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neyostica: Imagine the nonsense this girl made me read on a Wednesday morning........... who did i offend?

Lol...u're very funny! @OP,pls take d good advice of all the posters above and end this fight.its matters like this that bring Umunna and Umuada to ur house with anya red.

tellwisdom: Try CNN

Ok o.....good advice cos i was wondering why it has to be news that Purity is holding a toothbrush

My son's first tooth just came out! Yaaaaay!!

Pls can i make front page

#ribs cracking#..........old gist!

So Brb pls.

Ndi ocha...........Smh! Ain't this crazy Odi egwu o.really

Ndi ocha...........Smh! Ain't this crazy

@OP,since u "caught" him,have u prosecuted him Why make a fuss about inconsequential things

This too shall pass. Be strong girl,God's ur strength .

I would certainly go for Ezinne.she's pweety

If it's over,it's over.....let it stay that way.move on and i mean move on.btw,he won't believe u.he would think it's all because u probably want him back.let him carry his cross.

I had to read this topic six times.okkkk....my brother,there's no way out! U're stuck wit her

Beautiful piece. I like....

Dude is in love.

All of them are important to me.they all walk hand-in-glove.

Omosexy..........i love...

^^^^ .lwkmd!

My husband owns a gun...i hv kids too.the gun is hidden very far from any1's view and reach.he only brings it out in the middle of the night,just in case. So as long as he'll keep it away from the kids,it's ok...IMO tho

Ohhhh...so sad.just keep being there.be her rock n console her.it will take some time but this too shall pass.

Did he ask u to kneel down and beg him in public Isn't dis between just the two of you? What's d biggie? If it will save ur marriage, JUST DO IT! And pls stop reminding him of his past.i guess u have one too.

God's grace.

Idowuogbo: Ur husband dey beat u and pet u she? Eyah... Pele!

Lol...Idowuogbo na u sabi...my husband is not a weak man but has d same view as goldenboy007..i know women bla bla bla.bla.bla.women are a bunch of trouble shooting necessary evil! Disgusting! Smh. Men who hit women are WEAK!!!!!!!

Did they meet on Facebook Did they date Well,i think it's up to her to find out.

xrisdon: in a relationship if a girl tells you " you are too straight forward"
what she meant....?

She means dat u tell it like it is.

Hugh Heffner and Yerima tinz

Where's d ring Can only see a cocktail ring!!! What's wrong with these ppl

Why did dis OP mislead me Wanted to see some action!

One good bad mouth deserves another

Goldenboy007: PortharcourtBoy - I just had the opportunity to read your replies, trust me i understand what you going through and i also understand the frustration that made both of you bring your situation to the public anonymously.

I can't deny it, I know women very very very very very very well !!!!! can you count the number of "very" ? I know what they are capable of doing !! i know how they would be the one to look for trouble and the first one to shout wolf wolf !!!
Without reading your replies i already knew there was more to it than she had been saying,so it was good you were able to reply. An unrestricted forum like this isn't an ideal source for the the type of counseling you both need, even teenagers have access to comment here so you can imagine the types of comments you would receive. I respect you for trying to make your relationship work by going ahead with the wedding despite her shortcomings, not many men would do that and trust me it is this same people your wife would report you to by writing "My wicked Fiance jilted me after 8 years of courtship" and they would have condemned you as they are doing now.

However, I would fault you for running out of patience, i can understand how you must have continuously endured the frustration but you lost a good point by hitting her, the modern society favors women so it would count against you.
I know you have worked so hard to build a good life for yourself so don't allow someone to ruin it for you by making you vulnerable to costly mistakes. If she reports this over here, police won't listen to your side at all o, you would be handcuffed immediately for domestic assault!

Sir, try make it work. You have been with her for more than 8 years so i know there is something you like about her. Seek counsel from your family elders or pastors, don't believe leaving her you can find a better woman out there o, trust me i know this when i tell you the difference between them are not much. For the sake of that innocent child work at it because no marriage is perfect, everyone just try to hide their own and would rather pass judgement on others!

Take care and i wish God intervenes in your marriage.

U sound like my husband! Eish! Smh.... IMO,under no circumstance is a man allowed to beat a female.what makes u d man if u can't control urself Any man who beats a woman is a WEAK ASS MAN!!!!

This is either magic or a miracle

I thought she was denying it and going to court well.....