₦airaland Forum

AKMoney1:
Oya throw am, I don open mouth

Lol... Hungry man

I pray help comes her way soon...


But, na every thing wey Government dey do sef?

Since the op said the woman looks sick, me thinks some citizens should take her to a hospital to start getting treatments as they are trying to get the various agencies responsible for such cases.

Hmmm...

Mother in law kwa?

I don't think the man should inform his wife, it could lead to great animosity between the mother and daughter.

Am sure you/or your friend don't want that.

He should confront the mother in law the next time she does that again and express his disgust on her recent attitude.

Peace.

The increasing number of rape stories we have every day is heart wrenching.
Castrate them fools.

AKMoney1:
You are delusional

If I throw this eba on u ehhh....

Lol... He looks like an apprentice mad man
On a serious note, he's so cute.

Murdered the womb that brought forth you.
Oh well, let's blame it on the mental illness... Evils!

People bringing up fake stories to support premarital sex.
But if this is true, then they should get toys.
What am I even saying....

Saraki, the nightmare of Tinubu.

Hmmm...

What abuse could be more than the piercings and tattoos you have all over your body?

Scary!

I never knew this guy was serious with this album thing.

Wish you the best.

Old papa and Mama youngi.

axiliborha:
Lol if this kind guy be woman Na only self servicing he go they do because no man no go sleep with am

If I hear...

Even mad women dey carry belle talk more of a complete woman.

Lol...
Who knows, she might be coming out as a secondary virgin or tertiary virgin na

Lol... How can someone be that daft? Were you coerced into packing into his house? You packed into his house on your free will You opened your legs for him and performed wifely duties on your own free will.

Evils!

In wizkid 's voice... Broke guys think they have an opinion

AdeniyiA:
That's even better, your family too would not respect you ... they can even send you to go buy Maggi

Sir, what's wrong in buying Maggi for the food you will partake in?

The world is finally coming to an end!

Wicked world

Catered4:
Amen. Thank you sir

Wow... This is so thoughtful of you. May God increase your business and your knowledge.

Please Ma, I noticed that you're more involved in the north, west and South. Am in the east that's why am asking. Why is that so?

buygala:
All this grammar ontop dead body?

Why are you so wicked?

Lmao... My brother, I tire ooo

Cavenchy:
I think the best thing to do is to pray for your dad. This is a more difficult decision for him than it probably is for you or your siblings. He is the one who would have to live alone with this woman for the rest of his life when you all leave home. I would also advice you and your siblings stick together now more than ever, have meetings to discuss the future of the family, I'm believing most of you are old enough to make reasonable decisions from dialogue (being the fifth child at 21). I don't see how a step mother would make things difficult for an united family (you and your siblings). Your dad is retired and might not be able to do too much for you all now, its time to step up to the plate and focus on helping each other and your dad as well including the lady if she does join the family.

In conclusion: You guys have more responsibility for the family now more than ever.

Thanks dear...

KanwuliaJara:
You want your father to spend his old age alone?
Quit being selfish!

You have older siblings.
Let your younger ones live with your older siblings if they are at risk of being ill-treated.
SIMPLE!

Maybe am being selfish, I just have my fears.

greatgod2012:
@op, i get you!
But this is a very dicey situation!
Your dad need to be happy again. If getting remarried is what his happiness is attached to, please, let him, or else, you'll be termed selfish!
Your dad has to also consider making you happy as his children being responsible to you financially and emotionally.

But let me tell you this, you can't actually stop your dad if he wishes to remarry, but you can prepare yourself for the so called to-be-step-mum.
The preparationw is in two folds..........
1. Prepare to take and treat her as you mum, be like a child to her, if she's naturally a nice person, she'll reciprocate, if she's not, that will lead you to.......
2. Prepare to stand for yourself and tell others to do same, you and your older siblings should be ready and prepare to take care of your younger ones. Such lessons are only meant to make you stronger in life and add to your life's experience.
Wishing you goodluck!

Thanks for your advice dear. I guess I don't have an option but to accept her.

delishpot:
Well, does she also have kids? If she is young how does he intend to care for any child the union brings into the world? Are your younger ones fully dependant on him? Is the woman in question known to you guys?

If his marrying her wilk not affect his financial obligations to his kids and she is not an A- hole then I see no reason to worry.

Yes, my younger ones are fully independent on him. She's a widow with kids, not so young. I had she's into business. I am the only one that knows her, because I happen to be staying at my home town whenever school is in session and she comes to visit my dad when he's around .

I lost my mom in 2012. My dad was there for her, he spent a lot but she couldn't make it. It was such a painful experience.

Fast-forward to 2015,he wants to get married again . He's retired and has no other source of income, am the fifth child out of eight children. Two of my big sisters are married. Am 21 years old and almost through with school.

I have seen and read problems some kids face in the hands of this so called step mothers. I don't want my younger siblings to face such. I don't want a situation were we have to beg for his attention.
Must a widower take a wife, why in most cases, a widow concentrates fully on raising his kid? And am I being Inconsiderate to his feelings, does that make me a bad daughter?

MaraCruiz:
Is someone following?

Yes, following!

T.A orji is the most useless governor ever...funny enough,in the last elections the results in the polling units were not the same result announced.Hopefully Alex Otti will win!

jonathan till 2019
;Djonathan till 2019


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;Djonathan till 2019


urennankoli,count ma teeth


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Ikengawo:
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EE EST KWORRAPT!

lwkmd...GMB now speaks french??

menesheh:
Abia state governor, the worst governor ever in Nigeria coming after former governor of Anambra State Chinwoke Mbadinuju

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