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|Romance / Re: This Is How Women See You When You Don't Have Money by Kipaji: 6:41am
The huge number of women having babies and cheating with jobless nobodies would beg to differ.
|Romance / Re: A Cheating Wife Seeks Advice On What To Do by Kipaji: 12:13am
Did you do the test in a hospital she chose?
|Romance / Re: I Need To Double My Hustle. This Is Why (pics) by Kipaji: 11:15am On Feb 22
Just for the lesson you gave us here I want to buy your service but I'm not in Nigeria and I'm not in the need.
You put a smile on my face.
|Romance / Re: I Need To Double My Hustle. This Is Why (pics) by Kipaji: 11:14am On Feb 22
Great post. Great lesson. Thank you.
|Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 9:29am On Feb 22
Yet the section you are most active in is the Romance Section. With all your talk, I thought you would be mostly engaged in the Investment, Politics or Education sections. But here you are among the people you call puppies.
You don't have to shame people to persuade them. Lead by example, make interesting posts and threads on other matters, and let people choose what they do with their time. Shaming is lame.
|Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 9:26am On Feb 22
My own mother warned me about paternity and let me know that it was very common in Cameroon. Women don't mind doing it. Many men are raising their wives's ex-boyfriend's child(ren). Be safe.
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|Properties / Re: "As A Guy You Should Already Own A House At 21" - Slay Queen by Kipaji: 9:21am On Feb 22
|Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 3:13am On Feb 21
I will just walk in, put down my luggage, maybe change clothes to wear more casual clothes. Then, I will ask her to pack her things in calmly and peacefully. Then, I will call my brother or any other trusted person to come home now. And I will just sit here as she packs her bag and her lover leaves the house.
I won't use any form of violence whatsoever.
The reason I call my brother is to protect myself and have a witness in case the girl or her lover try something (we have heard stories of wives or side niggas killing, robbing, trapping the husband, or worse, so you never know).
Afterwards, I will deep clean the entire house physically and spiritually. And I will go on with my day.
If I have kids, the next day I will do DNA tests if I hadn't already.
Again, no form of violence would be used throughout the whole process. That's all.
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|Properties / Re: "As A Guy You Should Already Own A House At 21" - Slay Queen by Kipaji: 3:05am On Feb 21
I've not read the post or seen the picture.
I just came here to say that what this "slay queen" says or believes does not matter. Guys, be yourself and live your life. She has the right to believe whatever she wants. Just don't let that trigger you.
She may not even believe what she says and may just want some attention.
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|Romance / Re: How To Avoid Sudden Death During Sèx (advice To Men).. by Kipaji: 8:43am On Feb 12
Isn't this Putin? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
|Romance / Re: Stingy Men Association Of Nigeria Funniest Pictures So Far by Kipaji: 4:14pm On Feb 09
One of the funniest thread of Nairaland.
You guys made me laugh so much.
|Romance / Re: I Want To Faint- Lady Cries Out After Boyfriend Sends Breakup Text 7 Days B4 Val by Kipaji: 8:30am On Feb 08
The Way she spreads those legs...
|Education / Re: Nigerian Scholar Triumphs In Taiwan With MOE Outstanding Graduate Award by Kipaji: 11:50am On Feb 07
@Seun, front page?
|Education / Re: I've Done My Degree In Physics, So Please Suggest Best Job Opportunity In 2024? by Kipaji: 11:49am On Feb 07
Wow. It's that bad there?
What should people do to reach higher?
|Education / Re: Best Secondary Schools In Lagos State - 2024 by Kipaji: 11:46am On Feb 07
I would like to see pictures if possible
|Romance / Re: Why Do Women Look Different From What They Post Online by Kipaji: 12:21pm On Feb 04
Hopefully, this thread won't turn into a sea of hate against women.
|Family / Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Kipaji: 12:26am On Feb 04
Thank you for your input pansophist. It's always a pleasure to read your insightful and authentic thoughts.
|Family / Re: What an Abattoir In Lagos Nigeria looks like by Kipaji: 1:09pm On Feb 03
Thank you very much for the video bossmi.
I am not Nigerian and it's great to see what's going on over there.
Please, could you do a similar video about education ? That is, go to a Nigerian high school or elementary school and talk about the leadership and business aspect of the school.
|Family / Re: Married Women Committing Adultery by Kipaji: 12:53pm On Feb 03
Do women cheat the same way as men? No.
Do women cheat for the same reasons as men? No.
Do women view cheating the same way men do? No.
Thus, they did not learn this from men.
You still operate on the view according to which women are more innocent than men on the sexual aspect. The biggest perverts are women. Get that straight.
|Family / Re: Married Women Committing Adultery by Kipaji: 12:50pm On Feb 03
Why do you bother replying to her? She is not here to have a sound, thoughtful, logical discussion.
|Family / Re: At 36, I Still Stay With My Parents And I Feel Not bad about it. by Kipaji: 12:48pm On Feb 03
@pansophist, what's your take on this?
|Family / Re: My Mother Is Toxic And Agrresive!! by Kipaji: 12:05pm On Feb 03
1. Get to know the story of your pregnancy.
In what conditions did she get pregnant of you? What did she endure during the pregnancy? How did she give birth to you and how was it the first few months?
This may be the reason why you felt traumatized in your childhood.
One day sit down with her in a cozy setting, and have a long conversation about your birth. How did she get pregnant of you? Ask for the whole story, starting from before she even met your father. What issues did she face at the time? Then talk about the pregnancy itself? How did the family deal with it? How was she treated by her family, her friends, the neighbors? What about the father? How did she give birth to you? In what hospital? Who was present? Who supported her, and who didn't? What was the best thing about her pregnancy and delivery? What was the worst? What did she learn from that experience?
Even if you already know some of the answers, ask again. And most importantly, let her talk, talk, and talk. Even if it takes many hours. Let her ramble as much as she wants. It may even get her emotional.
I believe that you will get a lot of insights as to why she behaves that way from such a conversation.
2. Try to understand your mother. She may be unhappy with something and has trouble expressing it clearly. Try to see what she has a problem with. It may not even be about you. You may just be the thing she lashes her frustration on.
3. Never ever judge your mother.
|Romance / Re: Rule 101 For Men by Kipaji: 10:38am On Jan 27
I expatiated on this in this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7916223/enough-enough-men-rise
|Romance / Re: Rule 101 For Men by Kipaji: 10:37am On Jan 27
Guys stop defining your life around women.
Why is it that the 101 rule for men has to be about women? Shouldn't it be about mindset, spirituality, values, impact, wellbing, or growth?
Guys please rise above this limited perspective. Your life is not (or at least should not) be about women. Yes, you can love and enjoy women but have a life for yourself.
Women are great but the world is bigger than women.
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|Romance / Re: Most Of NL Females, All They Know is Romance,sex And Money.. by Kipaji: 4:15am On Jan 25
Stop the hate. Let women be.
|Romance / Re: Why Is Paternity Fraud Seen As Nothing??? Crime Against Men. by Kipaji: 2:19am On Jan 25
This troll knows that they are not any near equivalent. She just wants to trigger susceptible men and some attention.
A man having kids with another woman does not put any burden whatsoever on the wife. However, the woman that has kids with another man puts decades-long financial, social, psychological, and spiritual burdens on her husband. These two cases are clearly not equivalent. And it is quite easy to see that. So, I conclude that Timı.Rume is a troll, and should be ignored as such.
I just wanted to quickly dismiss her loose argument, to avoid unnecessary back and forth with this troll. Guys let's not go as low as to entertain this.
Now, we can continue our discussion in peace.
|Romance / Re: Why Is Paternity Fraud Seen As Nothing??? Crime Against Men. by Kipaji: 12:06am On Jan 25
Paternity fraud is one of the most evil act a woman can do to a man (and to her kid).
My own mother told me that paternity fraud is quite common. Women don't care.
|Romance / Re: Romance Section Now Gay Section by Kipaji: 11:49pm On Jan 24
The fact that Seun and mods allow it to happen is very strange and questionable to me.
|Romance / Re: Warning To Women by Kipaji: 10:19pm On Jan 23
Thank you for your sincere answers.
|Romance / Re: A Primary School Teacher Blowing Off Steam During Break by Kipaji: 1:03pm On Jan 23
This woman is a hyena. This is the kind of woman that eats her babies.
Out of all the places in the world she decides do this in a primary school with innocent young children who didn't ask for anything.
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