BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Yes very important

If she's O-, dig very well if she's had an abortion, as in dont just ask her dig her past deeper deeper, anybody wey get negative for blood group no dey try nonsense, e go backfire

Acidosis:
It is appropriate and VERY OKAY to ask the woman or the man you want to marry ANY question. ANY.

If that question you want to ask will bring wahala, then you're not ready to start a sane, healthy relationship.

gbammmm

End of discussion!

It's good to [sub][/sub] ask this type of question and there's also a better way of finding out if she can carry a child too.


Simply go to the hospital and carry out all relevant tests relating to fertility.

Sometimes I wonder why some ridiculous questions comes up in a public forum.

If you attend a very good church and you intend to marry, all relevant tests that would cause "had I known" will be done before a sound church allows your wedding to take place.

Instead, some of you want to wed on your own.

Gamesmart:


Because if you took the time to read his post, you will deduce it even if you have threshold IQ.

So either you did not read his post before you asked this question or your IQ is very low.

Which is your sin?

Since u decided to go the condecending route.
...u should have been able to figure out the answer to ur question...unless ur IQ is very low ...

Score line 2:1

Two to u ofcourse cos u nabbed me first

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

please do o.dont let any woman gaslight you with any bull sheet narrative.i am a woman and women this generation are very dangerous so please ask o

And you expect her to tell you YES ... na wa o

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

Why not!

pryme:
What makes you think you will get the truth from her?

My guess is pretty much everyone of them will say Yes!

In relationships, some information are supposed to follow you to the grave concerning your past. A girl I loved so much once told me how she was gang-raped by 5 guys in her former boyfriend's apartment b4 his very eyes, while a gun was pointed at him. Omo, after that gist, the relationship no sweet again. Your concern should about Genotype, Fertility, level of Exposure, Family background. Exposure includes education, job, religious commitments and her views about marriage. Of course you know if she's higher than you in education and finances, prepare your mind for anything you see. If her parents were separated and she's raised by the mum alone without a "father figure ",know what to expect. Am not judging anybody here but talking about my personal experiences. Ever asked yourself this rhetorical question, "why some girls born outside wedlock usually make same mistakes their mother made? " Stop asking her irrelevant questions as she may not tell you everything.

Normal to ask

You want to pay bride price and youre asking is it okay lol. Continue simpinig my guy haha. You go soon carry old layers put inside house after youd be shouting shes barren when the chicken done born for another man keep, scatter her womb finish. Come retire ontop your property . I swear there are less real men nowadays

Curious345:
Nigerian girls are all porn stars .

Most of them have already done 5,000 to 9,000 rounds of sex before their 20th birthday

Baba o, oshey

I have two questuons I'd like to ask and if you answer them sincerely, you wont need anybody to advice you on what step to take

1) Is your relatiinship with her over two years?

2) If yes, if she had become pregnant for you two years ago, would you have asked her to keep or terminate the pregnancy?

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

even if she has done it she will still say no, fear gals

advanceDNA:



Since u decided to go the condecending route.
...u should have been able to figure out the answer to ur question...unless ur IQ is very low ...

Score line 2:1

Two to u ofcourse cos u nabbed me first

Gamesmart:


Look at the typical shaming tactics.

So he has "trust issues" because he wants to be sure he is not marrying any girl that belongs to the streets.

You women will go to any length to ensure you are never held accountable for your actions and decisions. You should just be accepted and worshiped because you "deserve" it, abi?

He is the one with "issues", not the girl that has slept with the whole street and has had multiple abortions?

You are 100% a typical woman. Selfish!

I don't even see where I wrote that men should worship women

If you decide to worship your woman, who will question you

You lack decorum, so deal with your stupidity

CondenseMilk:
As a man, when you are ready to settle down that's when you will realize that a wife is very difficult to find

Exactly. I think you are speaking out of experience.

ubola:
In relationships, some information are supposed to follow you to the grave concerning your past. A girl I loved so much once told me how she was gang-raped by 5 guys in her former boyfriend's apartment b4 his very eyes, while a gun was pointed at him. Omo, after that gist, the relationship no sweet again. Your concern should about Genotype, Fertility, level of Exposure, Family background. Exposure includes education, job, religious commitments and her views about marriage. Of course you know if she's higher than you in education and finances, prepare your mind for anything you see. If her parents were separated and she's raised by the mum alone without a "father figure ",know what to expect. Am not judging anybody here but talking about my personal experiences. Ever asked yourself this rhetorical question, "why some girls born outside wedlock usually make same mistakes their mother made? " Stop asking her irrelevant questions as she may not tell you everything.

How is that her fault?

frozen70:


I don't even see where I wrote that men should worship women

If you decide to worship your woman, who will question you

You lack decorum, so deal with your stupidity

If you had IQ that hit 2 digits, you will realise their was nowhere I said you wrote that men should worship women.

I simply asked you the question.

If I asked "You are a slut, abi?". Does that mean I said you admitted you are a slut?

Can you see the level of your IQ now?

You are promoting telling lies.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Stop playing. Medical check up/scan can’t detect anything as long as her womb was/is not perforated.

How I don’t know but Redeem church once stop wedding because after checkup they found out the girl had abortion before.
I know the girl very well it happens on her wedding day they have to look for another church to wed her .

Ascertaining is a good move, until you find out that being fertile doesn't always have to do with having had an abortion or not.

It's up to you to decide what you want to do.

Many nairalanders here support abortions but don't want ladies who have had one.

E go tire una.

Many men (especially on this forum) don't want virgins, no, there are no virgins in Nigeria beyond 10 years of age. All ladies have sugar daddies.

But when they want to tie the knot, they begin to look for Virginias.

As for us ladies, make we dey close legs and give ourselves dignity. Premarital sex is evil and doesn't have any benefit in the long run, unless fortunately, you both marry.

Still, premarital sex is wrong. Let's keep our bodies holy to prevent JAMB questions in the future.

maybe oo

Gamesmart:


How is that her fault?

Not her fault though, but it affected me psychologically. From that day, each time I see her I recall the scene from her explanation to the point where she told me that 3rd guy had a very big cock that almost made her faint during penetration. That they maimed the guy with machetes at the end, looking like a cult related vendetta.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Go ahead..You should be free and bold to do so..

And also expect and answer questions she will ask.

But, it will be easier for Peter Obi to be sworn in come may 29, than she telling you yes even if it is.

So, you will end up with NO..

BeStroNG:
Na one day man dey die. I'm going to ask the damn question and be very intentional about it.

Comrade, be a real niggar and Ask her the damn question. But be rest assured that she'll lie and then use reverse psychology on you in order to be in a relationship with her.

BeStroNG:
Man got to be wary with the way things are. No man would want to marry a woman who had destroyed her womb via abortion. Some girls have committed more than 5 abortion and may have destroyed their womb in the process. Imagine getting married to such a lady. If the womb is intact and the man is fertile, pregnancy cannot be an issue.

I'm trying to take that bold step by asking her if she had committed abortion before.

What do you think guys? Is it going to bring "wahala"?

Should I ask her or not?

Ask, and ask firmly, ask to know everything.
You should be mature to handle the answer you'll get though. But ask, don't over look something like this.

advanceDNA:


Na abortion dey cause am mostly....

No. Hormonal issues, PCOS, unexplained infertility, blocked tubes etc can all cause delay in conception

Lol make una Dey play 😂 girls wey never do abortion this days no pass 5. if u knw Weytin 10yrs old girls Dey do this days una go fear ogbeni lock up, do scan and pray her womb is still intact bcoz even scan self Dey lie.

Bros do a good background check about her past.
Ask her questions, because if you don't her past will come back and you will regret it( that's if she has a bad past).

Do your findings tho.

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