₦airaland Forum

vickydevoka:
■ Most Igbo men no de ever bring their partner come europ until kids are a bit grown. All my friends dad then where in Europe but their dad do visit.
Men should know that in Europe a woman Will cheap more than Nigeria. I know how many married men my guy the fk for UK.
Most UK boys will make money the next thing na to carry woman come UK. No savings , no plan , nothing nothing. Na make woman come hustle complete your school fees. Everyone has priority in life. Me na billionaire I want be. If na woman be your priority follow.

Do you equally know how many married men his wife for Naija don do same with?

gud4vvvvv:
■ read the books of Moses especially Deuteronomy and tell me whether you are obeying everything there... there are many law in the old testament that we are no longer keeping including planting of only one seed in a land.
■ Even Paul was like"from the Jews I received forty minus one lashes" meaning flogging one for more than 39 times is a sin for them

The Old Law of Moses was meant to be kept by the Israelites in the Land of Israel which God gave only to the descendants of Abraham AND Isaac AND Jacob. Are you of the blood of Israel and do you equally live in the land of Canaan or something that you would claim you are to keep that Law as well?

God already cursed and scattered all of Israel over 1900 years ago so anyone living under the Law is condemned to perish in the grave. Jesus Christ is instead the Law under which I live and I do obey His every commandments just as He commands of all those who follow Him.

2. Paul was a Jew living in the land of Judea(the Nation of Israel's sister Nation) so it made sense that he would be flogged by the Old Law of the Land. So what claim do you have to that Land or the Old Law?

Mille:
■ Don't mind the damaged woman. Women will select the bad guys AKA the worst breeds of men as partners ignoring regular men as too nice or boring. Few years later, I bet she will become a part of the feminazis and start shouting men are this and that all over nairaland like a certain idiot on this thread.

That sounds kind of like the same thing the "women are olosho" crowds of men are about as well.

Abeg spare me make I hear word o'jare!

vickydevoka:
Why don't you leave her in Nigeria. Most Nigerian men are the cause of their problems

Leave her in Nigeria and if she happens to find herself a sickcock in Nigeria same way you find yourself a sidechick on the other side, una go still complain.

IyaTola:
The issue of who is responsible for the moral decadence in the society today, especially among youths, is indeed difficult to say. A lot of people believe parents are to blame, while others have apportioned blame to teachers. I however wish to say that from the way I look at it, I have every reason to believe that moral decadence among our children, has its roots in parents. In the first place, parents have failed in their duty to bring up the child the way he should, in utter disregard of the Biblical injunction that they should train a child the way he should, so that when he is old, he won’t depart from it. Parents are the child’s first teachers. They, therefore, have a lot to do in training the child before he joins the formal school. But the economic situation in the country today, has made most parents abandon their duty in pursuit of material wealth.

Which moral decadence abeg? Nigeria has been churning out some of the most corrupt beings for the longest. So when were Nigerians ever a morally upright set?.

Mentholated:
■ Marriage is an outdated tradition abroad. Totally unnecessary. Humans naturally get tired of one another but cling on each other for survival. Once you exit survival mode, you will naturally want to have more freedom to explore life. Once you are in a non- judgemental society, the rest is history.

Yet every week, wedding halls are packed, registries are booked?

appini:
■ The lady later served him a very brutal breakfast.

ROFLMAO
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

So he refused to change? Na wa oo! Well, him papa represent am very well.

planetx:
According to the late great Aaron Russo, feminism was created in the West by certain powerful forces for two reasons.
1 To get women into the workforce so as to tax them, because basically 50% if the population wasn't being taxed before feminism.
2 To be able to indoctrinate the children from a very early age in what direction the powers that be want them to move, because with the mother busy chasing money and careers, the children are left without proper guidance and the state steps in.

Was patriarchy also built on similar reasons -- the paying of taxes and indoctrination of children in the directionthe powers that be want? Because it seems it also was.

The woman is stewpid and wicked.

So, this man has been caught in the act before yet she welcomed him back into the home were she and her kids live? He may have probably had his way with the children already !

Hananfine:
■ What are you saying. Ok in the north Women both muslims and Christian still dress descently Why in the south where there is no such problem, Women work naked.Do you have sense now

First show you have sense by working on your obvious lack of comprehension there.

Again, what identity do they have when many are trained from childhood to believing they are incomplete without a man in their life? Go up north where the problem is worse and ask a woman of her identity. See if a man is not front and center, even if a dead husband or at least a brother.

appini:
One guy told his wife that he has never seen his father sweeping before in Nigeria. If you're not a good actor, you cannot keep your marriage in the west.

Na him papa dey him marriage for am?

asiga:
■ Aside that, most Naija women carry pay back mentality for all their husband did to them in Nigeria where the society allows male dominance over women.

So the men no reason before say payback dey come for their wicked acts then?

ejieddy:
So basically, you're saying most women have no identity without men and can't think for themselves. Shame!

What identity do they have when many are trained from childhood to believing they are incomplete without a man in their life? Go up north where the problem is worse and ask a woman of her identity. See if a man is not front and center, even if a dead husband or at least a brother.

Op no wan grow up at all at all.

A culture awash with hypocrisy!

ahnie:
Most parents are scared of male home lesson tutors.
The wife has no choice than to keep bearing with her husband for the time being since the man is not resting on his job hunting.
But if the reverse is the case ,the man would gladly feed the said wife without complaining.

Stop generalizing abeg!

Skillsmaster:
■ Graduate mentality? Anyway, you don't know me. I use to join her in the shop

You used to? You said you have only been unemployed for about 5 months so why did you stop helping out in the shop?

saphiere:
■ In a shocking revelation, Pastor Godwin Bankole is facing accusations of marrying another man’s wife and allegedly taking away his seven children. The accuser, Mr Uduak Usanga who claims to be the previous husband of Christiana Obot, asserts that Bankole’s actions are not only morally questionable but also demand the return of 6 million naira he paid as bride price.

No be the parents of the gal go pay back bride price? Why him dey demand am back from the man wey marry the woman.

Which year him marry the woman wey him dey demand N6 million in bride price? The thing dey appreciate over time too? Yet I was told it is meant to to just a token and not actual cost of purchasing a wife.

Skillsmaster:
I am a mathematics teacher, before my marriage, I can't submit my CV in three to four schools without getting any invite for interview from two or all of them. But it is the opposite now.
I tried to get capital to even start a poultry farm because I am also good at that, but I couldn't get any. My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things. She knows that I am not lazy. Even to get labourer work on site is not easy. I will stop here.
I am sorry for bothering you with this long write up. You can say anything you want to say but I will appreciate it if you can help out with a job. I want to have my home back. Thank you.

Does your wife at least have a job of her own or did you marry her for a housewife on a teacher's salary?

Do you share house responsibilities with her--- chores, etc.? Do you both still do things together even though things are hard?

I hope you have both planned not to have children until you not only get your job back but saved up at least 6 months salary?

gud4vvvvv:
■ priests have the power to alter anything even in the Bible
■ Jesus gave the power to his disciples which the priest/pastor now represent
■ Do you think as a Christian you are following everything in the Bible?
■ What about the change from worshipping on Saturday to Sunday?
■ So you should obey your religious leaders
They represent the disciples at least

1. Alter anything?
2. The power Jesus Christ gave to His disciples does not alter "anything". Rather within the bounds of the Law, they are to carry out God's commandments.

3. I am a follower of Jesus Christ and not a Christian and yes, I follow every which one of Jesus Christ's, God's Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God. So which of the almost 100 commandments and teachings that make up His Law are my missing?

4. There is no such change given by Jesus Christ who instead declared everyday a sabbath for His followers.

5. Your religious leaders represent the disciples? Are you sure you have ever read anything about Jesus Christ for you to believe such bunkum?

njelrapheal:
■ But they have the power to bind And loose in heaven and on earth.
■That power was given to Peter the first pope.
■ And there has been an unbroken succession.

Power to bind and loose what exactly?

How could Peter who there is no record to show he was ever in Rome had been the first pope?

Unbroken succession in an enterprise, sure, but what has that to do with anything?

Gerrard59:
■ I know I am not supposed to enter into a debate with you, but for posterity sake, I will.
A father figure would not have made the mother leave the house to go hustle, leaving the children alone to raise themselves. The absence of a father figure and maybe also the absence of an older son has plunged the family into disarray. How come the daughter got pregnant after she left the house as well? A father or male figure should/would have prevented that from happening.
■ Obviously, there are cases where the male figure is equally useless, or his presence isn't felt, but those are exceptions, not the norm. The presence of a man is very important in families. Statistics support this across the world.

Go tell your tales of this fabled father figure to the many others out there who left home trying to escape their abusive fathers or maybe even a deadbeat dad.

2. Oh, so father-figure is not in fact the solution in all cases and maybe not this one after all. OK now!

Ulunne777:
But products like this have caveats to finish it not later than 3 days after opening.
Even fresh fruit juice won't stay more than 15 hrs before fermenting if there's no power

Just add yeast and before you know it, you have alcohol.

LikeAking:
Throw it away.
There was power failure, so it became corrupt..
Power failure don corrupt your yogurt…

Do you even begin to know what yogurt is?
Op drink that think and allow it fill your stomach with great prebiotic.

ednut1:
father figure does not only mean father na 😆

Mother and daughter are fighting like two rivals and you think what they need is someone to come in to play father? NAH!

ednut1:
no Father figure too

This ain't nothing about a father figure problem abeg! There are fathers that do worse.

ednut1:
Backstory as seen on instablog. A lot of Nigerian parents are truly narcissistic and abusive. If you decide to japa its common sense to know that once they turn 18 they are no longer children and can move out. But this woman is controlling a 25 years old daughter who is a single mother. Nawa o

She should move out before one of them ends up dead abeg!

Tokotaya:
■ The police asked her to go with the stuff she had packed and return in the morning to pack the rest of her stuff. They promised to give her an officer to accompany her if she felt that her mother would give her trouble.
Interestingly, there are many US-based young Nigerians in the comments section who expressed being in the same situation as Ifeanyi and urged her to leave without looking back.
Some said they had similarly packed out when the conduct of their parents became unbearable.
One said she had not spoken to her father in years. Another said she had not spoken to her own mother in years too.
Watch the videos of Ifeanyi and her mother's confrontation here.

There are many Nigerians in Nigeria with similar experiences so let's stop pretending abeg.

crystalmoon:
Nigerians Sabi ways to bring up good and well behaved adults with beatings yet the society is bleeped up and messed up
I wonder if nigerians are deliberately stupid or just hiding behind religion to pass aggression on kids who can't fight back

Antoeni:
You can't negotiate with kids, so you have to flog them to correct them when they do wrong, I mean, even the Bible said to spare the rod and spoil the child.

YOu can't negotiate with kids or you have never in fact tried doing just that?

oteneaaron:
■ Oh really? If that is what you think after all I have shared above then it's cool.

There needs to be definitive evidence to show that this change was made. All those comments amount to hearsay as they do not point to exactly which manuscripts were tampered with by the religion of Christianity — the catholic church its mother church.

oteneaaron:
■ I completely understand you. But you're missing the point. The Catholic Church has admitted that they "changed" the text at Matthew 28 verse 19! If you have the original manuscript, then please show me what it says.

Again, that comment states that the Baptismal formula was changed. Is Baptismal Formula some sort of OFFICIAL reference to Matthew 28 vs 19 in particular or what?