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lefulefu:
haba 3 yrs older is not that old for op to be a gigolo nau.so op would be dating a girl like 25 or 26.thats not enuf for him to be a gigolo.Some guys his age date women who are in their 70s or 80s .na dose ones u fit call gigolos

Zzor:
Why would a yeye 22yr old be gigoloing up and down instead of achievement?

dalass:
IF TITHE AND OFFERING IS THE PROBLEM! STOP PAYING!

I am appalled by the recent enormous attack on churches and pastors. Mostly by people who probably have never paid tithe or may have not given to churches in recent years. They jump on the wagon and irrationally begin to vituperate on matters they have no clue about.

People dont have food, water, electricity and no jobs, they ignore their governors, senators and FG and spend time discussing pastors and judging them on how they spend money. Politicians still your tax with brazen audacity and you do nothing. You are not a member of the churches you attack online, the pastors have never invited you, his members have not come to complain to you before, yet, you complain more than those who give in church.

My conclusion is that you are insanely frustrated and looking for where to poor it. Most Christians are on tin line between unbelief and atheism. If tithe and Offering is your problem, stop paying and serve God with all your heart and serve God truly. Focus on doing personal ministry as you ate led by God.

Jesus commanded you and I to preach the gospel and save SOULS. Can you boast of consciously preaching to anyone this year and leading them to Christ, follow up the person and ensure the person matures to become a disciple? I bet you haven't, in your myopic mind, the only people Jesus commanded to do the work is pastors. Yet, when we ask for true believers you raise your hand. Note, Go ye into the world is a command to all of us. Not a suggestion. What is stoping you from going? Stop hiding behind your keyboards to vent your frustration on pastors.

Pastors are not the reason Nigeria is not working. American pastors have more mega churches, some pastors in America have airstrip in their houses. America is working. The people face their government because they pay tax to the government. In church people wilfully give. Your frustration is that mega churches have money and are spending the money. You forgot that these churches did not become mega in 2020. These were churches started in the back side of town in the 1980s. These men, prayed, laboured, toiled, were disappointed and at some point felt like giving up. At that time, starting a church, pastors were seen as non entities. 35 years later, that little vision has grown by virtue of diligence and hard work. You throw away those years of them paying the price and type rubbish on social media. Focusing your attention on tithe and Offering.

Have you forgotten that millions of churches like them started and didn't last up to five years. Some lasted but the pastors are so indebted that they can't pay their children school fees. Not everyone will succeed in same way. I pay my tithe, give Offerings and you are more frustrated than me who is giving and not complaining. Is it your money? Have I come to beg you before? Are you normal. Pastors are not your problem or the reason for Nigeria's lack of development. You drive a good car, how come you drive a good car and there are family members yours that are trekking. There are widows and orphans in your neighbourhood. You shouldn't drive a good car. Sell it and trek to work. Give all you make to support every poor person in your family and neighbourhood. That's the kind of life you want pastors to leave and you will be happy...You won't sell your car because it makes life convenient for your work, for your family and social status. Pastors also buy these jets because it makes ministry easy for them. Some of them may need to be in 4 countries in a week preaching. Imagine queuing up in every airport and jumping connecting flights.

A jet is to a mega pastor what your mercedes is to you. It's about convenience and tool for ease of work. Get that into your head and work hard. Pray that God will bless your hustle. Learn to mind your business...

.If you feel some pastors are mismanaging their church fund, pray for them in love. God is the ultimate judge. He will test everyone's work at the end. I am not the chief registrar of heaven to know which pastors is eating church money or not. I have my own sins, that's my concern not pastors.

Righteousness89:
My Admonishment to Freeze and Everyone is that If you Don't Fear or Respect anyone ! Fear GOD ALMIGHTY!

GOD ALMIGHTY is a Loving, Compassionate and Merciful Father! HE is also a Consuming Fire! It's a Fearful to Fall into His Hands.
Luke 12:5 says
But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him.

The Highest thing that is Paramount to GOD is Souls! The Value God Almighty Placed on a Soul is Unmeasurable and Unquantifiable.

If what you are doing is Directly or Indirectly Turning people against God and Making them Become Reprobate, Disobedient , Stubborn and Heady, what do you think that will mean for you!

Matthew 18:6 (Kjv)
But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

Matthew 18:6 (NLT)
But if anyone causes one of these little ones who trusts in me to lose faith, it would be better for that person to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone tied around the neck.

Is your Assignment to Win Souls for JESUS or to turn Souls against JESUS?

We need to Fear God Almighty..
God's Word does not Change no Matter How the World Changes..

Any Soul that you Have Turned against God, you will Give Account of them..

Not Just for Freeze but for Everyone who donates himself/herself to the devil to be used against the Church of God..

You will give Account of Every Soul under your care..

Chii59:
If he's ignored repeatedly, it would set a wrong precedence for upcoming antagonists to the church of God.
This is not the early Church that were flayed alive, dragged on the streets by horses, crucified, beheaded, eaten by wild animals in the arenas of Rome and Ephesus. No!
This is the 21st century Church of God.
It does not matter what you believe, or who you believe, you must regard others with respect or face the consequences.

dalass:
Malachi 3 is there to read as per paying of tithe and offering... Its not man's commandment. God commanded it

Carpenters don't tell Doctors how to treat patients and vice versa... Auto engineer can't teach a farmer on farming.... People who are not knowledgeable about words of God should not follow Freeze who has no biblical training but claims to know more than his father's mates who have been pastors of many decades before he was born!

DonroxyII:
That's hyperbole ... U no do English Language for school ....

as per Naija dude, if a girl woo you , you go gree ... u no go think she wan use you do Ogbanje things !

DonroxyII:
.... A dude can toast 100 correct babes in a day , A woman might never see one sane dude for months

humilitypays:
With due respect to some ladies, let me be blunt for once!!


Ladies you have no right to be angry or go diabolical or spiritual or whatever when a man says he won't marry you, and you know why


Men pass through hell in the hands of you ladies right from when they start admiring girls till they grow to become respectable men!


Do you know how many heartbreaks guys endure everyday You ladies knowingly or unknowingly break guys' hearts on daily basis, ask me how

A guy will see a lady and admires her and even wishes to settle with this type of lady, and then after so much pains this guy makes up his mind and approaches this lady with a "hello" and instead of these wicked ladies to respect the guy's guts by replying his hello or at least showing him some human concern, will snub this guy.


Listen, even if you are married, there are honorable ways to tell off a toaster or admirer without hurting his emotions and discouraging him from approaching other ladies in future.....these guys that approach you are also humans, they didn't kill somebody.....is it a crime to admire somebody Is it not something to be happy about that strangers admire you and ask to be your friend Why do you ladies make it seem like guys are stupid for trying to admire or woo you Because you are in a relationship you now feel insulted when guys admire or approach you, you are doing yourself. Who said a lady in a relationship cannot wisely keep responsible guys open for discussion should her boyfriend fuckup I pity no jilted lady dating any guy for long, use your head when dating!! use your heads, relationship, dating is not marriage!! and never a guarantee for marriage!!

Some will abuse their male toasters, some call them demeaning names, some spit at the guys, some laugh at them with their stupid friends....these are daily heartbreaks men endure, including President Buhari, Tinubu, Tiller Perry, Dbanj, Tface, etc before they became who they are today that all ladies now see them as their dream men.


Ladies before you cry fowl when a guy or guys break your heart, please remember the good guys with good intentions for you that you turned down or abused in your heart or ridiculed!

Folzye:
Ladies like this must have at one time come up to Nairaland to call out one or more male monikers on this forum that they are disturbing them, so for those that are fond of doing this continue o

Racoon:
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Deicide:
LWKMD they come on Nairaland to form James Bond but what they do in reality is different......SIMPS how far are you willing to go?

Shanklee:
If you are dating teenagers, brain no dey near u at all.
Once you start dating her, she'll start disrespecting your stupid a$$ and it will not stop there. Here friends (fellow teenagers) will start disrespecting you, her family member won't have an atom of respect for you since a small girl that should be thinking about her life is the best you can go for in your life. RUBISH
And lass lass Wetin dey always pain me be say them go come start to dey disrespect we wey be ur friends cus they never knew we are more sensible

Anaerobi:
GEJ God bless you wherever you are.
this country is funny....... God should help the corporal.

GoodGovernance:
And which other country with crude oil,imports petrol,other than Nigeria?

And will you blame the present government other than previous governments that turned Nigeria into petrol importing country?

Common sense is not common.

tayotheplug:
Atimes I just wondered if this people thinks,

They increase all these things without adjusting their salary plans.

desiredhome:
The wickedness, poverty/poverty mentality in Nigeria will make even president Obama look like dullard according to some Wailers term if he is to rule Nigeria.......na we dey spoil am na we they complain pass.....
Nigeria is the way it is because of the people not any one individual........

lexy2014:
For u to say d guy will do worst, are u saying buhari isn't doing well on his job? Y is buhari d best president since 1999? What of since 1960?

Edyice:
mi said Jessy like women die ... And fine gals but after seeing his wife I weak . Anyways his not handsome

Both of them are on the same league




Chaiii this gal Ugly .. even OLD SNOOP-DOG won't get down with this ...

ImaIma1:
When you are with the right woman, the balance remaining will even be more.

lefulefu:
one of the ladies u dated have already told u ur problem why girls run away from u
u are too caring
start being unpredictable and spontanous
stop being too caring
stop calling girls on phone in the morning or sending them morning chats asking how they are or if they have eaten
stop sending endless messages telling them how u miss them and bla
be unpredictable and dont be too needy

ashybabs:
I would have googled that buh I know ur jus messing around