₦airaland Forum

Ezinwa120:
I met this beauty damsel in a child dedication in my home town in Anambra State on 2nd of January 2016.
We started talking until we fell in love and i decided to marry her. Though am still awaiting for her parents consent before i fix the date for formal introduction.
She had directed me to different pastors for this purpose and i had done my own part.
The issue now is that she told me that she had done an operation for lumb in her breast which did not go down well with my mum. My mum has said "i will not marry her"
The major issue i solicite for an advice is that i took her to a doctor who told me she has a kidney issue.
We really love ourselves and i want to marry her not just because she is still a virgin but she is a good girl.is there anything that can be done because she is just 21.
I need an advice please ignore my written English.
Thanks

Aladi02:
You can't have everything, especially when it comes to knowledge, not just knowledge but religion, if you want to know the origin of this, you had better convert too. And stop the dance of shame.

Aladi02:
Drum or whatever, if Qur'an is a story book, then the Bible must be a Comic book.

Aladi02:
I think Nairaland does not give room from this kind of thing. Obiomamu this is religious matter don't take it personal. She has the right to practice any religion of her choice, You only said this been that she choose Islam, I know it won't be the same story if it's amadioa or sango. Please take note

Poseidon000:
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No, if christains killed, Islam wouldn't be in existance in the first place.

So, don't flatter yourself, cos if Christians are to thread the path of violence, Islam will be endangered religion.

Hope you know of the small madness unleashed on Muslims in central African republic and jos?



Monopoly of violence is not exclusively reserved for one religion.
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malvisguy212:
Anyone who has read the Qur'an very well and know the lifestyle of muhammed will not make such choice. The Qur’an is based completely on the personal experiences of one illiterate man
spanning a period of 23 years.Only one person allegedly saw the “angel.” Only one person allegedly heard a voice. The entire faith is limited to one book with only one person who allegedly received the vision. There is absolutely no way to verify anything. Our question is, “Does not this then mean that the only way to become a Muslim is to take this one man’s word for it?” Man let alone will always chose death rather than life.

lolawilliams:
I'm a christian, and I believe not all muslims are bad. The media & society just make them look bad. Why will something like this make the front page

ObiOmaMu:
These alleged photos of a young lady from Enugu who has converted to Islam are currently trending on Facebook.
See more photos after the cut.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/06/photos-young-igbo-lady-from-enugu.html

Rajy00:
U look sick

ogawisdom:
I understand ur prob., most good girls r like dt very cold, lacks initiative n boring. I guess ur girl is an introvert too, u ve to lead her to everything u want. don't expect her to do anything during sex as she will lie like a roasted chicken until u r done. They r wired dt way. U guys r sexually incompatible. Manage her like dt or do d needful

Joy1706:
She is nursing a baby, YOUR BABY while running the house and probably trying to keep up with her job. How selfish can you men get? Those threats don't move anybody. Cheat if you wanna. You'll face the consequences when the time comes. Our world doesn't revolve around you men

Sheggy13:
Even the Bible says explicitly that wives do not deny your husband intimacy except for when you're both fasting. The husband that has gone out probably since 5am in the face of heavy Lagos traffic, chasing the daily bread both of you will enjoy and comes home late isn't stressed up too abi? How can someone keep turning down the sexual advances of a man you're married to for up to a month without any cogent reason. Later they'll end up in church praying needless prayers about God helping to take control of the husband when they've succeeded in pushing him outside,for those that cannot bear it again. That's why it's important for people in relationships to discuss their sex life and how often they feel like getting it before ending up marriage. Any lady I date, it's usually one of the first things I let her realize so if she can't cope, she can find her way early enough to avoid stories like this. Don't allow the advice of stupid girls who can't keep a marriage for more than a year cos of their warped orientation deceive you into having problems with your husband. They're quite much on this thread. You know them from their comments and the cheap likes they get from their fellow senseless companions. Use your head sis and save your marriage. A word is enough.

GogobiriLalas:
l knew one yeye gal will come here to start talking crap and giving advice on matters she can't begin to even grasp the depth of...you bera gerouta here

Joy1706:
Yeah! Ur a really smart guy. Your wife suspects you of cheating and she will open her legs 24 hrs for you even when she doesn't know where ur preek has been. Clap 4 urself. Very smart idea. Makes me wonder why the woman who stabbed her husband in the neck didn't open her legs wider when she found out the husband had been unfaithful

Adedoks:
Most married women are very funny ooo... Am a married man n I know what am saying. Some married women can go a month without sex if their hubby doesnt make a move towards them. N its also sad some married men will cajole n cajole their wife before she has sex... If the man is always the one cajoling one day he will be tired. Same man women outside are ready to grab n their is Wifee acting up. When the man goes outside she will start unnecessary prayers dat she could Av averted. U wont have sex with your man in a month plus n u think all is well. Most married women that do dis are not matured enough as they are still relatively new in marriage... Some learn from bitter experience. Oga Op be patient with her n explain to her as a man ur needs. God bless you for being faithful

deen11:
I feel u man! Just keep understudying her,and sure you would get her weakness...

Surprise her with many things...vis-a-vis
Looking good and smelling nice
Assisting with house chores as far as u could
Buying her gifts
Taking her out to whr she hasn't been before
Engaging her with sensational talks and so on
.......the list is endless man.

Don't be discouraged and I hope one will work out except if she is no longer interested in the union. Best of luck!!!!!

huntax:
That isn't a factor. The fact that she got married to him should be enough to verify that she was attracted to him then... so that shouldn't change within a year.

Ashez:
bros me to be very sincere to u, Ive tasted d forbidden apple countless times, when i was an undergraduate bro we did nofin but to drink, get high, and have sex like dere is no tomoro, i barely tot about eternity or death. I tot God was a deity That we just hear about or go to Church on sundays to pay homage to. my man until I realised that heaven is real and that Christ already paid for my sins, until i discovered the Joy in serving Christ that u can never compare with d 15 to 30 mins pleasure of sex, until i realiaed d demons n evil spirits dat r been exchanged during fornication, until I learnt how to discipline my flesh and control my flesh not always thinking with my d**k, until I gave God a chance to bring transformation into my life. I never knew what I was missing witout Christ bro and if uve not gotten ur salvation too, try and do cos no type of gal, even d one straight from river niger can make me throw away my Bible dude. Thats d greatest thing that ever happened to me, knowing God. I wish u all d best

idupaul:
God bless u ..no time

Pidggin:
Are you physically attractive?

kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

Ashez:
seriously how can someone be asking which of these two sins to pick from yeah no one is perfect buh God's grace and self discipline will help one alot not to even consider dem two. I was once a victim of both when I was still living in darkness tho buh thank God I found the light in Jesus and received my salvation. I now occupy my mind and tots with affairs of d kingdom of God. I barely think about sex dese days cos ive already channelled that path to abstinence till i marry. With God by ur side bro, u can overcome dem both, and anoda tip is to avoid watching porn cos it easily leads one to masturbation or fornication.

agbajesaid:
I just read a post on FP concerning masturbation. I now asked myself an honest question; isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate. Its what everyone have experienced expecially at early stage of puberty. The urge for sex increases and we are far from marriage due to age, lack of fiancee, money etc. My religion advices fasting as an alternative to fornication and masturbation but for how long? Isn't it better to masturbate than to fornicate? Asides the immorality in masturbation, is anything bad in it healthwisely and religiously? Matured opinions needed.

HomeOfMe:
one of them wan discover mongo park!

lovdoc:
Precious shared the lovely photo on her Instagram page this evening. He's a cutie...

Source: http://www.9janewsarena.com/2016/03/checkout-lovely-photo-of-ffks-wife-and-son.html

Stupedinluv:
At 20, i have come to realise the joy and fulfilment in living life to the fullest. Coming from a noble home, i was not raised to be a man's stooge not to talk of an animal's. My worth was defined from the day i stepped into earth and has been shapened overtime. I was taught the right and the wrong. And that moral laws condone no breaker. If a woman must be condemned and despised for a crime, a man must by all means face the same. I believed this and i knew before God and men it was the truth. I didnt just believe, it became real to me and has influenced my judgement.

However, the society has flung half of this truth and has held on to a part because of how drunk in power it has become and the advantage this fist had fetched it.

We are aware now of this evil conditioning that a woman who sleeps around is a slut and should be desired less but a man who does same a stud and should be the craving of every woman. Many men have quietly nodded in agreement and a few mouthy ones have not failed to vocalise their agreement. And women? So many to the shame of dignity and womanhood have sang along with the men. And you wonder which would sacrifice her pride to make a stud!?

Because to make more studs we need more sluts. Can any of you women come out and offer yourself to a man who would dump you for another. If you cannot hold your peace and stupidity!

A stud is a man who is sexually attractive to so many women. So they say! but i see a stud as an animal who is unable to control its sexual desires, hates monogamous relationships and (therefore) deserves to be judged and condemned.


Women who say they are attracted to studs and hate inexperienced men need not only their heads examined but their consciences and should not take offence when they are called sluts. Cos only a slut or zombie would reason this way.


A stud has nothing tangible to offer except to toy with my emotion, cause me heart breaks and render me unproductive.

For every stud out there there are ten whores rendering my gender useless and subjecting me to prove myself as a woman of pride and esteem all the time. Nothanks.

arsenal33:
Abia State

emmalezy:
The lagos state government says it has cancelled the order restriction of movement of persons and vehicles during environmental sanitation days in the state. This is was made known by the state Commissioner for the environment,Babatunde Adejare, during the ministry’s monthly media chat in Lagos. He didclosed that the state governor Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode has decided that the state cannot afford to shut down a mega city like Lagos for a period 3 hours. Mr. Adejare noted that environmental sanitation should rather be a daily exercise and charged residents to make it a way of life. The commissioner also vowed to shut down markets violating the state’s environmental laws in 7 days

source
http://www.reportnaija.com/2016/03/breaking-news-governor-ambode-abolishes.html

Abagworo:
Needless to emphasize on this Road especially Umuapu axis which has been a nightmare since 2012 when the construction firm scraped the Road and abandoned site. Many like me believe the neglect of the road was politically motivated while others believed it was the incompetency of Orubebe then Minister of Niger Delta.

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/news/national-
news/178574-okorocha-laments-bad-state-of-owerri-
port-harcourt-road

http://thenationonlineng.net/death-trap-called-port-harcourt-owerri-road/

http://www.elombah.com/index.php/gallery/1382-photo-gallery-my-long-journey-from-port-harcourt-to-owerri

http://nannewsnigeria.com/motorists-decry-deplorable-state-port-harcourt-owerri-road

praxisnetworks:
don't bother that character has a seriously LOW SELF ESTEEM.



haneefahade I told you to leash Daretodiffer but instead you allowed her to open another account morountodun...not all guys are as tolerant as myself....