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Onigawara:
if you think so, then go ahead and enlighten me if u are willing

Princedapace:
■ No body stops her from doing same. The only problem here is that over here, men marry women, women dont marry men. So, if she tries it, her husband is most likely going to chase her away. So, for women to also enjoy the side cock stuff, they need to start wooing men, take their people to marry men, attend to the wedding bills and list and men move in with them. So, they can do all these too.

virginboy1:
■ In this way and manner that innocent man life is likely at stake.. .I just hope he sees this fb post of his pre-cheating wife and save himself before its to late...."He should learn from the man that got killed by his wife because she was cheating on him with her pastor whom plans to marry her''. Wont the surprised the innocent man may be carrying out 100% responsibilities and showing high commitment for her, only for another prick to be scratching her.Tuah

BabaAduras:
■ Again, go and read your bible. Roman 6:15-16 and Isaiah 64: 6.
■ It is good to do good work. Yes God do remember the good works. But we can not claim that to be favoured. It is all down to HIS mercy.
You are not in any position to know my relationship with Christ.

15 So what should we do? Should we sin because we are under grace and not under law? Certainly not!
16 Surely you know that you become the slaves of whatever you give yourselves to. Anything or anyone you follow will be your master. You can follow sin, or you can obey God. Following sin brings spiritual death, but obeying God makes you right with him.
17 In the past you were slaves to sin—sin controlled you. But thank God, you fully obeyed what you were taught.
18 You were made free from sin, and now you are slaves to what is right.
19 I use this example from everyday life because you need help in understanding spiritual truths. In the past you offered the parts of your body to be slaves to your immoral and sinful thoughts. The result was that you lived only for sin. In the same way, you must now offer yourselves to be slaves to what is right. Then you will live only for God. - Romans 6 vs 15 - 19

5 You welcome people who enjoy doing good and who remember you by living the way you want them to. But we sinned against you, and you became angry with us. But you always saved us!
6 We are all dirty with sin. Even our good works are not pure. They are like bloodstained rags. We are all like dead leaves. Our sins have carried us away like wind. - Isaiah 64 vs 6

tuzle:
una no like correction fa. Polygamous can't be used for a woman,same way bachelor can't be used for a lady or widow for a man, do u get.

po·lyg·a·my
noun
the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time.

EriMma1:
1. I couldn't reply you there cos spambot banned me in family section. You won't understand. is it possible to remove some hurdles and still be fulfilled?
■ everyone is striving for fulfilment even dangote, as rich as he is, is still upping his business games to sustain and maintain his lifestyle and it's easier for him because he has the wherewithal. By the "unthinkable".... It's something that just came up while I was typing. Who, korkor, you won't understand. In all, I thank God.

zomoears:
■ Men(majority of MEN) are wired to stay. It’s called facing your Responsibilities. You don’t take a lady from her parents house and just decide mid way to let go cos you are not enjoying kpekus anymore. You don’t walk away from the ones you brought forth. Side chicks are just a coping/escape mechanism/strategy. We still come home to our responsibilities after all.

stormborn28:
■ The truth is that some women dey hungry for correct diick but them no fit talk am

virginboy1:
■ Take it or leave it men and women are never the same... Once another prick starts devour the married woman towtow, that marriage is likely over.

ErnestNc:
■ You argue alot. You should channel this energy in to converting the whole world. You will make a great evangelist.

dbestuncle:
Even in partnership na 1 person go ve CEO. The home can't operate on equal right no! The man is the head n that doesn't mean you shouldn't help as a woman

EriMma1:
■ LoL.. e don happen! This is what happens when you have sampled different types and sizes during your singlehood. This generation ehn... God help us. Good for the husband. I don't pity men cos they clearly go after these ladies with Ashawo vibes forgetting that such women are not easily satisfied with one man and would one day get bored of them.

JeffreyJunior:
In my gender's case, we don't usually waste time contemplating, we simply go straight for the sidechicks once they enter our eyes.

conscienceman4:
A man and a woman got married and right from that day the man started getting weaker and weaker until he got to a point where he needed support to climb the stairs.
But one Christmas day they came to church were they were prayed for and baptized even though they had baptized where they were coming from. They got home that day and climbed the stairs without support that very day. He started getting stronger and stronger. His wife also got promoted at her office with breakthroughs everywhere.
Let me tell you. Even before that marriage, God knows a time like this will come. But what you do at this time is your choice.
If you run away it's your choice, if you stay and win the battle, it's your choice.
Remember one thing, karma's is real, what goes around comes around.
The choice is yours.

Dannysaka:
■ Isn't marriage supposed to be till death do us part? When he was healthy she had no problem eating his money, now he needs his wife the most, she wants a divorce

jaxxy:
■ Dating and marriage has been turned to a poverty alleviation scheme where a man sees him self as some human messiah coming to rescue the woman from her problems and poverty including the poverty of her family. THAT IS NOT MARRIAGE or Dating either.

Suspect33:
It has always been a poverty alleviation scheme for women but men in the past put up with it because in exchange they were getting loyal, untouched women. Today's men get the barest minimum while women maintain the same standard they've always had for men since time inception. Modern man is just waking up to the reality that women today, when it comes to marriage are almost worthless. Just pump and dump. I know wetin my eyes don see but let me stop here

KOLLYPROF:
Since 1700
Imagine someone just realized this
Mcheew

Onigawara:
After receiving some whooing tips, i thought i was good to go. At times i didnt even know what to say and at times i was extremely shy. This girl was very understanding with me. I fell in love pretty fast, for the first time in my life. I spent alot on her and at times even mamsad my dads funds just to make sure she got her desires. My love for her knew no bound. But then, each time i asked her to be mine, she would say forget about it. .tbc.

ErnestNc:
■ You think Abraham was not helped by God? Do you know the encounters he had? How did he fear and obey God without ever knowing the spirit of God?
■ There are so many monks that are Holy, but doesn't mean they are holy by the standards of God and his emphasis.
■ Faith in Abraham's generation was obedience to the emphasis of God. And it was counted as righteousness. In Moses's time it was obedience to the law What is the emphasis of God now in our time?

armyofone:
■ Scared of the doctor's knife Don't listen to other excuses they give as the reason.

Peacecore:
■ Has God ever answered your prayer??
■ If yes, are you holy??

boldsleek:
Depends on the couple, whatever works for them.There is no formula for this thing called "marriage". Couples should do what they are both comfortable with. shikena.!!

ErnestNc:
■ You made zero point. You just denied Jesus working in us and through us and ascribed the glory to flesh.
■ Of what use is the death of Christ, Lady? It seems you don't know the power of Grace that works in man.
■ You think you can of your own be righteous without the holy spirit? Without the Holy Ghost no man can work the works of God .
■ Without faith that gives access to the visibility of God in our lives your works is dead and counted as filth. At the end Of the parable what did Jesus say? Shall the son of man find Faith on the earth when he returns? What faith is he talking of? The faith that makes a man work the works of God . You think without grace and the spirit of truth you can work the works of God? My spirit is grieved You all Deny Jesus unknowingly.

Peacecore:
The two questions I have for you are:
1. Do God answers people's prayers everyday?
2. Is anyone sinless?

Lexusgs430:
■ Looking for a PAH, in a hubby that cannot meet your needs...... Is almost a state a madness....... She knew he was a security guard, yet decided to marry him ........ Rather than assist financially, she runs away ........ Miracle no dey tire Jesus.......

Lexusgs430:
■ People would either have to learn, from other people's experiences or foolishly decide to make their own mistakes........

Marriage is a partnership agreement, it takes 2 ...... 2 MUST financially contribute.......

Lexusgs430:
■ Poorer people marry and remain happy together, in their state of poverty.......
■ It was obvious, she was looking for a poverty alleviation hubby........ The moment she realised he was not minted, she took to her heels 👠........

Lexusgs430:
■ She was working, but refused to contribute (since her husband, did not bother asking her to contribute).......
■ It's about time, this mentality of only the man contributing towards the family expenses, become extinct........

Lexusgs430:
■ That's what you have to do ....... It was obvious, she married for money, not LOVE ........ Make yourself better and kick her out of your life ......

cocolacec:
■ Look for another woman who would build with you from the scratch.Your wife is selfish and doesnt love you one bit.Marriage is all about uplifting each other.

Lexusgs430:
■ You are the architect of your misfortune........ Why would you not know, how much your wife brings into the family pot ....It's meant to be a partnership relationship, not a slavery zone ....... You should have made her contribute her quota, towards running the family expense.......

Man and wife, MUST financially contribute....... Now she is gone, wait for 2 years, get her divorced, look after your daughter, marry another, only this time, share the family financial burden .........