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Thales01:
We celebrate mediocrity in this country and it is shameful that people elected into government positions to better the lives of the masses now partake in it.What commendable achievements has she amassed that afforded her the privilege to meet with the governor?.It is a shame that participation in an inane show is now deemed an achievement worthy of recognition by a whole governor of a state.
It is equally absurd how many Nigerians go gaga over these wanna be celebrities even to the extent of showering them numerous gifts for just staying idly in a house for one month.If you do a background check,you wouldn't surprised to find out that most of the Nigerians who spend their hard earned money to procure gifts for these bbn housemates are struggling to keep body and soul together in the dismal economic state of the country.
It is a shame.

You have said it all...
And yet those who have achieved great success educationally & intellectually are never seen or heard of...
A nation on reverse gear...

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

Wow!
While I feel bad with what you're going thru, I equally will say that there are always 2 sides to every story.
Lemme say that it is totally wrong and unacceptable for a man to disrespect a woman, to say the least, no to talk of his wife in that manner.
The way you feel right now is 'normal' and I dont blame you...but see it from the perspective of the cravings outside might be worse off; so dont!
The fact that you're not jobless and you bring something to the table should definitely count and that is a plus. Where I'm going to scold you from is the arguing...since you know he wont let issues go without a fight, why do you bother to argue with him? DON'T!!!
Couples argue and fight, that's normal, but when you see it is degenerating to that point, please let go and walk away; it is pointless.
I am a man and will tell you this...he will come around! We have our moments, and this is clearly one of he's. Stay focused on your child and home and continue to trust in and pray to God.
People usually dont know the value of what they have till it is gone...

mercyviv:
Well, they pushed it front page. It must be news worthy to whoever did it.

I guess

And this is supposed to be news, how?

Nice move

Good for him

Condolences

Ok

Clearly you are not matured and not ready for a relationship

skypper:
The source of many Diseases and the Reason of why Diseases refused To Go Away. If you want to enjoy Good Health Please Study Proper Food Combination. *Why?*
Because when Food is properly combined, every Organ in the Body Enjoys. However, if Food Is wrongly combined, All Health abnormalities arise. The Liver suffers so much. In some cases, it gives up (Death) or serious Illnesses occurs.

Millions of people enjoy Beans and Ripe Plantains. As a matter of Fact, Beans and Ripe Plantains are so Delicious that hardly you see anyone who resists it. However, It is one of the most wrongly combined Food.

Cooking Food like Beans with Unripe Plantain has No problems. In Fact, It is a Perfect Combination which makes digestion easy. However, The Same Plantain, When It Ripes becomes Fruit. Check The Difference.

A. Unripe Plantain Is Not Sweet.
B. You Can’t Eat It Raw.
C. Ripe Plantain Is Very Sweet.
D. You Can Eat It Raw.

This Explains that Heat or Fire turns the Sweetness, known as Fructose to *Acidity *. Not just Acidic, but Highly Acidic.

Trace Any Disease, It Boils down to Acidity. Check Most Pain In The Body, It Is Caused By Acid. Acid Forming Foods are extremely Dangerous and should be avoided if you want to enjoy Good Health.

Even though Foods Like Beans are also Acid Forming During Metabolism. However, such Acid is called PH Balance. (Acid/Alkaline Balance) They are good provided you digest them well. Unless you are Allergic to such.

The difference here is that, when Fruits are damaged by fire, They become poison to the body. Who suffers? The Liver!

Here is the Problem: Beans takes between 5 to 7hrs to Digest Properly and leave the Stomach.
★While Ripe Plantains take Just 3Hrs.
★No Fruit Digest in the Stomach. But In the Terminal Ileum.
★While Beans Digest In the Stomach.
★The Ripe Plantain Doesn’t need Pancreatic Enzyme to Digest.
★While Beans Need. When they are combined, The Ripe Plantain tries to Leave the Stomach to Travel to the Terminal Ileum where It Digests but the Beans Won’t allow it. This struggle goes on for long which is unknown to the owner of the Body until Fermentation takes Place. As you may be aware, Fermentation Is the source of many known diseases today.

Therefore combining Beans and Ripe Plantain is Called *Delicious Poison.*
I will advise we avoid Cooking, Baking, Frying and Boiling Ripe Plantains… It is best to eat it RAW.


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http://skyppers.com/know-beans-plantain-unhealthy-food-combination-can-kill/

Wetin be the source of your information?
Well just so you know, you're on YOUR OWN!!
Beans and ripe plantain all the way ooo

Kingdollar28:

my guy my guy!!
U nyashed d girl


Tell us d truth.... She doesn't like condoms.... Finish dat part

Hahahaha...your comment just made my day.
No kind the OP, he never tell the real story

JasonScoolari:
It seems the Op is under Tinubu's payroll....

Which one is "African Political Living Legend"? Do they know him in Gabon or Mauritius?

An "African Political Living Legend" that cannot fork out N300 to buy Toothpaste for his rotten teeth.

Hahaha...
You just made my day!

Respect.

Hey good looking...

That guy ain't going no where...!
He's sticking with England....not with this backward entity called Nigeria.

JackOfAllTrades:
Nairaland is home to some of the most negative minded Nigerians you can find in the country. Frustrated modafukas above me. No direction, just plain lazy and ignorant.

You just earned my respect.

**I duff my hat...**

sulasa07:
Hospitals full of coma-patient,he should go there to wake them.I remember when Adeboye went to one hospital to give them money,I'm sure I remembered clearly that he didn't do one miracle to heal just one person but,inside their churches and private locations,they do miracles and wake dead body.Keep on deceiving the gullibles

You just earned my RESPECT!!

Nigeria...a nation on reverse gear.

Serves him right...

abumeinben:
Wow..

The DISCOs got it wrong. Laying off engineers in core positions and fixing up non technocrats, just like FASHOLA heads the utility industry, is the biggest mistake ever.




I smile. I smile again.
But we're likely saying same thing

Very well said...you're both saying the same thing.
That's what you get when you ask an accountant to do the work of an electrical engineer...
Nigeria...a nation on reverse gear

�% non-negotiable

So one cannot live a single day in this country without bad news...?��

And this is news because na president daughter?
Abeg eee!

Ok...in other news?

daddytime:
Judging from your narrative, it is safe to say the young girl is a 'beauty without brains' whatever that means, and I'm sure her beauty was what got you hooked before you tasted the pie and subsequently realized she wasn't so smart.

Bro, I'm going to be straight up with you like I always do man...Selfish and self-centered is what you are (in bold).

You never hear say meat wey person no dey chop say him no suppose use teeth share am?

Oh because she was pretty, undemanding and mgbekeish, you decided to hold on to her, leading her on, and only started being honest to her about your plans when you had started making your travel plans and thus realized she'd be too local for your new status?

My bro, if that girl were my sister, and you had the effrontery to come to my house to spill what you just did here, you wouldn't have been able to use that visa of yours, and I'd have personally aborted the pregnancy with my bare hands. What insult.

If she's not good enough for you to wife, she shouldn't have been good enough for you to dickk and of course mother your baby(s).

This is even worse than a baby mama thingy, this is a baby factory one.

All the story about you making it clear to her that you won't be marrying her are just some cunning silly afterthoughts of a chronic user who had a game plan from the get-go.

There's something I'll tell you now if you like take am if you no like leave am.

I just hope and pray you won't come back looking for and begging this lady in the future and by what time it'd have been late already because you'd pay for your bid to selfishly destroy this young girl's life and dump her. For whom I ask after one o'clock?

Look around you and you'd find examples of cases like this where the man would come begging after years when his recompense would have been served steamy hot.

You no see GEJ and PEJ? How you see dem upon say PEJ dey break bottle with English?

You had better retraced your step, my friend, learn to love that babe, marry her and start a family with her or else you go regret am o.

Forget all these your later later excuses abeg

You've said it all!!
Respect

uzohrome:
The gentle man on the cert , the Boy friend?

Your eyes sharp!!

Nigeria we hail thee!!
A nation on reverse gear

DarkJeddi:
Seems you have nothing left to say but repetitive expletives..
Stay in your El Dorado and let us be,we like it like that..
If we choose to forgive him,it's our Prerogative..
Our Team,Our Player, Our Forgiveness..
Why you come dey drink Panadol for Nigerians headaches?

You clearly lack understanding and your way of thinking is utterly myopic. What else would I be expecting from someone who has a preemptive mind...totally immature in putting (critical) issues in perspective.
Stop thinking with your heart and start thinking with head!!

DarkJeddi:
Whatever else we might be as a Nation,

We still appreciate our Sports Heros and are ready to forgive and instead choose to remember the OVERWHELMING good moments he as a Player has brought to the Nation..

We FORGIVE HIM and we love him like that..

Like he said,he's human and he can make mistakes..

Seems to me your Prime and Proper Country has a lot to learn on being appreciative of Heros that have served them well..

Hmm...this is the exact reason Nigeria is the way it is - a nation on reverse gear.

DarkJeddi:
When you view a statement from a biased perspective,

You can always read whatever meaning you like from the said comment..

He's not to be blamed for the frustrations of the country you find yourself..

Well your point is valid, only issue being I dont live in that country...
Speaking of which, if he dares to speak in that manner in the country where I live...he's done. Literally done! He's footballing career is done...
So again, you wont understand cos you guys have come to accept wrongs as a norm in that country...smh

[quote author=martinsrichie post=79878201][/quote]Na so your sense carry you reach?