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DyshApp:
Naija News reports that Jayesimi, in an interview with her colleague, Abiola Adebayo, on her YouTube podcast, ‘Talk-to-B’, blamed her mother for her childlessness.
The Ibadan-born thespian said her mother and family refused her plans to adopt a child when her desperation heightened, stressing, “If you adopt any kid, I will feed them to death. It was then I knew that I was in for a long ride.”
Jayesimi said she was unfortunate to be in the situation despite several attempts to conceive.

Nonsense story! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Your mother said "No" to adoption, so you too carry her opinion for head because she be your god abi lord over your life? Nonsense! Make dem stop sharing these useless tales to further damage gullible people's brains with o'jare! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

lonelygem:
➜This one again?? You have 5 monikers on this platform and you are constantly blocked for your impunity and misconduct. Then you easily switch to another.. please argue with your next door neighbours..

Which America would that be? Does breaking the law run in the blood of your family abi wetin? https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/youthrules/young-workers/non-ag-14-15

Antwan99:
Who com capture for camera

Dashcams are popular in South Korea.

lonelygem:
➜Even America that you all shout and carry their laws on your head, my wife's cousin, a girl of 14 years that used to fry chicken for me while they were living at Aja before they relocated abroad last year is allowed to work in a restaurant as a kid, she earn 5 dollars per hour and exempted from tax because she's a minor. She works for 4 hours daily.

Which America would that be? Does breaking the law run in the blood of your family abi wetin? https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/youthrules/young-workers/non-ag-14-15

fergie001:
On Wednesday, 26th day of March 2025, the House of Representatives passed an additional 42 Constitutional Amendment Bills for second reading.
This makes a total 81 Constitution Amendment Bills passed for second reading this week. These bills have subsequently been referred to the Committee on Review and Constitution for further legislative action.
PREVIOUS THREAD:
https://www.nairaland.com/8381718/39-constitution-amendment-bills-passed#134730418

Even if only about 1/3rd of all of this is eventually passed into law, that constitution would have been solidified as the most official useless agreement on the planet. A country in the hands of kakistocrats will ever remain useless to those who are ruled by them.

BuyMeLand:
➜I agree with you. Some other men would have been violent to his wife lover or both his wife and her lover.

All to what end, though? None of that meaninglessness ever works out in their favor. This man's approach is the most meaningful approach to me.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

GistMedia0:
Seoul, South Korea – A motorcyclist who disappeared into a massive sinkhole on Monday has been found deceased following an extensive 18-hour search by first responders. The incident occurred when a 65-foot-wide and 65-foot-deep sinkhole suddenly opened up beneath the road in Seoul, swallowing the rider along with his motorcycle. Witnesses reported seeing the man, identified by officials as being in his 30s, riding along the road moments before the ground gave way.
Emergency crews worked tirelessly, pumping out water and digging through layers of dirt to locate the victim. After nearly a full day of intense rescue efforts, they recovered his body from the depths of the collapse.
Authorities have yet to determine the cause of the sinkhole, and investigations are ongoing to assess whether underlying infrastructure issues or natural factors contributed to the tragedy. Officials have urged caution in the area and are conducting further inspections to prevent similar occurrences.

Even though the man died, rescuers persevered until they found his body and retrieved it. If say na Nigeria this one happen, people dey wey go even work tirelessly like that to find person so?

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

BuyMeLand:
➜Man arranges his wife's marriage to her lover after finding out about their affair.
A man decided to get his wife married to her lover after finding out about their affair.
The man from Uttar Pradesh's Sant Kabir Nagar district in India, said he would take care of the two children his marriage produced, a demand accepted by the wife.
Babloo (in pink shirt) and Radhika got married in 2017, and have two children aged 7 and 9.
Babloo often left home to earn his livelihood. However, Radhika began having an affair with a young man in the village and the relationship continued for a long time.
Babloo's family later came to know about Radhika's affair with the man and informed Babloo about it.
Babloo then tried to work things out with his wife, but when he was unable to do so, he informed the villagers about his wife's affair with her lover.
In an unusual turn of events, Babloo decided that he would get his wife married to her lover.
He first went to court and solemnised the marriage of his wife and her lover, and then took them to a temple, where they exchanged garlands and wedding vows.
A video shared online shows the wife crying as her she married her lover in the presence of her husband.
The husband's only request was that he keeps his two children, a demand that Radhika agreed to after marrying her lover.

If this is really all there is to this story, then I must say that this man is a sage and a very mature human being at that.

voortrekker966:
You guys will just regurgitate stories. This story is nothing less than 7 years old.

Oh, ok! Nevermind then!

gaskiyamagana:
➜More and more from your faulty reasoning faculty about Allah, your creator just as people before you had done.

But I am not Arab, so Allah of the Muslims can't be forced on me as a creator. It is the same way Zeus of the Greeks cannot be forced on me as my creator since I am not Grecian.

braine:
How about taking more wives?

So, after learning this man abusively rapes his wife every so often, you feel it is sensible to send your daughters in as extra wives to him?

gaskiyamagana:
➜ You stand on nothing but ignorance to argue about God from your God-consciouness lacking senses.
➜ I will be wasting my precious time building faith on faulty reasoning faculty of yours.
➜ Continue to enjoy your 'worst of creature ' status as a denial of Allah.

1. About which of the over 4000 deities out there? Do you mean the Allah of the Muslims, whose ideas seem focused on the Arabs(since the Arab language is required to understand writings regarding him and even worship him)?

2. Building Allah of the Muslims' related faith? You do know that every religion out there — deities worshiped as well— have their faith models which significantly differ from the rest, same as your Muslim faith?

3. "Worst of creature" status? What the heck is that?

Pat081:
➜hmmmmm do you know that both state and Federal government who works for 35 years may not have land talkless of builting som thing like this ,but those useless people in power will have houses all over the world

And that becomes a valid reason for these people to sire a son, send him off to mines to work with toxic chemicals so they can be taken care of??

That child was not born by the people in power but by two incompetent adults. Those two incompetent adults, aware of their lack, decided to have this boy and then let the boy go out to work dangerous jobs to provide them a life they could not provide for him. If that boy succumbs to illness from all the chemicals he had to work with at the mine, will you also come here to tell us of how those in power are to blame for that then?

papyjaypaul:
284387]➜Most tend to cite these sections and the responsibility of women. In my opinion, Section 357 is clear with anybody at the first sentence but it is indeed a loophole with the 'married woman'. Does a woman marry herself?

But it's not a loophole, though. Like I said, It takes an intelligent lawyer to argue it. Unfortunately, most lawyers aren't willing to stand up for what is right but rather what works. Take a close look again at the content of section 6 of 357 below.

amp01:
➜In your locality,are there no children hawking or doing little job to help their family?

We don't have any such as kids are not allowed to engage in such labor, and are especially restricted from all kinds of work during school hours.

Goodvibes007:
➜https://punchng.com/canada-based-nigerian-risks-life-jail-for-killing-homeless-man/

Which kain yeye news report be this? Is the murder to be questioned on the grounds that the victim was homeless abi wetin? Wetin be this wogowogo nonsense?

Domainer1999:
Leave her, let her be gallivanting up and down. This is what happens when you slaughter reality on the altar of hope.

😩😩😩😩😩😩

doncartel:
➜A man with high sex drive should be with a woman who also has high sex drive. There are women in places like Brazil, Jamaica and South Africa that can make this Mr Stephen to escape from the bedroom window.

This issue isn't a case of a man with a high-sex-drive, but rather one of an inconsiderate and violent husband who considers his wife as nothing but a sex object and property for his dick.

ubimagos:
Meanwhile, I don drink everything drinkable yet I never fit meet demand! True, true, this life no balance.

Stick to regular exercise abeg and eating a better diet then.

Okezie5Regs:
It has gotten to a point where I just feel everyone should do what they think it's right as long as they don't offend the 10 commandments

Which 10 commandments? Who decides what is right in this case if not the very same fraudsters who are attempting to bilk the musicians of the pay they don't deny themselves? 😏😏

You are best admitting to yourself that none of this has anything to do with that book or those 10 commandments which were specifically handed down from a God who titled Himself God only of Israel to the people whom He gave the name Israel to.

Thomthom:
Na Kaduna State. Anything divorce Na sharp sharp. Na south judge dey give couple a month to think about divorce, Before final dissolve if couple no fit settle.

You do know Judges should not even be able to do that in the first place. It is an insult to the individuals seeking divorce.

kingsceee:
➜ In December, her elder sister came to take the kids for Christmas holiday. When the school resumed in January, I went to pick them only to see that the sister had registered my kids in a school in the area they live. I asked her why, she said that since the kids' mum were not around, they should be closer to them. I wanted to take my kids back by force but her sister said I would refund her the money she used in registering them in the new school. During the heated argument, people advised me to leave the kids since they were with their aunt and grand mother, that they wouldn't hurt their own sister's children.
➜ Last week, my wife's sister posted my wife congratulating her on the new car she just bought. I made a comment on the post, and she blocked me. I'm just sitting on the fence. I don't know which way to go now or what my wife is up to. "

Have you not been in regular contact with your wife in all of that time?

2. Again, have you not been in regular contact with your wife throughout the period, or were you both separate or something?

Okezie5Regs:
➜Nigerian artiste, Timi Dakolo (left) and Pastor Femi Lazarus (right). Photo Credit- Gist Lovers
In March 2025, the gospel music community has found itself deep in murky waters as debate that has simmered for decades now becomes a contemporary battle of wits: Should gospel music ministers be paid for their talents in the church? The controversy reignited when Pastor Femi Lazarus of Light Nation Church publicly criticized gospel artists for charging fees to perform at church events, sparking a heated exchange with Nigerian singer Timi Dakolo and others. Social media platforms have become the battlefield with opinions, from accusations of commercialization to defenses of artists’ livelihoods.
At the heart of this clash lies a deeper question: Is gospel music a sacred ministry to be offered freely, or a skill deserving of rewards mostly monetarily? This piece is set to explore the controversy, analyzing scriptural references that suggest gospel ministers should not demand payment for their talents within the church.

Which kain yeye argument be this naw? Pastors no be the same divine dem be? How come pastors can get paid but musicians cannot? This fraud ehn... it seems unending. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

papyjaypaul:
➜I know. And Section 6 or penal code. I know some lawyers have argued about the vagueness or not being specific. If she dies from this act or has serious injuries from the prolonged hurtful sex, what does it become?

I beg to differ. Section 357 of the Criminal Code is not at all vague in regard to this issue. Nigeria does not have a lot of lawyers bold enough and willing to go against the grain on these sorts of issues is the reason why it seems the Law is not on the side of the victim.

HandsomeSkeleto:
➜Law is only as good as to how much extent it is enforced. Come to think of it. In all such cases of marital rape in any court in Nigeria, the cases come under marital dispute in Customary Courts, and not as a criminal case In a magistrate/High Court.

Stop spewing gibberish & arguing like an odi! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

HandsomeSkeleto:
➜Give me a precedent from any court within Federal Republic of Nigeria where a defendant has been convicted of marital rape. Show precedent, man!

Precedents do not trump the details of the Law. The law is what is instead meant to be sacrosanct in any society. That is why even when dictators take over, they find they need to change the laws to completely disarm opposition.

HandsomeSkeleto:
➜Quote the section under our criminal laws where the law recognises 'rape' in Lagos.
In fact, go do research on the legal definition of rape. Law is law. In law, personal opinion doesn't count.Court of public opinion has no business with Court of Law.

In case you are not aware, your laws in Lagos have to be in compliance with the Laws at the National level. The clause that somewhat excuses rape in marriage exists only in the legal definition of marriage in Northern states of Nigeria.

HandsomeSkeleto:
➜'Rape' as it is in legal context can not exist in marriage

That is not true at all. Visit your laws before you get your self in trouble as a result of your ignorance.

PlanetZero:
➜U never jam nymphomaniac lady before abi. Even when u think say u dey enjoy sex...and u dey Bleep am twice a day and yet she is not satisfied. U no go run or call her papa number. Same thing for ladies wey the man dey ruffle for hours everyday There are other things to do in life na

Jamming a nympho is different from jamming an abusive, inconsiderate individual. Note the differences between the two abeg!

gaskiyamagana:
➜I have no time teaching you meaning and application of objectivity while inquiring, studying or researching on a matter.
➜ Yet, l will sensitize you that when objectivity is applied in the study and comparison of bible and Quran,
➜ only an hypocrite, if not a slowpoke, will not see that the differences, in terms of language of revelations, language of compilation, purity from interpolation, contradiction and proliferation, are comaoverwhelming.

Teach objectivity when the entire premise behind your faith— and that of almost every religion out there— is believing in an idea/an Allah/a deity without evidence? Are you sure you are OK?

2. You wish to objectively compare the writings in the bible —a book that indicates it only applies to the Israelites— to the writings in the Quran— a book that pretends it applies to all humans, even though it restricts them all to just one language out of over 700 out there? Do you really understand the terms you use at all?

3. You are joking, right?