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podium:
➜Roaming about the whole village, going to the bush looking for mango, pears, etc. Dancing to unheard music, talking by himself.. wearing just 1 clothes for a year,
➜he once went to a nearby church close to our compound to live inside the church.. the key was always keep in our compound.. the pastor order some youth to throw him out. That time he didn't burn his clothes, his pot and gas cylinder.. they collected the church key from my parents, throw out all his stuff.. he carry everything and be roaming about the village on his head.
➜He later burn everything including the clothes he once bought for my mum..

Ayeee!!!!!

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3. But earlier, you claimed he had about 90% of his memory still. So how were you able to ascertain this? Did you have your brother's condition diagnosed and hooked up to a machine to determine this?

I have only one other question for you @OP. Do you and your people have a heart at all? Your brother is off his hinges. Rather than empathize with him and immediately find ways to help get him the best treatment for what it is that is wrong with him, you resort to telling us fantastical tales about how is an embarrassment, a laughingstock, and all the rest. You even go as far as to tell us of his own flesh and blood parents choosing to busy themselves with depression over what others think or say rather than focus on finding treatment for their son who once had a brilliant life in front of him. Na wa ooo!

CockPit:
➜She is not taking care of their needs like my mother did to us, I do most of the taking care for the kids hence the comparisons. Not always good to jump to the extremes in discussions.

Growing up, did every other mother in your neighborhood or vicinity treat their kids exactly as your mother treated you and your siblings? I mean no matter how you try to skew this there is absolutely no valid reason why you would expect your wife to be or compare to your mother. Well... maybe if you paid her to specifically treat your kids exactly as your mother treated you and your siblings, and she agreed to it too, then maybe this attempt to compare her to your mother would hold some meaning. Otherwise,... seriously, I blame women who enter into relationships of this sort really. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Great100000:
Nigerian Government Allocates N100 Billion for National Home-Grown School Feeding Program.
Despite its numerous setbacks, the National Home Grown School Feeding Program (NHGSFP) remains a cornerstone of Nigeria’s efforts to address child malnutrition, improve educational outcomes, and support local farmers. The government’s continued investment, including the N100 billion allocated in the 2025 Appropriation Bill, highlights its determination to make the program a sustainable success. However, the program’s history of challenges raises questions about its long-term effectiveness....

Here we go again! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

CockPit:
➜You are not making sense. Why the need to go to the extremes.

The extremes here were made possible by your person who claimed he was able to compare his mother to his wife. I am in the right to ask you if your mother equally catered to your sexual needs, and had your children whom she in turn had to take care of their needs at the same time caring for your arse! You want to be fair when making comparisons, right? 🤔

podium:
➜You don't read to understand, someone who was doing very well in school, a bright child. Now he is a laughing stock in the village..

You failed to include information on how exactly your brother became a laughingstock in your village though. So, what is there for me to understand when you gave no detail on how your brother became a source of embarrassment and disgrace to your father and mother? 🤔🤔

podium:
➜If you called and sit him down, in the next second he will tell you there's no tym for him to be with you. And he will stand up and leave.

I take that to mean you have never in fact sat your brother down to properly understand what it is he is struggling with. OK! So, how is it that your brother causes embarrassment and disgrace to your family? What details can you offer to this?

mysticwarrior:
➜ How are heavenly beings humans? please explain.

First, if you examine the original Hebrew below, you will find that the assertion "heavenly bodies" comes, not from the script itself but from insertion by your religious beings whose only desire is to insert their ideas into what is written in Scripture, completely disregarding the author's truth. Second, regarding the Heaven of the God of Israel, Jesus Christ of Israel claimed in Scripture that He alone had come down from His Father's Heaven. Additionally, Jesus Christ of Israel through His Gospel proclaimed that those who would become children of God in His Kingdom were those — humans — who went on to be approved righteous by His Father, the God of Israel. This all indicates that the idea that the reference Sons of God was a reference to aliens/non-humans does not hold to Scripture.

TouchNfollow:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/01/06/musician-speed-darlington-files-n300million-suit-against-police-inspector-general-court#google_vignette

ECOWAS courts(and maybe any other international court you can go) is where to go with this. This is a move in the right direction!

imiski:
➜What of God that killed the innocent firstborns of the Egyptians, children that did nothing to deserve such death.
➜And the same Jesus that would burn all his enemies in fire.

Ok! What about it? As far as life on earth, everyone is guaranteed death, some before others, with no guarantee given to any man or woman as to when. Everything dies and dies when God wants it to happen— He is the creator of death after all. So, what is it about the death of the supposed innocent firstborn of Egypt that are you trying to bring up? Are some deaths greater or better than other deaths? If that is the case, is that the opinion of those who experienced it — the dead?

2. According to Jesus Christ of Israel, His enemies would live eternally in the place of eternal Damnation. So what about that?

CockPit:
➜Yes. I asked the question with full chest. The only example we often have about marital relationships is our observations of our parents. That creates certain ideologies and expectations about married life way before we got married. I was particularly close to my mom and she would take very good care of us.
Every morning, she was up early to prepare food for the whole house, she plans how to go to markets to restock on provisions. In the afternoon, she always made sure food is ready and likewise in the night. Before you tell me, " but she was a full time housewife", I would like to stop you in your tracks by telling you an emphatic , No. She was always up 4am in the morning to prepare food for sale and for the house.
I never heard her complain evidence in difficult situations, never nags my dad, always by his side to be his confidant and support him and, she he never had a car. Do you think it is wrong to have these expectations from my wife or ladies going onto marriages today?
My experience has been to the contrary. Wife wakes up in the morning and never bothers with what the kids and husband will eat or expecting the husband to make his own food. Staying on the phone for hours and so on. I try to compare with my mom and she is never happy with such a comparison. Is there anything wrong with comparing your wife to your mom?

Na the women wey dey marry people like this I dey blame most! 😑

Was your mother also sexually servicing you and having your kids during all of that time she cared for you? 🙄🙄🙄

Uptownerd:
➜Who are the "Sons of God" referenced??

According to Scripture, they are humans. Do you have any scripture that declares otherwise?

The interpretation that the "sons of God" are fallen angels has its origins in religion — Judaism, Christianity, etc, and not Scripture which does not consider sons of God angels(alien beings) but humans. Even Jesus Christ of Israel who was called a Son of God came in human form, and not as an angel or alien. Jesus Christ of Israel equally made known that He came to recruit others to become children of God i.e. Sons of God of Israel. Basically, those who are to become "angels" in Jesus Christ of Israel are human beings.

CodeTemplarr:
➜But God Killed those who mocked Elijah. The person behind this may even be an RCCG member just looking for content that can attract traffic. Shebi im swear for Naira that it begin to rise some years ago, may be it is through content creation the naira wants to rise.

God of Israel did that, not Elijah of Israel. All Elijah of Israel is recorded to have done was curse at the kids who were mocking him. So, why does this monkey man here suppose that what happened to the kids would happen to those who mock him?

imiski:
If Ejijah can kill small children that made mockery of him,
➜then what is adult that Jesus would not kill.

What proof do you have that Elijah of Israel killed those children? All Elijah of Israel is reported to have done was curse at them. So why do you take that to mean that Elijah killed them?

2. Jesus Christ of Israel is reported to have warned His Followers against praying AGAINST their enemies — He urged them to instead pray FOR their enemies. So, where do you get this inane idea that Jesus Christ of Israel would kill anyone?

MMempire:
May His grace continue to abide with us!

Yes, may the grace of billy graham continue to abide with you all.

TimeManager:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/court-grants-n10m-bail-to-woman-who-allegedly-threatened-seyi-tinubu-igp

Someone please tell this woman to sue the IGP for illegally instituting himself as Law against Nigerians and their freedom of Speech. Everyone illegally arrested by the IGP and his mafia ought to take this case up against him as well. Yes, Nigerian courts have failed but we have ECOWAS and international courts to consider. This blatant disregard of Law by those employed to uphold the Law should be condemned by all and sundry.

Saywhat10:
Musician Speed Darlington Files N300million Suit Against Police Inspector-General, Court Fixes January 13 For Hearing

If true, I like this! It should be taken out to ECOWAS courts and maybe even international courts, if possible. It is no longer OK for the IGP to be allowed to run rogue. The system is in shambles because Nigerians refuse to hold these criminals in office accountable for abuse of office. No individual should be above the Law. If the Nigerian courts refuse to work then there are international courts that should be able to help bring these people down or at least help cut them down to size.

Ernesthugo:
HI world, notably nigerians, how do you intend to cross-over to 2025? CHURCH,CLUB,MOSQUE OR IN A PARTY?

No matter where you spent your crossover, the same realities await you in 2025.

fasterwell:
➜I never said they are flesh and blood like we humans. I used the line SPIRITUAL BEING to make you understand that even though they look like humans that they are actually SPIRITUAL BEINGS
➜I guess you don't know what is CELESTIAL AND TERRESTRIAL ENTITIES.
➜So you are just a baby when it comes to the SUPERNATURAL

1. Oh, you have chosen to add your own addition to the MammyWater myth, right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. I understand that you are attempting to convince us now that rather than the marine creatures they formerly were, MammyWaters have been upgraded by you to alien—celestial— status. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

3. I am a baby because mentally, I don't easily confuse the tales like you are doing here, right? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

marakpa:
➜You cant compare bro, i am not competing or disagreeing to what you have speculated, but you see here, u can go to jail for something wey u nor do,
➜infact something u never have thought of doing and na the woman wey u call ur wife go eff u up.

So, the over 60% of Nigerian prison inmates right there in Nigerian prisons today who remain uncharged for any crime— dem no commit any crime at all — are what? You people should stop telling outrageously ridiculous tales abeg! 🙄

The only reason you would end up in jail abroad is if it is established that a crime was committed...you have to be charged and found guilty before that happens even if erroneously). Other than that, you can't be thrown in jail. 🙄🙄

podium:
➜400level, civil engineering.. his 100level and 200level was very good. All A's. 300l we stop seeing his results because he didn't show it to anyone.. I have been praying and crying to God to help him

Have you ever in fact sat your brother down to ask him why he started smoking weed? It may be that he already had mental problems to begin with and decided to medicate using weed. You need to take your brother to see a professional mental health therapist or counselor to ascertain what is wrong with him. That is something your father and mother ought to have done in this case, not sit back and worry about what others think or say.

Free2Fly:
➜You're not a Nigerian and won't understand. The Govt doesn't conduct funerals for the dead in Nigerian; families do and it's very expensive, especially for struggling families. So, the father saying that was a way of reminding the guy what lies ahead for him and a subtle threat for him to call his siblings to order.

Why should a father do that though? In this year 2025, why should any well-meaning parent decide it OK to choose death for what OP has stated and further burden an already struggling child at that?

podium:
➜Greetings All, I want to make this simple and short.. I need help.
We are 3 in the family, my dad is not doing well, he is a farmer in the village. My mom is not strong to do anything, she start in the house, while dad works in the farm and sells the petty harvest from the farm. I am the first son, I work in a private school with 2kids and a wife.. it is only God that has been my greatest provider. my sister is nothing to write home about, my brother was doing very well in school. Therefore my dad lease his farm to people in other to support my bro in school.. I really saw greatness in my brother and I really believe he will be the one to left up the family.. my dad didn't really care about me, I am an introvert and a shy person, so I am not very bold and i am always alone. My dad never really care about me. I started working in the private school since 2012 with a salary of 7k till date with a salary of 30k. I be frank I am better than some of my mate. Some people do not believe I am surviving with a 30k salary with 2kids and a wife, to make it worst, my wife is not working so therefore I am everything in the hauz. When I was single, I save small money from my job which I use it to sponsor my self in school, I am done with ND And HND, but no money for my clearance. Now back to the main issues: my brother was doing very excellent in school, I don't know how he got into smoking Indian herm. He got into it and now, since last he is not normal again. My brother is slowly running mad, he has brought disgrace and embarrassment to the family, my dad and mum and now a laughing stock in the village.. my bro is turning into a mad man. But he still have 90 percent of his memory.
➜My parents are weak, the last time my dad calls me, he told me to arrange money for their burial incase they die anytime.. like this I can't boast of 1k in my account, my parents are drying up everyday due to depression, thinking and embarrassment my brother has brought to the family.. upon all the suffering my dad passed through in other to support my brother, now my brother is nothing to write home about... Please who can help my brother, who can rehab him. Please. I will be losing 3 things this year, unless God will say no.. please someone should help me. I have been crying everyday, praying to God to heal my brother...

1. Your story lacks the necessary details. You claim your brother is mentally ill — he is sick—, but how does that translate to embarrassment for the family, etc.?

How old are your mom and dad and why have they chosen to live as they do now? I mean they have 2 other kids so why choose to die because of the troubles of just one kid?

MONEY247:
I always feel like I don't have much time....Like there's a fire 🔥 of urgency always raging in me.... It's feels somehow....

And what have you accomplished with that fire of urgency that you claim rages on the inside of you? Where has the fire taken you?

marakpa:
➜ok first off, I would really love for married person to join on this post to shed some sort of experience analysis here. Secondly I want to use this opportunity to warn any man residing in Nigeria or any other non European country/usa and canada never to bring your wife to those countries if you having certain issues with her before departure.
➜If you dont have the mind or you risk losing your value as a man, dont try it, I have heard about this plenty attimes, but I risked it because of the children, but then what am facing now apart from traits of infidelity is however bigger than the risk I took.

So, men in Nigeria don't have the same things happening to them even as we speak? Na only men in abroad dey waka around suspecting wifey fit dey cheat? 🙄

2. So, men for Nigeria no dey lose their value at all? In Nigeria, all men are guaranteed to maintain their value as men abi? This one never even begin to understand wetin dey do am sef yet him don convince himself say him wife as far as relationship and marriage! 🙄🙄🙄

marakpa:
➜Na because of the kids bro, this uk wey we dey so sef, if to sey we not get kids cos she needs me to assist with care, if not she go dun free me as she dun see freedom for here.

So, your family felt marriage was shackled in marriage all of this while?

keymatt:
➜The bolded shows you don't even understand what you're saying let alone understand the Bible.
➜Christianity is not a religion, it's life and the Bible is not a novel but a written word of God inspired by the Holy Spirit.

Stop trying to pin your many delusions on the Bible, a collection of books that instead logically detail the history of the people of Israel as written by those who belong. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Compared to the contents of the Bible, Christianity is instead a compendium of logical fallacies and contradictory beliefs which understandably strip those who cling to it of the ability for comprehension and rational thought. It is no different from every other religion out there. Your holy spirits are born instead of your delusions, no different from that of many considered pagans by your religion who hold similar spiritual delusions which they confuse for superpowers. 🙄

mysticwarrior:
Apart from using clay to assumed a human form to make themselves more human, how were they able to generate sperm into their system that enabled them to procreate? because according to the bible the daughters of men had children with those angels

Which systems? The passage says Sons of God — humans — and we know from Genesis 4 mention of God giving a child and from other scriptural references that they are humans. So where do you get the notion that they are instead aliens(non-humans) aka angels?

Uptownerd:
See the proof.

The passage you quoted does not say anything about angels(non-humans) so where do you get the claim made in your topic?

keymatt:
A lot so called Christians especially nairalanders don't even understand what you wrote. That's shows you how ignorant they're about the word of God.
If they understood Gen 3:15, they'll understand Satan's foolish attempt to corrupt human beings through hybrids, exactly as you commented.

New King James Version
And I will put enmity Between you and the woman, And between your seed and her Seed; He shall bruise your head, And you shall bruise His heel.”
Gen 3:15

Genesis 3 vs 15 makes absolutely no mention of a Satan but here you are adding the mention as it pleases you. 🤔

One thing is for a fact and that is that religion including Christianity is a scheme designed by men as a tool with which to defraud and also rob other men of their ability to comprehend and also reason critically about regarding most every thing.🙄🙄🙄🙄

marakpa:
✓ Guys happy new year! Been married for 13 years, and I seem not to trust my wife most of the time. The traits are there, attitudinal traits, actions, talk and so many. Guys I have a short story of something that occurred yesterday that my instinct says she cheated on her girls trip out, but before i tell the story, is gut feeling or instinct accurate sometimes?

I never understand when people speak of trust in relationship including marriage. I think that is just a reason weak minded individuals use to needlessly shackle themselves down to a notion that is honestly not logical. Humans are by their very nature fallible .i.e. untrustworthy, so what sense is there in saying you trust another when you can't even trust yourself if you are at least honest. 🤔

Anyways, back to the topic. Your wife went out and you suspect she cheated. If you feel strongly about it, confront her gently about it and allow her tell you what she will..lay out whatever clues that may help with your own investigation into the matter...and then go from there. If after all of that you are still not convinced and would rather take it a step further, seek out a professional marriage counselor to see if you can both get on the same page or if it is time for you both to call it quits altogether. 🤔

joshbj:
Askkumuyi.ai response
Who are the Sons of men in genesis?
In the book of Genesis, the term **"Sons of Men"** is often associated with different meanings, primarily focusing on humanity as a whole. In Genesis 6:1-4, there is a mention of the **"sons of God"** and the **"daughters of men."**
Here’s the relevant passage:
1. **Genesis 6:1-4 (KJV)** states:
- "And it came to pass, when men began to multiply on the face of the earth, and daughters were born unto them,
- That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.
- And the LORD said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years.
- There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown."

In this context:

- The **"sons of men"** generally refer to humanity as a collective, emphasizing the physical lineage and the corrupt nature of humans following the fall. Every individual is considered a son of man, showing that all share a common heritage and sinfulness.
- The **"sons of God"** in this passage have been a topic of debate among scholars. They are often interpreted either as fallen angels, the descendants of Cain, or the godly lineage of Seth, marrying the daughters of men, which are thought to represent the ungodly lineage.

2. Further on, **Genesis 5:1 (KJV)** highlights the creation of humanity:
- "This is the book of the generations of Adam. In the day that God created man, in the likeness of God made he him."
- This verse indicates that both male and female are created in God's image, reinforcing that all human beings share a divine connection.

In summary, the **"sons of men"** in Genesis are the descendants of Adam, symbolizing all humanity, contrasting with the **"sons of God"** in specific passages. This contrast emphasizes the moral and spiritual state of humanity, especially during the times prior to the flood, reflecting on the relationship between divine and earthly beings.

Disclaimer:My expertise is rooted in the Bible teachings of Pastor W.F. Kumuyi over the past 50+ years. Therefore, I may not be able to provide answers to questions beyond the scope of his teachings. However, if your inquiries are related to Pastor W.F. Kumuyi's Bible teachings, please know that we are continually enhancing the model to improve its understanding and coverage in this area. We sincerely apologize for any inconvenience and appreciate your patience as we work to serve you better.
Source: The Holy Bible KJV

How can I unread this meaningless grovel abeg! 😩😫😫😫😫

Augustine2244:
They were angels who sided with Lucifer in his rebellion against God and in line with the mission of polluting the human race, descended to earth, acquired human bodies and married human women.
The result was the hybrid offspring, half angel half human called NEPHILIM.
These beings were gigantic in stature and caused much trouble and chaos among humans and fostered the increase in sin in the world.
The aim of this copulating of angels with human women is to absolutely pollute the human race so much to prevent the Coming of The Seed( Jesus Christ) who would come to bring Mankind into reconciliation and fellowship with God.
Lucifer and his fallen angels felt that if they can get the entire human populace to be corrupted in sin, God's Purpose of Sending the Seed would be thwarted, since He would have to use a righteous person.
So Lucifer intensified his actions of increasing sin on earth and ensured its spread throughout the world through his lieutenant generals_, The Principalities and Powers.
But there was a man_Noah who with his family didn't come under Satan's influence of sin.
While Satan was focusing on spreading sin and corrupting the seed of mankind,he overlooked Noah and his family.
When God decided to destroy the world,He preserved Noah and his family.
Satan and his team were extremely glad over God's decision to destroy mankind over sin.
They felt that they have succeeded since there would then be no human lineage from the Seed would come.
But Satan being the perpetual fool never knew that God will have the last laugh.

These are ridiculous nonsense tales you spew!