefits" of Polygamy, but the reality remains... Is it actionable or even sustainably feasible in today's harsh times?!!


Or, you think you can court and marry multiple working class women, none whom would mind sharing financial burdens with the same man they share with fellow wives?!! Today's feminists?!! Lol.



Abeg... Leave all this talk.

Thanks for adding "overfed criminals" to my vocabulary. So appropriate.

InvertedHammer:
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Touchy topic.

According to the Bible, God created Adam and Eve (ie one man and one woman). But then, God sure did love polygamists and adulterers like Abraham, David, Jacob and even freaking Solomon.

Monogamy is white men's arrangement for legal reasons. Since white men rule the world, it makes sense that they call the shots and the rest follow. The only concern is when those indoctrinated into it try to convince others that it is the best as if they know any better or have a choice.

Why do you think traditional marriage is not recognized until you perform church or court wedding? It is because they made the rules. They really pushed the envelope by trying to convince others that man/man or woman/woman marriage is ok contrary to Biblical principles. As expected, the followers cheered on too and say it is the best thing since sliced bread. Don't be surprised that a few years down the line, they will convince people that marriages between men and trees are ok. Heck! They show the world cunnilingus, anal and other perverted sexual practices and they became generally accepted. What can you do?

In summary, you don't know who you are. You don't know what's best for you. So sit back and wait until the white men gives you a direction in life. Teacher don't teach me nonsense.

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Did you read your bible? If you did and ended up at this, you have to read it again.
The original plan of God was one man and one wife. Polygamy was man's choice not God's will and in the world we live in, God allows men to make their choices as long as it does not break His commandments.
The 4 people you mentioned, only David was an adulterer and he paid the price with 2 of his children and almost his own life. God has nothing to do with adultery. When Solomon had numerous concubines and they took him from God, he paid the price and lost his kingdom. So please do not say what God did not allow.
Personally, polygamy is the choice of anyone. If you can handle it, then go ahead. Doesn't stop anyone from going to heaven. Just unnecessary animosity and jealousy.

His point is that if he had someone like Regina as an only wife, imagine how messed up his life would have been. But he had her in the midst of others.

Regular modus operandi. Raid a night joint, arrest everybody and make everyone bail themselves while the agency makes good money.
BBN graduate for don pay like 200k now to sort himself. That is why I avoid night joints.

None for dating.
The last 3 for marrying.

advanceDNA:
How did u marry a stranger with no chemistry, no cohesion in the first place?? Was it arranged marriage...una eyes nor just dey one place...na another person woman una dey get chemistry with

I advice people not to marry under pressure. When they do, they are forcing it to work and most likely the other partner is hiding their inner self. But once marriage is in, you cannot keep acting forever, the truth comes out. There are many loveless marriages out there. Not mine, I am just expressing what many people are going through.

Auxtan:
An evil fornicator that brings more souls to God than not doing anything at all might just have a soft spot in God's heart. When this evil fornicator combines it with purity, then this evil fornicator will become unstoppable in God's kingdom.

If you learnt this belief from a church, my brother it is time to leave that church. God and righteousness are inseparable.

advanceDNA:
Anybody meeting their "original" partner after getting married to someone else is just greedy ..their eyes is still in the street...

..u will.meet many more fine pple after u get married......face ur marriage...... Na because u never start to dey live with them they look like the best spouse

Not so man. Many people are married to the wrong partners. No chemistry, no cohesion, just like they are married to strangers.

MrGerald:
I should be the one to tell you this

And you had to after I said so

So fans just choose to dash someone 123k USD for just being popular?

MrGerald:
This is actually your own problem not them, I've lived among them and know how these things work

If you cannot have an intelligent conversation, you have a choice to pass.

I have come to realise that 90% of women have no depth. They only value who meets their current needs. If you like sacrifice your left hand to keep them alive, when they are saved they will leave you for the man with 2 hands. There are 10% who have values and if you jam them, you have struck gold.