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PlanToSucceed:
Greetings to you all. I trust you are enjoying your holiday.

I don't want to go into lengthy post because I don't even have the energy to expend on that neither do I want to take much of your time.

However, let me summarize myself into 6 characteristics as of today.

1. I am a graduate (by certificate)

2. I am jobless - not by choice but because I have not been able to get one despite aggressive combing (this leads to no. 3)

3. I am broke - like completely broke in monetary value but not in valuable ideas that can be converted into money (leading to number 4)

4) I am confused and feel frustrated (leading to no. 5)

5) I am depressed (leading to no. 6)

6) I need advice (thus the creation of this thread)

In addition to the above, I want to say how I went through school is a story for another day but looking at all the efforts put in to graduate and coming out to stay jobless, where is the justification to that?

Question.
Who else has been in this situation before? How did you manage to scale through? I mean when you didn't have a job, no capital (not even 20-100k) anywhere at all to start something, worst still no family member or anyone else financially buoyant to help you? Rather, everyday reality is that you must survive by eating. Aside eating, countless other bills to sort out. How were you able to submerge all these and come out a conqueror?

Right now, I'm really pained, morally and physically down leading to depression.

Summing all these together, they are only succeeding in creating room for some sinister thoughts within me.

Finally, I need pragmatic steps to follow and get out of the mess I am now before the sinister thoughts prevails.

As I have no capital at the moment, what additional valuable steps should I take to guarantee me getting a job and subsequently raising capital to pursue my dreams?

A hungry man is truly an angry man and that's who I am right now.

Thank you for your time.

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crazyABO:
bro, you still in ATL?

Yes boss..

Real touching story, at the end of the day nobody holy pass. @OP it took a lot for you to share your story and I believe you have learnt your lesson.

Take solace from your baby Boy and dont ever look at yourself as a failure. Chin up and face the future. I wanted to reach out to give u a gift to your baby boy but you have deleted your account. Try and reach out to me juniorsecond1@gmail.com.

I dont understand what solksjier always play Scott and fred. It's just irritating and annoying. The poor boy donny is wasting away. I just feel like slapping solksjier right now. I am pissed and frustrated right now. Arrgghhhhhhh

We move!!!

CelestineNelson:
Was unable to open. The email or reply it Sir

What is your WhatsApp number?

CelestineNelson:
I can write C++, C, JAVA, PYTHON, PHP, JAVASCRIPT, I am also good at internet of things. I am also Network Engineer, worked with Lapariah technologies, where we handled networking of Kwara state Government Secretariat from laying of fiber optics cable to troubleshooting of land port, we network NLNG building of Unilorin, a research centre for faculty engineering, we Network University of Ilorin teaching hospital etc as a student on STUDENT INDUSTRIAL WORK EXPERIENCE (SIWES). I am also into embedded systems, expert system and AI sytem development. Currently handling Robotics training for an organisation using arduino and C programming language... I am also web developer/design. Built some web apps using PHP as back end...

So let's work Sir. I am about to go for my NYSC service next month

Very impressive sir. I sent you a PM

Totilopussylick:
I agree with him

West Ham came for revenge and now we exited qaraubo cup for them

So we can focus on what more important!

Uefa and premier league is for Manchester United this season!

Argue with your ancestors!

My own is Martial should be sold in january. Very lazy player.

Kellzzyy:
African Americans totally disgust me!
Bunch of wretched low-lives.

Bro I swearugawd.. only few of them have common sense and well mannered.. I once worked with a white boss for 2 years with no issues, as soon as he was replaced with a black guy i knew my time was up. As soon as he started their akata madness I just jejely resigned after 4 weeks. Despicable humans.

Looks staged to me though..

Kiasa:
Tons of Americans come to Nigeria and make money while you lazy asses live in extreme poverty. They come to Nigeria and accomplish in a few months what you lazy, good for nothing Niggerians lack the intelligence to accomplish in a lifetime.

Why dont you all come to nigeria and make the money . You are just a human debris.

Kiasa:
This whole post is nothing but rage and lies spewing because of envy, typical low life, low self esteem, whinny, entitled Nigerian behavior. Let me ask you a question. When and how did you get to know all 40 million Black Americans?

This is just like the hypocritical, arrogant behavior of most Nigerians. Stop running to other countries with your ignorance and entitlement, stay in your country and fix the shithole..What did the bible say about fixing that huge log in your eye?

Kindly point out the lies. Rage I am as calm as a dove only stating facts..

Envy?? Who am i envying ?
Low life?? Typical akata kinda talk when they can reason.
Immigration has been ongoing since humans was created. people do migrate to other countries, there are tons of Americans doing business and working in Nigeria and Africa at large and vice versa. so what's the fuss. Like i said in my last post you can keep defending your wretched self but it doesnt change the fact that AKATA needs redemption.

Kiasa:
This whole post is nothing but rage and lies spewing because of envy. Let me ask you a question. When and how did you get to know all 40 million Black Americans?

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khia:
Stop comparing rappers and the activities of a few with all black Americans, you sound so foolish. You have never been to the US nor have your met a Black American.

The truth Hurts . I live in the US and he is absolutely correct. Baby mama littering the entire BA community, how much are condoms for Christ sake i spoke about it on my previous response but you purposely ignore the post. BA always waiting for Government to hand out freebies to live a peasant life. Sex sex and more sex thats the Norm.. Let me ask you a question and i believe some Africans might have also experienced this before, why does BA always ask for gas money all the time from their fellow African colleagues .

The guys are even worse, dont wanna work, dont wanna better themselves, only thing they know is sit at their mamas house and do nothing. No wonder the females drive them away from their apartments cos good sex cant pay the bills i have Seen it happen not once not twice. Thuggery, sagging pants, weed, Bleep, guns is the order of the day. Check out Charlie bo313 youtube channel, i was weeping on what i saw. Young able BA men wasting away.

Every Friday at work the BA are always ready to go, don't wanna work cos they wanna go party and blow away the check and come in on Monday to beg for gas money. finish up your job on Fridays cos u will still meet it back on Monday BA wont listen, monday comes and they aren't able to continue dey job. Typical Akata behavior. My car was hit from the back last friday by a BA. she came down with her long cardi look like nails, with a huge eye lashes the size of a hand fan and starting shouting she is sorry with that annoying voice you all got, It was a minor brush so i had to let it go cos she was the regular Akata . I guarantee you if reverse was the case all hell will let loose, She would have called the cops and create a scene that is typical akata behavior.

The good you do for Akata ends that day, if u expect same favor from them the next day you are on your own . Always hyper, cant cool down to listen to an idea or advice. All the female care about is getting their nails done and hair, you guys can spend you last penny on nails and hair and owe rent . I wonder if its generational curse or something.

Mexicans are known for building houses, land scaping, etc. you see them diligently doing their job and raise a decent family.
Asians are known for having majority of the hotels and gas stations in America, also they are a strong force in the IT sector.
Africans excel in their respective fields, go to any hospital and u would a sizable number of the nurses are Africans,, IT sector we are catching up, CRA, CSM,DOCTORS, Car dealers etc Who sells all the fancy cars to Mayweather? a Nigerian.

What are BA known for, absolutely nothing, but they are known for one thing RANTING.. Always ranting about racism, systematic racism, white priviledge and so on.. Keep on ranting while the Asians, Africans come to America and grab the enormous opportunity and you call us White ass lickers If making money makes me a white ass licker then i will lick more white ass Thats why u all hate Africans, talking about how we come to America and take their jobs, yes we take the jobs cos its vacant, while you all are busy talking about racism we are busy learning and taking the jobs.

I can keep going on and on but no matter how u try to defend the BA it wont change nothing. Kiasa or Khia you can reply everybody on here but the truth still remains the BA needs to step up. Think critically and come up with ideas on how to better themselves. School is free until college, that gives enough room to save for a child college tuition, or there are student loans. Just go to SCHOOL is there anything hard. Is there any white man standing in front of the school gate not allowing BA to study. What really is the problem cos i dont understand. With internet you can also learn lots of skills for cheap..

Replying me and counter my experience will not change the fact that BA needs redemption fast.

Kiasa:
You are obviously blind because I have not cursed you at all. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery and colonization. The white man is your problem and he will always be your problem until Nigerian men grow some balls and stop letting the white man, Chinese man and the Indian steal your Natural resources.

As long as you keep bending over for those men they will continue to stick it to you. You probably enjoy the white man poking you, sure you do.

Just imagine a full grown adult talking gibberish, a white man can never and will never be my problem. How can an adult with brains think that a white man is his problem, this is another reason why the BA as whole cannot move forward and wallow in abject poverty, penury and deprivation because they spend their whole life thinking a mere Mortal is holding them back. reminds me of a quote from Tupac " they say is the white Man i should fear but its my own kind doing all the killing here"

On another Cogitation without the White man you will never know what is Civility.

Continue wallowing in impoverishment!!!!

Kiasa:
No, that's just your inferiority and sense of uselessness displaying it's self as usual.

I can see you always curse at any given opportunity, typical Akata behavior. Emancipate yourself from mental slavery and be free with yourself and Man. The white man is not your problem you are your problem. Deal with it

Cromagnon:
SMH
This is how ppl fail exams
I asked a
He answer b
No wonder you're so easily deceived at polling booth

Savage

Kiasa:
[s]It's sad that you take your inferiority and lack of self worth out on BA. All it would have taken is five minutes of your time to get rid of your ignorance instead of having a mental breakdown while posting and acting just like a white supremacist lunatic. SMH

A mind is a terrible thing to waste, the more you know the farther you'll go.

Affluent African American Suburbs in the US.
www.blackenterprise.com

1***Black Beverly Hills***,
This beautiful suburb is located in Southern California, with nearly 75% of it's population being BA. Median household income and home values are more than the entire state of California on average with house value coming in at nearly $900,000 and income over $100,000.

The area is famous for it's many wealthy and successful residents including many doctors and attorneys, making it one of the most coveted black suburbs in the US. Nearly 100% have high school diplomas, 44% are married and 54% have bachelor degrees and higher.

2. ***Black Wall Street***

NBC reported that 60% of the businesses in this DeSoto Texas Suburb are owned by Black Americans. Seventy percent of the population in DeSoto is Black with the median income of over $61,000 and the house values at nearly $164,000, more than the states average.

Fifty percent of the population are married, 90% are high school graduates and 30% have bachelor degrees and higher. Compared to Black Beverly Hills DeSoto has a lower cost of living making it's purchasing power go a lot farther.

.3 ***Other Black American Suburbs***
These BA suburbs have a population of 70 to 85% BA.
The median incomes are $60,000 to $90,000, a high home value, 90% high school graduates, 30 to 50% earning bachelor degrees, and higher with very low crime rates.

Olympia Fields, Illinois
Wheatley Heights, New York
Hillcrest, New York
Wood more, Maryland
Kettering, Maryland
Fort Washington, Maryland
Mitchellville, Maryland
Friendly, Maryland

These are a few, you can use your half of a brain to search for more.

Stop your stupidity and believing everything the white media brainwash you with.

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Its all a Facade

Kiasa:
There's no truth in her, the only reason you support her is her degradation of black Americans which makes you feel better about yourself. She repeats the same trash over and over with no evidence to support her, just white racist vomit, even the Black Republicans snub her.

It's very easy to see how she works, whatever the Black community supports she is against, whatever the Black community is against she supports. This is how she makes her money. If this behavior is what you call living her best life then she is a sad fool indeed.

Which trash is she repeating? That the black community normalize single parent hood and father absence is the biggest issue plaguing the black community, other than building healthy relationships and the value of stability in marriage?

Barrack obama even talked about this previously that removing a father from a home the child is 12 times more likely to end up in prison, 9 times more likely to drop out of school.

That the Black culture music reflects nothing positive example WAP which was number one? That the welfare systen tore down the black family which was strategic because the government will give u money (peanuts) as long as there is no man in the household?? From the 1960,s single mother rate went from 23% 77% today in the black community.

That the black kids are not encouraged to take school seriously than immigrant kids.. The average immigrant come to America starts from the scratch and walk their way up by learning a skill or furthering their education under same racist soceity and live well.. take a look at the TV show called the FIRST 48 I know u have probably watched it, cant you see all 70% of the time it's the black killing themselves over senseless things.. All these boils down to absence of a Man in the household as I stated above and candace rightly said.

Majority of the black supports mediocrity which is a mental issue which needs to be eradicated. Look america supports hardworking people, so long you are smart, hardworking and have something to offer the sky is the starting point. But when u wanna be lazy all day and do nothing then u keep blaming the white man for all you woes.

Kiasa:
Candace Owens is an ignorant fool, a dumb college drop out. This heathen has very little intelligence and creates her content full of negative stereotype and prejudices against black Americans to appease the white supremacists who pay her to do do so.

She is the same hypocritical Moran who claims there's no racism in the US but sued her high school for racism and won the case. She will speak the same garbage about Nigerians for a dollar, by the way Candace is not black American but a Caribbean coon.

Never call my Candace ownen a fool. She speaks the truth as it is. That's why is is unpopular amongst the BA community. Very articulate lady who reasons with her brain and not her ass.. Say all u wanna say she living her best life.

Kiasa:
So are you saying if The US was left in the care of BA it would look filthy and dirty like Nigeria?
Also voting for the same illiterate, greedy, tribalistic, don't give a damn about the people clown, everytime. I seriously doubt that.

So all BA should vote Republican and behave like those dignified savages who stormed, raided, and rioted at the Capital, spreaded human feces all on the capital walls, murdered cops, stampeded people to death like the wild beasts they are?

If the US was left in the care of BA the entire nation will crumble. Wait what!!! Leave the entire country for Akata to take care off ?? I laugh is in swahili.. They cant even take care of Harlem not to talk of the entire nation. Show me a place in america dominated by BA and not a hood and I will stop talking..

The Democrats keep deceiving the BA for votes every 4 years in exchange for freebies because they know that's all the BA needs. Every 4 years Democrats push the racism narrative and watch as the BA takes it line hook and sinker. After election is over BA are forgotten until next 4 years lol..

Take a look at the immigrants, under same conditions yet they are thriving. Building businesses, getting good jobs, raising their families and enjoying the american dream. But under same conditions some retards are still complaining because they are sick and lazy. All they wanna do is have sex, WAP, Group Intimacy , litter the nation with kids they cant take care of and the cycle continues.

ChizzyBuna:
How can you be in AMERICA
Land of Opportunities
And still complian about everything..

Oh white people hate us
Oh white people suppress us
Oh white people are rasicts

Shut da Bleep up, you bunch of cry cry babies.

You have electricity 24/7 you have healthcare you have good roads.
You can buy burger for $3
You have dollar store, where u can buy anything in there for just 1 dollar.

And you guys still complian.
Their guys just sit all day lazy asf always high drinking and smoking weed and still complian that no job for them.
Me that spent 4 months there already had $4700 in my PayPal from joining a video crew to do video editing for music videos
AND IM A FORIEGNER ooo

The worst is "THE VICTIM MENTALITY"
Every small thing, they shout racism
While I was in Georgia Atalanta
I noticed black Americans are always late
And they hate when you correct them
If a white person corrects them of their lateness or bad behavior they call the white person a racist.
They refer to themselves as "COLORED PEOPLE" instead of African American.
They don't want to be associated with Africa
Some hate Africans (one of them called me and my cousin "African booty scratchers" and said that African kids always dusty with flies flying around around their eyes and mouth) SMH
So many childish behavior and victim mentality. It's so annoying.

As a Nigerian, I wish they can spend 1 year in Nigeria
They don't know how lucky they are to be in USA. By the time they step foot here, only the hot sun and generator noise and smoke will deal with them. Dem go hear am.
After my experience in U.S
It is very hard for me to take any black American serious when they complain about racism. I see them as very weak emotional baby adults. Always crying like victims while me a foreigner was making cool cash within my short 4 months I spent there.


MODIFIED:
You people that say black people were slaves that is the cause of their victim mentality for 400 years
What about THE JEWS!!!!!
They were slaves to Babylonians
They were slaves to the Romans
The sef Turks and Arabs enslaved the jews and took Jerusalem
They were persecuted by the Soviets
They were tortured killed by Nazi Germans in 1940's

JEWS FACED 2000 YEARS OF SLAVERY AND HATE
DO YOU SEE JEWS CRYING EVERYDAY??
DO YOU SEE JEWS PLAYING VICTIMS??
DO YOU SEE JEWS BEEN LAZY??
HELL NO!!!
So don't come here and tell me black suffered 400 years slavery.
The Jews has suffered slavery and persecution 2000 years even up till now.
They are now one the best innovators in medicine, and technology..
SO STOP GIVING ME EXCUSE THAT BLACK AMERICANS HAVE VICTIM MENTALITY BECAUSE OF SLAVERY.

You took these words out of my mouth. It was only yesterday I was discussing this same issue with a Friend. If I share my experience with Black Americans and their mentality the entire Nairaland wont be enough to accommodate it. I have never seen bunch of nonentities as I have seen in America. Note there are good and hard working black americans, but the majority falls under dingband theory. Sometimes I wonder how America is surviving economically without some set of people contributing nothing whatsoever other than taking freebies and be spoon fed.

Let me stop here before I break my phone keypad.

GeneralPula:
Lies..

Biggy didn’t kill 2pac and 2pac didn’t kill Biggy. BIG said it openly that death is one thing he will never wished on Pac.

CIA didn’t purposely investigate their death. They just concocted lies and sell it to the media..

Suge knight knew something about 2pac’s death... 2pac was shot more than 15 bullets and not a single blood was found inside the car he was sitting down. Not a single bullet touched Suge Knight that was sitting at the driver’s..

As for BIG, till today I still don’t believe Pdiddy is innocent. There’s something fishy... Why?

Piddy was always with BIG. Everywhere he goes, he follows. But on this very night BIG got killed, piddy didn’t follow him to club. He said he had something to figure out. How come it’s at the exact moment that death is goin to happen on BIG you had stuffs to figure out? It was a plan assassination. They knew the club & when he was coming. They knew when he was leaving. BIG stepped into the car, front seat. His driver started driving and just at 5sec drive, gunshot happened..

To me, I feel Pdiddy sold out BIG to gain all the power he’s commanding today in music industry. Trust nobody..

Yankee government killed both rappers. That’s why till today, after more than 20years of death, cia is yet to come out with how it happened..

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DriveByKiller:
I honestly don't see how this insult was necessary but a street urchin like you without even a pretence of polish or class is hurt deeply. Can't even pretend to attack the topic. You you be flagged for therapy and demon possession

And I'm truly suprise a human debris like you who acts more like a badly programmed Russian bot can even watch CNN.

I guess you got your war history facts from a Russian propaganda documentary.

Scatterbrained human filth likes reading their own lunacy in digital ink.

Gives you a kick? Big sorry, nk body believes a chinko-dweeb anymore.

Disillusioned idiot!

This is brutality ����

DoggoneDogg:
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When it comes to frapapa and running mouths, IS is number one.

The whole world knew about their F-35 project more than 20 years before it came in 2015.

Their Zumwalt class destroyers was already announced and bragged about for 5 years before it came in 2018.

Today, we already know about their Columbia class submarines that have not even been produced yet because they won't shut up about it so shut up!!

If you had put this level of energy you use in arguing about other countrys weapon, you would have gone far in your fish business export business

doggedfighter:
Did you get it?

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doggedfighter:
I am a woman though. I don't have ideas on such . I just want to be part of the learning.

Oh apologies ma.

doggedfighter:
And you haven't gotten proposal?

Not yet sir. I am open to ideas.

doggedfighter:
Kroger, what happened to this plan?

I still have that in mind, but I still need business proposals.