₦airaland Forum

lindaafolabi:
After five years .?going to six years? Thank you.

i don't understand. Why exactly are you the decision maker as far as how long he is allowed to grieve his loss abeg?

lindaafolabi:
He's my sibling .you may not understand. Thank you.

I may not understand that your sibling experienced loss and has yet to finish grieving but you would rather force him to move on and maybe burden the next with his pain?

lindaafolabi:
We are the asking him to move on after he lost his wife and daughter.

Why are you asking him this? Why not let him deal with his life and loss his way and in his time? Why must he remarry now when he is obviously or according to you, not ready?

Warl0ck:
■ I am becoming suspicious of her and might quit this relationship (that would ve led to marriage). I ve tried talking senses into her but i realized she is addicted to it just like smokers are addicted to ciggarattes. Pls is there any other thing i can do to get her out of this addiction?

An adult tells you she is comfortable with her addiction, yet you come on here to ask us how you can change her? I am afraid the one who seems in need of help here is your person.

lindaafolabi:
■ Good Evening !
A brother who is a Forensic security expert and a Phd holder residing in United States Of America, currently single. He lost his wife and only daughter in a vehicle accident five years ago. He's lonely and want to move on with life. He's 47 years old .He want a social and humble lady ,she must be a working class lady or a business lady who is ready for marriage and ready to relocate after marriage. He is social and down to earth but highly principled. He drink and smoke cigarettes. So if you are against cigarettes and alcohol drinks please keep off. He is a Nigerian / American citizen. If intrested send me your WhatsApp number and picture to my email and introduce yourself. My email is lindagreat123@yahoo.com

1. So this brother is unable to find a mate among all the 10s of milions of women in America?

sacajawea:
Only Toilet paper, or sometimes baby wipes
Only wash ass after bathing in the morning or at night

Why do you care now about oyinbo arse?

Icrave4u:
■ I told my husband not my house 🏠,let it be his own house 🏘️ because he's the head of the family, and he says no ,not his house.but I wonder why he says no yet all these two houses has the same value.
This issue has been going on for sometime now and recently my husband said to me if I don't allow my house 🏠 to be used to source this much needed capital then we should better part ways,
■ Am beginning to think I should just agree with my husband to use my house 🏘️ to secure this loan,but before that I would want to hear from you and give me some directions. The question is should I give up my house 🏘️ or not??...*Let's discuss this*

1. Red bloody flag!

2. To secure the loan or secure your Mrs. badge status?

Before you agree to anything, speak to a lawyer so you understand potential risks you take in this.

shantti:
Why is it always women that dies the asking. Arent men and women equal again. Can't a woman work for her own money and leave with it during divorce, what exactly is the man paying for during divorce settlement and how much will be paid to the man too. He got rights too

No one holds anyone's mouth in these things.

FreedomfromtheT:
You are wrong.

Yet another lie you evangelicals tell people is that once they are born-again, they receive the Holy Spirit. That lie has led so many of living a deluded existed convinced they are of God when in fact God is far from their reality. The fact of the Gospel, from the mouth of Jesus Christ Himself in John 3 vs 1 - 21, is that the actual Spirit that born-agains are born of Spirit from is the Spirit of Eternal Life, not the Spirit of Truth. He clearly explained this when He differentiated the life you get get from your mother's womb from that you get from being born of the Spirit of Life Himself. Jesus Christ also went on to explain that being born of the Spirit of Life is a possession by a power one not only wields no control over - John 3 vs 5 - 8 - but also a power with not focused in one direction--- those headed to hell will all also need to first be born of spirit.

I believe evangelicals are part and parcel of the antichrist religion that teaches lies in place of the Truth of God and lures the ignorant away from following the Truth of God, Jesus Christ.

shantti:
■ It is just your wish for Hakimis wife to win this battle. But remember that wishes are different from realities.

1. I don't know this couple from a can of paint, but I do know that fairness is right for all.

shantti:
■ Do France and US have the same laws.
Now that it has been discovered that he has nothing. He can then go ahead and demand for half of her worth. It's his right. It is then up to his lawyers to negotiate these things and find the right settlement. That should be how it typically works

The right to ask is not impeded upon by any law I know. Even in Nigeria, a woman or man can ask.

OKOATA:
Oga the latest news is that the wife will pay share her Net worth with Hakimi, you just dey argue blindly..

Ofcourse the wife will also bring her marriage assets to the table, no question of that from the beginning.

God2man2again:
God is saying the same thing to you;
Go and learn what it means, I desire mercy not sacrifice.

Wow... so you reject what Jesus Christ made plain to even uneducated fishermen all so you can continue to assert the lies and delusions of your pastors and mogs? Goodluck!

God2man2again:
■ Matthew 9:13 But go ye and learn what that meaneth, I will have mercy, and not sacrifice: for I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.

Go and learn what it means, I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.

1. God Himself said that through His prophets, even in Hosea 6 vs 6. . So, did God make a mistake? Did Jesus Christ assert that only to ignore it and the offer Himself as a sacrifice to the very same God?

God2man2again:
If there's no issue with the old testament practices, there would not be any need for new Testament, that's why you have both old and new testament inside the Bible. They are both relevant and important.
( Read your Bible accordingly)...

Can we please get back to the main issue here?

None of those two verses mention the existence of a sacrifice on the part of Jesus Christ. You folks seem to enjoy twisting what is written in order to fit what is a preexisting narrative fed to your by your lying pastors and mogs. What you fail to see or even conveniently accept is that you render God a liar by your many exercises. The same Jesus Christ is written to have affirmed God's own declaration through the Prophets stating He desires no sacrifices.

13 You need to go and learn what this Scripture means: ‘I don’t want animal sacrifices; I want you to show kindness to people.’[a] I did not come to invite good people. I came to invite sinners.” - Matthew 9 vs 13

By claiming Jesus Christ sacrificed His life, not only do you make a joke of Jesus Christ but you also accuse God of lying.

The question is did God lie when He said that He does not desire a sacrifice? Did Jesus Christ, against God's own Word, offer to God a sacrifice? Are those both wrong and you right instead?

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
■ I am not at home in fact I have properties in three other African countries. But when the married women are beginning to do the same thing it becomes a big problem.
■ Instead of people condemning what is wrong in the nation and try to tackle the economic problem which is causing a lot of this rubbish people like you and justifying the rubbish. I think the problem of Nigeria comes to the Citizens do not know right from wrong.
■ Nigerian men love foreign women see how they kill themselves for foreign women. Instead of you try to do the correct thing that there are encouraging the young guys to get married to who. Let me inform you one thing if you put a Nigerian woman and even a African woman from another African country most Nigerian guys and Men would prefer the other African women because of the sweetness of the pussy

1. Start by taking off the blinders so you see the situation as it really is.

The married women and men having sex do not have guns pointed at their heads in this. These are choices made by individuals across both genders and no one gender holds the right to cheat or not. Your Nigeria is a nation of non- saints , both men and women.

2. If you wan tackle economic problem, fo ahead and do that. No mix issues.

3. That one na story because as of the even the last census here, the vast majority of Nigerians in the US are married to fellow Nigerians. Nigerians married to other non-Nigerians, Americans included are in the minority out here.

God2man2again:
John 3:16; John 10:18

None of those two verses mention the existence of a sacrifice on the part of Jesus Christ. You folks seem to enjoy twisting what is written in order to fit what is a preexisting narrative fed to your by your lying pastors and mogs. What you fail to see or even conveniently accept is that you render God a liar by your many exercises. The same Jesus Christ is written to have affirmed God's own declaration through the Prophets stating He desires no sacrifices.

13 You need to go and learn what this Scripture means: ‘I don’t want animal sacrifices; I want you to show kindness to people.’[a] I did not come to invite good people. I came to invite sinners.” - Matthew 9 vs 13

By claiming Jesus Christ sacrificed His life, not only do you make a joke of Jesus Christ but you also accuse God of lying.

SavageResponse:
■ What makes you think that the lawyers who advised him did not anticipate this and therefore prepared the necessary documents to exploit this loophole. You cannot say with certainty that this is not the case because I am very sure that you have not sighted Hakkimi's contract with his football club.

1. What lawyers? What loophole? What seems to be all over Google are stories sourced from what appear to be rumors and not much substance. I don't even know if there has been a court appearance in this. So, it seems the whole circus never even begin for this particular divorce.

chim14:
Fasting is good, but I stopped doing it like the way we naija do it years ago when I realized it wasnt compulsory to succeed in anything. Fasting is broad, e no mean say make u starve urself. There are different types of fast:
1. Fruit Fast
2. Biscuit Fast. This one u jst hv very light snack. I do this one when I want to focus & get something done. I avoid cooked & heavy food.
3. Tea & bread Fast. Only tea & 2 slice of bread, dats all.
Problem with naija is, they keep swallowing heavy eba & pounded yam every blessed day. Hw are u going to be light & smart?

At least you took to describing your diet plans there.

SavageResponse:
■ Why does a Nigerian need education about stupid ass western marital laws? A law that ostensibly rewards laziness of a spouse in marriage cannot be said to be superior to our own!

1. Was the couple's marriage registered under your Nigerian traditional laws?

Westerhoffe:
[s]Again, what works did God Himself tell you that He saw? Surely, you are not going to tell us next that ritualistic fasting and prayer amount to works[/s]

I don't understand you. If you are so sure that God saw something else, why are you having a hard time responding directly based on your own scan of the same passage?

Westerhoffe:
¹⁰ And God saw their works, that they turned from their evil way; and God repented of the evil, that he had said that he would do unto them; and he did it not.

Again, what works did God Himself tell you that He saw?

SavageResponse:
■ Get approval from his wife for money he worked for? Did his way directly contribute in any way to generating the income?
■ Worst case scenario he will claim that he is and employee of a company which was formed by his mother therefore all proceeds from his football contract rightly belong to the company

1. This is marriage, not your comedy hall.
2. His mother will have to be in court to prove all of that by showing the company records, profits statements by year, etc.

Connected1:
■ The Western marriage laws are not superior to ours so we don't need any education. Nairaland Bot.

They are in every way superior. Even the laws in the Northern part of Nigerian are superior to your traditional marriage laws in the south; have been for the longest.

By the way, the particular marriage is not of Nigerian origin, but of western.

ogbe88:
Oga rest, why is the case paining you.

He showed you that the law isn't one-sided, so why pretend now that it is about him when the facts are revealed?

LivingSage:
Mother I meant. Corrected already. I'm being jocular anyway

If this case is for real, his mother may have to appear in court to defend herself in this. I mean being a party to what looks a lot like fraud no be joke.

Westerhoffe:
¹⁰ And God saw their works, that they turned from their evil way; and God repented of the evil, that he had said that he would do unto them; and he did it not. Goodnight.

Again, what works did God Himself tell you that He saw? Surely, you are not going to tell us next that ritualistic fasting and prayer amount to works?

LivingSage:




She should go and get it from Hakimi's brother now

IS he the one she is married to instead or what?

LivingSage:

She has a right to ask for any amount she desires. It is then up to her lawyers to negotiate these things and find the right settlement. That is typically how it works. It makes no sense to start off lowballing yourself.

Westerhoffe:
¹⁰ And God saw their works, that they turned from their evil way; and God repented of the evil, that he had said that he would do unto them; and he did it not.

What works did God see? Surely, you are not going to tell us next that ritualistic fasting and prayer amount to works?

Mordecai:
1. You once argued on another thread (some issue in Ghana, if I'm not mistaken) to the effect that verbal agreements are enforceable in court. I guess we don't have to revisit that, unless you have no principles and change stance on subjective whims.
2. Nigerians are well informed about marriage, especially as it relates to their culture. It's the bigots that believe Western culture is superior that need education.

1. Sigh!

2. Clearly, they aren't at all.

Westerhoffe:
■ Now finally, listen to yourself! GOD listened to them, right? Yes!! When? After they fasted and repented. So never say again that GOD cannot answer the prayers of anyone. GOD is a merciful GOD, and does not do or act the way man does. That's all. Goodnight.

God listened to them? It seems you don't actually care what God says at all, do you? You seem instead consumed with twisting the narrative just so it can suit your private delusion.

Nowhere in the context does mention God hearing anything from them. Rather what is stated is that they turned away from their evil and that was enough to change His plan to execute them.

Weknowbetter:
Your husband and wife are your immediate family. He put his assests in his mother's name to avoid paying. A woman waste her youth and use her body to bring man kids, but he dont want to pay, wahala. Most men agreeing wish they could have a big payout too

ROFLMAO!