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See how far women can go for a good d*ck?

On a more serious note, what this woman did should be the norm. All men should receive this kind of dedication from their wife.

1. The thread is called advice to women. But most participants will be men

2. Why do you advise people who don't care about your advice? Sincere question.

Why does he beat that guy? It is not clear to me why? All he did was benefit from a LovePeddler. It is the woman who broke her engagement.

Rukevwe999:
It means stand your ground and don't be moved by obstacles. Don't let anyone intimidate you on top what is yours.
Gree is another word for agree.

Thank you

emmaodet:
You are not Nigerian?
From where?

Cameroon

Nokio2:
E mean if somebody do u anyhow u sef do am anyhow..sey u grab?

I get it thanks

Guys, I'm not Nigerian, what does "no gree for anybody" mean?

AndrewTate:
Amazing! These children are still here debating about women for years 🥲.
I wish it was money matters… imagine the progress 🤦🏽‍♂️

You can open a thread in the business section and start the discussions

As much as I believe that the redpill is bullshit, I don't think that suddlenly deleting the thread and shutting down redoill views is a wise way to handle hatred in Nairaland.

That would just radicalized more people.

havilla:
Some guys are doing well financially, but what they are looking for in a woman is not attainable, they keep roaming looking for the image they created in their head.

@havilla, what is that unattainable image of a woman these men created?

Because life doesn't always play out the way we truly want, and that love is not the only parameter to consider when marrying.


Same goes for men.

This woman will fvck that Biola in front of your face.

You already know the truth but it seems that you don't want to face it. Is it too hard to accept that your sweet lovely baby would fvck that guy if given the opportunity? Or that she may even create the opportunity for it?

The bathroom scene should have been more than enough for you to understand that she does not like you and does not respect you.

That Biola is making her pussy wet. Now, whether you want to face it or not is up to you. Pansophist sometimes say that the strength of a man is measured by the degree of truth he can take. Be strong enough to accept this truth.

I may be harsh but the reality is harsher. For the love and respect you have for yourself, do not allow yourself to stay in this predicament with this woman.

What happened to you is very common amongst men.
A large chunk of men, I would say at least 40% have had aunties, cousins, classmates, neighbors, and nannies do "stuff" on them without consent or knowledge. But society is not ready to tackle this issue since the current narrative is "men are perverted beings who can even rape little girls while women are angel creatures that can't do perverted stuff."

If I have a boy, he will be duely protected by me. I will never drop my guard with these females.

What happened to you is very common amongst men.
A large chunk of men, I would say at least 40% have had aunties, cousins, neighbors, and nannies do "stuff" on them. But society is not ready to tackle this issue since the current narrative is "men are perverted beings who can even rape little girls while women are angel creatures that can't do perverted stuff"

VanessaKokomama:
Behead it

Stop the hate.

Rokiat:
Any sane woman will only marry a man that’s financially stable, so the better idea would be, buy the land get his car build a house get his money in order and then marry.

What about the millions of women who voluntarily and happily marry financially poor/unstable men?

Homosexual forums like this should not thrive in African communities. May this post be the last of this thread.

Mods do your work.

Have a clean life. This means take care of yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually.

The only thing you have in this world is you (and even that is arguable). Your degree, your money, your achievements, your job, your status, your women are not who you are. None of these things are worth a healthy body, a wholesome mind, and a clean soul.

In this society, we tend to forget what truly matters in this life. Don't forget the basics: Sleep well. Eat well. Avoid drug/alcohol. Exercise regularly. Address past traumas. Remove any addiction from your life. Eliminate unhealthy habits. Develop your mental capacities. Educate yourself constantly. Nurture genuine relationships. Maintain a connection with your family and ancestry. Rise above your flesh. Appreciate every day. Avoid spiritually draining things. Don't spread evil or negativity. Follow Maat.


Have a good life!

mekus15:
I also feel that one other way to handle sexual urges is to redirect our energy to something more worthwhile, like writing, arts, music, sports, setting up New goal and pursuing them, among others.

I can see that. But it doesn't seem to be an easy thing to do. Any thoughts on how to make the energy transition from sexual stuff to other things?

Rukevwe999:
monk mode itself is a tenet of the redpill/manosphere. You're just an highly evolved redpiller, that's all.

No. I know the redpill well enough to say that I am not a redpiller. I am not a part of the manosphere either.

I am a man that endeavors to live well with authenticity, healthiness, fundamental connections, endurance, masculinity, wisdom, honesty, and joy.

Gudiza:
^^6. Exercise - This, especially intense workout sessions where your body begins to pain you literarily cures you of lust..

Yes, Exercise is a very good point.
In addition, to helping us with these lust issues, consistent exercising has tremendous benefits for our body, mind, and soul. Exercising is one of the greatest forms of preventive medecine (besides quality sleep, great nutrition, genuine and healthy relationships, and suchlike.)

Thanks.

pansophist:
Yes. I have been saying this here for long. The immaterial are what actually matters, and material wealth are complimentary.

A wealthy woman that is not sexually satisfied will go get it from a broke boy that has dedicated his life to knacking as a calling

Big man will park his car to go to the ghetto to meet iya alagbo to give her better herbal medicine. Though he is rich, he needs the service of a poor woman.

Rich folks are mostly wolves, very wise within themselves, and need those lower to feel respected, and to put their wealth in the spotlight becsuse if everyone are rich, then no one is rich.

A governor that is wealthy and has access to unimaginable funds recently passed away. So time was actually his greatest wealth, and poor man has it in abundant.

Or all these rich western people that yahoo boys are exploiting becsuse they need companionship. Their big houses, money, and financial freedom could not fill the desire for love and to be loved.

Life is lived immaterially, money just makes it more interesting.



etc.

Thank you for the gem.

Why do you have to do anything? Just live your life and, if you don't appreciate his ways, let him be.

Play video games. I have been quite a genius in that field. 🙂

2special:
Tell her what she wants while you keep getting what you want till you're tired of her.

That's not a wise way of living.

Gerrard59:
It depends on the person you are referring to. Nigeria has so many ethnic groups with various appellations to describe people.



That is a more "Behind" way rather than turning the place into a brothel-like establishment. Some outfits will allow the girls to have their rooms which they pay daily fees (at an agreed rate) to the management. There, they service customers. This is known as "in-call" - the customer visits the escort in her room. The price the customer pays is usually lower than the opposite which is known as "out-call" - the escort goes to the customer's location. So, some men go for in-call or out-call. Where there is demand, there would be supply. This can be useful for men who want to cut costs in lodging, and if the escort's abode is in a good place, it could be better than what the customer could afford. But this is also risky depending on the environment as it could be dangerous and rowdy if a fight occurs. So, the hotel premises should be well investigated.



I think the old mode of prostitutitoon where they stand along the road seeking customers is gradually reducing, at least in the major cities. Any fine girl with a smartphone can run it from home. I think the ladies at brothels are either too uneducated, too rude, very ugly and have a helpless outlook on life, aka eternally doomed for them to be there. We have ladies who offer sex videos and pictures on Snapchat via subscriptions, an average of 20K per month. Imagine having just 5 lads who pay for such. Also, since online is not the real deal, one or two of them can pay higher to access it physically. That is just Snapchat. There is also Bigo, where fans of a lady (she could be singing sef) buy Bigo credits, which translates to money for the content provider (lady here). Bigo works by the female displaying any act she likes, and subscribers pay (subscribers are mostly men). Some ladies show the inner linings of their vagina or breasts as subscribers demand and buy Bigo credits.

So, there are many avenues to make money as a girl who wants to sell sex. The demand is there, along with various supply chain processes.



I cannot say as I don't have access to research-backed information, but I will say there has been an explosion of their activities even in the face of the anti-gay law signed by Jonathan. With increased westernisation via social media which has expanded in access within almost a decade, there is this growing "showcasing of their lifestyles". Unlike in the 2000s, a homosexual can easily connect with another in a faraway place and go to parties, sex romps, networking, etc. There are several cases of police bursting parties of homosexual men, mostly men surprisingly; unlike, say, in 2010 - 2013.

For now, lesbianism or better still, female bisexuality, is accepted or not frowned upon as male homosexuality. Mainly due to heterosexual men having fantasies of three.some and women being naturally bisexual or bi-curious. I have seen Facebook posts where a girl asks for lesbian connections or says "she does girls". There are some rumblings here and there. Some even laugh at it or even ask if they (mostly men) can join in the eventual romp. I am yet to see a similar post by a male.

I see the present Gen-Zs being more accepting of homosexuals compared to mine or generations above mine.



None for now, but in the works.

Thank you too.

Thanks

pansophist:
That is nonsense.

Probably some, or even many, but not most.

I mean, it is not a secret that men likes sex, just as women likes money. Men search for sex more often, probably because they do not control access to it.

But for a man to take an expensive trip to Nigeria for sex is senseless, when he can pay for it where he is. Which is far cheaper.

Alright. Thanks.

What's the purpose of putting this online?

Like my mother told me, so many women do not love their kids.
They see their kids as a drawback, as a drag that prevents them from enjoying their whorrish lifestyle.
As she told me, many women did not want to have their children and do not love them, and one of the ways to see this is that she leaves her kids at home to go whòre outside. This one didn't even let the kid at home.

How will thay boy grow up? He will either be attracted to hoes and whores his whole life since that's what his mother is. Or he will lose all respect for women since he can't respect his own slut of a mother (this is why some men are players).
This is a traumatizing experience. I hope that he has the maturity, strength, and support to rise above it.


This woman is an hyena.