Uckroot:
You can get respect doing ANY job in the world.
First you have to respect yourself.
Make sure your dressing is always neat and sharp and you eat a lot of vegetables OR drink a lot of water to keep your skin fresh.
Like the person above said; use good perfumes.
If you can perfume oil that lasts 24+ hours on the skin it’ll be even better.
MOST IMPORTANTLY Find time to work out a lot too so you can gain an intimidating bulk.
People will recognize you more and know that you are better than where you are right now. Some might approach you with better opportunities.
Nobody likes seeing a big man in small trousers.

Resist the urge to overly relate with people around that can’t think above this current level. Don’t engage them in rubbish talks because they will slowly influence you to remain at this level.
Always have a vision of what you want your life to be. Don’t allow anything distract that mental picture.
Always maintain an elite mindset and brush off whatever people have to say... infact laugh when they say it and internalize the pain to think of better opportunities you can take advantage of.

Forget women for now bro. Like who like you, anybody wey look down on you cos you be gateman, disregard them. Most women especially the educated ones won’t want anything to do with you....because we have a 3rd world View of security guards. (Which is why the first point is most important).

If you have a lot of time off work you can find a martial arts class to enroll in, or hey there is YouTube you can practice on your own.... it will help you sharpen your focus and always maintain a razor sharp mind...it’ll also help elevate your mind from your small immediate environment.

Thank me later.

You’ve said everything brother.

AnonyNymous:
Shared with permission:


When you think about it, God himself represents the ultimate dream of mankind; He's immortal, he knows everything there is to know, he is all powerful, and completely independent of reality itself. Are these not all the things we wish for?

Average human lifespan is around 75 years. During this time we have our own struggles, hardships, and problems. If we could live forever, all our problems would become insignificant due to having an eternity to solve them. Or better yet, if we could have allmighty power, we could solve any problem instantly. But even without these things, if we only knew the solutions of any problem that falls on us, that would be all we need, right?

What is the one thing promised to us in most holy books? Paradise. Eden. Džennet. A place of our choosing where we are eternally young, and where we have all we need. Forever. All we could hope for and all that we ever wanted, in that one place. Why is this repeated, over and over again in so many religions? Because these thing are solutions to our problems. Escapes from problems. Wishful thinking. God himself manifests Himself as the apex, the absolute peak of our desires, a being so wise and powerful none come close. Why? Because we want to be like that.

It is exactly in these wishes that our nature comes to sight. We want power to compensate for our weaknesses, we want knowledge to compensate for insecurities, for regret of missed chances, to stop the feeling of helplessness, and to become what we always wanted to be. A person loved by all, successful in every way, without equal and at the top all. These primitive desires are the reason we can believe that all these things are possible, when they are absolutely not. Regardless of our call in life we can't be loved by all and there will always be people who are more successful in some fields.

Though God appears as a dominant father figure, it is exactly because he is the manifestation of desires of man that he can't be real. Reality and logic itself reject the existence of God. Immortal, all powerful, all-knowing being cannot exist without contradicting itself on every step of it's way. As there were thousands of tribes, nations, countries and empires, there existed with them thousands of deities, Gods, saviors and holy protectors. Taking countless forms and shapes, but all with one goal, to be a model of perfection. To be something to strive for. Without man, there is no God, but without God, there exists a man. A true man, free of religious dogmas and social stigmas, open minded and striving for a true desire of man - humanity. Because being a good person has nothing to do with religion, only with yourself. Accepting yourself for who you are, and striving to better yourself, all while respecting others and helping when you can is Eden. That is the true Paradise we can create, without God, with our own two hands. The final and truest wish of reason and humanity, celebrating it's victory over the primitive and basic desires we have. That is the battle of good vs evil, God vs Satan, it's all us, in ourselves and our struggle to be...a human.

Post of the day. Nice.

MrPresident1:
[b]There at least two 2 distinct groups of people in Africa, the aboriginal Africans who are the real Africans, and the converted Africans who are not originally Africans. Generally speaking, Negroes are not Africans, the original core aboriginal Africans are Hausa people, Fulani people etc. Even within supposed monolithic ethnic groups like the Igbos and Yoruba, there are still these two distinct groups, the aborigines and non aborigines.

The non aboriginal people do not have the same spiritual make up with the aboriginal people who are the real Africans, unfortunately, because of phenotypic contiguity, as we are all black, it is not so easy to pick out immediately who is who.

The non aboriginal people are culturally superior to the aboriginal people (QUOTE ME ANYWHERE) they brought civilisation and learning to the aboriginal heathenistic Africans! They came from heaven, Oduduwa came from heaven, superior beings who came from heaven!

Today, I make bold to declare that if you are not drawn to the Abrahamic faiths you are a heathen and an aboriginal African! and you are inferior!

The spirit of a man guides him, if the spirit in you guides you to the tradition of your fathers, there is nothing wrong with that; the aboriginal African spirit guides you to the culture and tradition of your origins, while the non aboriginal spirit guides you to solace in the culture and traditions of your abrahamic origins.

Every man gravitates towards the inclinations of the spirit inside him.


Enough of bullshiit in the name of knowledge! [/b]

Sir, no offence, but I think you are slightly stupiid.

Pls, go check yourself.

oduastates:


There is nothing long term about looking inwards and doing the right thing.
Japan made leap than 10 years and by the 50th after coming out of isolation,was already a first world bully
China did same in 10 years
South Korea did it in 10 years.
First of all, y'all need to cure yourselves of the insanity of those 2 Christianity and Islam.
Anyone who cannot see those 2 for what they are csn never see the solution to Nigeria's problem as it is.
your minds have been colonised.
Next time when your governors are wasting precious little money on non economical Roads on a side streets, tell them to buy tractors instead.
Instead of heading to church, go and picket the national assembly and drive our all the 500 idiots there, who consistently consume $1 billion dollars of the precious little funds available.
Instead of donating your money to those churches and mosques, gather it together and use it to build schools hospitals and other facilities your children can use

They are all useless

Words on Marble.

ttomexy:
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THANK YOU.

FOLYKAZE:


A deified God is already personified.

There is no God but that thing that is called God which exist. Therefore God exxist.



God is not a particualr entity but tag given to entities. That entity is God and exist.



This is not just about calling the name or tagging it but attributing any form of worship, reverence and prayer to it. Therefore it is remains God rather than earth.



Are humans not deities?

Are humans not worshipped or seen as divine entity?



Atheist believes in God.


I don die

Your arguments most times can be so annoying. It's like as if I'm hearing a child scratching a metal on a tarred road. Damn!

B.D.Os are needed urgently in one of the top most real estate firms in Lagos.

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A top Real Estate Firm is in need of the following employees:

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datalossvictim1:


I honestly think that when an African practices his own religion, it gives him a sense of superiority and power and also moral fear. This does not mean that the traditional religion itself is perfect or closed to evolution.

Haha I support guru maharaji.

Seriously,you just won my heart with this comment of yours.

Pls,all those interested should include the subject when sending their C.Vs via mail. Thank you.

A top Real Estate Firm is in need of the following employees:
1)Marketing and Sales Team
2)Head of Sales and Marketing Team
3)Legal Adviser/Company Secretary.

1)Marketing and Sales Team
Personal Requirements:
A)Self-motivated and enthusiastic with excellent communication and relationship building skills.

B)Closing of property sales effectively.

C) Presentable individual,well dressed with a friendly demeanor.

Qualifications and Experience Requirements:
A) Achieved a minimum of first degree with an experience btw 1-2 years or more in related position.

B) A full driving license is an advantage.

Interested candidates should kindly send their C.Vs to recruitment@abrahamholmes.com or dolapo@abrahamholmes.com.


2) Head of Sales and Marketing Team.

Responsibilities:
A) Candidate must understand the principle of targeting,positioning and segmentation of markets.

B) Must work closely with marketers to identify good business proposal and seal a business deal.

C) Develop and analyse market strategies,deal requirements,evaluating options; identify possible ways to expand company's profit recommending investments.

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Achieved a minimum of first degree with experience between 4-7 years in related position.

Must be able to demonstrate a passion,keenness and drive to succeed in a real estate marketing and sales environment.

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Bennyzino:
The mail is bouncing.. Can you help with an alternative link

You can send it again.. Sorry for the late reply.

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nutarious:




we share alot in similarity, sorry for been emotional with You bro, but u are hurting urself first by been angry he dint Answer, i was in ur shoes for long, my mum had stroke and she was paaralysed and cant speak again, b4 then i was a devoted atheist.........................in my anguish i kept on insulting GOD, as i type i felt what u felt then cos what i discovered is that losing ones dad is not as emotionally as losing ones mum,they are the centre of all families...........................................so its normal to feel pain.........................

A just God wont ever use ur words against u i beleive, even why we feel the way u are tlking to God is insultive he[God] wont feel same way cos he can see u grieve..........................thats y he is dift..................................but frank, i swear the more u go against him the more u punish urself cos he wont respond nor will he punish u like this small gods, but u end up hurting urself cos u wont be free, u will deny it but psychologically u will be putting urself in a state of hurt,

now, pls be free,there are always answerr for everytn, that we dont know why some things happen never should mean we should assume they aint real.

my own was spiritual problems, i was going thru spiritual problems, that it became physical, so i had proves their immortal beings (gods) but i realy set my mind to beleive God dosnt exist but this is not atheism for i hv proofs from experiencxe their are gods and this dosnt make me an atheist but sometn else.

one day that,i decided to face the wall and talk to him [GOD] , I SAID if u are real prove to me beyond church and evangelism beyond man teachings and he did, i had peace later and became a servant to hope and faith, in this u find freedom.

while it is normal to feel pain, its normal too to find peace within, been free is important.face the wall and tell him i dont beleive u but prove urself to me, if this come from ur lips u will see the effects, note u need not beleive.

in the name of the Father, son and holy spirt. lord delayed prayer weakens faith, pls lord grant peace to all who are in pain of this earthly journey, give them inner peace and replensh everytn they lost.
GOD BLESS U SIRE.

Emotions,Emotions ,Emotions. I don't even think u were an atheist.. You just disowned your God for that short period of time. Read your bible with an open mind,read some history books,think out of the box and ask questions, then you will know what atheism really means. #shallom

LewisO:
#True talk.

Some Nigerians are also poor in mentality!

God bless this country (Nigeria).

Not some,most of us.

naijamark:


Here's a Nigerian, suitably qualified and willing to work yet the job is not just there. Some of us are not unemployed but underemployed yet the outgoing administration claim they create millions of jobs every month.
Tuesday and Thursday Guardian is no more for job advert it was known for but now "felicitations" to the robbers of our economy.
There's this thing being a serial applicant does to your psych, one begins to deteriorate becoming less and less competitive by the day that you'll be ready to take just any job on offer. This is the worst way citizen of a country can be treated.
For Nigerians abroad, don't even think of coming home. Fvck patriotism, I wish I had known better not to have too much faith in Nigeria.

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goofyone:


It really is a sad one that African leaders of the slavery era never saw dignity in their own kinsmen and this could sell them for money. It's even sadder that today the same thing persists. African leaders of this generation see no worth in their kinsmen and have kept them in perpetual slavery to poor and woeful infrastructural developments, inadequate education and a terrible standard of living. What's wrong with us as a race? What!?

Bro,most times when I wake up in d morning,I keep asking myself dat question.. Its absurd,really.

Sweetguy25:
I wish 70 percent of Nigerians were atheist.

Post of the Century.

MrSinister:


Its rubbish!

The guilt associated with consuming porn is mainly because of the society we are in. Though I believe Common sense should let anyone know that too much of everything is bad, consumption of porn (which is completely normal) should not be vilified as a destroyer of society.

U nailed it,bro. #caseclosed

Prettybecca:

Let's see some part of your spirit too.

Nah,trust me,it's gonna be disastrous. Have u ever seen a fight btw a Tiger and a Lion before? Even Freddy and Jason can't picture the aftermath.

Prettybecca:
Funny guys! So if I have sex with a guy on the first date, then i'm a hooker? . I agree with all except the sex part.
I'll tell you one thing, i'll fvck the dude crazy on that first date and dump him straight away, trust me, he'll come back begging for more.
Note: I have sex because I want to and not because i'm being lured, I don't give a fvck about his emotions/deceitful mind (it takes two).

*Frank Underwood's Voice*

'I like you. Don't get me wrong though. I mean,I like ur spirit'

DrJoe1:


worlds apart then, we don't kill 'em @cackroaches, we take 'em inside lab and study how they fly with no bearing. savvy?

Post of the year.

Debbyug:
..They didn't ask me to bring d forms to dem rada they said they would send for me to bring dem..I dont get pls clarify me more..besides I didn't do dia interview but I got d forms for documentation..tell me dear,did u submit dey forms to dem or u were dia tru out d documentation?

I haven't submitted my documents to them.. They just informed me yesterday after the interview.. I'm to submit the documents, latest on Friday. Do u stay in Lagos? And when did you receive the text message from them?

#morning

@ Debbyug

Same here too. I just came back from their office not too long. Mine was after the interview tho. Deadline is on Friday.

Well,despite the fact that I'm an atheist, I solely believe in my culture and tradition. So if I'm gonna marry ( I honestly don't think I will tho) ,I will probably do a court and native ( I don't like the word traditional) wedding. But if my wife happens to be a xtian or Muslim and she wants the church or Islamic wedding, I don't have a prob with that. Afterall, its just for some few hours. It's all about understanding.

OrlandoOwoh:

We are discussing naming, not renaming.

Naming
Renaming
Naming again
Post Naming.

The point is there are more important things to worry about.

warrior01:


Exactly, the way the South West erupted over the renaming of Unilag to the name of one of their illustrious son whom they once declared to die for.

I tell you bro. It was during that time I finally concluded that we Nigerians are just patriotic on paper. You didn't protest for lack of infrastructures, electricity, payment of workers,basic amenities in general.. Instead,creating a big fuss because of a name that we claimed we respect.

Btw,I'm from the south west.

Seun and the rest of the moderators,can you please move this thread to the front page?? Haba! Most we beg?!! A thread as educative,thought provoking as this deserves fp.

Dapo777:


Abi ooo,just take a look at nairaland. We Nigerians are busy arguing on a paradoxical deity,instead of brainstorming together on how to effect a change. Anything that doesn't bring food to the table immediately isn't worth discussing in Nigeria.

Looolz... Man gas wack na.


But you sef follow indirectly o... See the fake news you put as your signature in other to generate traffic..

Dapo777:


No one is sleeping beside me.

Guy,clean your eyes wella now.. Three grown up men are still drooling and snoring beside you. A bowl of chilled water on their faces will do... lol