₦airaland Forum

AbuTwins:
There was a time Chelsea thrashed Arsenal 6-0!
Even Salah enter come score the 6th goal then!

The mumu is clear between us!

There was a time Arsenal have thrashed Chelsea more times.
For previous meetings, Arsenal is better.
For most recent meeting, Arsenal is better.
Your mumu na still first class.

AbuTwins:
He did that with Machinery! But he's so good no doubt!

Arsenal will always be 2nd!

They are waiting for Liverpool, Chelsea, Tottenham and Man U to be active before they get sense!

Waiting for a club they trashed 5 zero. Your mumu not get mate o🤦‍♂️

saphiere:
Prime suspects: Naira Marley and Sam Larry.
VDM should be called for questioning. He should tell Nigerians who bribed him to shift people's attention from "Justice For Mohbad" to "DNA".

DNA is a very vital part of the investigation.
That 50m reward might end up in VDM’s pocket.

emkz:
This is vague.

Atiku's support for Obi is conditional on if the new party nominates Obi. He also cited how he won the PDP ticket after an open contest.

Atiku did not say "if the new party zones the ticket to the southeast".

Atiku invariably wants Obi to join the alliance. Atiku did not say he would let Obi win the nomination. If Obi loses the nomination, he'd lose face and must support Atiku. If he leaves to another party after realizing the game, it would be too late.

Instead of forming a new party, let the opposition elements rally round Peter Obi in Labour Party.

That’s a terrible and selfish choice. Labour Party doesn’t have the name and the political weight in the geopolitical regions of the nation.
It’s a no brainer. Whatever decision they will come to must be propelled by PDP.
Any other party will give APC another easy victory.

Kobojunkie:
Angry ke? Your anger no be my own at all!

2. Nonsense! I can say the fk what I want when I want and it ain't none of your business or right to tell me how to converse with whom I chose to converse. You don't get to define in my case what constitutes polite language, ok? You can easily waka pass me if you cannot stomach my tone.

Which tone? You’re only loud when you’re typing words to an anonymous person😁
It is pointless to be displaying strength when the obstacle is not even facing you.
One can even insult the most powerful person in the world here and still go unscathed.
What you’re doing is weak.

Kobojunkie:
You thinking it is personal for me is all you and not me. I just wondered why the fk it should matter whether any one of them claims to be born-again in this situation.

Everything just dey make u angry.
Quit using fk and all those hideous words. It doesn’t fit you.
The person is politely talking to you and you’re just spreading everywhere with emotions and fk. Haba 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kobojunkie:
Stop using my mention to continue this yammering abeg! 🤔

None of this directly addresses any of the concerns raised in my previous post so why tag me in this? So, what gives?

You may not like it but that doesn’t mean I’m not right.

Kobojunkie:
LOL.. but all I did in my response was stress the exact same points you had made earlier....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am glad you at least note for yourself how completely void of anything, in reality, your own words truly are.

2. Not as complicated yet you have yourself tried several attempts to make it exactly that by pretending OP's actions need be based on what other women in the reason have done in their own marriages. You are not the brightest cookie over there, are you?

3. Up until this point in this entire conversation, I have not used the word Divorce or even hinted at it. OP asked how to cope and I have been careful to explain to her the how and the implications of such an action.

4. Yes, @OP, so long as he does not physically or verbally abuse you, the emotional and psychological trauma that has resulted from his lack of respect for you and cheating on you is your worth in marriage in the Nigerian context. However, if you dare to cheat on your husband, that man will unleash hell on you for daring to emotionally and psychologically traumatize him in such a manner.

Unfortunately the implications are different for men. It is not the only one though; responsibilities and so many other things are not the same as it is with women.
Many will imply that society made it so, but is it really society!
The reality is that one stands a good chance of missing out if one goes against the norm.
I know of men that believe they will only get married when they find a woman who’s ready to share equal marital responsibilities. They are still waiting. That’s what happens when one goes against the tide.
Society didn’t make it so. It is just the model.

Kobojunkie:
So, this ideal world does not exist yet here you are pretending to know and tell me about it?

2. What you are then is that, even now, OP is unable to work out her survival by her own hands. According to some, only a minority of women in Nigeria can escape the life of marriage to a cheating, disrespectful husband and this has to do with most women being unable to feed and fend for themselves outside of marriage — women are handicapped. OP who was alive and well before this marriage is now worth nothing more or better than this marriage; her survival now depends on the marriage as she cannot work to feed and fend for herself when marriage is no longer in the picture.

@OP, I hope you are paying attention. That marriage to a disrespectful cheating man is said to now define your existence as a human being.

Your words are sweet and sound like they are logical but are completely void of anything in reality.
I don’t want to say much because issues like this are not as complicated as you’re making it seem.
Divorcing her husband is not an option for her and most sensible women.
Otherwise she will not be here to ask questions.
She made it very clear that her husband provides and doesn’t abuse her.

Kobojunkie:
OP, here again, he reiterates the same point from earlier which is that your lot in life should be coping with a cheating husband who does not respect or value you as a human being because your very own friends may just be in the same boat as you.

Here's the kicker! If you dare to cheat on that same cheating guy you have there, he is likely to abandon your arse like a dirty rag and move on to marry another woman. And if one of his side chicks decides to elevate herself to wife status, that same cheating husband of yours might also abandon your arse like a dirty rag even then. If you think your stance is a righteous one, keep thinking!

Living with a man who does not regard you at all but maybe pays the bills and maybe throws money your way now and then when he is not thinking about his side chicks is better than living with disrespect and daily humiliation; that is the coping wife's motto, right? So hold fast to it, and continue...coping!

You are still not getting it.
In an ideal world, your suggestion may be right, but is that the reality?
I don’t think it is. Most women in these parts are married for survival.
You’re married to a cheating husband who’s taking care of you financially and doesn’t physically abuse you. Think rationally and stop dolling out unrealistic solutions.
I don’t think this woman will accept your advice of leaving because she wouldn’t come here to ask questions at all.

SaturnNick:
Trying to mingle and spend for people that are older and had more money than me

Hmm 🤔 this one eh…

ZIAZI:
Did Sim expressly sack them? If no, what then are you saying? The AG was redeployed to another department, he wasn't sacked.

Again, show me an official memo or a newspaper publication stating that Sim sacked them. Stop the assumption game and take a look at your sense if reasoning too. Dey play!

Dude, are you sure you understand official work place behaviours and etiquette at all.
This is a simple work place code.
Common sense will tell anyone in such position that the sack was imminent.
No sane person will wait for the hammer.

EreluRoz:
Yam. Get a good supplier from Niger state or Nassarawa state, Toto to be precise.

You have an agenda with this information 😕

Throwback:
This one is still bitter that the candidate he supported was defeated.

I’m telling you.
His bitterness is about the fact that an incompetent person won the election. It is painful sha, unless you don’t love Nigeria.

FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. If you know what that office entails and how enormous the work is for a state like Lagos with over 20 million people and unparalled vibrancy by any other state in Nigeria and whole of Africa, you will not ask this question sir. That's the engine room of the Governor's Office!

May God console his family and associates. At 55, he had so many years ahead but we can't question God who gives and takes life.
May God bless Lagos State and the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Check my signature for free stuffs!

Abeg get out!🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

ZIAZI:
They said Wike is politically done and I laugh!

These men are resigning because they believe in Wike. He is not a saint, but he has the capacity to deliver and he has done so over and over again. It was this same capacity that made Atiku, Tinubu, Kwankwaso, and Obi visit him to leverage his structure in Rivers State. The facts are there!

Wike is a big fish in Nigerian politics and today in Rivers state, he controls 90% of those at the grassroots.

You are the most naive person in the whole world right now.
These people are honorably being sacked by the Governor.
I still dey shock for your sense of reasoning 😳

Wolexyoshi:
I don't like Wike as a person though, but the picture is clearly stating that he (Wike) will win at last.

Aside being a Governor that is most likely to last for 4 years, Fubara doesn't have any grassroot support like Wike and no matter what, na when Dog get back up e fit kill Monkey according to an Idiomatic expression from the side I came from (Western Nigeria)

Las las, na Rivers people go suffer the consequence of the battle.

Mark this because you will come back to it later.
People like me and Fubara are usually underrated because we always appear feeble. Unknowingly to you lots, that is our strength.😎

Righthussle:
Sim okporlor eye suppose tell Wike say nothing wey you go do for this guy, wey go enter him eye.


Sim has ridiculed the peace the president of the federal republic of Nigeria brokered.

Wike left this men and chose a level 14 officer in finance ministry to lord over these strong men.

Wike go don learn the hard way.

Do you have sense at all!
How can a sitting governor have almost all his commissioners that he did not employ?
And you’re praying for God to bless u🤦‍♂️

TotoIsGud4boy:
Dumbos will raid this thread like EFCC to blame this current administration for the weak naira…. It’s like seeing this country fail gives them a high more superior to crack cocaine. Which gender complains the most ? Women!! That’s why the Agulu transgender with a feminine voice was sold on us and failed, hence the teeth gnashing and constant complains on this wonderful administration. Explaining to them the rot tinubu is cleansing in the system will be even easier to grasp by a 5yr old than this pathetic naysayers and sour losers suffering from yEAST infection. They’re still sensible people from the east tho, that despite being somewhat pessimistic just like all of us are (truthfully), still have hope in this administration and are willing to give Tinubu a chance, cos we’re sensible and good people with clean hearts.

Foolish and wise people see each other in the same way.
A foolish person will say a wise man is a fool while
A wise person will say a foolish person is a fool.
The difference between them is the physical reality on ground.

helinues:
Again, stop your as usual false allegations which I have corrected you severally. I condemned both security operatives and the Ipob as both of them were wrong.

If you are expecting me to condemn only the security operatives while ignoring the Ipo.bs behavior that led to the killing, then you are not interested to be sincere to yourself

No one in support of President Tinubu deserves to be talking about sincerity. No one!

Righthussle:
I know the discussion will be to beg Obi to accept to be Atiku's running mate in 2027. Atiku has taken PDP as a personal Presidential ticket market. I know he will promise Obi his support after serving only one term as President. But I know Obi will not accept that yeye talk.

Call it yeye talk but realistically, that’s the only way to oust the evil APC.
Stubborn and stoned-headed people are the reason why we have a failed group of people as president after 8years of massive failure.

nabiz:
yes it is better as a worker but not for someone with family. My tv is always on from 5:30 am to 12midnght

You dey get light for your house from 5:30am to 12midnight bros?

kestolove95:
Atiku ND bitter obi on same ticket can't defeat wike in a presidential race

Are you ok? Only Atiku defeated Wike with more than 70% votes in the last election.
Wike claimed to own the party but Atiku came in and flushed him out, you’re here blabbing nonsense.

Cotonou12:
My wife don carry remote since 4pm because of this program .

I no even watch Chelsea match today

Omo people nor get shame o.
Is this something to boldly say in public?

Kewtt:
Secondus sold out the southern agenda in PDP betraying Wike and all southerners in the process. This led to the forced departure of Obi and noncooperation of Wike.

Secondus ran to prostrate at Ota for intervention to save his national chairmanship seat ... But Baba Ota said no.

Secondus should get over his removal from office.

He was a nobody before Wike made him national chairman

Funnily enough, most of you supporting Wike are not members or supporters of the PDP. You clearly don’t have the Party’s interest at heart.
You are only in support of the man because he openly betrayed his party.
Wike’s time is coming. Watch out!

Putindbutt:
Mumu man, e go soon collect. This man thinks he's talking to his wife at home.

Just look at this one when never chop today calling the governor of a state ‘mumu man’.
And you say social media is not wonderful 🤦‍♂️

I bet you will shit yourself if this said man is standing in front of you.

tishbite42:
Tozo
Mou has a 100% UCL finals record
Played two, won two
Carlo and Pep can't boast about that

Arrogant characters like Mou will always have arrogant followers and mentees.
His name was not even mentioned up there and you found a way to bring it up.
That man cannot lace Ancelloti’s shoes talk more of Pep.

osigiepurr:
if e dey pain you, go and marry except you be Ózuòr. Infact, 1st class mumu.

Kids like you are scattered all over the internet speaking with their anus.

Even though you claim I’m the kid, you will never hear me curse.
I know you’re a matured looking man.
Stop acting like a child.
Calling someone you don’t know ‘mumu’. Act your age bros. You’re a married man for God’s sake 🤦‍♂️

osigiepurr:
Na mumu married man dey envy mumu Bachelor. If possible, both of them will remain Ózuòr forever.

Marriage sweet if you get the password. Wetin you gain if you no get Sabi wife for your house. Infact, unbillable kpekus go full everywhere jare!.

Na frustrated person dey talk like this. The funny part na say dem nor dey know, until words like ‘mumu’ and ‘ozuor’ dey flow for their mouth.

greypencils:
You don't know shit about me or my wife. Stick to what you know. Stick to your fucking world view without quoting me. Thank you.

Omo see bitterness😳
Married man dey say ‘fucking’. Sorry sir.

adebayosun02:
The first picture in the post show the quality of a man
The second picture shows the quality of a kid.

So, OP kindly decipher where u belong out of this two pictures

Keep deceiving yourself.
The second picture will likely live healthier than the first. You clearly already made your decision.

Curious345:
Ok. So where do you cook

There’s a kitchen in the flat.
The cabinet in there is divided for us 3.