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#. John 16:33
[33]
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

Welcome/invite the Lord Jesus into your heart and you will find peace that none can explain

#. Philippians 4:7
[7]
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

There are figs in Nigeria ever since. Only I may not know what specific species you are talking about. Wild/African figs ("ákpūr" in part of Igbo land) are in many places in my area. See pictures below. And they're edible

....I keep wondering what else someone can hide for this long and still smile with confidence every day.

Wao!! This statement makes me judge you to be a more mature mind than himself

On this matters, if I found myself in it. I will write down at the things/ behaviors that I cannot live with the rest of my life. If this is one of them, bye bye to the relationship. He'll do similar things in the future.

Nobody is 100% good. So if he scores 60% to 80% behaviors/attitude test in your assessment of him,consider him and go ahead..

I perceive that he fears to loose you in his life but he's not mature. His fear is about to happen to him now

Try GT Bank. They are dollars friendly

Town service ( taxi or bus driver); join security company that are doing well.
Or go and learn pig farming ( if it's not Haram to you), you'll thank God later

The pastor has done well and the woman has done well.

Every human being should look for one way or the other to help those who cannot help themselves...

All human beings that God has allowed to live are important. Don't kill them (if they are not killing people) ; don't discriminate them; and don't stigmatize them !!!!!

Praise God for Aboy Chibuzot !!!!

Mariangeles:
Honestly, watching the video, the "marriage" is not what the Aboy needs.
He looks "tamed".

What he really needs is to be free to express himself with guidance.

I wonder what her children think about the whole situation...

His father said he (Aboy) has high libido and he masturbated ....
So you can help us with other practical waysof controlling such situations.

My question is: if a female has the same condition should she be left (to) for herself?

Dtruthspeaker:
How is he weaponising poorverty?

Is he not even rather going to take one woman and her family out of poorverty?

This is one of the many members in this forum.... they have uncontrollable hatred for pastor/church.

Come to think of it, we have females with the same condition.
There are men who have accepted this kind of offers before now.
We've seen teenagers married grandma etc

Geebabs:
He is not forcing anyone. He is selling the guy. Be careful because people could say you are discriminating against the guy.

There are females with the same issues also. We're all human..... let's not discriminate anyone

budaatum:
Please note that she has not said she is looking for a sugardaddy to keep her nor a husband even.

She just wants to be dated by people closer to her age.

If she has made her choice, let her go for it.
Why must she wait and wish for goals she set up for herself to come by?

Anasys:
It's worst than that.
The actual rating supposed to be 2000 MA. No regulator to con firm anyway, and these has a lot to do with developers.
50kg bag of rice sold in Nigerian market contain about 40kg of rice, about 2 custard measure have removed. Don't believe me, take a scale to the market and scale and find it out by your self.
The milk you drink in Nigeria contain no milk, but milk flavour, check the label and do milk test.
The drink you are proud of are fake, lucky you they contain alcohol.
Let alone sachet or bottle water.
I don't have time to list more

You understand Nigeria very well. Since I discovered it I have stopped buying many things from all this small small shop. I go to ShopRite, Roban and their equal.... Too much fake things in Nigerian markets

You are a wise man 🫵

AbdulAkpan:
How old was Chinyere Udoma 30 years ago?

How old was Odumeje 30 years ago?

What is the age difference between the two?

If you have gotten the answers to the above, tell us how possible it was for Odumeje to had taken her in and treated her like a daughter at a difficult time in her life about 30 years ago?

Congratulations...

The things that came up to my mind:
someone will now beg you to stay with you for a month, but after one year he's not willing to go away🤔....
Meanwhile, you can now remember those who housed you in those days that you don't have a house of your own🤔
How do you/we balance these things?

May God clear your road further, in Jesus name 🙏

KNOWMORE56:
It does not require parental consents for adults above 21 years.

Some years ago when I wanted to do this.... the person I met declined on account that the parents of the lady could sue them....

[b]She said that the parents of the lady must give their consents before the court can register the marriage. So how about that? [b/]

More also who then determines ( how much to be paid) or receives the bride price?

@ the bold what's your take

I would like you to contribute to the submission of this learned fellow @ Dtruthspeaker

giftson102:
Before you push for court marriage, know it's true advantages and disadvantages and be sure of your decision.

First, there is nothing like court marriage in Nigeria. What you are calling court marriage is actually called "statutory marriage" or "Marriage at the registry" or "Marriage under the Act"

🚨🚨The advantages of statutory marriage are:

📍It only recognise one husband and one wife. It is a monogamous marriage.

📍It is easy to have and not expensive. With less than ₦70,000 you can have a valid statutory marriage.

📍It does not require parental consents for adults above 21 years.

📍Only two adult witnesses are required for the marriage to be valid and these witnesses do not need to be family members.

📍If a spouse contract another marriage with someone else without first divorcing the legal spouse, the legal spouse can sue the other for bigamy.

Bigamy is the 0ffence of marrying a second wife/husband and it comes with 7 years imprisonment.

📍The legal spouse can sue whom their spouse married and that will land the person 5 years imprisonment for marrying someone who had a statutory marriage and is not divorced.

📍Adultery is a ground for divorce and you can claim compensation against the spouse who committed adultery and the person they committed adultery with.

📍In the case of d£ath of one spouse, the living spouse have the legal rights to take control of what the late spouse acquired.

📍Even if the other spouse has side chicks and side cocks, or had traditional marriage with someone else, the legal spouse is the only one that will have a say and be recognized.

📍The marriage certificate, which has Nigerian Coat of Arms, and FORM E written on it is the only marriage certificate that is recognized all over the world. Any other marriage certificate is invalid.

The disadvantages of a statutory marriage (it can be advantages to some people depending on a particular case) are:

🚨It does not give children of the marriage special privilege against children born by the parents outside wedlock. All children of the couple, have equal rights.

For example, if your husband gets a woman pregnant and bears children outside, those children have right to inheritance alongside your children.

🚨There is nothing like 50/50 sharing of property during divorce. You can only get a share of what was acquired after the marriage and you must prove you contributed to acquiring them. Evidence comes into play!

🚨The divorce process is only done in any High Court in Nigeria.

🚨 Return of bride price does not end the marriage. You must go to court.

🚨You MUST use the services of a lawyer for the divorce case.

🚨The divorce case can last 2-5 years before it is concluded in the High Court.

🚨You MUST have money for the divorce case. For start to finish, budget between ₦700,000 - ₦1.5million for lawyer's fee, appearance fee, filing and service of court papers.

Stop forcing your partner to go for statutory marriage if the benefits you seek are different from these.

It does not require parental consents for adults above 21 years.

Some years ago when I wanted to do this.... the person I met declined on account that the parents of the lady could sue them....

She said that the parents of the lady must give their consents before the court can register the marriage. So how about that?

More also who then determines ( how much to be paid) or receives the bride price?

By the way, how do artisans pay their taxes ?

Gradually we'll go back to the British tax (colonial) Master era. In those days before you go to market you'd be sure you are with your taxes receipt, if not you'll find yourself in prison.

Enugu State traders are complaining already ( that Peter Mba is taxing them heavily). Even pure water hawkers are not exempted.

daveobasi1:
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The National Open University of Nigeria as we all know is a distance learning University, the word "OPEN" simply means flexible learning. That is you can learn from any where, most people call the National Open University of Nigeria a work and learn school. If I may answer that question, YES it is a school that gives you the opportunity to work and still learn at the same time. The school became so popular after some top celebrities and well known people have graduated from there. On our list we have;

President Olusegun Obasanjo
Desmond Elliot
Ini Edo.


Let me guide you by answering some few questions about the NATIONAL OPEN UNIVERSITY OF NIGERIA.



1. National Open University is it accredited in Nigeria?
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2. IS OPEN UNIVERSITY DEGREE RECOGNIZED?
Since there courses or programs are accredited by NUC, National open University degree is recognized by employers worldwide.



3. IS OPEN UNIVERSITY DEGREE RECOGNIZED ABROAD?
Yes the National open University degree certificate is accepted abroad, since it's a federal government owned University. National Open University of Nigeria has received international accreditation from the UK's Quality Assurance Agency (QAA).



4. IS NOUN accredited by ICAN?
The answer is NO. National Open University of Nigeria is not accredited by ICAN as it is still a work in progress. This means that NOUN accounting graduates will need to take additional exams before becoming a chartered accountant.



5. Does the NOUN do NYSC?
In the earlier years the National Open University of Nigeria do not go for NYSC as student are been given exemption letters to cover up as the NYSC CERTIFICATE. The good news is in 2024, president bola ahmed tinubu has directed that graduates from the National Open University of Nigeria must participate in the NYSC program. Don't allow anyone discourage you graduates from the National open University of Nigeria now go for NYSC program.



6. How much are NOUN school fees?
Depending on the course you applied for, school fees do not have fixed amount. As at 2019 to 2021, just budget as about N150k for school fees and some documentation.

7. How many years are NOUN Courses?
Depending on the course you are studying, for example , computer science and business administration is 4 years. Undergraduates range from 1 - 8 years , while Post graduate and masters programs ranges from 1 to 3 years.

8. How do NOUN student receive lectures?
NOUN students can receive lectures through the school learning e-portal. Although most students in some faculties organize and pay lectures to come teach them. one good thing is you can study on your own as the school will provide all the necessary course materials every semester.

9. Do I need JAMB to apply for NOUN?
Yes you need a Joint Admission and Matriculation Board registration number to gain admission to the National Open University of Nigeria. You might not need to take the jamb examination itself.

10. Do NOUN have a campus?
The National Open University of Nigeria do not have a campus but they have study centers all across Nigeria where you can do documentations or receive lectures.



The National Open University of Nigeria is a good school and has flexible learning. It is suitable for any one because it is a work and learn school.

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Do NOUN also insist on crediting Mathematics and English before one can be admitted?

Satazaa:
He had a cult and sheepish followers back then, he was a master manipulator but intelligent and a sex freak, this story was a beautiful piece and made my day,

but how can the lie of religion be used to fool Christian ignoramuses fifty years ago and pastors are still using same template in the 21st century baffles me,

without the demonstration of some powers it can never be done. You can try it yourself and see that it's not easy to gather people for long

even when the white man who sold religion mirage to Africans has long abandoned it.[/quote]

Speaklove:
Most (if not all ) Atheists speak evil about religion; condemn all religions as if only religious people are committing all the evil in the world .

Recently, I read a book written by an atheist and the author took time to explain why religion is evil and how it is unsafe for the world .
And yet the same author printed out some reasons why some people embrace religion as follows :the need to be cared for ,the need to be helped ,the need for love and the satisfaction that comes from knowing that someone (God) cares for you ; all of which atheism ironically has no replacement for .
(not even its organised system can replace that ).

Many people find comfort and help from their various religious groups .
they get supported with money to pay school fees ,medical fees ,marriage or naming ceremonies ,food stuff etcetera .
The atheists community might be able to replace or replicate these within their comrades but they can't replace the inner satisfaction that comes with knowing that there is a higher entity up there who would be there for you in the darkest moments of your life or in a situations you might not be able to tell anyone .

(Some people are going through some sort of problems which they wouldn't want to tell anyone because they've experienced how helpless and hopeless a man could be sometime even in the face of the world's most sophisticated systems and channels of help because their problems seems to defy very solutions men have provided )

The level of evil and injustice that goes on in this world is a clear reflection of how unbearable and painful living in this world would have been without God for many people of faith .

There are many people who have been unjustly dealt with even in the western or the so-called civilized world ,and these people have resorted to trusting in God when it became obvious that the system of the world would most times favour those with privileges; and at the end they saw themselves come out victorious because an invisible entity who has power beyond the corrupt and imperfect system of this world came to their aid.

There are many atheist who will read this article or post of mine who wouldn't be able to beat their chest that they had never been unjustly dealt with or cheated or stole from and had to resign to faith .


Can atheist provide justice for every single injustice or error or sin mated against humanity ?

Do humans have the capacity to handle every circumstances of life without having to deal with unintentional human error .
Like .


Many people are currently in jail who were wrongly but unintentionally assume for have committed crimes they never did ; how would such people get justice if there is no God who sees beyond the natural and has the capacity to judge and reward , acquit or condemn in the after life ?

These are some of the issues atheism and ( a world without God or a spiritual judge ) can dealt with .

How would a thief who never got caught be punished for his evil ?

How much evil can a CCTV camera capture if there is no spiritual entity who can see beyond the reach of men into the secrets of dark places ?

These are some of the problems and inadequacy a world without a higher spiritual being can't handle .


Atheist are committing crimes the same way religious people are doing .
China has a large atheist population and an atheist friendly government and yet it has records of human rights abuses .

America ,UK, Germany and France all have a growing atheist communities and yet the immorality and crime rates is nothing to write home about .

If you say all religions are evil because of what religious people are doing then tell us how atheism is devoid of evil because of what atheists are doing right .

Do you know that more than 90℅ of the people claiming to be atheists do consult diviners or some kind of protection?

MaxInDHouse:
I thought you want to knowmore!

Well Jesus never commends politicians instead those that approached him Lord Jesus told them to turn back from politics!

One Jesus told to give up political ambition and become a disciple where he will be preaching and teaching from house to house and door to door like all other disciples. Luke 18:18, 22

Another went to meet him at night to know if he is fit for everlasting life and Jesus told him that he must be born again which means total abstinence from worldly politics and use all his heart for the Kingdom of God! John 3:3, 5

Zacchaeus was a politician, Matthew was a politician, so you can see that Jesus attended to politicians also.

*. Luke 19:5 "And when Jesus came to the place, he looked up, and saw him, and said unto him, Zacchaeus, make haste, and come down; for to day I must abide at thy house."

*. Luke 5:27 "And after these things he went forth, and saw a publican, named Levi, sitting at the receipt of custom: and he said unto him, Follow me."
29 "And Levi made him a great feast in his own house: and there was a great company of publicans and of others that sat down with them."

[quoteSo we do preach to everyone if they are willing to know what Lord Jesus say about God's Kingdom which has nothing to do with the kingdom of this world! John 18:36[/quote]Then stop undue criticism

If you want to knowmore about why the politicians and false prophets have this closeness it's because they needed their support from all sides as many view this pastors as God's mouthpiece .

You can imagine any thing of your choice...! Pastor Kumuyi has been invited and he's gone there already

*. Romans 1:14 "I am debtor both to the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to the wise, and to the unwise."
15 "So, as much as in me is, I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are at Rome also."

# I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are in (Washington DC) also.

The Gospel to every creature!

MaxInDHouse:
Why not humble yourself to know more?

Jews are stiff-necked people who love violence and they hate Jesus and his disciples for their peaceful movement.

So how can you compare a stiff-necked people to a peaceful group?

Well whether you like it or not

Trump is a worldly politician

*. Acts 13:7 "Which was with the deputy of the country , Sergius Paulus, a prudent man; who called for Barnabas and Saul, and desired TO HEAR THE WORD OF GOD ."

Read below

The President of the country, Donard Trump, a prudent man; who called for pastor W.F Kumuyi and other believers in Christ, and desired to hear the word of God.


[q] and true Christians are no part of the world!

True Christians are to preach the Gospel without prejudice.....

*. Romans 1:14 "I am debtor both to the Greeks, and to the Barbarians; both to the wise, and to the unwise."
15 "So, as much as in me is, I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are at Rome also."

# I am ready to preach the gospel to you that are (worldly politicians) also - says Paul pastor Kumuyi

By the way, did your GB tell you never to give watch tower tracts or magazines to any "worldly politician?

trendingnigeria:
Bassey?

Yeah

Thanks for the correction

papagiddy:
Nigeria is now the Headquarters of Christianity in the world...only a Satanist will not be happy with this

True talk. Nathaniel Basset will be there...

MaxInDHouse:
Would you like to know the truth on this matter?

World Empire Of False Religion is called "BABYLON THE GREAT" in the Bible {Revelations 17:5} Jesus refer to this body as mother of prostitute and all the disgusting things of the earth.
WHY?
Because this body claims they belong to God or Christ but when it comes to the spilling of innocent blood they connives with politicians sending their members to war and blessing weapons of mass destruction in the name of Jesus!
When their members who claims they are Christians meet at the battlefield Satan jubilates seeing those claiming Christians fighting and killing one another over the Kingdom (government) of the world yet the same people always say they belong to Jesus who said his own kingdom is no part of the world {John 18:36} and his disciples are also no part of the world! John 17:14-16
True Christians use God's word (Bible) to unify themselves {John 17:17} therefore they have the same line of thought {John 17:22; 1Corinthians 1:10; Ephesians 4:3} so nothing can make them deviate from the love of Christ {Romans 8:32} who taught them to love their neighbours as ourselves {Mark 12:31} and commanded them to have the same king of love that he has for them among themselves! John 13:34-35

So when different religions claiming they belong to Jesus join other religions and giving their support to world rulers they are indirectly saying they belong to Satan the dragon {Revelations 13:2} who has come to kill, steal and destroy lives! John 10:10

True Christians are earnestly praying for God's Kingdom to come {Matthew 6:10} we are no part of the world! John 15:11-19

Thanks for reading!

You always envy this man, but the more he's ahead of you in every way.....

*. Acts 13:45 " But when the Jews saw the multitudes, they were FILLED WITH ENVY, and spake against those things which were spoken by Paul, CONTRADICTING AND BLASPHEMING ."

*. Acts 17:5 " But the Jews which believed not, moved with envy, took unto them certain lewd fellows of the baser sort, and gathered a company, and set all the city on an uproar, and assaulted the house of Jason, and sought to bring them out to the people."

You and your like are playing the role of the Jews....

My friend had a girl who did this. Her secret was going to a witch woman with my friend name as her husband to be....every secret about my friend was revealed to her.
For confirmation she would tell my friend, and he would admit some but it's difficult to admit some.
Women are more clever than men when it concerns relationship!

MasterJayJay:
Were some Christians not affected by the wildfire?

If Paul the apostle was alive today, he would use 'O ye foolish mumudeens, who have bewitched you?'

This is why Christians intercede for their compounds/communities/countries and continents. Becaus when divine judgment comes, it will in one way or the other affect everybody.

Example. Daniel and his friends were righteous but they were also affected in the captivity to Babylon. But they were prestigious captives by divine arrangement! Daniel 1:6.

from the Bible/[b]:

*. Joshua 22:8 NLT "And yet today you are turning away from following the Lord. [b]If you rebel against the Lord today, he will be angry with all of us tomorrow."

*. Jeremiah 29:7 KJV "And seek the peace of the city whither I have caused you to be carried away captives, and pray unto the Lord for it: for in the peace thereof shall ye have peace."

*. Ecclesiastics 8:12 KJV "Though a sinner do evil an hundred times, and his days be prolonged, yet surely I know that it shall be well with them that fear God, which fear before him :"
No matter the matter, the case of the righteous must be positively different!

It was few years a go that similar thing happened to the Brazilian people.
God is the I AM WHO I AM

*. Malachi 1:14 "But cursed be the deceiver, which hath in his flock a male, and voweth, and sacrificeth unto the Lord a corrupt thing: for I am a great King, saith the Lord of hosts, and my name is dreadful among the heathen ."

https://youtube.com/shorts/BDsqQC_aY0A?si=4x8bq9RQKT4Fw5dF

OLAADEGBU:
21 Days Fasting & Praying | Day 4: Prayers Against Evil Covenants & Connections

https://www.youtube.com/live/2yj3XZy539s?feature=share

I like this

paxonel:
Why do people will rather choose not to be sinful, is it because of the fear of hell fire or because of the fear of the immediate or later consequences?

I know that everyone make mistakes in life, but what kind of mistake do attract hellfire punishment?

Is hellfire enough deterrent for any sin all?
Has anyone had the misfortune to go to hellfire and was back to life, what was your experience?

Matthew 25:41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

Is the devil and his angels tormenting people in hellfire enough deterrent for sin?

When we talk about hellfire, it's more like weather forecast:

raining season had just begun:
"people living around riverine areas should relocate, because there shall be flood...". Forecasters giving warnings

When we talk about hellfire, it's more like weather forecast;
it is not to instigate/instill fears on sinners...
but to create awareness
and let those who love themselves do the needful!

*. 2 Corinthians 6:17 "Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you."

Repentance and faith in Jesus' death, burial and resurrection is the only antidote for sin...