₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Since you got a teenager pregnant, you have lost your peace of mind. Explaining everyday and trying to recruit more. Indeed the guilty runneth when no one pursueth. All of this because some young girls said they will rather marry men in their age brackets.

But you don't need to stress it because in a 3rd world country like Nigeria, there would always be families who give out their teenage girls to men 2x her age for her university education to be guaranteed.

Sha send her to the university like you promised now she is pregnant for you. She has kept her side of the deal, please keep yours.

Hi Poco, nice take as always...I've frequently observed people don't practice what they preach and preach what they don't practice. Reality is based on interest and what works. Most young girls and their age mates under thirty hardly give each other "their best" or and believe in their choices, maturity or readiness etc...people banter it but it's not commonplace and those that did weren't posting they would on social media...the girls can simply accept their mates in any form of commitment that works. Funny I've seen ladies in thirties that have settlement standards...it's nobody business what they did "supposedly younger" except the man that's interested probably. Happy holidays

Batman2412:
I feel you bro. I just joinedtrustbanc via cowrywise last night. Their system and rate make sense die

Thank you. Please how often is the payout, can it be flexible like weekly or monthly? What's the annual rate or monthly rate. Thanks again

pocohantas:
I like this Onovo dude. I am not even following him, but his posts keeps following me.

I have avoided teaching anyone to drive.
My friend asked me to teach her when she inherited her father's car, but I chose to pay for driving school. She drives well now, though whenever we are out and she needs to parallel park or reverse from a tight corner, she gives me the key.

As for me, I learned to drive at 17. By 21 I was doing interstate trips. By the time I met him, na only tipper I no fit drive. So nothing spoil.

Interesting Poco. So who taught you at 17? While doing interstate you do so alone or drive family members? Good thing was security was way better then

helinues:
Please, let's remove emotions from this discussion.

How are the christians in Nigeria being persecuted. Someone should explain to us logically.

How?

"One witness just raised the Nigerian Supreme Court’s upholding of the unjust conviction and death sentence of Christian farmer Sunday Jackson in clear self-defense. It’s become an international outrage."

Beverlyjean:
A foolish simp has saved this one for now

They can still separate..Queen Bbnaija is now with her hubby again right

Maeve7:
Do you know such a person?

What changes would you make as a one-day-president?

Would you please tag someone?

Paradigm shift... return power to people, long term plans and choosing to help ourselves rather than expect help to come to us.


Really not consistent interacting with members here , just my respect Onegai

Onegai:
Uhmmm...

Kpboy1, thorpido, Zemaye

Over to y'all

Hmmm responded

Maeve7:
Just saw an old thread and thought it would be nice to play again.

Please answer the questions and tag a person to answer them too.

1. What qualities do you admire in people?

2. What is your super power?

3. If you could change one thing about you, what would it be (character or physical trait)?

4. If you could be someone else for one day, who would you like to be?

5. What advice would you give your children or niece/nephew for choosing a spouse?

Cococandy, Onegai, 1stGenAmerican

1. Living with gratitude, intentional with leaving an inspiring legacy. Sense of meaning and purpose .
2. Critical thinking and arriving at peaceful compromises in unpredictable situations.
3. Knowledge is a curse, being content with not understanding certain things.
4. A leader that can correct certain sad situations in the country... President
5. To choose a partner that lives with gratitude, grateful mindset.

Onegai:
Sure, hit me up

kindly say hi tonyreal675@Gmail.com thought of sending a Twitter profile, settled for this. thank you

Onegai:
I don't have access to my email account I used on this forum, anymore.

Alright, I have thought of a quick alternative if you're open to it. How's your visa arrangement going?

Onegai:
Hello, hope you're good.

Yes I am. Hope you're as well. My opinion: there's a somewhat balance between emotion and logic, it's like a two edged sword...I feel you blended it well in how you perceive and interprete life...wish I could go through most of your posts on male/female relationships... happy to send a Inbox if that's okay. Good evening.

Onegai:
Well, I met my ex, 2 weeks later, we started dating and we dated for 4 years. Since then, nothing has worked out. I meet a guy, in 2 weeks if we start dating and in a month, if I tell him I love him (plus I'm a people pleaser, so my actions match), he thinks I'm desperate. What my ex loved about me is what every gut after tells me scares them: my openness. So I start playing my cards right and it works: I get into a relationship. I'm emotional, and brother flees as if demons are chasing him, forgetting how nice I was and that he had issues too. So I'd rather find someone who knows this and is willing to accept me, rather than pretend. That's compatibility. Love is what my ex had for me.

Wow long time back, you're an amazing person lol ...not wishing to take you back this memory...I stumbled on the advice to "married lady needing se.x" not sure how I feel but your writeups and relatable. Nice meeting you. I'm largely anonymous on social media

Onegai:
Rich men cheating is really about buying a product. The poorer the society, the less morals its people can afford. Which is what infidelity is in Nigeria: poverty-alleviation program. It's only daft immature guys who believe their Affair Partner loves them seriously.

Which is why I'm always irritated when I see Yul Edochie and Rude Boy (P-Square). I've spoken to my male relatives their age and older and they're all in unison:

"God forbid I impregnate any girl or start raising any baby at age 40+, when I should be getting ready to finally enjoy my money".

Especially that Yul Edochie. Man is going to one corner of his neighbourhood to weep silently.

You always know when they're full of regret but their ego won't let them go back (so that they don't become laughing-stock): that's when the public show of love with the new babe will be plenty. Serious flaunting. just know the tears cried into their pillows are hot. The babe herself will be doing extra to cover up the growing feeling that she messed up but is now stuck with an older man and if the ex-wife doesn't give a shi.t anymore, then she has nothing to motivate her and feed her own ego.

You think I'm lying? Look at Bianca Ojukwu or any other woman in that setting. They know that not only are they wasting their prime with an older man, but the minute he croaks, his older kids are coming for even her pots and cutlery that he bought her. Wounded cubs turn into vicious adult lions.


Go to countries like Russia and Eastern European countries, those babes are not marrying for love, they're hardened. Same with Asians.

Iceland and Greenland have the lowest infidelity rates, because they're countries where opportunities for men and women are somewhat equal. So as your man dey step out, you too are following suit.

PS: thanks for the kind words.

I like your submission, captivating and intuitive. So in Iceland and Greenland sex workers are scarce to offer mostly men one night stands or quickie on request? Thanks

Beverlyjean:
Do u even understand what he wrote ...he actually supports the redpill... the redpill movement is not hating women, its differentiating between the women that deserves to be provided and protected and the ones that don't deserve it ... imagine if that pigeon was getting those stuffs and the female pigeon is approached by another pigeon that have a full built nest and female pigeon leaves the one thats working had to provide for the one that has a well built nest ... that's what most women do these days ...simply shows that pigeons are even more loyal than most women... reason he said society is going down and he can't be a simp

wow... you're smart...a lady right?

folake4u:
This Cheating PR you people are trying to force down our throats is exhausting.

Give it a rest. Gosh!!!

...Just to mention, I recently interacted with women or young ladies that are proud to getting favors from men lusting after them...the ladies sometimes are most unwilling to give in, or use tactics at their disposal to resist...but will gladly collect benefits thereof. The point: such women are enablers to cheating, yet all fingers are pointed at men?. Who is at fault, the "requested or the accepter"? Arguably, most men hardly resist a naked woman just as women hardly resist freebies. I'm hardly here , just stumbled on a few of ur comments...I may not have all the correct context. Apologies if that is the case.

folake4u:
They can't take what they dish. Let a woman cheat on them first, alfa meil go dey wiggle like earthworm. Mtchewww!

Hi folake, funny lady you are, learned and go-getter.. May I ask a question. A lot of stereotypes exists that differentiates women from men stemming from historical, religious, cultural and biological/emotional factors. Do you think men and women comparison adequately factors in each sex uniqueness with emphasis on sexuality (e.g. cheating)? Warm regards

Michaelspresh:
Dey play..if you’re in Abuja,try driving around beer barn in wuse 2
You will see fulani girls on Hijab standing on the roadside
Highest 30k..you dun carry one

Hmmm you sabi town well. Based in Abuja too. I'll like to ask you a private question ❓

cbrezy:
Is this playing

Who and who are you referring to as Nigerians in this situation?

No mind the idiot, insecurity is finishing Nigerians and he's focused on outside for hippocritical reasons

SouthEastFacts:
And Tinubu pegged the dollar in his budget to $750?

Each day reveals what the best of Yoruba brains are capable of.

🤣🤣🤣

Is it about the progress of Projecg Nigeria or about being Yoruba or Igbo?? this mindset needs to stop completely.

Michelle55:
Lol, I thought I was alone in this. Glad to have a partner🙈

Na wa o...let the men breeve

lordm:
Majority of Nigerians know that the strike will be called off. Things are expensive now. Before I use 2500 to fuel my car for a week, now it's 9000. There are some things I don't buy anymore. Tinubu please do something

No lies, you use a Corrolla

maureensylvia:
The reason why she got upset could be self-esteem and feeling rejected.

Who knows? she must have been in her ovulation when she came to ur place

what will she do when pregnancy enters

ahnie:
I think open marriage should be encouraged in Africa.

Make I nor even mention cuckold abii dominatrix.


E go spice marriage up especially if your partner is wide.
Variety go become the spice

Nice you're expressive on social media. Hope you're this way too with your man. Cheers

pocohantas:
All the states in the SS except Bayelsa.
All the states in the SW except Ondo.
All SE states except Ebonyi.
No Northern state.
No middle belt.

I have been to the FCT. How many is that? I am too lazy to count mehn.

I drove to all the SS states. I was young and adventurous then. Mention road trip and I am out. As long as I see where to put tyre of the car, we move.

Interesting, you had company with you or each drove separate cars on convoy?

PrimadonnaO:
I once-upon-a-time thought this advice was smart.

But it's so wrong.

Wisdom of the world!

The guiles of satan.

*****************
You can't deliberately choose sin.

It isn't the best to bring a child into the world to deliberately deny him the joy and benefits of growing in a proper home.

You'd have ended up contributing to some dysfunction in society.

Wait to do things the right away.

If you desire to be married, God says that none shall lack their mate.

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The best advice a single woman can imbibe is to not live out her life manoeuvring for marriage.

Use your single years greedily to know God more & develop yourself.

You wrote well. God bless you and help us find good women too.

LegendHero:
You can use Flutterwave app called “Send”. I’ve been using it for quite a while now.

But you need to have a USA bank and they use ACH for the deposit. It usually reflect in 1-3 days.

Rate is like that 787 naira to $1 as at yesterday that I used it.
I predict normal banks will soon start offering same thing too soon.

Bro you can buy at black market rate and convert higher on Gtb? I'm not sure if black market has reached the rates I'm seeing on News headline recently

sharone21:
Meristem @Lagos for Nigerian stocks

Bamboo for intl stocks

Thank you Sharon. Please why is there hype here for Morgan capital or is it just cost of transactions?? Kind regards

OboOlora:
Call him AloyinLoko
Men like to be praised for their sexual prowess even if they can’t perform well🥲

Lol...is this an assault on manhood

Tareq1105:
Electricity Workers Union are Ajaero boys but if they throw Nigeria into darkness, I tell you with Tinubu, they would be charged for Economic Sabotage.

By going to court? Can't it be prevented

GambaOsaka:
People just Dey underestimate this man.
The man is an epitome of wisdom.
He couldn’t have said no more subsidy without having planned it out.
Education, exposure and experience is the difference between Tinubu and all out past leaders.

Please any update about the electricity workers prevented from strike

Acekidc4:
Every Body will soon fall in Line and Comply with the Federal Government on this issue of Fuel Subsidy.

NLC Chapter of South East can do their worst. Very soon they too will Comply.

Hope electricity workers don comply Dat one na Gbege ooo

pocohantas:
They come in with below basic skills and want to earn dollar/pounds. A friend kept telling me she can do what I do. Is it not Excel, is not business analysis. A partner had a vacancy and I sent it to her. She read the requirements and developed headache. I tried hard to ginger her to apply, she didn't. She done see Excel run.

Hi Poco, can you share excel role with me too?
I feel the competition is stiff BUT I'm way above average user. Not just having used VBA, I apply very complex formulas with ease! Thank you.