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some ladies are even shelling out thousands to sew the damn thing back up 

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well, hell yea!

. .and a proud one too.

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whether we choose to accept it or not, it is still a big deal to some people. Or else some ladies would not be using it as bargaining chips.

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. .only if we dont have to go back to work. so I can go back to sleep  

OK. so if the girl was initially a virgin as she claimed and another guy came to take the cake, then the newer's guy raps and moves were stronger

Bottomline, dont let any girl brainwash you into believing all that stuff - go for it in you want it that much, and if she wont let you have it, move on if that's all you really care about.

Dont come crying over what you couldnt have (cos you sucked) while some other uncaring guy got it easily.

The same girl will be laughing at you and calling you a slacker for being a perfect gentleman. When it is time to settle down and get married, she knows the perfect person to go and meet - you .

The sad thing is maybe did guy did not even really care if she was a virgin or not at first. But then the girl said it to boost her ratings. . .and if it was a lie, of course she'll look for a smooth way to appease the guy - good thing she did not even say she was raped. Now it feels like some lowlife peasant has come to steal your life savings.


The guy slacked and someone got the cake - he should deal with it. I have been there before - several years ago.

You loan someone money and then they indrectly turn you into a beggar simply cos you are asking for your money back years after they promised to repay.

The annoying thing is they know how to make you look like the devil to the public.

I am here. signed in.

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some Nairaland females may think otherwise . ,

So what do you ladies think of the columnist's reponse or advice?

This is something I saw in the Punch Newspaper just now.

http://odili.net/news/source/2010/dec/19/801.html

From the guy:

  I dated a girl for about two years. But all of a sudden, she changed her behaviour towards me. Whenever I asked what went wrong, she gave excuses. I discovered she was no longer interested and I left her alone. Initially, she told me that she was a virgin and we decided not to have intimacy. She even promised me that if I don't meet her as a virgin I should do anything to her. Now she wants me back and she told me she has lost her virginity to a guy she dated after me. When I heard this, I was very sad. But she asked for forgiveness. Though I still love her, I do not know if she will be faithful again.

Yusuf, Lagos

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Here is the columist's response (this is from a lady btw) :

If this lady could not sacrifice the pleasure of another man's flesh for you, then, she is not worth your love. When a partner who claims to be a virgin brazenly sleeps with another man, then she is telling you to go to blazes! The other man must have disappointed her and she wants to return to you because she knows that you will forgive her. Be sure she won't go back to that guy, if he appears on the scene. She could even get another lover and leave you at her convenience. I advise that you forgive her, but don't think of anything serious with her.

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any move I did not initiate at that age must have been r.ape sir . . even though it's natural to want to enjoy it too 

I should have said no to the maid right? she spent more time with me than my parents did so I would have been tortured.

lerato1:
NO NEVER!!!!!!!

I will never cheat.

It is not right at all. I am too good for that kind of nonsense.

I was only tempted by a guy i really liked but i never allowed it to go far. He tried every thing to make me sleep with him but i refused. He only entered my v, g, na half way but then i came back to my senses and pushed him away from on top of me, wore my cloths and i ran out of his room. I have never gone back there since that day.

errhm, the guy don enter abeg, even if na half-way.

the rest na story . .

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very wrong choice you got there

Mrs, Eve:
Koyoke,

Is it fair for me to get my husband all EXCITED straddling him and jump off when he enjoying it? Just wondering.  

No. not fair at all. you must drop something  

but in this guy's case, she is shagging someone else's wife in an arab nation.

so, even if they've been shagging for three years and she's enjoying it, it is still a time bomb waiting to explode in an Arab world!!

for real though, why cant some of us enjoy doing with a cd?

my answer: God telling me to stick to my one wife!

I tried very hard to make it to 21. . .only I was raped by the maid @ 13.

I almost made it

Mrs, Eve:
Why because you can't beg a man with an erection to stop that women can't be stopped while in heat?

Come on, Koyoke! You should know better! (being old and all)

whatever

my point is there's no sense in begging a lady who has both your balls in her hands and still likes what she's doing with them . . .ouch!

No need to beg her since she wont listen.

Just RUN.

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yea. you just had to go there.

nitrogen:
THE ONLY OPTION HERE IS TO BEG THE LADY AND PRAY. sefini

beg the lady for what . . . to stop screwing you .are you kidding me

you want to beg a woman on heat

is this a trick question

Yea,

I opened my mouth and told my friend . .even after she's tried hooking me up with some of her friends.

almost 6 years married now.

why bother with what coulda, shoulda, woulda been?

just ask with love . .if you really want him / or.

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ur crystall ball?

No thanks . .Ms Cleo

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I know agreeing with you makes you happy.

Now . . .that's my control. 

tell your friend to get some video evidence as a back up and then RUN!!!

the woman might later on cook up some bull story if her husband ever finds out . that's why the video evidence is essential.

Yea, I know how to arab laws work - they dont care who started it, they'll castrate the guy regardless.

Men are the outcome of Eve's handiwork.

She gave HIM the apple.

Who's the slitery slime now?

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cock blocker.

that's still a name I cant get over.

There's no set rule or formula.

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you eveil.

still

cou-gar:
this has been going on for ages. women do envy each other and it's been like that since rachel and leah.

True.

that is why a serious lady truly searching for love will do it on her own and enjoy her own company, not depend and liver by her friends' codes at ALL times.

pls tranlate into a dog command

men are dogs

The showing off part of course

my house big pass yours

my car better pass yours

my babe yellow pass yours

_{runs away}