AllahOfBlood:

One yeye stupid boy go just de type nonsense on nairaland and the yeye admin will push it to front page, it's like some of these nairaland admins are high on Tunibu substance.

As for the yeye boy wey type this nonsense, you are proud to tell nairaland that u are a single father of triplets and took the two boys and abandon the other cos it's a female. You abandoned them to ur mom's care and come to nairaland to announce to us. My dear mugu u are not just a mugu, u are shameless. I advise you reunite those innocent children with their mom and sister. Those children are blessings to this world don't let them suffer cos of ur stupidity and pride, you can't take care of them neither can a nanny do. The best thing now is to unite them with their mother

See how childish you sound. Insulting a full grown adult you don’t even know. Can you say these nonsense if he was standing in front of you. Don’t ever open your mouth to give any advice here.

PlsBanMe:
He is conversant with the case because he is smart enough to check out previous posts from OP. All OP's life is in his previous threads and he doesn't strike me as a responsible person at all. He should call back his wife and apologize. He thinks because of 125k job, he is on top of the world. What's 125k salary in this economy? Those children need their mother.

125k job with their irresponsible mother will increase his expenses. If he’s not comfortable with her excesses, there are other options he can explore with the children living with him.
Whatever gives you the impression that men are incapable of raising children alone is deceiving you.

Kobojunkiee:
Some sort of deficiency? The one with the deficiency is that man who is not able to cater to his own kids and had has them locked up in the village with his mother and sister --- single-mother-like situation going on there too.

Ideally, the woman should have custody, unless she doesn’t want to.
If a man chooses not to be with a woman, even children cannot make him change his mind. Men too can take care of children alone.

TOPCRUISE:
What significance does that key hold.
That key must either be a master key that hold her life or it’s a key to the gateway of heaven for her not to release the key to him even at the point of getting naked.

It’s clear, you have never corresponded with a trouble maker.
She doesn’t even know what the key is for. The only thing she knows is that the key is very important to the man. So she’s ready to go naked than release it.

Ishilove:

The comments of some of them on this thread show that they are chronic woman beaters and disgusting cowards who enjoy flexing their muscles on someone weaker. I would love to see them expend the same energy of someone who can actively match them strength for strength.

Disgusting creatures.

The story said the wife refused to give him his keys. Those might be the keys to his office for an important meeting.
What do you think the man can do differently to get his keys!
If women are not unreasonably stubborn, do you think the rate of domestic violence will not drastically reduce!

Simple thing,
Husband: give me the key.
Wife: take the key
Case close

Ishilove:

The question should be why should she continue living with a beast?

Some women sef

Like she has so many appealing options.
Are you seeing the woman?
Who’s going to accept this one!

Jeon:


No wonder Ciara couldn't keep future and Beyonce Knowles didn't package well with her shapeless body, no wonder Jay-Z did what he did. And offset is till doing his best with other women on cardi b's plastic wide ass head.


Women should stop sacrificing their bodies to bring forth the seeds of ungrateful men.

What do you mean by sacrificing their body?
Child bearing or not, there’s a certain level of discipline that every human being needs to maintain. Even men end up being obese. Do you blame that on pregnancy too!
Just look at this 🥴. My grandma is in her 70s and in far better shape.
Man or woman, try to take care of yourself so that those around you will feel comfortable to be around you.

Jeon:

She got it from the previous pregnancies.

You don’t know what you’re saying.
Someone is malnourished and doesn’t take care of herself, you’re putting it on previous pregnancies.
My grandmother in her 70s is in better shape.
Just look at this 🥴

Omoawoke2:


Abeg mother hood aside, don’t bring that one here as an excuse.
Any woman looking like that bag of fufu can never be attractive to a man, and the man will be getting angry for no reason.
A woman should pls take care of herself and look good.

Haba! She will be helping herself by doing so.Na wa o 🥴

jaksmillioniar:
guy marriage is a spirit dat bring breakthru and success in life. I know a guy dat hace noting but he pregnanted his girl and marry her in a small way . Now d guy don blow and is doing well

Na dem be this. Creating poverty with useless thoughts.

vanbonattel:
Did Oshiomole suddenly realise there is need for financial prudence just because this minister is Igbo?

Ok this is not helping at all. Can’t we talk about this without mentioning tribe?

Obaofaba:
The fight has just begun.

When Wike used thugs against the apc, AA and other political parties in 2019 general election, ipob terrorists hailed him.

When Wike turned against Atiku, thinking he will support the Pandora poster boy, ipob terrorists hailed him.

When Wike through his support made the president to win Rivers State, he became their enemy.

When Wike allegedly rigged the gubernatorial election in favor of Fubara, they crucified him which I like as well.

But when the person rigged in didn't do the biddings of Wike and Wike decide to fight back, they are crying foul.

The thing is, ipob terrorists aka obidients aka nzogbu nzogbu wannabes are enemies of the country.

They are only happy when something bad happens.


No sugar-coating, I say it the way it is.

Sorry who’s Ipob terrorist? I thought the issue is about Rivers State?

Kobojunkiee:
The man and woman know what other important task she can busy herself with. I don't. His wife making money may not have been of importance to the man from the beginning so it is not my place to state that it should be.

It’s kinda stale and unbelievable; the part where you’re pretending not to know that earning their own money is hard for most women to do.
I wouldn’t settle for a woman who doesn’t work and earn her own money but most Nigerian women count themselves privileged to only contribute in doing domestic chores and household runs.

Kobojunkiee:
If you don't like how she does the cooking, even after letting her know your concerns, then the next best thing for you to do would be to take over the cooking duties so you can help minimize waste and she can maybe spend her energy on other things that need doing.

..so that she can spend her energy in making money. Why is it so hard for you to say it.

Samantha124:
If his family comes to the house, I'll only cook for them if I can because I'll be busy working so that I can financially support my own family when they require financial assistance... Because I'll be obligated to help them when the time comes.

Don't be bringing God into this because this is neither the religious section or church... And that same God said thou shall not fornicate, but y'all are fornicating... That same God also said men should be the providers while the women should be submissive... Immedialtely you stop fulfilling your duty as a man, I'll also stop fulfilling my duty as a woman.

I can't miss my job to cook for people who can cook for themselves... Their son will cook for them... I'm not obligated to ditch my job to cook for people who can cook... Must I I risk losing my job because of a mere surname that won't be making me any money?

Lol..you’re just letting me know you’re a child.

Samantha124:
I have no issues with the cooking, but you can't expect me to miss my job just to cook for people who can cook for themselves, especially if the husband wants nothing to do with my own family... He'll cook for them.

It's not like they'll pay me one million for cooking for them.

I'll be busy working so that I can have enough money to financially support my own family if ever the time comes for them to require financially assistance.

Remove bitterness and competition out of the context and see what Reno meant.
You’re your husbands priority, not your family or extended one. If your extended family is having financial issues, your husband is not obligated to help. Just as you are not obligated to cook and clean for your husband’s family in their different homes.
But if they come to visit you in your house, you will be honored and over-joyed to cook for everybody instead of your husbands younger sister.
You forget that your surname is now your husbands family name.
Competition for supremacy will not do you any good because God has designed it this way.

Samantha124:
What if i have my own money and I don't ask the husband for money before I buy the grocery?

I'd be busy working for my money and not having the time to cook for people who can cook for themselves, I'm not their chef.

Trust me, when the time comes, you’ll beg to cook for them.

youngsum:
Hello nairalanders rejoys with me


Today the 5th of December I received my first salary in life as a fresh graduate which I was employed as a school teacher last month.


Do you think I will be able to get marry with this salary by next December?

Ok we seriously need that girl that use to say poor men should stay far away from her🥴

Kobojunkie:
Maybe she wants to attend them now that she is back in Nigeria, so what exactly are you really afraid of?

Did she make a pact that she would never attend social gatherings or what ?

This one didn’t even read the story but already giving a strong opinion 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Jeon:
Sorry, she didn't want her daughter to be a single mother.


Willing to marry her doesn't count @ all.



The mother sense that it will be miserable life for the girl to be lockdown in marriage that happened in a mistake or likely abandoned to become a single mother, which sounds like a threat according to your gender.





I don't understand @bolded .How is the child theirs? thought man is said to own a child cuz the woman is a stranger?.

Your bitterness is too obvious. Try to make it a little indistinct so that people will not think you’re clouded with sadness and depression.

SweetBuns:
They say that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder", but honestly speaking there are certain calibres of men I will never go near no matter how hard they try.

To get straight to the point,

1. Short men
Oh my God.... I don't just know what to say about these sort of men. If I'm taller than you as a girl, then sorry but I can never see you as my second piece. You'll always be like a younger brother to me. No hard feelings.
Short men also have this irritating attitude whenever they see girls around, as if they're trying to compensate for their low height. And some even go to the gym and gets muscles.... But it just makes them look shorter like a 5 litre jerry can and irritating
Also, why in the world would I pick a short guy over a tall guy? I literally feel so protected and safe when I'm with a guy that is wayyyy taller than me (I'm 5'2 so my height is kinda average)... So ofc I'd want a tall man and not a mini man.
Imagine hugging a man and he's hugging your waist cause he's short ugh.
I wanna stand on my toes whenever I kiss him and strain my neck just to look at his face. No more no less.
Tall men also stand out more, they're far more attractive and I also want taller sons and daughters.
Who should the short guys date then? I dunno... But not me.
The bar starts at 6'0, but If you're like 6'2 or 6'3... I want your babiesss

2. Bald men
The only age where I think baldness is acceptable as a man for me is if he's like in his 50s or 60s. But if you're in your 20s-30s and you're already going bald.... It just irritates me low-key in a inexplicable way... Like why will a young guy have a hairline that receeds all the way to the middle or back of your head? Where did all your hair go? Gross
I also read somewhere that early balding is genetically inherited so that means my children too will suffer the same fate? God forbid.
My man ought to have a head full of hair well into his 60s, then we start talking about hair loss.

3. "Oju yo Bo" people
I didn't know the English term for this so I had to Google it. It's a Yoruba term for people whose eyes pop out of their sockets like that of a wall gecko. This is also something I don't like in my man.... I want his eyes to be like that of Henry Cahill... Neatly tucked inside and having small slit like opening.

Addition: so I just googled it and it's called prey eyes. I prefer the hunter one since it gives my man a piercing gaze and I just wanna hug him immediately.

4. Eyebrows
A man MUST have thick eyebrows. If you don't, I can't take you seriously

5. Men with bad posture

6. Men who supports man U

That last one was a joke but I'm dead serious about the rest. And I'm sure other girls will agree to some up there too.

You have all these list and you’re 5foot2inches😳!

Benwallt:
Fubara is the reason Wike is still with PDP. If Fubara spend one year as governor of Rivers State, then he is a strong man

Power is transient.
I love power because no one can hold it forever.
Ameachi was more powerful than Wike before. How e be now!
Wike can never pull what he did for Tinubu in River State again. He was able to do it because he was in power.
He hasn’t joined APC and Sim has nothing to do with it.
He knows that the moment he steps out of PDP, he’s done politically.

KillahPriest:
The PDP is a party of arrogant prîcks especially at the leadership level. They've been too comfortable for a long time hence taking the goodwill and common sense of ordinary Nigerians for granted. Those is the party with direct access to relevant ears are another big problem, 99% of them are hustlers looking for their stomachs, they have no good ideas to bring the party closer to the grassroots and they don't want to listen to what others have to say. When they saw that time was too far gone especially with Wike's gimmicks, they resorted to tribal bigotry especially that middle aged fôol Reno okoro and the big baby Theo. PDP is finished as a party, they can't lay a finger on Wike who caused their downfall and is still calling the shots from deep within the APC. The PDP should just pull the plug on its own life support because Nigeria is now basically a one party state

Why should Nigeria be a one party state when a ruling party has never had a stronger opposition before.
When PDP was in power, their oppositions were not as strong as the current APC opposition. So no!
Nigeria is NOT a one party state.
Unless you can prove any of these below 👇 as wrong, Nigeria is NOT A ONE PARTY STATE;
1). PDP as the runner-up in the last Presidential election scored the closest score to an eventual winner in any Nigerian Presidential election ever.
2). PDP as opposition governs 13 States currently, the most any opposition party has ever governed in Nigeria.
3). PDP as an opposition holds the most seats in the upper chamber than any opposition has ever held before.

Prigidypogodo:
PDP is dead and buried
SE was the last region holding the forte in pdp both online and offline.
as soon as they left, pdp became dead.

PDP as the runner-up in the last Presidential election scored the closest score to an eventual winner in any Nigerian Presidential election ever.
PDP as opposition governs 13 States currently, the most any opposition party has ever governed in Nigeria.
PDP as an opposition holds the most seats in the upper chamber than any opposition has ever held before.
Learn to be open minded when making political comments. Everything is not izogbu zogbu!

ILoveNG:


He is praying to God who needed to understand him, not the audience. He’s neither giving a speech nor performing a show.

The audience need to understand him too because at some point, they need to say ‘amen’ in unison.

socialmediaman:
If Nigerians could turn back the hands of time to February 2015

APC destroyed the judiciary and democracy in Nigeria

Pray for Nigeria 🇳🇬

Nigerians do not need to turn back any hand. Just have a united opposition. It’s as simple as that. I said this when LP and NNPN were flying out of PDP with greed and selfishness.

God is punishing them one by one for sabotaging PDP😆

garriAndsugar:

why cant Atiku take the blame game? must it be Obi or Wike?

Because Atiku legally won the primary ticket for the opposition party.
Look I don’t care who’s representing the party. All I knew was that a united PDP would have defeated APC.
Atiku was not chosen he was elected by delegates. Wike also bought a primary ticket and lost to Atiku. He should’ve kept to his promise by supporting whoever wins.
Mind you, Atiku is not a saint too. He did this same thing to Jonathan in 2011.
If PDP conducts a primary and Atiku or whoever wins should be fully backed.

garriAndsugar:

on a normal election how many votes can bayelsa deliver? kano can do 7times bayelsa.
If the merger cant remove mamood then expect another blow from APC

Look Mahmoud can only do so much.
Before the 2023 election, I was crying for a merger but LP supporters thought it was a joke.
Those numbers for APC in the presidential election was correct. I told people even before the election.
Anyone who understands numbers should know that the emergence of LP and NNPN did not weaken APC but PDP who are supposed to be the most potent opposition that would have dislodged APC.
Reno is simply saying that if we go into the election like this again, it will be an even easier victory for APC.
PS: Any smart person should know that Reno doesn’t support Tinubu one bit. He’s just upset that we allowed APC back into power after such a disastrous 8years and that’s thanks to Peter Obi and greedy Wike.

garriAndsugar:
If APC use the strategy they used in kogi and Imo election then no merger will work.

No merger will stop APC from rigging, let's tell ourselves the truth and stop deceiving ourselves like Omokri.

For those asking why they didn't rig Bayelsa, the votes in the state is even small and they will only need 25% which APC can get comfortably there.
After taking Kano from NNPP they would win easily

You lie sir.
Your excuse for Bayelsa did not track. APC cannot control everywhere. They need powerful people to do so. They clearly don’t have enough powerful people in Bayelsa as they do in Imo and Kogi, that’s why they lost Bayelsa.
The merger is the only hope to kick APC out. Reno is 100% right.

Kobojunkie:
Keep twisting yourself up with these lies.

The day una go confess to una self say una no different from aboki wey dey join queue for mass wedding ceremony na that day wisdom go don reach una.

Okay👋
Have a nice day.

Kobojunkie:
What has this to do with my response abeg!

2. You are maybe looking for too much financial security and overwhelmed by financial insecurity yet your eyes are on jobless and mostly skillless teenagers? What is this?

Ofcourse there are teenagers out there with low standards who are looking for anyway out of what they assume an already miserable existence. But what has A to do with B abeg or any of what I said?

3. You know what? I refuse to be burdened by your confusion in life. No point!

I only gave you a personal attestation. Men are either too picky or have other reasons unrelated to inability to finding a woman.
You already know this and you’re highlighting your points with bullets 😁