yemmit90:


Exactly 💯, an average Nigerian employee only focus on his/her pay check and not your business or company.

Only few employers are wicked to workers that help them improve their income or sales, compare to employees that majority of them are only after their salaries and your downfalls.

A decent company will not have these issues because everyone is given a target and goal.
This topic is about delay of salary payments. It is despicable. Most businesses where you see employees misbehaving, check very well, you will see that the employers are not fulfilling their agreements.
When you fulfill your part as the employer, it will be very easy to dismiss a poor mannered staff.

VULCAN:
This is a lie and you know it.

And by the way, run a survey with who? The employees who steal and gossip or the employers who keep sacking bad staff continuously.

Some employees are bad and there’s nothing one can do about it than pray one doesn’t cross paths with them.
But this topic is about constant delay in salary payment. It is despicable and employers should stop doing it. The worst part is they don’t even notify their workers about the delay. They just constantly do it as if it is normal.
No business will ever make progress with this attitude.

Pecoleee345:


Then we should stop electing governors then.

If the president is responsible all you mentioned so what do we need governors for??

Governors have their roles too. But they can only do so much when the Presidency is failing.
Look at Governor Sanwo Olu, does he have the power to influence minimum wage.

A working president will make sure its citizens are fortified enough to withstand his policies. But the current president doesn’t care about that.
Everyone knows that removing fuel subsidy and floating the Naira is the way to go, but just saying it and putting your foot down is not the hard part. The hard part is doing it without suffering the people.
Obi said it, Atiku said it too, but did they tell you how?
No one said the job was going to be easy but I always believed that Tinubu doesn’t have the expertise and experience to handle this.
The fact that I’m even trying to explain the reality to you is baffling me.

Pecoleee345:


You are very funny.............you think a president can arrest or punish a sitting governor??

Try and Google what your governor get a month and you will surprised (i mean minus the security vote).

Governors are the real thieves but a lot of you are so blind to that cos they cleverly direct everything to the presidency.

So you’re saying that even though everyone is hailing the Lagos State Governor, everything economically is well over there!
Is it the Governors that removed subsidy without creating an enabling environment to withstand its effects?
Is it the Governors that floated the Naira knowing fully well that it cannot sustain itself?
If you get those two right, country will normalize and those are not under the Governors control.
I’ve never in my life seen a group of people defending a failing president as we see today. Even Buhari didn’t get this kind of support from the North.
But I’m happy we’re all suffering the effects.

Vello:

Mr shocker.
May u ask you, what are the plans you would have put on ground before removing Subsidy if you were the President? Don't mention working refineries because you and I know it won't work because same beneficiaries of the Subsidy that never allowed the refineries work in decades are stull very much at work.
Few people looted the commonwealth so bad through Subsidy and forex scam yet, someone came on board to destroy their stronghold yet, the long term beneficiaries of the policy which are the people are condemning the person.

You said Buhari failed. How do you justify that statement against the catastrophic 16 years of PDP in power. Let's compare and contrast. PDP from Obj through Jonathan failed woefully and ruined the country. APC came and began fixing heavy infrastructures that PDP through Okupe said was impossible. Yes, Buhari made mistakes but, no leader worldwide is perfect.
Tinubu is not perfect and 7months is too little to judge an administration. Buhari's budget just got retired and he's now working with his own. Give him time.
The Igbos lampoobed the Fulanis for 8years, started with Yorubas and it's ongoing. How's that not tribalism and stupidity of the highest order?

Problem with most Nigerian is that rather than seem knowledge, they rely on sentiment and tribal leanings to justify or condemn a system. I'm a seasoned administrator and I make my assessment objectively. Tinubu is doing fine and if I'm to rate him, I'll give him 99% pass in administrative duty

The fact that you rated APC Government better than PDPs 16 years is worrying.
Even staunch APC supporters didn’t use that as an excuse to vote for Tinubu.
Compare the standard of living in PDPs time and now.
I didn’t ask you to trust Obi and Atiku to change things, but try to say the truth and be realistically objective in your defense next time abeg🙏. So that it won’t feel like I’m wasting my time arguing. How can you say that life is better now than it was under PDP? 😳

ecolime:
Marriage list alone

And proper wedding costs still dey there.

My Pre-wedding shoot, main photography (Engagement and church), Photobook, 2 picture frames plus video coverage cost N70k just 10 years ago.

But things have changed now. Wifey took my son for birthday shoot few days ago. N40k for just 8 pictures. E-copies ooo

No wonder our young men are no longer getting married.

I feel for guys of nowadays.

Guys of nowadays are actually feeling for the married ones 😁.
Unmarried guys are actually living their lives while the married ones are wasting it on children that will not give a crap about them.

Vello:

Have you considered that tribalism is the only reason virtually all of you nyamirri are condemning Tinubu?
What exactly did Tinubu do against you or your generation?
You complain of hunger because of increase in petrol price and naira floating but your hypocrisy did not make you admit that's what Atiku and even your ethno-religious bigot called Obi all campaigned with.

What exactly is Tinubu's sin?

Tinubu didn’t commit any sin at all.
The difficulty in the job is not to do what Atiku and Obi said. The hard part is doing it without putting the nation into suffering.

So far, Tinubu has not been able to do so and it is no surprise. Anyone who’s surprised at Tinubu’s failure now is not smart.
The fact that Buhari failed is already more than 70% indication that Tinubu will fail.
This is why I’m surprised at people rooting for him before the election. I’m even more shocked at people still defending him now.

Before you mention tribalistism, I’m not Yoruba nor Ibo. You two can whine later, but if we don’t fix Nigeria now, we will all suffer the brut. After all, there are other tribes in Nigeria too.

IVORY2009:



Obi actually won the elections, manipulation and corruption put Tinubu ahead.

Yes. Continue living in that. You should’ve just said Sowore that came 6th in the election won it.

Objectivist04:


You reason like mumu,. Obi won election in Nasarawa, plateu, cross river, Delta , Rivers and Lagos, came very close in benue if not for Allia's popularity and you are still saying the fear of other tribes ?
You people like to reason upside down.

And yet he came third in the election.
All these useless optimism is why we have a dummy as President.
Obi’s only mission was to spoil things for PDP. He was never going to win a Presidential election.

ZKOSOSO:
If Atiku is not ready to be VP to Peter Obi in 2027 them je she forget about it...

How can Atiku be his Vice?
This greed that is following Obi is installed in all his followers.
Atiku is politically more relevant. He got more votes than Obi in the last election. He gave Obi a platform in federal politics and you want him to be Obi’s vice.

jmoore:

It will be foolish for anyone to ask Obi to be Atiku's running mate. Every Obedient has rejected Atiku with his selfishness.

That’s Obi’s only chance of getting close. Tinubu is not fit to be President but Obi can NEVER be President.

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So how did Atiku score more votes than Obi in the last election where they both faced each other?
Please explain without mentioning the sentimental word ’rigging’.

FireUpNow:


I am not supporting the woman but some men do not treat their wives well. What I told you is not a lie buddy.

Why do people always fall back to this nonsense talk. This is a life or death situation here. It’s only wicked and manipulative people that reason like this.
Sometimes issues happen in marriages. Husbands feel used, wives feel cheated. But if you are sane enough to remain in the marriage and wish death upon one another because of past deeds, you and devil na correspondence.

Righthussle:
When strong and reasonable women are fed up with any system just know that system will never survive.

When I say strong and reasonable women I don't mean those women that accept that the creator of the universe is a male and he has a begotten son and not a daughter.

I mean those rare ones that will tell you boldly that if there is a creator of the universe anywhere, it's must be a woman. Those ones that will never associate themselves with any religion or book that relegates and discriminates against women. Those ones that will never accept that a man was created first before a woman without a concrete scientific proof.

Strong woman. Keypad warrior! I hail o👋

SpatialKing:

His death has thought women to stop marrying careless men that don't bother about their health..

Also thought women not to marry from a tribe that killed their sons because their mother or wives are from another tribe...

It’s not ‘thought’, it’s ‘taught‘.

ayokellany:
There is a particular foolish tribe in Nigeria any good news give them migraine.

This is not a case of tribe, it’s a case of dejavu.
We’ve all been here before, that’s what makes it hard to believe.
In fact, it will be a miracle if it turns out to be true.

SoNature:
Atiku is just out to totally destroy the PDP because of his selfish ambition. Power isn't going to the north. The earlier Atiku realises this, the better for him. Instead of Atiku being the president, Tinubu should continue.

Muslim North is beginning to think that leadership is their birthright and must be stopped by any means necessary. Nigeria belongs to all of us.

Since 1999, more than 34years in democracy, the North has been in power for 11years. Read that again and you’ll see that you didn’t make sense at all.

Kenmatt:
Upon the entire State money way them dey launder up and down, them no even look fresh.

Dem dey get time!
You think say this people dey rest!
I once visited a friend in Delta State Government house, very close to where Okowa dey sleep. His light was on till 4:00am.

TimiRume:
What you are looking for is companionship not a progeny(you just don't know what it is yet) Yes you are aware of a gap but you are mistaking it for something else.

If you dig deeper, you will see a crave for a female partner. And when you dig even further down the root, you will see something unclear, undefined, impossible to grasp by you but if light should prick your heart, you will see your creator's arms wide opened.

Nonsense.
Yes everyone is craving for companion. But nowadays, most men don’t trust the company of a wife because it can end up being a disaster.
A child can also be a company. The parenting venture can very well be accompanying.

PricelessGem1:
This is on point. The OP should read this again and again. This is clearly speaking to him but he needs wisdom to understand it.

Nonsense.
Yes everyone is craving for companion. But nowadays, most men don’t trust the company of a wife because it can end up being a disaster.
I’m on the OPs side on this one.
A child can also be a companion too. The parenting venture can very well be accompanying.

Thebest12:


That man is a gay . Why you guys ain't detecting this baffles me alot

So you think unmarried people do not have sex with their opposite gender.
He simply isn’t planning to get married because he doesn’t want to deal with women crap, not because he doesn’t want to have sex with women.
FYI, study have showed that most unmarried men have sex more than married men.

Icesnow:
Get married before relocating to the UK oo. It reduces boredom, financial and visa stress. A word is enough for the wise. 2 are better than one.

Don’t listen to this person. Being married doesn’t reduce boredom o.

Olatara:
You are not family oriented and you want to adopt a child.

How do you intend doing that?⁰

Do not adopt any child, do you think adopting is about dropping money for school, clothes and food.

Be careful!

Get out with your archaic mindset.
If someone doesn’t want to deal with the emoticonal aspect of sharing custody of a child with a spouse, one’s free to do so, as long as one can take care of that child.

Brownemeka:
According to U, You're not a family oriented Man,Yet U want to Adopt a child... You're not qualified Oga...Let your wealth be your companion...in future you'll realize Y U will never be wiser than God ....

You people are just pained that a man is exploring other ways of having kids without involving a woman that he’s emotionally connected to.
This is Nigeria and he’ll get his wish whether you’re pained or ok with it.

motionarena:


What deterioration?
Continue basing your life on what you see on social media and nairaland am sorry 4 you.

Many young couples are getting married and living happily be forming bachelor.

Nonsense

wittyt98:
I'm not saying the idea of adopting a child is bad or terrible but, since when has impregnating a woman become so hard??

do you have a medical history that suggests you cannot recreate?? Why not make your own baby and let he/she grow with your mother since you claim you're not family oriented.

You can even impregnate a woman, make your own baby and still adopt a child if you so wish or crave to adopt. But the idea of not having a child to carry your own blood doesn't sound right to me. If there's a medical history that's hindering you from making your own child, it's better you say it for clarity sake

Look at the picture attached below,👇👇 Don't you crave moments like that in your life??

One of the problems with Africans is failing to understand that people are different. Variety is the spice of life and frankly, for some, there’s no moment to crave in that picture.
Personally, I won’t be in a picture like that, even if I’m paid to do it.

Kobojunkie:
I would not recommend you adopt any child into your situation.

He wants it and frankly, I don’t think there’s a situation here that dissuades him from raising a child.
He has the finance and sounds like someone who’s very honest with his sensations. At least he understands that he’s not going to be in a sexual relationship with anyone in the near future.
This man seem more ready to have a child than so many couples today.

PlayMaker14:
Please keep quiet and and kindly answer my question;

Are you closer to the woman?

Are you working in the State House?

Are you a direct member of the Akeredolu family?

Why didn't y'all talk about her atrocities during her 37 years of marriage to your brother?


Why is it now that Aketi is no more you guys are now talking?

Answer me and stop this your malicious propaganda against the woman.


If you are a Christian, you'll see where your Holy Book stated it clearly in the commandments that you shouldn't Bear False Witness.

Don’t just look at the headline, read the original post here. It came from someone closer to the family. I know you will still argue.

oldguyman:
Chimamanda Adichie and Obi are both clowns.... When we say their region is backward in all ramifications they will cry... Why bring your book launching to Lagos, what happened to Anambra, Abia or Enugu? At Least you should be able to showcase her backward region to the world.

These people are not tribalistic. They see themselves as Nigerians, not Anambrans and Imos.

nairalanda1:


But as many say here, women somehow should do all the decision whether they should have children and control themselves. Men are just the weak victims of the hormones....

This has nothing to do with who’s weak and who’s strong.
Sex is sweet, but you become the fool when you allow a man to enjoy it without paying the legal price.

nairalanda1:


So, men are controlled by women, that they have to explore the punami, and can;t control their dicks once the legs are opened?

Hey, I think we should tell women they control men, shouldun't we?

Men are not controlled by women.
A woman only has control of what she can share with a man. She has the will power to say “no”.
If a sensible woman closes her legs, the man will move to the next available idiot.

nairalanda1:



You are supporting the man, and you are angry with me because you think I am supporting the woman.

You are only looking at one side of my response because the man is a hero to most of you on this site. Well, he had a child with a hoe.

I am someone who believes that both men and women should be virgins when they marry. I am that conservative. I do not believe in sleeping before marriage.

Some of my comments here are in response to people who are blaming the woman. As if she got herself pregnant. With some even insuinating that the man was not responsible for the pregnancy. Ok o. It takes two to tango.

Anyway, for me, both are wrong. I pity their child. I have known too many children from single parent homes that came about under similar circumstances (I exclude houses where a parent died). At the end, many of them weep, and some of them wish they knew their fathers better. That is why I am pissed at both the man and the woman, and pissed at those who hail the man.

If you truly did not support both sides, you won';t be quoting me up and down asking me to read it again. Oga, in my life work, I have seen this kind case so many times, e dey piss me off well well.

I will keep quoting you until you understand that I’m only advising the loser here.
Keep your legs close so that you will not be the person chasing the other person for attention.
This story clearly explains who needs 👆🏾that advice.