₦airaland Forum

Omalicious1:
➜Tell me about the video you sent

I think it is particularly directed at those who think the problems in relationships are to blame on the females or that women are now wicked and manipulative.

RealityKings1:
I have explained the best way I can For the time being

You did nothing of the such. 😩😩😩😩

ABeg go watch video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nybZKZ6DUC8?si=O6GE6KmMybEqlA2v

Omalicious1:
Not baseless.

It is baseless if you are not able to provide evidence or at least data to back up your claim. 😏😏😏

Omalicious1:
➜I'm just stating the facts that women don't love unconditionally

You mean baseless facts, right? 😏😏😏😏

RealityKings1:
➜Five loaves of bread could multiply to feed many.. The probability of such happening is inexhaustible

How? Explain!

RealityKings1:
➜ What I mean is the probability of Christ's bread and fish multiplication happening is possible

Let me bite... is possible how?

Omalicious1:
➜80% percent of divorce are initiated by who?
➜ Out of the 80%, in many of those cases, the men aren't guilty? Should we start mentioning names

Where?

2. What are you on about?

By the way, I found this interesting video that I think Nigerians particularly the men can equally benefit from.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nybZKZ6DUC8?si=O6GE6KmMybEqlA2v

bingbagbo:
➜Pray for understanding

You mean your understanding informs you that the content of the book — the message recorded by the author — is wrong?

SuperOnyi:
➜ I can't wait to expose you in front of your husband. If he's kind enough to relocate with a demon like you, I wonder if he's really a monster like you paint him.

You must be a bosom friend of the man whose wife took her kids and their passports from him at the airport right before handing him divorce papers. The man initially had us believing he was responsible for the wife moving aboard. Only for us to learn much later that the man had been unemployed for a long time, and the wife was the sole breadwinner for many years before she finally left Nigeria. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

boysco:
➜If rent is ₦200K, how do I save up to build my own house, feed my family, and send my kids to school? — Nigerian police officer

Stories!

jaxxy:
➜I think I've been pretty clear on what I meant so why are u going in circles?
Friends with benefits is made clear.
A relationship is not sane as friends with benefits and should have more expectations. if u have a relationship with someone who's broke there is a higher probability to not know them for who they are cos they have a lack that u might be meeting for them in that relationship which changes the original intentions or expectations of the relationship. So u have to be aware of their real intentions and character.
This plays out in all relationships mind u but where there is a sharp imbalance not only in being broke but also power imbalance, leverage imbalance u have to watch out. That's my point.

But I am not the one still arguing, you are, and in circles at that. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

delkuf:
guy I know you before. Na your way. I won't reply again bye

Religion is a bitch that never gets you anywhere better than you were with it. isn't that so?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ilekokonit:
➜Even though marriage is good, but there is nothing stopping me abandoning a stubborn wife to be at the altar right in the marriage day if she or her family begin stress me and even after marriage if you begin stress me, I go abandon you and our your children for the house. I have only one life to live.

It is always better not to enter into marriage at all than to enter only to then play the victim after being caught committing a criminal offense.

Spousal/Marriage abandonment is a criminal offense. You are instead required by law to file a divorce in case you are done with a marriage union. Also, if the children are yours, you are required by law to provide for their support. Society should not have to bear the burden of even your sudden change of mind.

jaxxy:
➜Seems u like arguing. I agreed we all go for what benefits us and we don't all do it deceptively meaning hiding sinister or other motives.
And when I said people come for beneficial reasons and give back nothing, I wasn't referring to sexual transactional relationship cos that is made plain for u to judge even tho they mask it as a relationship... My point was while in such relationship don't see it as what it is not, understanding they are there strictly fir benefits. There is nothing beyond those benefits and there may ne no single loyalty or even worse sinister motives.
If u now take such a relationship as a dependable one u are only shortchanged or decieved urself. There are relationship where the relationships go beyond the superficial and hidden motives.

Let me guess, you don't like arguing even though clearly your forte seems to be arguing in circles. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

delkuf:
you tell me the difference now. Stop going round and round. Simply tell me the difference between faith and beliefs.

If you don't first understand salvation in the context of the book you quote from, how can you understand faith or belief in the context of that same book?

bingbagbo:
➜Man will account for his deeds one day
All our deeds are being recorded
There surely will come a day of judgment
Repent and believe In The Lord Jesus
He is The Only Surety❤️
Your "abeg" will not be heard that day
Your opportunity is Now

Daniel 12:1-2
[1] “At that time Michael shall stand up, The great prince who stands watch over the sons of your people; And there shall be a time of trouble, Such as never was since there was a nation, Even to that time. And at that time your people shall be delivered, Every one who is found written in the book.
[2] And many of those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake, Some to everlasting life, Some to shame and everlasting contempt.

Micheal is, in the context of the visions seen by Daniel, described as a chief prince of Israel, and the expression "your people" points to the people of Israel. Hence the book in question is a book that contains the names of the people of Isreal whose names are written in it.

Yes, the day will likely come for the people of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob—, however, what day is to come for the people of Nigeria?

delkuf:
➜you were laughing that I don't know the difference between faith and beliefs. So let us stick to that. What is the difference between faith and beliefs

You don't understand the difference between this faith and belief but you are here adamant that you have salvation figured out, huh? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

HardBishop:
➜Then marriage should not be permitted in Nigeria...since it's a game of betrayal. The sores should be opened for everyone to explore outside the continental shore of Nigeria to other countries.

Marriage is not a game of betrayal. It is not to blame for the manipulative behavior of individuals who attempt to use marriage in that manner. Rather, the level of social and emotional intelligence among individuals who engage in the union is primarily at fault. Also, You can't bar people from engaging in activities that you deem foolish — marrying when the red flags are all over the place for all to see—simply because you realize it as such. People need to be allowed to make these choices for themselves.

Omalicious1:
➜Not all the men abused their spouse. Some women also are serial manipulators and selfish

Interesting shift from your initial comment!

In the same way, you now realize that not all men love, you at least admit that equally not all women love? In the same way, men are capable of serial manipulation, so also you are bound to find women who are serial manipulators. Then why the initial generalization? Why be biased in your assessment of these things if you are indeed aware of these truths?

delkuf:
tell me the difference. I dont know

A more pressing question is how you came to conclude that the man on the cross was saved.

Jesus Christ of Israel did not employ the term saved or any of its synonyms in the context of that conversation on the cross with the thief hanging there beside him. Jesus Christ of Israel also did not allude to the man having any special benefits bestowed on that man beyond what Jesus Christ of Israel proclaimed would take place that very same day to the man and His person. Before that conversation on the cross, we learned from Jesus Christ of Israel that when the day when He would be handed to the foreigners came around He would be found in the grave — He would die that day. Jesus Christ of Israel also insisted that He would be in the grave for 2 days after that — 3 days in the grave. It should then follow that when Jesus Christ of Israel announced to the man on the cross that he— the thief— would be with Him— Jesus Christ of Israel— in a place referred to as Paradise that same day what Jesus Christ of Israel meant was that the man would, along with Jesus Christ, die that same day.

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NB: in Paradise seems to have been used by Jesus Christ of Israel as a sort of euphemism as an indirect expression representing "the grave" or "death".

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Now back to the question which is where do you get this notion, from what Jesus Christ of Israel in fact said to the man that Jesus Christ of Israel instead meant that the thief was saved?

Lordbinsmar:
➜E better to carry woman come from Nigeria ooo. Naa the one wey meet here self be wahala.

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Ebubu:
➜do you think I'll read all that trash you old man?

Even with all that is right in front of your faces, the choice remains whether to carry a woman from Naija or not to carry a woman from Naija? Kai! Nigerians never seem to learn! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Omalicious1:
➜Men aren't loved...they just being manipulated...a few know, majority don't. And the circle repeats

Do these men love? Do you assault and abuse someone you love? Do you treat like property someone you love? Read all those stories up there and you will see that those men equally didn't love those women in their lives. How can you expect to sow apples and reap tangerines?

Helpout12345:
➜My friend learned this truth hard way. He spent his money, legal status in the US and his job influence to sponsor a former girlfriend from Nigeria to the US to get a green car. Even with our warning to him, he insisted the girl will never betray him. Few years upon arrival in the US, this girl set him up with Dallas TX police. My friend was lucky to pull through. Even police officers told him "man to man" to be far away from the lady.

Tell us the truth abeg!

jaxxy:
➜Some people go for what is beneficial without genuine intentions or offering anything in return. That is what is bad.
➜ I did say only broke people are this way or all broke people are like that but they are more likely to pretend or just forced to act a certain way to get what benefits them.
➜ The pretence intentionally or unintentionally is the problem here.

Offering up their body in return for the benefit is akin to offering nothing. For example, A man agrees to have a woman's body and in return promises her benefits but you want us to believe that even though the contract is fair and agreed upon by both parties, the woman is in the wrong? Why the bias?

2. Again, what is to say that when the rest of us do the same, we are not pretending or acting in a certain way to get what benefits us?

3. Don't we all do something along the same line?

Mccollins042:
➜Women are naturally created to be helpers to men, subordinates, they are meant to be submissive to their husbands and men are meant to love and care for their wives and families being the head of the home. Whenever this rule is broken the family gets destroyed. Whenever a woman becomes the breadwinner there is a problem, when the man stops loving his wife there is a problem etc.
The west has taught women that they are not subordinates to their husbands and made their laws to that effect there by destroying families, the smallest units of every society. Nothing will change till they retrace their steps. No organisation survives without a leader, none!

This one is still smoking religious cool-aid! 😂😂😂😂😂

There is no biological or physical evidence that women were created to be helpers to men, subordinates, and all the other religious nonsense your ancestors and their religious masters filled your heads with. Many women in places like Nigeria are raised with this mentality that they are unequal to the males, however, the same women can break free of the brainwashing when they leave the African shores, proving that women aren't innate helpers or subordinates for men but merely programmed by society to think so.

2. Are marriages in Nigeria any better than marriages abroad? Talk true! 😂😂😂

1Sharon:
Mumu man. He married a 16 year old minor because he thought she would be 'tamable' and that backfired greatly. E sweet me. A 4 year old was left in his care and he was unable to care for her because he was undocumented. Is that how he would have been unable to care for his own biological child had he conceived with Edith? Now what did we learn?

Just imagine the excuse sef!

HardBishop:
➜Our women mentality differs from other African nationality..
➜ I'm telling you..... Is only to exploit and manipulate men is the mentality of ours.... Ah Nigerians me are now getting wiser

What you are telling us here is that it is the Nigerian woman to blame when her husband's toxic and violent nature towards her. The foreign woman is better than the Nigerian woman and this is why those same Nigerian men are submissive and docile creatures around them.

2. Exploit and manipulate? but isn't that exactly what the Nigerian man has done to the Nigerian woman for so many generations before this one? For the longest, women were exploited only to then be abandoned by their husbands and lovers, left with nothing in the end. You are telling me it is wrong for women to do to the men exactly as the men have and continue to do to them even to this day?

jaxxy:
➜As a general rule you can't really know the true character or loyalty of a broke person. They are with u majorly cos its beneficial for them so u have to know how to test the integrity of a broke person. Lol

Isn't that what everyone pretty much does which is to engage majorly in that which is beneficial, abandoning that which isn't? Why make a broke person out as evil for doing what pretty much everyone out there also do?

justli:
➜By becoming the abuser? Or are you denying that these men are being terribly abused?

Abroad, the law typically stands on the side of the victim and not the abuser unlike what is nearly commonplace in Nigeria.

HardBishop:
➜Is it only Nigerians women are available? Go and explore other African women. Haha Kenya no dey? Zimbabwe women no dey be?

Do Nigerian men do to that foreign African woman what they do to their fellow Nigerian women?

MOTIONTECH:
I managed to read the first story, Eze sef funny, you marry 16 year old girl, left her in Naija and traveled for 10 years,😂😂😂,(sorry for the laugh) but Eze na mumu. How can you marry a young girl that her hormones are just kicking in to travel,young girl that sees what are peers are doing, married woman wey dey see wetin single girls dey do for bed and she no fit do am, Eze played himself, its a pity.

Eze never talk true be the thing.

RealityKings1:
➜Its not yeye, an analogy of multiplication, additions and probability of things happening over again

What in the world do you mean by this?