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raymondhillmimi:
Ah.. you haven't seen his new post .. My question are where are those idiots backing him up. They typically encouraged him till she left him, what the OP didn't know was he was being encouraged by 19-year-old kids.

Kai!

Tufiakwa!
OH i wish the woman is herself on nairaland. She can maybe read through his history to understand what really happened in her marriage and hopefully get the closure she needs to move forward from this.

Nacoss25:
It happen on Sunday 30th may, 2021
It ended in joy and praise to God Almighty.
Join me cerebrate and share in our joy. God bless you.

OMG.... so this is the boy who singlehandedly ruined his own marriage? Kai! See how people dey carry foolishness for chest take dey destroy their own lives left and right.
Unbelievable!

raymondhillmimi:
Right Abi, you are among the red pillars that helped him crash the marriage. Now that he is crying and seeking for a way to reunite with his wife una don run leave am. Red Mumu Association.

Reunite ke?

thesicilian:
What law? Quote the law you're talking about.

Marriage law in Nigeria.

Pecoleee345:
I wish you are here now to defend her ooooo.....she really needs someone like you.

Hell just broke loose

Sadly, someone died and that is never easy to accept.

Was the husband also a Jehovah's witness?

thesicilian:
He who pays the Piper dictates the tunes

Not according to the Law.

Cindy222:
Feel free to checkout my thread on nairaland, everything is explained there.

I did check your threads but yet to find one that, well, explains the claim. You mentioned your big toe on one leg looked different from the other and from another, I read of the differences in complexion and also from the pics one did appear hairy compared to the other- could have been an issue with lighting. But I wonder if instead that assertion was instead in reference to your statement that you bear both your brother's DNA and yours, rather than the actual leg itself being masculine in form while the other feminine.

Pecoleee345:
So this my question, should a wife be allowed to take such a big decision without informing the husband family first.
Note; it was the in-laws that were paying the hospital bills.

The woman was married to the man at the time of his death, so there is technically nothing wrong with what she did.

Being in charge of the bills does not give one legal guardianship so the in-laws are wrong in assuming they should have been consulted on the matter. So the in-laws should probably work on accepting their loss and moving on from this.

Cindy222:
I have been so busy lately jare that's why.
Thanks for asking ...
Hope you're doing great?

Hello, can you please explain what is implied by suggesting one of your legs is masculine?

marshalcarter:
This is serious...buddy...no matter what..she's your mum... please... settle things with her

So it is OK for him to hate other women but not his own mother?

Here is revealed the source of your buddies hatred, and you chose denial?

ChybuzzDD:
Do you have any functional brain at all

You called the man a fool, and i reminded you that you're the real fool here, not the man.

It's like forgetfulness is running in your blood.

A man abandoned his wife and child, a cowardly move by any standard drawn out there, and you don't see how that cements his place as a fool amongst men?

doeeyed:
Its obvious that she has no financial muscle,- leech with a nasty attitude and big mouth whilst sojourning-- neither has she any emotional goodwill from his relatives, hence the social media bashing.

The look on the daughter's face says it all - mum is back with her crocodile tears!
Good luck to the children. They sure need it.
by the way Chinedu, get a paternity test done, will you.
.

She is a leech even though some cultures still consider it an indictment against the man that his wife should work?
She is a leech even though Chinedu may have had himself demanded she stay home to take care of the kids as many still believe a wife should?

Some of you are simply lost causes.

AntiChristian:
1
I don't know the God of the Bible is discriminatory to people as Jews or Gentiles. Na you sabi that one. But how is all this related to the context here where God gave wives and not a wife....?

2. Polygamy was practiced by notable men like Moses, Abraham, David, Solomon, etc and the Lord did give David more wives!
Who practiced polyandry in the Bible that the Lord supported and even encouraged?

1. You pretend to understand that book have no knowledge of this basic fact or scripture? I suggest you start over with your education as far as scripture is concerned to understand that the world was divided by the God of the Bible Himself into Jews and Non Jews(Gentiles).

2. Obedience to God's Laws and commandments is because God gave His Law for this purpose. It is in God we trust, not your notable men and women. In fact, those who put their trust in men, and their ways, are cursed by God. So it is against God to do as men do instead of as God has decreed.

Dmacqh:
I don’t know what I have done to money !!!
Money please locate me or show me your location .
Let me get money first ... vanity nah for poor people .

That is probably the mistake you make where money is concerned. You ask it to locate you instead of going out there work and earn it for yourself .

Double0h7:
She obviously depends on his financial aid and she can't afford to renew their passports and travel back and support herself so she might have to chill and develop herself.

This is a lesson to those who depend on men for their survival. Women better take advantage of their brains and educate themselves and enjoy independence.

If say the woman dey work now, she for call her workmates make them find why help her get back to Spain.

Ximenez:
Lol
Did you read her post before quoting me?
She said she's scared her present mentality might prevent her from getting married.

Ok

Ximenez:
It's fine, you don't need to change your mentality. You need not marry.

Is marriage like some sort of life achievement for you that you think the reason she wants to date has to do with marriage?

1Sharon:
Did you read the entire thread?
She has more threads on the topic.

One of her legs is masculine(her brother), the other is feminine

Masculine? She stated in the one thread that the legs are of different skin tones or complexion. I am trying to picture a woman with one masculine leg and like female one, and the picture in my mind is that of born of some frankinsteinish experiment.

SoapQueen:
I hate it when guys try to be all nice to a woman, buying gifts and spending on her but go behind to complain like they were hypnotized and held at gun point.

So childish and stooopid!

Na dem they inundate us here for nairaland with their whinefest every week, as if they are the first ever to spend on a woman.

You quickly understand that these boys are nothing but born whiners, na so so complain every day on nairaland, na so dem dey take use get through each day.

MoneyGoDrop:
A friend of mine once told me that he was flat out broke,only for us to stop by a fashion store where he met a random banny and paid for her handbag without even collecting her number or knowing her name.Since then, i no longer go out with him no matter the situation.

But he is still your friend?

1Sharon:
Read and learn.
Very fascinating and creepy
https://www.nairaland.com/6604295/human-chimera#102745223

You scared the crap out of me. From the story, no pieces of her brother was found meaning she absorbed him in entirety.
You said the absorption was partial leaving me with pictures darting through my mind as to what possible pieces were found of the other twin.

brainhgeek:
I have a friend on NL who is a Chimera. She absorbed her twin brother's cell. She is a woman but one of her legs is masculine. She is a real deal. She is a one in a million chance. Just a few people will understand how specifically crafted she is. Thanks to God she does understand that for herself.

One of her legs is masculine?

Mariangeles:
There’s one who’s a nairalander.

She absorbed her brother, but not totally.

Not totally?

Is the partially absorbed one still alive or what?

imagrg:
All Nigerian men want in a woman is sex first before love.
I'm a Nigerian man...And let's face it, it's true.

But through sexual relationship, love can later develop. I think that's why sex is termed, 'love-making.

You may not get married if you continue to nurse that mentality.

Let's be honest.... others aren't like us.

Preshieben:
How do I change this mentality?
How do I change my mindset about men abeg?

You change your mindset by first regaining your self confidence, gaining understanding of what it is you really want in a man and out of a relationship, seek therapy or counseling if your have to. So that when you eventually get back out there, you are confident you have your chips in order to help you maneuver the game without getting unnecessarily played.

Martinez39s:
Women did not hold guns to men's head and asked them to pedestalize them and their vaginas and indulge in illegal activities to please them. This is what happens when men are stupid, overrate pùssy, lack self-control, cherish female attention and validation. Why blame women? Will a man die if he stops rating puśsy and stops caring about female attention and validation?
....

Piam!

kunleiky:
You all need to pay attention to Brymo's lyrics:

Na society dey enforce the rules
But na woman dey dictate the rules
Na wetin the man go do
Na to break the rules
And for good

This lyric make no sense.

Adakintroy:
Real simps are so called alphas.

ROFLMAO

Felimax:
1. Your knowledge of God's word is limited to the Bible mine is not. We are not on the same page.

2. There was a question I asked you the other time that took you almost forever before you could struggle something out of your mouth.

3. You know we are not in the same time zone so you must look for they that you must evangelize with your pure gospel truth.

1. God's New Covenant Law , what you call the Gospel of the Kingdom of God, is found written of in its entirety, in the 4 Gospels. Jesus Christ gave His Law to His followers in completion, just like the Old Covenant before it, this before Jesus Christ sealed it when His blood was shed on the cross , declaring, " It is finished!". So, any attempts to add/change/remove from God's Law, Jesus Christ, as given us by Him, is an abomination and a sin against God.

So whatever your extrascriptural source may be, know that it is against God to tamper with His Law.

2. Took me forever? What questions would those be since I don't recall them.

In Matthew 13 vs 10 - 17, Jesus Christ said we should use the understanding we have, and that only then will more understanding will be given us where the Kingdom of God is concerned. If it took me time to get back to you, it only means rather than prefabricated, I instead chose to wait on Him to give me more understanding on the topic before continuing . It works as it is written..

3. I don't look for anyone since my one and only Teacher. Master, Head, Shepherd is Jesus Christ Himself, the one who said that all those who belong to Him are taught by Him and Him alone - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 & John 5 vs 43 - 47

As for those to evangelize to, since He sent us out to those who are not saved - those who are in the world- those who don't even know the Gospel of the Kingdom of God, to teach them His Truth, so that they may Obey and eventually be saved so He takes over as their one and only Teaacher.

Felimax:
Bro please expire off my mention. I don't want to do this with you again.

Stick to your belief, I did not write the Bible and since you are as perfect as God the Father I appreciate God for you.

Be gone if that will do.

Oh, you don't want to know more about the Truth of Jesus Christ that is contained in that same Bible why you dey pretend carry around? Why now? E no sweet like you think?.

tonididdy:
No kidding.
It's a cosmetic procedure, it enhances the sweetness, juiciness, texture.... It's bad ass bro trust me
Look up labiaplasty online

Labiaplasty wey women don dey do for tay tay, especially after finishing with child birth na wetin you dey label designer wetin again?

So let me guess, a gal goes and gets this procedure done and you pay to maintain her so you can squeeze into her regularly or do you pay for the procedure and her upkeep as well?

Prince001:
The problem is the money belong to the citizens. Most of those guys doing that are working for politicians. They are compensated for keeping us quiet with different ways.
Yoruba nation, no going back!!!!!!

The citizens obviously don't care as they sit around waiting for their turn at the national cake..