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EreluRoz:
I don't believe any man will go that far, it's just fake stories you'll see

I have seen it directly with my own eyes, it's true.

JESHAL007:
@emmaodet, times have changed,

I believe that by "deeply in love" she means "truly sexually attracted". What else could it be?

Women have always been the same. All the wh0.rēs you see today aren't worse than their mothers. They just have less barriers to do what women actually want to do, so they do it more.

What you see as values and morals in the previous generations is mostly just social and logistic barriers.

These days, women need men less and less for survival. So the rate at which they give unattractive men a chance decreases, which makes it much harder for the average man out there, because he is considered unattractive. Generally speaking, either she finds you sexvally or financially appealing (there are of course exceptions, but this is the general rule). And since poverty and the standard for attractiveness for men are rising while women are getting richer and technology/logistics/society expands their dating pool while reducing their need for men, it is getting more and more difficult for men.
You see how bad men are having it in dating today? I say it's nothing compared to what we'll have in 10 years.

luminouz:
I don't know if anyone here read about the Argentina Casting scandal going on right now. Just find time and research on that and let some shock run through your system.

A pill a day keeps simping away.

Heard about it. Shows what women will do for money, including the so-called "good ones."

Holluwhakemmy:
excuse me I'm not a man

Whatever you say, sir.

Holluwhakemmy:
Majority of us ladies says that but in reality it doesn't work that way, average height, money and what you have to offer do the do

This is 100% a man.
Why do men pretend to be women online? I wonder.

Gerrard59:
GBAM!

Please collect an e-handshake. Well deserved!

Thank you sir.

LordIsaac:
Until they clock 50 ...Then the realization!

And so what? What does it have to do with you? OK, when they get 50, they may regret. But does that improve your life in any way?

Live your life bro. Let women live theirs. And if they (ever) regret, that's their personal problem.

Instead of expecting women to regret their dating and mating choices when they reach 50, focus on ensuring that you won't regret your own choices when you reach 50.

emmaodet:
I think the past experience of their mothers, grandmothers is what is making them to be more ruthless in their choices else, they will fall into the same pit.
Let's be frank, so many men out there are nothing to write home about.
They are very very irresponsible who just want to bang, no support for the woman's kids or pregnancy or upkeep.
Do you expect such men to procreate? And cause more wahala for us?

I get you. But aren't these kinds of men the ones who procreate the most?

I believe that, for the most part, women know the kind of men who would not be caring fathers. Sure we can make mistakes, we can misjudge people, but more often than not, I would say that the women went in knowing that this person is just not that type of guy.

I'm sure that we all know at least one good-for-nothing bum who has girls chasing him and at least one great guy on paper who has no woman around.

[quote author=emmaodet post=138860260][/quote]Alright

@emmaodet
@pansophist
@CaveAdullam
@Gerrard59

She has rejected numerous guys for insubstantial reasons in her past: height, facial beauty, money, skin color, dress style, not wanting to simp, etc...

anochuko01:
I believe it's just courtesy to ask somebody to "come and eat", she never does that.

Gets angry and acts cold when corrected.

Always say she can't kneel down for her hubby.

She's always saying she doesn't share her food.

She makes no effort in understanding my job.

Never spent a dime for me.



Verdict: though she's loyal because of her background as a pastors child, she's also arrogant and selfish. My mind's made up anyways, na just natter of time.

Couldn't help but laugh at the bolded part 🤣🤣

I'd say if she bills you at all. There is no time frame for this.

heartofcity12:
Happy New Year fellas

Happy New Year OG

Martinez39s:
I see where you are going.

I see that you know

sabbiboi:
REAL LIFE mehn… The redpill has never been a lie.
I am grateful to be part of this movement.
If you don’t understand women you will suffer, lol.😂

Please, let’s keep this page alive for posterity sake. I believe only nairaland has got a long thread of dosage of red pills and real life tales to back up the stories. So don’t mind some douchebag that comes here to spit rubbish and derail the thread with their myopic views.

I check up here sometimes, take the dose and continue to apply them in life endeavors.

Funnily enough, women still win by settling down with a man at the end of their youthful exuberance. It’s just a win-win world for them, maybe, maybe not.

@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.

emmaodet:
Physical characteristics of what bro?

Of these two guys. And what are their ages?

emmaodet:
If am to make a suggestion, I will say the easier way of getting sex is to move with a guy that easily bed women without using money.
I have 1 or 2 guys like that around me.
I don't know how they do it Agboola and Femi sleep with women like someone changing boxers.
They go to the bank, they will collect number.
Inside the cab, somehow they will strike conversation and collect number.
Just name it - church, school, street, anywhere.
Believe me, they will bed atleast 50% of them within a week.
A woman sent her younger sister to Agboola's wife. Unfortunately she didn't meet her at home and just by the door side, Agboola initiated conversation with her and within minutes banged the lady.
It was not premeditated, not planned by both.
Infact, as at that morning, there wasn't any plans of meeting her nor knowing her.
The Lady's aunt will not even think such will happen within that period nor will Agbo wife think of such.
These guys are just the messi and Ronaldo of women.
Add money to them and you have monsters ravaging women round the street.
If you move with such men, naturally you will pick up some traits from them and improve your skills with women

What are their physical characteristics?

Tonnyray:
I'm good bro..
And you?

I'm managing.

Tonnyray:

Long time no see. How have you been?

Ojagun:
I got banned for the original post.So manage the cropped version.

I see. Thank you for your well-thought-out response.

Ojagun:
What you just described @emboldened is a feature of "Late-Stage Capitalism"
It has become a worldwide issue

Please, explain.

ARISHEM:
The way girls are deceived to indecent activities is something else. Girls easily fall for deception in an harsh economic climate where everybody strive to get relevant. So many girls nudes and sex tapes are shared on the internet without them knowing.
For example I came across a lengthy video depicting the nudes of a wife of one of my good neighbor on the internet and I felt sorry for him. I am certain it was taken before marriage. Till today I am sure he did not know and I won’t be the one to tell him.
That is why I am not surprised when I hear a God fearing man take any of them as a wife

I disagree on the "deceived" part. A lot of girls are going there, and doing these things voluntarily. They just avoid accountability by saying that they were deceived. Girls have a brain too. They can think too. They know what they are doing. And they are liking it.

emmaodet:


It means watch out for yourself in a relationship and don't get carried away with the euphoria of lovey-dovey.
Don't forget to constantly invest in yourself nor lose the long term goal of earning a decent income and be able to pay your bills within your level.
A man in a position of option/abundance will be able to negotiate better in a relationship and have low tolerance for bullshits nor dramas becuase if shit hits the fan, he can easily and quietly replace his woman without any brouhaha and life simply moves on as if nothing happens.
Many men fall in these areas.
So, i ask you - Bros Kipaji, you don cover your side
Because as i dey so, i don cover my side oo

Oh I got it. Thanks.
My side is well covered Bro.

emmaodet:
That is why i always laugh guys boasting about their sexual prowess.
If you like, knack your girl from Gwagalada to Mile 2, if you don't cover your side, the average woman will disgrace you.
All the days of your life, you will be insecured - where is your woman going, who is calling her, why hasn't she come back from market etc
Cover your side bro

What does "cover your side" mean?

1- OP, a lot of people gave you the advice to improve yourself so that you can deserve women later, and I disagree with that.

I already explained why in a thread entitled < "Make Money And Women Will Come" (This Is A Bad Advice) >. I will reproduce my post here:

Kipaji:
"Make Money and Women Will Come"

Society and women tell this to men who are unsuccessful in dating to give them some hope. The idea is that they should not worry, they should just work harder and generate wealth. When they get money women will beg them to be their girlfriends and wives.

But, if women will come when you make the money, have you ever wondered where they are now? Let's assume that they will effectively be with you later, after you become rich. OK now, in the meantime, who are they with? Are they sitting at home, chastely waiting for you to make money? Are they working on themselves while preserving their purity to deserve you when you finally make it?

No. Where are they then? They are with other guys they judge worthy of their youth and freshness. And you are not on the list. So, you have to wait. And to not let you hanging, they give you the task to accumulate the wealth they will enjoy after the other guys have enjoyed their bodies.

See, that advice (make money and women will come) would be apt if, after becoming rich, the women that will come are virgins. But, they are not. Who took their virginity then? A guy who was just as broke as you were when girls and society told you to make money first. This advice is thus hypocritical... but also dangerous.

Many young men unsuccessful in dating will follow this advice. They will work very hard at school, at work, and in life to finally be able to attract women (among other reasons.) Eventually many of them make it. After all these painful years of work, it is high time to harvest the rewards: money, respect, security, stability, confidence, wisdom, -oh and, what did they say will come with financial success again? Ah yes, women! But, as they look left and right, they realize that most women are damaged beyond repair, many are single mothers, and virtually none of them are pure. And when they understand that the guys who took these women purity where in the very same state they thought they had to grow from to attract them, these men become bitter. They feel scammed. And rightly so. Unfortunately, this frustration can lead to hatred and violence. And this is not good for men themselves and society as a whole.

This is one of the reasons why a man should not succeed for women. Succeed for you and your legacy first and foremost. And when you do succeed, be ruthless in your selection of women.

When dealing with women, never lean on your money. That is dehumanizing as money is an object and, more importantly, it is external to you -- you are not your money. Money can come and go, but your inner strength and masculinity stays. And keep in mind that no amount of money entitles you to a woman's body. No amount of money protects you from the games women play. No amount of money can compensate for lack of attraction.

Men and women should stop giving this advice to our sons. We must encourage them by all means to generate wealth and succeed in life. But let's not fool them with "women will come", without telling them the full story. As these men are busy building, most women are busy fvcking (and most of the guys they are fucking don't have money).

2- That said, I would also like to question why someone has to improve at all to get women.
It would be like admitting that she is superior to you (and so you need to close the gap to reach her level). Thus, I believe that it is a simpish mindset.

3- When you are "perfecting" and "bettering" yourself to get women, remember that the woman you are currently improving for is being "pounded" by a nobody in the neighborhood who never even heard about improvement, some guy still leaving in his mom's house, her classmate who never had to "improve", or some guy who straight up paid for it. You most likely won't find her a virgin bro, and the guy who deflowered her is no better than you.

4- If you improve, do it for your own wellbeing and that of your loved ones.

emmaodet:
But most men won't be rich no matter how they hustle.
...

Brutal but true. Besides the millionaires and the billionaires of the world there plenty of men who worked just as hard, just as smart, and even more, without reaching financial success.
And the frustrations from these failures despite years of hard work and doing all the "right" and "smart" things to succeed is amplified by society that'll tell you that you are poor because you didn't work hard enough, because you didn't work smart, or because you were lazy.
The life of a man is a life full of frustrations. It's all about mitigating and canalizing these frustrations.

JESHAL007:
Picks mic

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Lessons:

1. The current society has conditioned the average young man to believe that you must have money to get into relationships hence the high fraud rate by young men (if you know what I mean).

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I see what you mean, but I don't believe that it is really a societal conditioning.

Guys believe that they need to have money to get into relationships because women made it clear that they aren't dealing with you if you don't have money, bar a few exceptions (she finds you sexually attractive, she is using you for your social status, she is desperate and you happened to be there, etc.)

And for the vast majority of men, the exceptions don't apply. They see that pretty much all women do not care about their personalities, values, masculinity, intelligence, knowledge, skills, vision, etc., if they don't have money first. It's not a conditioning, it's reality imposed and reinforced by women every day. They either have money or they aren't getting sh¡t from women.

emmaodet:
If she says “He’s just a friend,” he’s not.

Men don’t orbit women they aren’t attracted to.

You know this. She knows this.

She just hopes you’re too blind to say anything.

I'll add that women don't hang out around men they don't like, expect they benefit from them (money, jobs, services, entertainment, etc.). If a woman doesn't like you and she can't (or doesn't want to) benefit from you, then you are pretty much inexistent to her.

Olamilekxy:
You need to post more egbon. You're the only person that challenge my perspective with interesting insight that makes me revaluate my position. Have learnt alot from you. Thanks to the person that created "Pansophist wisdom " book. Have applied most of your beliefs and Im now in a stage that I need your opinion on how I can get better. Don't know if I should write out here for others to me learn or I should dm.

Haha that was me, the one who made that book. I'm glad that it helps you.