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Bookhub:
Amazon kdp straight!

I want the booklet to be easily accessible without any paywall or sign-in requirement. Just go to the page and click on download.

pansophist:
You're doing the Lord's work. Thank you kipaji.

I could just use this PDF and modify it into a book, you just made it easy.

Franchasng adviced me years back to write a book, he saw the effect of my ministry, but I no take am serious.

I just like to live life without public noise. Hence I like writing here. Make no body know me.

But maybe I'll grow liver one day and just go live online. Make I begin dey pursue followers like gen Z people.

But thank you. I appreciate and feel happy that my writings here effect on you.

But I dey sure say some people go don find me come house with cutlass if they know my house

Folks that doing wrong is their culture, and hate when someone calls them out, with eloquence as sharp as a samurai sword.

God bless you

Thanks. If you want to write a book, you can publish it under a nickname for privacy. Many people do this.

It was in late 2021 or early 2022 that I discovered Nairaland. I was searching for an answer to a relationship related question. I was directed to the main Redpill thread of Nairaland (https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know). It blew my mind. I learned things about men, women, sex, relationship, and society that broke my world-view and changed me forever. I spend hours and hours reading and reflecting about the many gems I found. They changed the man that I was. I am eternally grateful to the many men who took their time and energy to share their profound insights and enlightening stories for free. Among these men, some distinguished themselves for their particularly powerful contributions. One of them is pansophist (https://www.nairaland.com/pansophist).

Pansophist is one of the most acclaimed Nairaland user for his wisdom on diverse topics. With his great eloquence, he has inspired many people in the areas of romance, finances, education, society, masculinity, and much more. I am one of these people. Beyond the redpill thread, he spread numerous gems on Nairaland that have had a marked impact on my perspective of life. For this reason, I believe that it can also positively impact the lives of others.
It would be too cumbersome to go through pansophist’s 10000+ posts. So, I decided to compile some of his best gems in this booklet. I regrouped them under titled chapters. Most of the titles are mine. Besides, I made slight modifications in the spacing and paragraphing so that it renders well in this format. I also replaced some words with their uncensored versions and corrected grammatical errors.
Needless to say, I do not agree with everything pansophist says. Like all of us, he is human, he can be wrong, flawed, and make mistakes. However, he certainly did enlarge my perspective of life and change the way I navigate the world. I would like to express to pansophist my earnest gratitude.
If you are inspired and want to learn and/or discuss with him, just go to his profile on Nairaland. Besides, I am open to critics and comments about this booklet. I hope that the wisdom of pansophist can help you as much as it helped me and make you a better person.


Here is the free download link without log-in : https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/uzg5047lry2h5tyhvwqzv/Pansophist-s-Wisdom.pdf?rlkey=25litzcvud6217kdxeyal6zmh&st=5d66dkkp&dl=0

Ask your mom and women of her generation who took their virginity.

If the nice guy only came after she had 2 or 3 bad boy dîcks, then they aren't really much different from the girls of today.

If you want to know who a woman really likes, don't look at the man she married, look at the men she gave her virginity, the kind of men she dealt with when she was young, and the men she has the deepest emotional attachment to.

The guy she marries is in many cases just the one that was ready and stable when she wanted to settle down.

Pukkalolo:
I appreciate the good words, Kipaji. Respect to you.

Stay blessed.

Thank you very much

JESHAL007:
Guys the main reason i spam here with past posts is strictly as reminders for educational purposes, to refresh your memory on redpill tenets we already know, we have forgotten, we have not deeply internalized, so that our frame would become redpill by default, meaning logic, we needf to indoctrinate ourselves with the truth regardless of how painful and depressive it is with regards to female nature and more importantly apply it when we deal and interact with women, i am a young man and see these thread as a learning process in my life journey of self discovery, i still have a lot to learn, unlearn and relearn, redpill is vast, i am still consciously unplugging even with my posts, reposts and spams.

why?
I want to be fully armed emotionally, psychologically, with regards to any woman i am dealing with whether i want to take them seriously or not

Even so, consider taking a 1 week break.

JESHAL007:
I would try to make my posts more organic

However, something that I really like is when you repost previous gems of this thread, like the one earlier today where Zaziboy says that genuine desire is BS in Nigeria.

USAfall2024:
Abeg Oga Jeshal, I understand that you’re trying to keep this thread alive but IMO your daily spamming is watering down its quality and doing the opposite of your noble intention. I think it’s better to take some time off yourself because I noticed most of your spam posts are recycled older posts. Casual organic discussions between forum members is the best to bring this thread back to its old glory rather than spam posts. #MyTwoCents #PeaceOut.

I agree.
You can condense your "red pill bits" in 2 or 3 posts, or drop them more sparingly. That would be better I believe.

Zabiboy:
My opinions
1) Men are on the losing side because of "Expectations" and "Ego"..
I agree with everything you said, and yes, it truly a harsh reality and that is why whenever someone indicates interest to join me in doing self-development activities, I always let them know that they have to do this because it makes them happy and feel good, not because they want women to flock around them, Because "expectations" is a major cause of disappointment.

Unfortunately, most men are self-improving MAJORLY to attract the opposite sex and then when it doesnt quite work out a intended, they may see it as a total waste of time..

This is it. I, too, am taking my self-development seriously. I have a low body fat (I'd say less than 14%), I have an athletic body, I sharpen my skills, I increase my knowledge in relevant topics, I take care of my mind, I make sure I'm spiritually healthy, I don't allow bullshit from women, I don't associate with disrespectful time-and-energy-draining people, I learn wisdom, I work on my systems and goals, I have boundaries, I practice self-love and self-care, I build my wealth, etc...

BUT, I also know that NONE OF THESE THINGS WILL MAKE ANY WOMAN SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO ME IF SHE DIDN'T FOUND ME SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE AFTER THE FIRST FEW MINUTES OF MEETING HER.

If a woman does not find me sexually attractive, she learning about my riches, achievement, my strength of mind, my masculine frame, the fact that I'm not a simp or a beta, and the fact that I know game, won't change it. At best, learning about my money, may incite her to fake attraction and submission to me in order to secure the resources (that's how a lot of men get married or finessed). I am not delusional about this. If a woman does not find me sexually attractive RIGHT NOW, becoming a USD billionaire tomorrow is not going to change it---that RAW GENUINE attraction will NEVER be there.

So, I am all for self-improvement and making money. BUT DO IT FOR YOURSELF. Don't do it with women in mind. Women don't care. Do it because you want to live your life to the fullest, because you want to give to yourself the best living conditions, because you want to give back to your family, because you want to travel, because you want to dive deep into your personal interests, because you want o understand the world better, because you want to live the best experiences that money can get you, because you want to spend your limited time on Earth in heath and peace, because you want to help people who deserve your help, etc...

I made a post related to this topic: https://www.nairaland.com/7465815/make-money-women-come-bad

For the question ( number 3 above ) My answer is simple.. Dont play the game. Know the game for sure ( so you can spot manipulations, disconnect from time-wasters and other benefits). but if you think you are at a great disadvantage, dont play the game. It sucks yes, but it then gives you that freedom to focus on other things that would make you happy, things you can actually control..

I agree. Any man would benefit from learning game. Learn this game
so that you won't be the beta women use as a safety net after her wh0ring years,
so that you won't be the simp they manipulate for resources,
so that you won't be the pathetic dude waiting forever in her friendzone while she is fvcking the men she is genuinely attracted to,
so that you won't be one of the spineless guys on her rotation,
so that you won't be the emotional slave that pander to her feelings and let her run the show,
so that you won't be any woman's toy or tool,
so that you won't be triggered by anything a woman says,
so that you won't be an easy target for women's manipulations and games,
so that you won't be a clueless bluepilled cuck who believes that women are angels who don't like sex,
so that you won't be one the fools that will spend his savings to impress "his" babe on valentine's day,
so that you won't put any woman above yourself, your wellbeing, your peace, and your goals,
so that you won't be like all these dudes who are intimidated by women and put them on a pedestal,
so that you won't waste your time with women who don't really want you,
so that you won't be the guy who foolishly believes his wife when she tells him that the kid that looks like her boss is his,
so that you can wisely filter the kind of woman you entertain and allow in your life.

But also don't be delusional and think that knowing game is going to make women attracted to you. There are a lot of guys out there with 0 game and who are having women throw themselves at them (I was one of these dudes, I had women sexually throw themselves at me, while I was broke, unathletic, and completely ignorant of game or the redpill).
Don't learn game to get women, learn game to protect yourself.

But then the next question becomes, How does he handle his sexual urges?

This is a question that deserves the highest level of attention in this space.
As we all know, handling sexual urges is NOT easy.
Since most men aren't sexually attractive enough to get women without betabuxxing (with of course some exceptions out there), most end up patronizing pr0stitutes, jerking off to p0rn, and dating and marrying women who mostly want them for money, stability, and comfort.

If only there was a sustainable and healthy way for men who don't get women's raw sexual attraction to deal with the sexual urges without simping and betabuxxing for women!
Look at women. For centuries they had to deal with not so sexually attractive men because they needed resources to live. They hated the idea of settling with not sexually attractive guys so much that they relentlessly fought for opportunities and their right to make their own money so that they won't have any use for the bottom of men anymore. Women's emancipation is in large part about not having to deal with men who don't turn them on. With her own money, she can now focus on the guy who gets her pussy wet naturally, she has much less need for a beta with money.
Can't men do something similar? Is there a way for us to get our "sexual emancipation"? So that even if we don't get women naturally we don't have to resort to humiliating and degrading practices like p0rn, pr0stitution, or betabuxxing while handling our sexual urges? (Just like women, through feminism, found a way to eliminate the need to settle for the not-so-attractive dude while handling their own financial need.)
If not, then I really don't see how men, or at least not-so-attractive men, can be "winner" is the dating mating market.
(Note that I struck "dating", because only unattractive dudes have to date/pay women to fvck them. Women only need the right time and place to fvck a guy she genuinely finds attractive, not dates need. Dating is for simps and beta males)

I would really appreciate to get the perspective of more experienced men like emmaodet, CaveAdullam, ubunja, pansophist, heartofcity12, martinez39s, luminouz, etc... on this question.

4) I actually have a theory, "95% of men would never truly know what genuine desire is".

This is actually a very good debate topic and I'm also hoping to read different opinions on it.

Yes, more debate is needed. Thank you for your input, Zaziboy. I would like to know what the others have to say as well.

JESHAL007:
Since I started seeing this thread I have come to realize that women are naturally redpilled....


For you to win you will have to think like them and act like a man...

The truth is most men aren't even in the "game" to begin with. There is nothing to "win" for them. Except they come with money or other forms of beta buxxing, women do NOT give a flying fvck about them.
In my mind, the only men who are in the game are men that women genuinely find sexually attractive. There are of course exceptions (like in most things in life), but I believe that this is the general rule.
I'm open to being contradicted/disproved.

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This deserves to go on the front page.

As someone with a long history of fight against porn/masturbation and semen retention, I can confirm that he gave an accurate and insightful explanation of the problem. I would say that at least 80% of porn addiction in men is explained by what he wrote.

Well done

Pukkalolo:
@bolded

You need to understand that [size=14pt]nature didn't make men losers[/size], it's men that made themselves loser because of their desire to “satisfy a woman”

The simps are always trying to satisfy her needs, where did that lead them too — heartbreak.

Here's the worst: Men are trying to satisfy a woman sexually.

Even here on this forum, I see guys say things like, “if you want to satisfy a woman, and keep her coming back, you need to have a good dick game.”

It's no wonder guys are taking drugs or dangerous herbal substances just to satisfy the modern woman. It's no surprise that a lot Men have lost their life during sex—they are trying to satisfy the woman.

The goal isn't to satisfy her; the goal is to make her satisfy You.

After the first kiss, I have had girls texting me, telling things along the lines, “I am sorry about our first kiss, I will make it up to you when we next meet.”

That's because after the kiss, I act unimpressed and tell them in different words that they need to learn how to kiss better.

Seriously speaking, After the first sex, I have had some girls going to watch videos or read books on how to satisfy a Man on bed, and coming up to me the next time with new sexual skills just to impress me.

This is because of my behavior or words towards them after sex.

The goal is to make them try to satisfy me. My mindset is—satisfy me or get lost.

That might make me look like an big asshole… but I don't care.

You don't keep a woman by trying to satisfy her.

As a Man, it's important that the woman is also putting in the effort to satisfy you. That's how you genuinely keep a woman.

I would really like to discuss about this point and get the perspective of OGs here (luminous, ubunja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, emmaodet, martinez39s, etc...)

When it comes to intersexual dynamics, I fail to see how the average man is not on the losing side.

Sure, any man can put in the work, time, and energy in order to develop his body (physical health, fitness, body strength), his mind (kill the simp/beta in him, maintain his boundaries, learn skills, develop his intellect, increase his knowledge, work on his childhood trauma, overcome his addiction, prioritize his peace of mind, lean on self-imposed principles, have his own opinions, do what he says and say what he means, develop his self-esteem and confidence, get rid of energy-draining people, etc.), his spirit (nurture his link with the ancestors, avoid activities that corrupt his soul, work on any spiritual blocks in his life, live in truth and justice, etc.), and his wealth (bring value to the world, monetize skills, make and maintain key connections, develop relevant habits, invest in the right things at the right time, being diligent, etc.).

All of these things can help any man becoming the best version of himself physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. A man who dedicates his time and energy to these things can become an accomplished man, with lots of benefits including the admiration of his peers.

But when it comes to women, I really don't see how any of these things are going to help you.
Except it's time to look for a provider (beta buxx), women generally don't give a shït about your mind, your finances, your spiritual state, or even your athleticism, if they don't find you sexually/physically attractive in the first place.

I am all for building huge wealth, developing your best body, taking care of your physical and mental health, build your own mind and developing your mental strength, prioritizing your peace and well-being, and being spiritually healthy. I would encourage any man to do these things and put most of his time and energy on them.

However, I would also tell any man the truth that women do not give a shît about that (except, maybe, if they are looking for a provider). When it comes to sexual dynamics, your single biggest advantage is your sexual attractiveness.
If a woman finds you sexually attractive, she will sleep with you even if you don't have money, even if you never self-improved in your life, even if you don't have an athletic body, even if you are dumb, etc.
If she doesn't find you sexually attractive, she won't sleep with you, except in a betabuxx situation.
And the brutal part is that you can't do much to improve your physical attractiveness (and no, going to the gym won't make you much more sexually attractive, except you were fat before).

Given that the average man is deemed ugly/unattractive by most women, I don't see how he can win in intersexual dynamics (except he brings money into the situation—betabuxx)?


When it comes to women, I believe that regardless of who you are and what you do, the only woman you can "win" with is the one that naturally finds you sexually attractive.
And being sexually attractive (not marriage/husband material) has little to nothing to do with money, mental and spiritual health. Even ubunja said something along the lines of : "if a woman isn't sexually attracted to you, you are pretty much inexistent to her." You could be the mentally strongest man in the world, with the hardest masculine frame, the most accomplishments, and lots of money, but if a woman doesn't find you sexually attractive, how can you be a winner in front of her as far as sex/attraction is concerned?

So, pukkalolo, luminous, and the others, I would like to ask you this:

If you are short and ugly how can you be a winner with women without betabuxing?

How are men not predisposed to be losers in intersexual dynamics?








PS: The real reason most men go their own WA y(MGTOW) is because they realized they can't win with women, which is most likely because they are sexually unattractive. You will hardly see any tall and handsome man go MGTOW. (Of course, I know this doesn't apply to all MGTOWs, and that there are some MGTOW men that are attractive. True MGTOWs are very rare, most of them are just guys women don't want to deal with, except maybe for betabuxxing).


PS: If you go around town, and ask random men if they know any woman that has a genuine and burning sexual desire for him, most men won't have an answer.

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Pukkalolo:
The bolded is wrong, actually.

Women cheat for various reasons. Lack of sex game can be one of the reasons, but it's not the major reason.

Look bro, I'm not doubting the fact that having sex game is vital, but it not the major weakness or problem of modern Men.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in the dating for guy, a redpill thread like this won't even be needed.

If lack of sex game was the major problem in dating for guys—then dating coaches or relationship coaches or even marriage counselors or redpill books won't be needed.

The problem most men experience with women is bigger than simply lacking "sex game"


A guy lack sex game, okay—but at least, he got laid. He's far ahead of many guys.

Many guys can't even get laid to save their life.

Men guys are still virgins in their late 20s...

A lot of Men are not getting even sex, talk more of having a sex game.

You still don't get my point?

It's true. The red pill and this thread are much more about getting sex and more sex, than being good in bed. Being good in bed is not given half as much attention as getting sex. The truth is, putting prostitutes and oloshos asides, the average man out there has a HARD time getting ANY sex. Men who get sex regularly are the minority. Plus, most men in relationships are one break up away from being an incel.

ubunja:
Miseducations awaiting to be uploaded:

Season Of The Thug
The Prostitute And Her Pìmp
Badboy - a study of a diamond in the rough
The Player
A Player Is Nothing But A Woman With A Dick
Mother-Nature's Tender Love For The Player
The Power Of Narcissism
Sex With Strangers
The Under-Utilized GF
The Way You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her
Lessons From A Bitch
Think Like A Hoe, Act Like A Man
Guys Are Like That, Girls Are Like This
That Lil' Break-Up She Initiated For No Reason
Cheaters And Losers
Don't Respond To Emotional Punches With Physical Punches
The Strings Women Pull To Control You Like A Puppet
The Secret Language Of Girls
Decoder - What Girls Says VS What They Really Mean
What makes you a good fucker makes you a bad father (and vice versa)
Get Your Bad Boy On
The Coward's Guide To Getting A GF.

Yo, Ubunja. What happened to these?

JESHAL007:
By default, a woman is emotionally stronger than a man, while a man is physically stronger than a woman.

I don't see how women are emotionally stronger than men.

JESHAL007:
1. Women easily get sex, but not commitment.
2. Nature is kind to women, but harsh to men. Time is harsh to women, but kind of men. Mother Nature, Father Time.
3. When a woman says that she can't find a men, she doesn't mean that guys don't talk to her... Hell nah... There are legions of simps dying for her attention in her DMs. What she means is that she can't find the man that she wants, not necessarily a man that wants her.
This is an example... How many simps do you think DMs this specimen per day?

Could you explain how time is kind to men?

CaveAdullam:
Another day to remind you all that - you should only date women or be with women who have genuine desire for you.

Rather spend 1-year scouting or opening yourself to a woman like this than spend 1 year frolicking with many women.

It's not a matter of fvcking many different women.

As a man, you need to experience genuine desire from a woman.

You need to see a woman do anything for you. Not because of your wealth or status. But for your personality and whole being

There can be sex without genuine desire.

But there's no genuine desire without sex.

If you're not her crush, she will crush you.

Stay blessed.

Poetic.

emmaodet:
Case 2 -

A close church member who was doing fine during jonathan's era but things tumbled when buhari entered.
Started struggling financially and as if that is not enough, the inevitable of wife wahala in the absence of money followed.
Have experienced like 2 occasions where they were arguing furiously in my sitting room and almost beat each other.
The man always complain about little to no sex in the marriage.
Example, last year, he told me he can count how many times he slept with his wife which was just 4 times in a 365 days calendar year.
Not that he is not active or his dick not raising but his wife is just not interested in the sex.
She married him because he was doing fine then and not because she love him. Even when he was doing fine, she only gives him sex grudgingly and occasional after begging, begging and talking.
last year, they hard little quarrel as usual and instead of woman to beg so as to get weekly feeding money, she called a married man where she sells things at mechanic village to help her out.
Husband got to know later and it escalated......ever since, the marriage has gone south.
Husband took the case to pastor, called his family for meeting, called wife family for meeting, called neighbors, we friends to attend to the issue yet both husband and wife are not shifting their ground. No one ones to agree he or she is at fault.
To cut the story short, the wife has been receiving serious lashing from the outside man, infact she has gone haywire.
For a woman that always complain about not liking sex, now sleeping around and dem dey fork shege commot for her body.
The huband has been crying up and down. Always posting on whatsapp about how a good woman should respect her husband, a good woman should cherish her family and what she has blah blah blah..
I don't blame him though, he is suffering from self esteem due to being a bot handicapped...legs not balanced so he believes no woman will fancy him outside that he is even lucky iya Bola choosed him
Inside life

What would you do in the place of the handicapped man?

emmaodet:
I have a God-son who i do send errands regularly and also do give advice occasionally.
Due to scarcity and struggling, he ended up dating a single mother of 1....A young man that was changing girls during his active days when still collecting money from parent and elder ones abroad to flex but after graduation, everything stopped.
Rather than calling family members for help and regular finance, now they scold him of being lazy and should be the one working and atleast giving back to his mother.
Life starts at the end of our comfort zone.......Going forward, his life started spiraling downward.
From a guy dating young hot girls to a man struggling and begging to tame down a single mother of 1.
Red flag 1...............................relocated to lagos for job search and staying with the lady.
On no condition should you pack to a lady's house to be feeding you and housing you.
Things started smoothly initially but as time goes on and he was struggling with a 30k private school teaching in lagos while lady selling okirika in market, she started drawing back.
Became moody, occasional mood swings, followed by closing legs ....no more sex followed by occasional outburst, insults, quarrels etc
I know how many times he has called me with tears, how he has sacrificed alot for the lady. How the lady was crying and begging for him not to dump her at their initial dating stage because she is a single mother and now, the lady went for a 3 months course in home care and working in Lekki as a house girl with her own BQ earning 150k per month.
Now lady is tired of him and says she is no more interested. He is lazy and unambitious blah blah blah
I just pity him

Why did the single mother dated him to start with? Why is she now complaining about things she saw from the beginning?

Was she just using him for sex?

JESHAL007:
Most women lure men into commitment with the illusion that they would get unlimited supply of endless enthusiastic sex

Yes. That's the number 1 reason most men marry these days: the Fantasy of lifetime access to pussy.

Rukevwe999:
That's a petty and unnecessary drama he just pulled out.

💯

AishaDant:
OP, your wife is very lucky to have a partner like you.

For you to come up to with this, I have read your personality and I am impressed.

May God grant you your heart's desires.

We can only hope they will listen because these days, only very few Nigerian men actually have sense.

OP @tunnyl, the fact that the first comment is a woman praising you for being a real man should be a strong wake-up call. Wake up before it's too late. Learn or perish.

Alakoriomo:
The moment a single mother post something like this, just know there are men in her DM whining and deceiving and simping for her.

This girl post this on her WhatsApp and I screenshot it

“ Dating a single mother can be challenging, but every individual is unique and I can't speak for all single mothers. It's essential to earn her trust and create a safe space for her. Remember that you are dating a mother, which means she can see through any flaws you might have. If she accepts you, be prepared for personal growth and change. Don't play with her emotions; it takes a lot of courage for her to let a man into her life, so don't take that trust for granted. She appears tough and strong, but she also has a sweet and gentle side. A devoted mother will go the extra mile for her children, and if she truly loves you and feels safe with you, she will do the same for you. Good morning.”

After reading this, these simps will work even harder for her. The lesson I take from this is that men must be taught to love themselves.

If you have a son, a younger brother/cousin, or a nephew, teach him to love himself. Make sure he knows that he isn't less valuable than any vagina-carrier on this Earth. Show him how pitiful and pointless it is to chase a woman (especially if the said woman is a single mother), and that he shouldn't pedestalize any vagina/woman above his peace, his self-esteem, his dignity, his time, his ambitions, and his family. You don't want the son you worked so hard to raise end up being one of the many simps lined up for a woman (especially, if the woman is damaged).

ubunja:
That's women for you. After attaining financial security by marriage, they then seek to attain Sexual Security. That's why married women are so easy to fvck. Because single women are still working to "secure the bag" thru finding a Provider so broke men are disqualified quick quick. But after the marriage has been acquired, broke guys can apply. Broke guys don't know that the girl who dissed them before marriage, after marriage she can easily accept.

This miseducation is applicable to the Baltasar Ebanga situation.

Idonweak:
I'll be damned if i watch a 20mins video of a man ranting about his looks.

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luminouz:
Anytime a woman calls me a 'real' man...I immediately do three things

1. Check my account balance... I don't give shishi so she wan con me.

2. Check my simp meter... Is it that high that a woman is using that useless word 'real' to describe me?

3. Take a hot bath.... I must have smelled that bad as a finished man. There is no way a clean me is associated with the word 'real man'

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Guys, be yourself. Never worry about this BS.
Women don't give a shit about what turns you off, so why should you care about what turns them off? Besides, it doesn't matter anyways. If she truly likes you, you can hardly do anything wrong. If she doesn’t like you, you can do all the right things and still get rejected.
Don't break your head over this stuff. Be yourself.

@Nowar, how old are you? Or, what's your age range?

JESHAL007:
Kai bluepilled men are suffering which kind of low self esteem and scarcity is this, haba, single mom, hoe, divorcee

You might not understand it now but always give thanks to God for knowing the redpill

This is too much. This woman is an expert manipulator and the guy is either extremely ignorant and/or has very low self-esteem.

Mrwhite09:
she is a hoe

PinkNature was being sarcastic.