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ferry1:
The best revenge in life is success. Just concentrate and be focus brother, thinking about who doesn't love you will increase your pain Your prayer now should be, may she never meet you back the way she left you
I wish u well in your huzzle

Was it love from his end when he married her and had a baby on top all while under the shackles of poverty?

Abeg, make una una try dey understand love separate from your libidos.

Brushstrokes20:
If all you wrote is nothing but the truth...
In my candid opinion, this is a typical LOVELESS MARRIAGE ... she doesn't love you!

So what if it is a loveless marriage? The vast majority of marriages in Nigeria are not based on love but convenience for both the man and woman involved. So why force standard that likely didn't factor there in the beginning?

Saintmary:
■ Let me guess, the burden of tolerating infidelity lies solely on women? Let this be clear to all cheats, both male and female, one way or another, you will pay.

ROFLMAO

ErnestNc:
I repeat. NO MAN IS SAVED BY GOOD WORKS.
You can't do the Job better than Jesus(Gal 2:20-21). It's the definition of grace you're getting wrong . You simply don't know what grace means. If anyone truly has received grace , he will be saved. .

No need for long epistles please.

○ So, was Jesus Christ in His statements found in Matthew 10 vs 22 & Matthew 24 vs 12 - 13 & Mark 13 vs 13 perhaps wrong?

○ When in parable He explained how it makes sense to count the cost in Luke 14 vs 25 - 35, was Jesus Christ simply saying His own?

○ When Jesus Christ told you the parable of the 10 brides in Matthew 25 vs 1 - 13 and how 5 of them --- all equally brides --- could not make it in the end, was He not trying to bring your attention to work that had to be done in order to qualify for salvation at the end?

Peacecore:
God will have mercy on who He will have mercy on. Everyone is sinner that even the riteous sins seven times a day

God's mercy/kindness is not same as God's answer to specific prayers and petitions of men.

In scripture, Jesus Christ affirmed God's Word that God pours out His mercy out daily on the wicked and ungrateful, even unbelievers. Meaning His mercy are yours even if you do not believe in God or pray for them. Look at the lives of unbelievers to see this truth regularly. They experience miracles, success and joy even in their lives.

God, however, made clear He will not answer the prayers of the unrighteous Meaning that no unrighteous man will never get answers directly from God, no matter how much He tries. Is God a liar?.

Jackanda1:
■ I understand that you are aquinted with the spirit once you're born again, but there is an infilling or baptism of the spirit different from the born again experience.(Acts8:15-17)
■ So, did i recieve the infilling of the spirit at that time?
■ Is it possible to be filled/baptised with the holyspirit without recieving any of his gifts like speaking in tongues?

1. Jesus Christ's explanation of what happens to the born-again in John 3 vs 1 -21 states that to be born of spirit is to born of the Spirit of Eternal Life --- not the Spirit of Truth who is instead referred to in John 14, 15, and 16 as the Holy Spirit, the seal of the New Covenant.

2. You can only receive the Spirit of Truth when you have attained holiness as explained by Jesus Christ in John 8 vs 31 - 44. Recall, He commands that you be holy even as your father in Heaven is holy.

3. In Mark 16 vs 15 - 17, teaches instead that the gifts are related to your believing ---- doing the works of believing in the one the father sent - John 6 vs 25 - 35 ----- and not to the arrival of the spirits/helpers.

Note all of the above are taken from the mouth of Jesus Christ Himself.

pryme:
What makes you think you will get the truth from her?

My guess is pretty much everyone of them will say Yes!

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

Why not!

Esortigress:
result of dating multiple men while single. Well, some women are polygamous in nature

That equally explains side chickens and Polygamous behavior of men, too, right?

Elmojiid:
Divorce and marry person wey get your time and Dey last for bed

If only we would also give this same advice to all men who think having a side chicken makes sense.

GeorgeForeman:
I have begged her to return home to no avail.The issue is affecting me emotionally and mentally.I mean i'm already having a hard time trying to learn this skill,why should my wife add to it? I really need the encouragement and warmth of my wife especially now i haven't been feeling fine for some time

It seems the best you can do is work towards resolving the poverty issue first. So, get working and also don't forget to send support at least once a month to help your wife take care of your kid. When you are back on your feet again, maybe you can go back and ask her back again and she might change her mind.

Tombrown3:
No one mentioned soap and water.
I stated above that you can make use of tissue paper on an emergency situations, it's not recommended, but when it's the only option you have, then it's fine.

You can never, i mean, never have your asss cleaner with tissue paper than with water. No matter how you wipe with tissue paper, you will always have particles left which can hardly be seen with the eyes sometimes. But it's there, especially for people with hairy asss.

This your argument no get direction. Go back through the conversation to understand what is being debated abeg!

efficiencie:
■ Why didn't she divorce the man before he became terminally ill?

1. Why can't she divorce him whenever it pleases her?

Why must she do so before?

geedee4real:
I am into this already and I need help! I am an Anglican! While my wife was born into the apostolic faith. She loves her church so much. While planning for our marriage I promised her that I will allow her practice her own faith. After our marriage I started attending same church with her but wasn't comfortable with their mode of worship. How do I withdraw from the church without causing any issue at home[sup][/sup]. Because I withdrawing means am withdrawing my kids also. Please I need advise

Your religion and religiosity, same as your marriages, have absolutely nothing to do with God.

Reflect7:
Fair enough.
But your SOUL (ie your consciousness) is not the same as your body.

How can you claim my consciousness in not same as my body when it pretty much resides or is attached to this body?

Reflect7:
■ There is no such thing as 'death'. There is only transition.
MATTER CANNOT BE DESTROYED. It can only be transformed into another state. Go and study the accounts of Near Death Experiencers On this website there are over 5,000 accounts by NDEs from all over the world, confirming that death does not exist. And you do NOT need to 'believe' in 'Jesus' or ANYBODY including God Himself, to transit upon passing.We ALL live forever

the statement in bold is explained in the statement "from dust you were made, and to dust you shall return.."

tballeyy:
it killed man physically mentally emotionally and spiritually

Then such where never men, to begin with, but walking dummies pretending to be men. If what makes you a man or woman is rendered meaningless by a mere surgical procedure, then you were near fully whole from your beginning.

tballeyy:
It happen wen u don't want to have enough children..some man John-tomos no get control..stand minute by minute

These some-men never heard of a vasectomy?

And here's a guide to correctly using Toilet Paper when wiping your butt, for those who confuse wiping with painting

https://www.cottonelle.com/en-us/tips-advice/bathroom-hygiene/how-to-wipe-your-butt

edimaan:
You don't need to twist the article to suit your narrative. The summary of the article is simply water is better than tissue paper. Period. There's no confusion about this. The medical experts have spoken. According to the medical experts, "It has been estimated that there are nearly 100 billion bacteria per gram of wet stool."Imagine that!! And you want to use only tissue paper to clean that! Swallow your pride please and accept the advice of the medical experts.

I am sorry I don't share your opinion of the article which read a lot like an opinion piece instead. Here's an article from a verifiable source https://www.menshealth.com/style/a19548207/clean-your-butt/

edimaan:
It's not an opinion. It's the declaration of the medical experts.

Seems you didn't bother to read the article for yourself. It in fact says nothing about hand washing your butt being a lot cleaner approach to cleaning up after pooping. Unless, you are attempting to convince us that bidets are in fact installed everywhere you go, I suggest you pay attention to comments instead.

Tombrown3:
■ Water Is cleaner abeg, let stop this debate. I only encourage toilet roll when there is no water at hand. It has to be an emergency situation, and it's recommended to bath in the next 2 hours.
■ You can't wipe your assss with only tissue paper and expect it to be clean. Why do you think some of this girls have smely pvssy? Let me not even say too much.

1. Sigh! Just as wiping sweat off of you with a clean cloth or tissue during the day is clean enough way to take care of your face in between showers, so also is wiping with tissue clean enough. Unless ofcourse you don't know how to use tissue in wiping your butt clean. And yes, I can see how this would be a problem for many since it takes practice to know how to wipe clean without smelling of poo wherever you go afterwards.

2. I suggest you focus on your very own hygiene there. Many of you proclaiming here that you always wash have yet to reveal exactly how you are able to maintain that supposed habit when you are away from your private bathroom or toilets at home. Do you go everywhere throughout your day with soap and water in your bags or what? .

securitywatch50:
You can only reap were you sow

The Bible confirmed it.

What you said makes no scriptural sense!

Allisgud:
■ how u no go get crawcraw for yansh

1. Did you know that craw-craw is practically unheard of, at least here in Oyinbo land where people wipe all through the day, and only wash during showers?

justli:
■ You just refuted yourself:
■ The criminal already had a spiritual birth and cleansing by trusting in the redeeming power of Jesus and confessing him as lord, that's being born again.

1. I refuted what exactly?

2. Where in scripture is this spiritual bullsheet you claim expressed as a possibility in scripture?,

PeeboyDmx:
■Good Advice, I agree to everything you've said.How do I do things, like how do I move on and focus on other things when I don't have to means to?
I've only known how to survive, nothing more and I feel like getting enough money is all that is needed

Start with one, and then do the next and then the next.

motionarena:
■ Though I agree with you that using water makes you more clean that just using a toilet paper. But some of your arguments make no sense oga. I have been to headquarters of companies like Oando, Shell and some banks. And honestly in the rest room there is no provision for you to use running water to clean up after poo.


■ When you done you go to the separate wash hand and wash and dry your hands. You don't expect dem to leave a bucket of water in the toilet as some users might mess up the place. For myself I use water when am home but when am in public places I have to use a tissue and I make sure I wipe very well. You saying individuals who use toilet paper in public rest rooms are dirty is very wrong bro.

1. So we are being made to believe here that butt washing is a culture yet many of the facilities are not equipped for such culture meaning that OP and others who claim here that Nigerians have cleaner butts are in fact making things up.

2. Interesting! So wiping is in fact the most convenient even in Nigeria unless one spends 24/7 at home or only goes to the loo in his or her private space.

efficiencie:
■ Why would any lady marry a man that will divorce her if she is terminally ill? Well probably because she's marrying for money and comfort and not looking out for character, leadership, purity, piety and selflessness.

Such a man is somehow better than such a woman?

Mecka:
you are dirty. I wonder what you smell back there

Are you one of those eejits who go around sniffing the butts of complete strangers or what cause I have no clue why you would be wondering about such a thing.

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
■ How can we cure this disease of infidelity and financial poverty in Nigerian women. Very soon you will have a situation 50% of the kids on the road do not even belong to their fathers

1. Start by cutting off the dicks of all Nigerian men over age of 16 or find a way to render them all impotent overnight, and you will not only cure this problem but also the problem of overpopulation, and even cut poverty rate by half in a matter of 10 years, with the same axe.

Allisgud:
When u as a man begin look for tall sexy figure 8 lightskin babe to marry just know say na somebody dey maintain her before u see her,no be only u see her

All of the many babes you abandoned for this tall sexy figure 8 lightskin babe to marry will also be taken care of by some other male. So clearly, Nigerian man have no right to lay blame on the women in this.

justli:
■ Your response is vague. Not very clear

Your response to the question asked is what does not make sense.

Again, Jesus Christ said one absolutely must be born of water and born of spirit before one can then enter into the Kingdom of God.

5 Jesus answered, “Believe me when I say that everyone must be born from water and the Spirit. Anyone who is not born from water and the Spirit cannot enter God’s kingdom. - John 3 vs 5

When exactly, during that conversation did the thief become born-again?