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Thebest5:
I notice nairalanders dislike long write up so this is very short.

factual benefits of being in love

Love may make you live longer. Since the beginning of time, humans have depended on one another for survival. ...
Love can help combat diseases. ...
Love boosts your immune system. ...
Love helps you look younger. ...
Love can keep you slim. ...
Love improves your mental wellbeing. ...
Love improves self-confidence.

Regular vitamins , hydration and exercise can help you with all on that list and more.

As for the first, you don't need to be in love to socialize.

tonididdy:
Have you had designer pucci?

What designer label be that abeg?

What brand and manufacturer?

LordIsaac:
I'll stay on the Biblical term, "virteous woman". Don't create something else.

The Biblcal virteous woman has a man who likely foots much of the bill as far as her battalion of slaves who she feeds and provides for this as they help her daily accomplish all they are said to in Proverbs 31.

So was Chinedu such a husband?

LordIsaac:
If she were a virteous woman, who married a reasonable man, brother Chinedu would rather die than dump her. He just got his freedom, if you asked me. Meanwhile, let me reiterate: the female gender needs constant supervision lest they hurt themselves and everyone else around by their nature.

Was Chinedu himsslf a virtuous man when he married her?.

tonididdy:
... Some worth it tho.

Really?

ROFLMAO

TOPCRUISE:
That is why I laugh at the wailings of some men on this forum whenever their girlfriends and wives show them pepper. You hear I do this for my girlfriend, I rented apartment for her, I send her to school, I paid her school fees, I was the one taking care of her and family and yet she cheating on me. But I still love her what should I do
What your woman have seen outside you have not done up to half of it.

These men loved to boast of such things when in crowds...

AntiChristian:
1. Leviticus 18:7–18 and 20:11–21, and also in Deuteronomy.

2. The discussion is on polygamy which God permitted and even gave more wives to David. How is that similar to polyandry?

Stay on the context please!

1. In Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20, God explicitly makes it known to all men that the Law and agreement in question He makes only with those who have the blood of Jacob coursing through their veins. The God of the Bible intended that Law for the Jews and only the Jews and Moses made this fact known all throughout the book of the Law.

So why do you assume the same Law applies as far as the Gentiles - non- Jews- are concerned?

2. The same Law that permits polygamy also permits polyandry. And as you said yourself,

AntiChristian:
What God forbid will have to be stated. Adultery, murder, covetousness, etc were expressly forbidden.

Felimax:
According to today's Gospel you have been answered thus:

A reading from the holy Gospel according to Luke 6:36-38

At that time: Jesus said to his disciples, “Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For the measure you give will be the measure you get back.”

The Word of God is very beautiful but never by human"s interpretation.

Shalom!

Interesting!

So you conveniently ignored the part where the very same Jesus Christ ALSO commanded that you instead judge righteous judgments all of the times - John 7 vs 24? Or do you only pick-and-chose which of Jesus Christ's commandments to obey and which not to?

The same Jesus Christ, in Matthew 5 vs 43 - 48 commands that you be perfect even as God your Father is perfect. Are you ALSO intentionally ignoring that so you can continue your mog worship?

Gutsy33:
aunty he's using your destiny.. u ain't a kid anymore nah

This mentality is reason for this foolish behavior among men..

AntiChristian:
Yes! Where there's no law there's no sin!

1. Adam's sons and daughters will have to marry themselves. This was permitted then but later became incest.

2. What God forbid will have to be stated. Adultery, murder, covetousness, etc were expressly forbidden.

Interesting!

1. So where in God's Law do you find incest as a sin for all of mankind?,

2. Ok, so why did you ask me earlier for an example for polyandry when I told you it was also allowed?

Oyindamolah:
In every rumor there is an element of true

An element of truth means you need to do more investigation, not base your conclusions on mere rumors.

Oyindamolah:
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Please tell me say you dey joke? So some uninformed persons persons spam all those sites with this gunk, and you conclude it is true just like that?

46arcadez:
As a girl you want to go and enjoy what your father could not provide for you?
First judge your father before any guy out there.

There is no law against desiring that,is there?

The problem begins when the girls themselves are unable to attain the level of success necessary to enjoy the desired lifestyle. So, they set their hopes on finding a marriage partner who can help them achieve their desired lifestyle. However, how many young men can complement them out their?

I would never advice anyone to settle for anything less than is desired. Work towards it but never settle for less, especially where marriage is concerned.

Comradewhy:
So they should look for men who are wretched and don't have future?
As a guy if you like don't work hard,keep waiting for a woman that will suffer with you.
You are only deceiving yourself,no one wants to be part of wretchedness.

You dey mind the OP!

Oyindamolah:
Men everywhere, no husbands for the girls

Everywhere you look, you see beautiful ladies languishing. They could have moved on. But our puritanical society hates single mothers and despises unmarried ,
■The truth is that there're so many men who're willing to marry but the girls we have today are looking for men who own cars and houses,
■The price of bride price is high there's no good job around,so the guys just promise them marriage,sleep with them,dump them and run away!

How did you come about these conclusion of yours abeg? Can you please lead us to the source for your conclusions?

Conner44:
It was written in the bible that one day 10 women will be dragging and begging one man saying "we will feed and clothe ourselves, only just give us your name and make us whole", but the man go dey do shakara lol

it is like this generation is the precursor to that prophecy. Women be informed

That prophesy written of Israel took place thousands of years ago when many of their men were dragged off and killed in war, others taken away as slaves, leaving behind a majority women to repopulate what was left of the nation of israel with only a few males to tend to them.

That scenario does not in anyway compare in any shape or form with what is obtained in Nigeria today, where the problem isn't even that there are more women than men....no. instead, society isn't churning out enough intelligent husband materials for the available female is rather the problem and vice versa

AntiChristian:
As far as polygamy is concerned God permitted it by supporting it and never forbidding it anywhere in the Bible.

That isn't what I asked though. Pay attention!

The Christian God permits a lot of things that are not written down in His Law... but your claim got me wondering what you mean.

Is it that you think where the Bible God is concerned, so long as He does not stop an act, He approves of it?

Felimax:
Show me a perfect man of God anywhere even from the Bible?

Even Jesus in the eyes of the Jews was not perfect.

In scripture, the word "Perfect" implies Holy, and all those who lived their lives trusting and obey all of God's commandments were considered Holy, this includes the Just/righteous men.

All the prophets, including Jesus Christ were written of as Holy men meaning they all lived their lives in compliance with God's Law.

Jesus Christ wouldn't have qualified as a savior if He couldn't even live in complete compliance with God's very own Law.

Flexherbal:
Money is the root of all evil

The love of money is the root of all evil!

LesbianBoy:
see how men dey waste money

Are these Nigerian men imbe-ciles?

ikorodureporta:
Don't allow him to use your picture as DP if it's still a boyfriend/ girlfriend thing.

***scatching head*** Um.... what is DP?

AntiChristian:
Not really!
God approves something directly!

God approves something but not stopping people from it when they do it.

I don't follow!

Is it that you think where the Bible God is concerned, so long as He does not stop an act, He approves of it?

AntiChristian:
So who did practiced it in the Bible with God's support like Polygamy?

Why? You only believe what the Bible God says only if someone is recorded to have done what He said in scripture?

AntiChristian:
Sometimes, people are indeed honest enough to admit that the Bible really does not prohibit polygamy (polygyny). However, as a hedge against that admission, such ones may then resort to saying one of the following assertions:

The Bible also doesn't prohibit polyandry, so what is your point?

Wittyduchess:
E shock you?

I said it before that this forum is crawling with psychopaths , narcissists , gaslighters and every other personality disorder you can think off.

Nah! I am used to the breeds that litter nairaland.

Wittyduchess:
Like I said in one of my comments, toxic and manly are used interchangeably for some people. Male narcissists often hide under "manly" to get away with it.

Na wa oo!

baby124:
Just go to the embassy, report it stolen and you get new ones. All this format no de work again in digital age. Make sure you enter Spain and draw Chinedu’s ears with the court. Na him go run kabakaba go him papa village leave Spain for you!

Abi oo! I don't understand her wailing as if her world has come to an abrupt halt or something.

Gistchannel:
However, he returned to Spain with only their travel documents and left them behind.

In a video shared on TikTok by @favouritenews, his wife tearily expressed shock at her husband’s action, suggesting that she had no prior knowledge that they’d be abandoned in Nigeria. Making her case on her knees in the clip, the woman blamed Chinedu’s elder sister for spiritually manipulating him.

Some reactions culledbelow:

Goldenheart1999 said: “My advice to all of you don’t love and blind at the same time and don’t trust nobody. I was the one that kept the documents when we visited home.”

Barbara Williams said: “Those of you saying she should go to the country’s embassy, remember they will ask her to come with her husband or else no way for the kids no prob.”

Khadijat Ifelewa Oritoke said: “Maybe the woman was trying to implicate him over there n d man did not want to ruin his carrier.

The comment in bold makes little to no sense. We are talking of Spain, not Saudi Arabia Abeg.

adaperry25:
you prefer leaving her empty handed?

I doubt it will replace the fact that she lost a relationship she probably thought promising.... nor will it adequately compensate for her time and efforts. Likely leave her scarred for a while.

Nacoss25:
Our love chart

So na you be this for here, and now the marriage crashing beginning weeks into it? Na wa oo!

Bigredmachine:
The I love you in sickness and in pain, till death do us apart, was just mere saying to fulfil all righteousness... Many never meant those words... Even the I love you we tell each other are fake

If was to be OP I will leave judging if the wife was bad or good, and go after how I can get a kidney ASAP, the time he's going to spend wondering if the woman is a witch or not, is very very precious... Man go and save ya self first...

Simply tell us say love no get anything to do with your kidney or your innards .

adaperry25:
To me, he acted a bit considerate.
Some guys will leave you heartbroken and empty handed.
Let's me honest, relationship is all about money directly or indirectly

Considerate by paying her money for what? Time spent? She be wh0re?

Will that money wipe the fact that she was betrayed by a boy who turned out a wimp?