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To a very large extent, what u are saying is true, even both quran and Bible says that we should neva disobey/disrespect our parent cos of d consequences or aftermath of doing so.. but if ma parents doesn't want me to get married to a girl I love and perceive to be d right one for me, dey must have good reason for me to switch her for a girl of their choice.. cos if their reason has to do with her poor background, and maybe a finance benefit dey stand to get from d parents of d girl dey want me to marry,.. instead of going against their wish.. will remain single for a long time ooo

emusmith:
Hmm... The guy that goes against his father's suggestion and comes to you for marriage... ( he is not in good terms with his parents, perhaps)


How would you view him?

Will he value your parents?

Charity, they say, begins at home.

My dear, save yourself the ache.
Many that treaded that path didn't return or did return with broken bones and hearts.

A Timely Advice To All My Gullible NL Sisters.

Saying that parents can neva mislead u is not true.. we've seen parent giving their daughter to a friends son just to bind deir friendship and enlarge deir business empire.. not putting d girls feeling/choice into consideration.. what will u call that? Wake up pal.. dis is 21st century..

kristina1:
Parental consent is very important in a marriage..
parents can never mislead you,they must have a reason before rejectin ur partner.

Elantracey: I hate it when guys think all girls are the same.

all of na get breast , ass and p**sy.. No be only size be d diff.. All of una na same..

dytbabe: Its so so annoying when a guy thinks the only thing that brings us to the relationship is money

Damn

In some cases not all abt money, some ppl with money are plain monsters

"in some cases like 2 of every 100 abi??

Well, mikels performance @ d world cup was below average but there is something most of our managers/coach has failed to realise that's why our midfield still lacks that special touches/moves.. Mikel is a defensive midfield not an attacking midfielder.. And if u keep expecting him to move forward instead of getting somebody like Haruna Lukman to do d job for him while he plays has dendensive midfielder ! We will keep arriving @ d same point..

Even if u study relationship as a course in school,u may not still be able to handle it, dats how deep it is .. Both parties just ave to adjust to something, u tolerate some , avoid some , even have to let go some of d things u love doing just because ur partner doesn't like them .. If ur partner is the type dat doesn't let go a of anything just to make u happy, u don't have a relationship, just quit.. #FACT 101#

O ALLAH! we have done our best,make our best enough to deserve ur reward;spare our lives and give us good health to witness and worship in another Ramadan. Give us sustenance from that which is pure,the spirit of contentment & character of gratefulness,modesty & wisdom. Make us better as you prolong our lives & protect us from that which is harmful. Amin. Eid Mubarak!!! Taqaballalahu Minna waminkun!!!

[i][/i][color=#006600][/color]O ALLAH! we have done our best,make our best enough to deserve ur reward;spare our lives and give us good health to witness and worship in another Ramadan. Give us sustenance from that which is pure,the spirit of contentment & character of gratefulness,modesty & wisdom. Make us better as you prolong our lives & protect us from that which is harmful. Amin. Eid Mubarak!!! Taqaballalahu Minna waminkun!!!

Alhamdulillah; may allah accept our supplication.. And grant us paradise as reward. Amin..

Alhamdulillah, dis is Good for Islam..

Nobody seem to blve whatever FG is bringing to d desk anymore, @ the end no Helicopter will be bought/hired, top official will keep all d cash released by FG for dese helicopters .. Even if dey bring dis helicopters in , mentainance is another big issue that's if one senator didn't even sell dem to liberia or libya later.. Foolish pple

Its obvious that we don't have competent leaders, all we have are heartless competent looters.. If u wanna acuse some1 of something u must have a proove .. Gudluck should take his position as the president of d entire nation, not the president of pdp members alone .. All citizen of d entire nation regardless of any1s political party.. , get a solution to our major problem "SECURITY" and stop looking for who to blame.. Super Learner..

Well said, ; islam say u shouldn't take ur own life and dat of any other person , and if u kill anybody misatenly (I.e man slaughter) u must take care of the persons family + one other person who is not a member of that family thats in nid of help.. May almighty God see Nigeria thru dis Hard time..

Appearnce is what attracts u to a woman, am not saying she must be dead pretty but she must be prsentable and neatly dressed. Its wen u get close that u get to know all other thing that makes u decide whether to replace the friend in the ship or shoud I say behind the ship to relationship.. Or maybe may the her character fit even badt that u have to drop d friendship self ..

glitest: Exactly!!... That is very true

@ "Na inside Ship dem build d two of dem sha"

u don get am.. Smart gurl..!!

McWhillion: Well exactly my type of girl, so if she's saying that to defend herself, it's nothing to be ashamed of.
sweetlemon should be happy she's gentle and intelligent and I think beautiful too.

u think she's beautiful...!!! U are not even sure if she is.. Mouth sealed !!

A girl that doesn't offer any reasonable advice to support d development of her home is useless, would have called her a teddy bear, but even teddy add beauty to d house.. And regardless of the quality and posses, she can't be described as being intelligent if she's not submisive to her husband... End of story..

McWhillion: My point exactly!
*shake my hand*
Are you responding to defend yourself by the way?

.... Lolz u don't have to ask her if she responding to defend herself , d way she take talk am don answer that question.. SWEETLEMON no mind pple wey dey ask dat kinda question dey are just looking for a way to defending demselves for walking around with an ugly chick. No be me talk am sha..

If u say dis questions are bad , den provide us with the kinda quesions dat should be asked on a first date .. As far am concern first date to me is more of a movie scene... All looking good, fake smile , fake attitude and all of that .. Ogbeni all of us na actors we be..!!

ARES: now feel free to go home and give ur boyfriend or would be husband hell.... awww thats what u want..... kukuma collect Jesus number

.. And if she can't get his number she should wait for christ's second coming.. Super learner..

glitest:
You me Woli?....I fear oh

Friend zone was made for a reason..Never wanna loose that friendship....Everything changes once it involves into relationship, and it can never get back to it where it was, if its ends up not working out.

lolz, d ship is still dere now, no be only friend u go commot come replace am with relation..

Nice write-up, dat disclaimer is d part our normal naija babes need to work on.. Cos some of dem no even understand relationship.. Dey just want a guy that get dem gift alwaz , call dem that pet name alwaz , alwaz make dem smile, .. Alwaz is not d word, it should be most times ..

Well most of u shouting hell 'N0' are in similar situation if not d same or even worst situation, most guys/chicks out there cheats and we all know that.. Cheating is badt for both realtionship and marriage , but dis is a very sensitive issue, if u leave ur husband cos his cheating on u, u will rue decision if d next guy is worse.. Just pray and keep talking to him and if there is something u are not doing that's attracting him to dose girls outside , guess u should ask him and start doing it to save ur marriage/relationship, cos all dis girls wey dey shout NO for here no get husband and will gladly take a sacrifice to a T-junction to become one alhaji's second wife. And to guys; u don't have to cheat on her and if it does happen, u don't have to tell her cos no mata how matured she can be , no woman can stand her husband using her so cherished *D**k* on another woman.. Make God give all of a good heart so we will be contented with what we have.. Peace yall..

Emi omo ala,
Omo Orona , omo oju bani re o dekun eni, aseyin deni o wopo, sa sa eniyan ni feni leyin bi a ba si ni ile , tja teran a ma feni loju eni.. I rep Ilaro (Egbado peeps). Omo ogun , akogun!! If u can't speak ur local dialect u don miss road..

Well alcohol isn't bad.. chilled bottles of beer after a hectic day will not hurt a brother, it will help him relax well..,, and some shots of hard drink to boost excitement @ d club isn't bad either.. Just be modest about it.. Drink responsibly ..that's all...

iroyin
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chelsea will win the match.

[size=8pt]i think cech is the best 4 now[/size]

hi people whether this two will make a perfect cuople or not that should not be our headache. they both know what they want from each other. so let them have fun,

A middle aged lady had a heart attack and she was taken to the hospital.while in the operating table, she had a near death experience.when she met God she asked, "is my time up"? God said "no" you have another 43years,2month & 8days to live.
Upon recovery,the lady decided to stay in the hospital to have a face lift(like that of micheal jackson), liposuction(removal of fat from her body) & a tummy tuck(flat tummy). she even changed her hair colour. she was discharged from the hospital & on her way home she was killed by an ambulance.
On meeting God once againg she demanded, "i thought you siad i have another 43years?why didn't you prevent the ambulance from hitting me? why? GOD REPLIED, "my dear daughter ,i didn't recognise you, so that's how she died before her time,