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@Op , it's difficult to process , I know , I can't imagine it myself it will hurt I understand. While I will urge you to turn solely to God at this point, you have to help your self to help him psychologically also. If you fight him like you are doing now, it won't stop him rather you are simply encouraging him to do more. If you fight your friends it won't help also. If you curse them and your husband sleeps with them, he will partake of the curse and bring it home to you. And by sleeping with you, you share in the same curse. Now as difficult as it will seem, use the psychology of " wetin them give thief nor dey lose " for him . Now do the following , it worked for a friend I was his best man and I am also sure it will work for you.

1.Call your friends and report to them that someone is currently sleeping with you husband , or you suspect someone close is sleeping with your husband. Keep the identity safe , don't say more to make them understand you know. Let them advice you cos the mere fact that they don't flaunt it in your face means they still have some measure of respect for you though humans can be silly at times.

2. Go to the market , especially this period and prepare a very nice meal you have not prepared for him in a lone while. Give him a wonderful treatment and make him wonder what is happening . Dress your most sexiest and after meal, tell him you want to talk to him and you have a gift for him. When he is ready give him a box or carton of neatly wrapped condom and tell him you just want him to be safe cos. You love him and insist that night he leads the night prayers. Liver go fail am cos you just set a big fire in his conscience from within you are breaking him.

3. Get him to be more serious ins his prayer life by insisting he leads the prayers, be nicer to him and insist he takes a medical test cos you must protect yourself also.

Discuss his girlfriend's with him as if your are encouraging him , a wise man will understand you are mocking him and quit .

Also make the house more peaceful for him. Stop nagging, dress more sexier and an educate your self sexually so when you have sex with him drain every sperm or energy in his body so much that nothing will be left to give outsiders except he wan die on top woman.

Look exceptionally sexier than your friends and discuss sexually with him on phone. Turn him on while he is at work ,send him some sexy dirty pics cloud his mind. But apply wisdom make you nor make am go misfire for work make e nor lose he job.

Lastly and more importantly turn to God in prayers. Just two prayer points are okay..to wit " may God cause confusion between him and any girl he is currently having affair with. A confusion or quarrel that no man can settle that will bring him home.

And may God give you the enablement to be a better wife to him in all ramifications , the kind of wife his heart desires. Grace to serve and satisfy your husband.

Hope I made sense. I rise.

Proudly Ijaw . Izon otu ado!!!!

@Op when did this happen? Cos I just am currently on my way to Lagos, just passed that axis few hours ago.yet to get to Lagos and the road was fucking free.

Foolish list what of those who stole in PDP .and jumpedto A PC? The falsehood and distraction continues. Arrant nonsense.

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@all saying this is not a class A road, shame on you .More pics soon.

This weekend I went for a function in delta state and decided to visit Ekpoma in Edo State. I couldn't believe the state of the federal road which the governor plies to his village in Edo north almost every weekend. Commuters now spend days if not weeks on the road due to the bad nature of the road. The attention of the state and federal government should be drawn to this ugly incident as this is a major road linking the North to the South South region of Nigeria. More pics coming soon.

Last time I checked, there no law criminalizing street husstling in Lagos or in Nigeria. You can educate me on this by providing any where in our statute book. Also a crime doesn't become a crime because the public sees it so or because the Governor says so or because some persons are being robbed, it becomes a crime be jade our law book says so and a specified punishment has been provided for by same.
Even if there is a law, laws are meant to be obeyed in a sane society and not an insane society like ours.
Have you ever been hunger for 72hrs with no hope of food? 33yrs with no job,can't pay bills and your brain is running overdrive and survival instinct kicks in?If you have, or have had accounts of persons who have been there, then you know if there is any law like that , it's unjust cos it's anti people.
Till the govt provides good and better opportunities, they should stay the Bleep off street business.

Okijajuju1:
Na wah, Na wah..

Whilst pursuing the government to create opportunity for jobs, it's also important that in our hustle to make ends meet in these times we stay within the ambit of the law.

Dear tell your government to provide alternate jobs for them because a bunch of them are graduates or talented who took to street trading and high way hawking because your government failed in his social responsibility.
Many took to it out if frustration caused by govt and the likes of you make more difficult. Mind you this is the cheapest form of business to start. You don't need money to pay for shop or excessive govt taxes and associated levies. God bless that bad ass hustler that has joined heaven. Many more you left in the husstle bro.Please tell the Angels to bless our husstle. #Streetadvocate.

Okijajuju1:
There should be zero tolerance for street and highway hawking Nationwide.


These fhuckers were the guise under which those Traffic robbers were masquerading to vandalize and rob people.

Their trade encourages littering.

Its highly dangerous and has led to the death of many many people.





The government should either create hawking zones (like they did one time in Accra) and regulate these people or out rightly ban them.

Wow! Then I got a rear breed for a wife to be man! My advice is this , sit he down and talk to her.

I can understand that working in a bank can make one have lots of financial comittment that even the 75k might not just be enough cos she has to look her best at all time. Sit her down, carry her along.

Discuss future financial plans, projections , spendings with her and make her the chief financial adviser and see if her advice will change things. Most time women feel threatened if you don't carry them along especially when she knows the kinda family you come from and how you relate with them.
Open a joint account, think of investment both of you can put money into, make her see reasons why all you need at this point is asset and not liabilities. Cos when the kids start coming liabilities will rise.

Create senerios wherein either or both of you might lose your job tomorrow and make her see why you should control spending. Lastly a joint account for investment but bro , use your head . I will advise you keep a seperate stash somewhere , if a woman knows your true net worth, her taste in material things will naturally jump no matter how prodent she is.
Lastly find out off she has an indebtness she services and ensure she is not getting advice from out side and using her home as a lab rat. If this does not work, give her more money with more responsibilities. E.g act as if you have debt you pay since she already knows your salary and stash that deductions somewhere safe for investment if she nor like investment ideal. Give her 50% , 60 or 70% of the rest depending on the responsibility you wanna give her and you are no longer responsible for house rent, feeding, bills payment and investment .
But bro ensure that money is in a joint account . Her spending will drop and she will have a clear understanding things her self because at times you only fully appreciate things when you are giving that responsibility. So let her do the maths and make all the bill payment. Simple.

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But wait a moment! why is it only in my beloved country that praises and accolades are bestowed on dead man they never loved when he was alive. Is it out of sympathy or what?
Cos i can still remember when Nigerians called for the head of this man and also treated him like a piece of magotted shit after giving his all to this great nation. And now the same people turn around to praise him at death? hmmmmmm na wah oooo.

Rubbish! this has been there for a while now jare. Even before Ambode became the governor of lagos state. This is Obalende bus terminal. they dont even follow the timing anymore. but you are sure to get bus anyway. Atleast to ikorodu, ajah and oshodi. @ op pls show us something new. thanks.

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BUHARI'S SCOREcard
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President Muhammadu Buhari was handed this monetary value in liquid form by former President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

***$30billion in Nigeria's Foreign Reserves,

***$2.5billion Sovereign Wealth Fund,

***$1.4billion in the ECA,

***$4.65billion back taxes from NLNG,

***Buhari met an approved N4.5trillion Budget,

Apart from these, he received within a year:

***$2.7billion collected by Inland Revenue in his first 8 months,

***$2.1billion World Lank loan,

***$850million Grant from UK, USA and Europe,

Excluding Crude Oil Sales, Joint Venture Profits, Royalties, Income from Customs, NIMMSA, NPA, NACHO running into Billions of American Dollars......
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A year later ....

1. Not a kilometer of road was constructed,
2. Not a Watt of Electricity Generated,
3. Not a Ward was added to any Hospital in Nigeria.
4. Not a job space was created, except the CBN job he shared with his cronies (nepotism),
5. Not a Grain of Corn or Tomato Seed was Provided to our farmers (Fertilizer Subsidy and Anti-Pesticide Subsidy were taken away and handed back to ex-Military men), leading to Tomato plants being wiped out in the North, causing the Current Dearth of Tomatoes,
6. 41 Foreign Companies mostly in the Service Industry, including Airlines left the country,
7. 4.3 million jobs were lost in 10 months - National Bureau of Statistics,
8. Food scarcity last experienced in Nigeria between 1983 to 1985 returned back to the country,
9. War on Corruption turned to war against his perceived enemies, any conviction by EFCC were cases meticulously started by previous governments. Buhari only won cases on pages of Newspapers,
10. Nigeria dropped from No.1 Investment Destination in Africa to No.27 before South Sudan,
11. African Biggest Economy shrank from a GDP of about 7% (+ve) to -0.36% (-ve), the Fastest Decline ever seen in the world since record began,
12. No.3 Fastest Growing Economy in the world tumbled to No.83 in 365days,

13. WAR ON TERROR

The last 3 Local Government Areas under ‪#‎BokoHaram‬ in February 2015: Abadam, Kala-Balge and Gwoza were all recovered before the general election and Buhari's ill-advised policy of banning Road Blocks lead to #BokoHaram recovering more LGAs and have the potency to attack, even when the Buhari's Government says "#BokoHaram was Technically Defeated...."

you should blame the governors who insisted that it should be shared and even when to the extent of instituting an an action in court against the Fed govt. So blame it on the like of Ameachi and co. Do you rem when the then minister of finance was shouting that we should save for the raining day?
Go back memory lane boss.

oduastates:
In his first 365 day, the excess crude account was pilfered/looted/ wasted /stolen from $22 billion to $300 million.
You can choose the word that best describes what they did with the ECA.

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REMINISCE ON DR. GOODLUCK JONATHAN 365 DAYS IN OFFICE

1. Nigeria’s oil industry expanded by 20% and we reclaimed our position as Africa’ largest oil exporter which we’d hitherto lost to Angola.

2. Recognized by OPEC in July as the 2nd largest oil exporter 2nd only to Saudi Arabia. It is the first time Nigeria has recorded such a feat.

3. Inflation rate has been reducing as the administration enforces tighter fiscal policies.

4. In June the Consumer Price Index showed an inflation rate of 10.2% which dropped to 9.4% in July being the lowest rate in the last 4 years.

5. Foreign Reserves rises by 10% to $35 billion. 6. Nigeria’s GDP growth rate month over month has continued to grow from 6.7% in May to 6.9% in July of 2011.

7. Nigeria declared top three investment destinations in Africa (number 2) by the independent Africa Business Panel in the Netherlands.

8. Nigeria now generates power at her highest level ever (4000mw) which is still far from enough but which will improve monthly.

9. Nigerian Railway Corporation commenced Mass Transit Services in 5 of 6 geo-political zones. Last zone will come on stream by year’s end.

10. With establishment of the NSIA, President facilitates direct investments into infrastructure with priority areas being Power and Roads.

11. The Federal Government also awarded contracts for various road projects across the country whose impact will soon be felt nationwide.

12. Launch of NigeriaSat-2 and NigeriaSat-X Satellites to expand Internet Bandwidth and provide early warning to prevent natural disasters.

13. President introduced the policy of engaging the Private Sector on kerosene pricing and price reduced between May and September, 2011.

14. Recognizing the sacrifices of youth corps members, President approved upward review of allowances from 9,700 to 19,800 Naira.

15. Implementation of Minimum Wage Increase for Nigerian Workers to 18,900 Naira monthly. 16. 35% Slot For Women in the cabinet.

17. Deepening Security and expanding Peace in the Niger Delta.

18. Reduced kidnapping in South East with implementation of President’s order establishing the 14 Brigade of the army in Ohafia, Abia state.

19. Maritime Safety has been ensured and stabilized in the last 100 days.

20. A stellar cabinet comprising former MDs of the World Bank & Goldman Sachs, Chairperson Accenture and multiple PHds.

21. The National Automobile Council established an Automotive Development Fund to resuscitate the automobile industry and generate jobs.

22. Approval for genuine foreign investors to obtain visas at the point of entry to facilitate FDI investments.

23. Model Skills Training Centers in Abuja- collaboration between Industrial Training Fund & the Institute for Technical Education, Singapore.

24. Establishment of the Nigerian Vehiclee Credit Purchase scheme.

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I present to you, a man of honour, decorum and integrity. A man whose ambition is not worth the blood of any Nigerian. A man who gave all for Nigeria democracy.

I celebrate Dr. Ebele Goodluck Jonathan on this day.

I am Yoruba, from Oka-Akoko and I presently live in England. If the government and the people of England no longer like my presence, they can order the Secretary of State for Home Department to deport me. If I were to be deported, I will go to Oka-Akoko, meet with my uncle, the Olubaka Of Oka and demand of him some parcels of land to build a bungalow and start a farming business. Three or five years down the line, I would have attained self-sufficiency.
But my friend, a prince from Gbaramotu Kingdom in the Niger Delta, if he's to have been deported from England, he cannot go to Gbaramotu Kingdom, and demand for land from his family either to build or for farming. The Federal Government of Nigeria, several kilometres in Abuja, controls every land in his kingdom because they have oil.
In Oka-Akoko, we also have Palm Oil tree, free gift of nature like oil, but we control our resources and not the Federal Government.
Change is not replacing PDP with APC. Change is replacing Unitary System with True and Fiscal Federalism.

[Adeyinka Grandson, 28 March 2013]

Consequently, maybe I was right when I mentioned in an earlier post that "...the Federal Government [of Nigeria] appears to have too many functions wrapped in its [tiny] hands"?

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